Taurus Women Can't Let Go?

Have a Taurus female friend that is seemingly addicted to terrible relationships...last 3 people she's been with have been wildly incompatible with her, constant fighting, constant breaking up and then getting back together. Really insane.

Latest one, she moved in with the guy right away and this was after she was already suspecting him of talking to his old GF behind her back...this was by literally week 2 of this so-called "relationship". Turns out he was, sexting, deleting conversations, whatever. Still wouldn't leave him, although now she's stuck on a rock in the Pacific so not easy to get away.

We've been good friends for years, have had our differences in the past but always come back to being friends. Several times we've come close to things happening, although it's never happened. Decided that being friends is the best course of action - however it angers me that she has so little self-respect as to stay in relationships with people she basically hates, moves in with them almost immediately, and then hates her life.

Have tried to talk her through why she's in this pattern, and she gets it. Even broke up with the latest guy finally last week...until she got back together with him a few days later. I don't get it at all.

Is this common with you guys? Seems very strange that such a strong-willed, bull-headed person would so willingly give in to someone who clearly doesn't care about them. Have tried to help but don't know what else to say. It's getting to the point where I have a hard time being friends with her, because she won't follow through on advice despite constantly speaking about how negative her life is. Change is so easy...but she won't do it.

She sounds like Hazel from LHHH. She's a Taurus too.

The Taurus sign will stay in any situation longer than necessary. My it be a relationship, a job ect. Why?

Well the heavens decided to come down and curse the bull with an unfair and almost cruel amount of dogged determination. But the universe did not build us to be weak, but built us to carry the burdens that rest of the zodiac can't lift. It gifted us with patience's and acceptance. To see the best in people to regardless of their faults and return the gift of endurance, love and opportunity to see people live up to their potential.

This is our burden and our gift. Every sign has a job, given traits to carry out and balance the eco system of people and relationships.

Yes I'm guilty of this. Just be there for her and she will figure it out. Sometimes our loyalty is a curse upon us

Posted by JustaSag
Have a Taurus female friend that is seemingly addicted to terrible relationships...last 3 people she's been with have been wildly incompatible with her, constant fighting, constant breaking up and then getting back together. Really insane.

Latest one, she moved in with the guy right away and this was after she was already suspecting him of talking to his old GF behind her back...this was by literally week 2 of this so-called "relationship". Turns out he was, sexting, deleting conversations, whatever. Still wouldn't leave him, although now she's stuck on a rock in the Pacific so not easy to get away.

We've been good friends for years, have had our differences in the past but always come back to being friends. Several times we've come close to things happening, although it's never happened. Decided that being friends is the best course of action - however it angers me that she has so little self-respect as to stay in relationships with people she basically hates, moves in with them almost immediately, and then hates her life.

Have tried to talk her through why she's in this pattern, and she gets it. Even broke up with the latest guy finally last week...until she got back together with him a few days later. I don't get it at all.

Is this common with you guys? Seems very strange that such a strong-willed, bull-headed person would so willingly give in to someone who clearly doesn't care about them. Have tried to help but don't know what else to say. It's getting to the point where I have a hard time being friends with her, because she won't follow through on advice despite constantly speaking about how negative her life is. Change is so easy...but she won't do it.

They are just Stubborn no matter what regardless of the signs. I saw all the women who are just crying and
begging their partner to stay even they suffered a lot.

Unfortunately this happens. Because well we seem to think we can work through any obstacles. Cause we are built for endurance and forgiveness when it is necessary.. like my ex was a cheater and caught him ..I still took him back. Cause I believe in hard work in a relationship. And maybe he would change. Hmm nope. So had to. Disappear forever. I could not see forgiving him by any means. I tried to be loyal and a good person too. Tell her to focus on her self and move on. Being single

Hmmm very interesting replies. Sort of what I expected. As a sag, it's a little hard for me to relate to so that's why I have trouble understanding it.

She is definitely sort of having a rough time in life in terms of emotions/motivation...doesn't know what to do professionally, and her family is kind of non-supportive. So, I guess that adds to it.

Damn it is a burden when someone doesn't live up to your expectations. Pretty sure it goes both ways. We don't have many actually. We are simple people and havoc is bullshit. Curse and blessing if you have Taurus trifleca. Damn. You guys that have air, mutable, even cardinals in Mars, Mercury, and Venus are luckier than most it seems.

Its funny because with most Taurus friends, I've noticed a tendency to not be able to let go of harmful situations. More strangely...they seem to have this inability to go after things that are good for them, sometimes. I don't know, it's like they intentionally make the wrong choices or something.

Last couple nights, I was talking to this friend of mine, and things got kind of...flirty/sexual between us again. Interesting, as I wonder what's going through her head during these times. I will say, Tauruses (spelling? Idk) seem to have a tendency to cheat, from what I've seen.

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Posted by cancergoddess143
She sounds like Hazel from LHHH. She's a Taurus too.

this is how Tauruses are when they are hooked on someone, they tend to posses the person because they seem everything which belong to them as possessions. This means they will stick around and comes back every time, Taurus is the hardest sign to get rid of for me well next to Leo, Taurus sees people as possessions, and if you belong to them, you will have to fight hard to get them away, I had a Taurus best friend back in the day, when we fought and I was tired of him, I tried to get rid of him, but he kept on coming back every times, even lowering is self respect. Taurus and Leos are similar, the difference is Leo will not sink below is self respect to get back with someone, while Taurus will because they want to person more

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This is exactly what I've experienced in my relationship with her...been friends now for over 4 years, several times during that time we have had romantic feelings develop, always ended badly, usually fighting, but she always came crawling back for more "friendship"...happened again a couple months ago, although without the backlash this time. I kind of just ignored it, and it's like it never happened now. Always happens while she's with someone else too...strange.

Yeah we are possessive. If there is value. But since I have Aquarius moon I can let go. My mars in Taurus actually makes things worse than I want to. Because I get irriated quickly. I lowered my expectations with my ex. And I won't do that crap anymore. If I am going to be with someone I will just be honest on what my intentions are and take it from there. I also have Taurus in Venus and Cancer rising. I do get emotional when I know this isn't working out and still hang on till really neither one of us can take it. That way if someone hurts one another. The spliting up won't be that bad on me.( I am the most sensitive sign out there). And I can let go freely and move on. Deep down I don't but sometimes if you hang on something too long. You might have someone else who was interested in you when you weren't looking. or unavailable at the time. Since I am a Taurus and sensitive person.

After dealing with the shit that she is going through. She will become Independent and won't need a man or woman to take care of her. She may be weak now she won't be later on. And Taurians aren't weak. Were built for bullshit and can take it. It is up to us if we want to deal with it, head on cause we are stubborn. Huge difference on weak and stubborn.

Just like war, peace, and love is three differnt words entirely.