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Hey woman how ya doing first off?The reason you were called out is because your a taurus with gemini in your charts like my sister.She has gemini in moon and venus and I recently found out that I make her nervous and a little depressed due to my bad moods that aren't really directed at her but she's still very sensitve to them.Im thinking maybe it's the gem's nervousness making it like that because the smallest thing can make her cry.Are you really sensitive as well?If so what could someone do or say that shows you that it's not you causing thier bad moods?I've already told her im usually a b/tch because of work and im lacking in sleep and energy.Im basically overworked and underpaid situations for me causing bitterness to come out of me all the time.Now that I know about it,im working on tempering it rather than letting it go because it's at home when she's usually around and she basically walks in on it.I think mainly it's the silence that makes her paranoid that she's getting a silent treatment for something she did when she didn't.It's just my normal response to anger/negative emotions to get silent and aloft rather than take it out on people who don't deserve it.Any suggestions from you or anyone else that may be similar?

"Hey woman...."

How you dare to steal my words Tiamat!!🙂

"I make her nervous and a little depressed due to my bad moods that aren't really directed at her but she's still very sensitve to them...silence that makes her paranoid that she's getting a silent treatment for something she did when she didn't"

OMG! This is sooooooooo me! Some people just make me feel that way, it's mostly silence and lack of communication I think. My roomate - I constantly think is mad at me but really he's just confused about his own life. When people are really quiet around me I think they are thinking about me(vain us!). Maybe because it's what we do. If we are quiet around you we are likely thinking about you or something deep in our lives. I personally have always kinda felt guilty too, for no reason, I think the way I grew up, but that is sweet that you are concerned and wondering how to correct the problem. Trust me, I'm sure it would mean a LOT to her. Maybe just next time when you are in a bad mood, just say something nice to her, and tell her you had a bad day and are going to be quiet for the next few hours or something. That will kill a LOT of grief.

Cooleys,thanks for the input TG.Okay will do and