Taurus Women - Pisces Man

Anyone had any experiences with this union? How'd it work for ya?

uhm...that's woman 😛

lol...well, that sucks. i can't stand whiners. will definitely have to research this pair more. not that it matters because at the end of the day, dude is 49. will see what comes of it. for now, he seems interesting enough...granted we've only talked at length once.

My 2 longest relationships were with Pisces men - lived with them both.

I like them but....they whine and nag waaaaayyyyyyyy too much. I don't have any strong water placements in my chart though, so perhaps that didn't help. The first Pisces wanted to spend all his time with me. This was nice for the first few weeks, then I started getting tired of it. The second Pisces just had too many emotional problems, and although I'd try and help him, my help was never enough in his eyes, I never knew what he wanted me to do, he wanted me to be able to read his mind and give him exactly what he wanted. I also felt that I took on the more 'male' role in both relationships a lot of the time, and I didn't really like it. On the plus side, they are very supportive when you are going through bad times, they are super affectionate, they want everyone to know the two of you are together, they're a lot of fun to be with, both of them opened my eyes to thinking about certain stuff in a different way. I'm still good friends with the second Pisces which I'm glad about.

I've heard a lot about them being players and that they will cheat on you, but this never happened to me, they were both very attentive and the sex was great; they can be all soft and sweet but then kinky as hell as well 🙂

wow, a needy, nagging, touchy, feely man? that's anti-man. this doesn't seem suited for me at all. in fact, my face is all scrunched up thinking about it.

he's only here for a spell anyway. he's on vacation visiting friends and is returning to Paris soon. foreigners are so hot! even the old ones. i'm sure we'll keep in touch on a general level. can't hurt to have international connects but based on what you ladies are saying, pisces is a no go...although i won't let that sway me but so much.

Posted by tauruswomanwtf
Foreigner = yum!

Ditto! I meet the HAWTEST guys during my traveling. One guy was Euroasian, about 6'2" tall (I'm 5'11" plus I always wear heals, so I'm always like 6'1" or 6'2"). He was so damn divine. Then another guy I met was Italian-American; he was born in the U.S., but split his time between both. OY, he looked and smelled so divine. I just loved the way he dressed. I dated someone from France for awhile too.

i know right! i've been gearing myself up for a move to a land far, far away and after hearing a lil french last night, i feel myself being swayed a bit.

i've met a few euro men, dated a couple and they've always seemed to appreciate my spunk a helluva lot more than guys born here. i think what always stopped me was that i have to make my own money. i never want to be dependent upon someone else...especially not on foreign soil.

I have friends who are married to individuals from other countries and overall, they love it...but as with any relationships, they are not without their own share of problems. One is married to someone from Italy, and the other to someone from Turkey...that one is the most challenging from what this particular friend says.

Turkey? so he/she is Muslim? a lot of western euros are athiest/agnostic so that presents some challenges but i'd much rather he have no religion than a completely different one.

you also have to consider the language barrier. if it's a country where i can speak the language, cool. if not, now i'm dependent upon the guy for my livelihood AND i can't even ask a stranger where to poop.

france has its appeal though. i was reading an article in the economist that paris is the most expensive city to live in. so the cost of living in the new place...that's a huge deal as well.

wait, what was this topic about?

lol@awake

you'll most likely come back stateside married to one.

Posted by Awake
Bunch of dam communist women in here..dating foreign men! Dam foreigners stealing our wuminz! 😛

Hahahaaa. I date all kinds of men. I don't discriminate - as long as they are respectful of me, intelligent, funny, and ummmm....accommodating to my needs; they will be well taken care of too 😉...

Oh, but to the topic tubby...I've never dated a Pisces. I've known several Pisces women, and I have a problem with their "venturing" from the truth. I won't call them out and out liars, I've just found (from my experience) that they tend to tell untruths a lot for no reasons. I know a couple of Pisces men, but I've never dated any of them, but we are cool and have fun hanging out. I don't know what they would be like in a relationship?

AA - are you referring to me?

i'm not dating Frenchy 😛

not ANY foreigner DaBull. on an individual level. some are just...weird. dated one that always wanted to hold my hand. was so weird.

yeah, my next question was gonna be are Pisces men shallow/fickle and ill-equipped for relationships. it's not that he doesn't desire it, but based on his history, it seems he's constantly searching. not so much "player"...just not the committed type.

dabull,

the sad part is, i understand what you're getting at. tau is very committed and we don't do fickle very well. any sign of infidelity is a turn-off. the pisces is puzzling b/c i sense he wants it but not in the same manner that an earth sign would. will be interesting and stay away from that man. he wants your nookie.

Posted by DaBull_isDaShit


I will never understand a piscean, it's as if we speak two different languages! Every pisces female I have known have changed their friend/s one too many times and they love attention from the opposite sex. I am not saying all pisceans, but all of the ones I have known in my life have never committed to their friendships properly or even their relationships properly...To me pisces=fishy (only the ones I have known)!

Precisely like the ones I've known, and one I was very close to growing up from like age of 4 through highschool. Long, arduous story of our "friendship"; suffice to say, very needy of attention - specifically male attention; which I won't hate on, but not at the exclusion of your friends. I'm not down for that at all. Slightly off topic, but even guys I date know up front that I have a lot of male friends from high school and college, and I make it known (politely) that they will always be in my life, so either they deal with it, or they gotta' go. I take friendship very seriously.

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Posted by USCTaurusGal
Oh, but to the topic tubby...I've never dated a Pisces. I've known several Pisces women, and I have a problem with their "venturing" from the truth. I won't call them out and out liars, I've just found (from my experience) that they tend to tell untruths a lot for no reasons. I know a couple of Pisces men, but I've never dated any of them, but we are cool and have fun hanging out. I don't know what they would be like in a relationship?

but us pisces guys can pull that shit and still be smooth...

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I bet you can 😉

My father is Pisces. We moved quite a bit while I was growing up. He had his own little fantasy world in his head and reality just didn't enter the equation. But always, always he was so gentle and fun loving. Such a wicked sense of humor. The best father in the world. He raised my sister and myself single handedly and we never wanted for anything. I have worlds of respect and love for the man. He's the standard.

^ I know that isn't exactly on topic, but that's my Piscean 'man' experience. My Pa. 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
^ I know that isn't exactly on topic, but that's my Piscean 'man' experience. My Pa. 🙂

Hey! Your opinion is just as valid as ours, and he sounds like a lovely man who took care of you and treated you well 🙂

Dabull - I know, I don't want to put down a sign, so I won't say too much more. I also know it's not fair to judge a whole group by a few, but I will say that what you've described is exactly how those in my life were. I could tell you horror stories about the one I grew up with, but thankfully I came away fairly unscathed by her theatrics. I will say, in one incident, she brought her mother into a childish dispute. My mom couldn't believe her mother got involved in our stuff, because my mom knew that kids are friends one day, mad the next, and playing again the following day.

Thanks sweetie! 🙂

AphroD, "emotionally needy." now you know that's like a flaming pile of poo for a taurus. just seeing the two words together make me cringe. in a way, i can see it though. with that said, he has a pig-headedness about him that seems to contradict all the sap.

Well, I was married to a Piscean male. His neediness actually gave my nuturing streak a work out. He was very affectionate and affable, and got along with all my friends. In fact more often than not, I felt like he had been created solely for me and did lots of little nuts and bolts chores that I loathed. Of course, as my ex husband I became frustrated with his laid back, fantasy world. Also his secretive subtely manipulative nature was suspicious, and ultimately I was tired of making all the decisions in the relationship. He just wasn't man enough for me, and as for realism, he didn't have an ounce of it.

The sex? Well, it was ok I guess, but he seemed a little disturbed by some suggestions I made. In fact I thought him to be quite the prude.

We remain friends, but having fallen for this deceptive mirroring individual, I can honestly say I would not date a Psicean again if they resembled the traits of my ex husband.

On the plus side, he has a great sense of humour, made me laugh, could cook, though was VERY fussy. But in the end I realised he would never be able to show his real colours and was emotionally immature with no initative or goal in life. That tested my patience, so I left to seek something with more depth and drive.

Now I'm circling a Virgo, like a hungry vulture....they may have their awkwardness, but they're solid, intelligent, down to earth and paternal, and this is what I want from my man, not a flighty shape shifter who buries their head in the sand.

Posted by MayDORISDay
Well, I was married to a Piscean male. His neediness actually gave my nuturing streak a work out. He was very affectionate and affable, and got along with all my friends. In fact more often than not, I felt like he had been created solely for me and did lots of little nuts and bolts chores that I loathed. Of course, as my ex husband I became frustrated with his laid back, fantasy world. Also his secretive subtely manipulative nature was suspicious...

wow, your entire post was like a list of taurean no-no's. where i will always try to get to know an individual, it's really difficult to say, "i believe in astrology" and simultaneously ignore it.

what is it with this neediness label? more than 1 tau has said this and meant it in a negative way. i know what you mean by "needy" in general but can you give an ex?

fantasy world? manipulative? UGH! these are like buzz words. erect stop sign now! this is the opposite of what i want in a mate and it would leave me very uneasy in the long-term.

We remain friends, but having fallen for this deceptive mirroring individual, I can honestly say I would not date a Psicean again if they resembled the traits of my ex husband.

more buzzing!!! "deceptive mirror?" just looking at that phrase makes me shudder. this is definitely one sign i'll need to experience to understand...just not sure i want to experience it 😛






But in the end I realised he would never be able to show his real colours and was emotionally immature with no initative or goal in life. That tested my patience, so I left to seek something with more depth and drive.






yeah, that's not gonna work for me either. i don't do well around fake people. maybe that's what it all boils down to? maturity. you take an immature individual in any sign and you're bound to have a train wreck. a mature person comes with flaws too but they acknowledge and work on them.

Posted by Awake
I can say that I am maybe more emotional that the average man, whether I display it or not, but for a woman that isnt so good with emotion and interpersonal intelligence...is this such a bad thing?

HA! that entire sentence tickled me.

i suppose a sensitive fella would be worth exploring given how emotarded taurus women can be BUT, i think much of our initial inability to show emotion has to do with our perception of what real strength is...especially as it pertains to women.

in reality, i am a bit woose. alone, i will cry when watching commercials if they're sappy enough but in a room full of people, "what are tears?" and God forbid people want to hug and shit.

not being weak is what comes natural for me as a tau and in a lot of ways, i wouldn't have it any other way. what makes being this way easier though is having a certain type of man in my life. someone that can hug me and i not push him away. someone that i can weep in front of and not shield my eyes.

so all in all, maybe a pisces man isn't so bad given that tau/i need to learn how to process emotion with or without a "strong" male presence.

^^agreed.

how old is your taurus awake? i would hate for her to lose you due to immaturity.

my biggest loss was my aqua but it was also my biggest gain. i've never met anyone like him, in terms of friendship, since. but i needed to experience that loss in order to take stock of who i was. all those typical taurus traits are what led to the end of my relationship but it had to end in order for me to begin anew.

the sad part is, i think there were forks in the road along the way but i chose a path that led to a dead end. i think if you're frustrated with your bull, you're going to have to find a way to shift the momentum. if there are bad signs now, don't assume it will get better.

IMHO, fixed signs need a sledgehammer to change course. you happen to be dating the most fixed of fixed signs and with us, a hammer isn't even strong enough. when we're in deep, what's needed is an atomic boom. the BOOM doesn't sound too pisces and maybe that's why some of the women have had unsuccessful pisces unions in the past?

Married to Taurus for 8 years and now divorced for 10 years. Great guy ...but not the right one for me. A little too grounded for me I felt like my spirit died when I was married to him. One word to describe relationship "stiffled". Perhaps it could have just been an age thing. We got married too young. I loved the man and still do, but it did not work out. Cannot make heads or tails if it was bad timing or just a bad match.

I will say this much .....definately not one of the worst relationships I have ever had.

everyone seems to have this mixed bag of, "it was great but it sucked enough to leave" thing going on.

curiosity is getting the better of me but the trend is a little disconcerting.

awake, what did i say that confused ya?

and i agree, it's one thing to hypothesize, it's another to get to know an individual and that's what i seek and will do ultimately. it does help to know where/how others have faltered/succeeded. ultimately, it's not about the sign though. it's relationship advice on a microscopic level.

prettypriss, i saw you comment somewhere else and thought you might be taurus. this post made me want to check your profile.

our charts are eerily similar. real trippy.

Happy belated birthday pretty! 🙂

Let go man, it's not healthy.

You know what Mister Fishy? In times such as these, during heartache and stress...one must stand tall and say "OH FUCK HER AND THE HORSE SHE RODE IN ON!" You're letting one shitty human being interfere with your day to day quality of life...your job? Don't spoon feed her exactly what she wants. To be perfectly honest mentally wipe your ass with her and flush it right on down the porcelain bowl.

Try killing her with kindness.I'm both a Taurus and a Pisces,and as a bull I know it's very hard for us to be cold to someone who's warm to us.And as a fish I know that there's nothing worse than hate and negativity.it's poison both for you to give and receive.So,make it stop with you.YOU be in control...and change the flow.

I know it does winter, but like Bells said ..and I fully concur, take back your own. She's not worth your energy. Negative or positive. She's nettling you for a reaction, be above that. 🙂

I think we should sit in a circle and tail tickle. Sun to Moon to Venus. First one who makes bubbles in the water is outta der. 😛 🙂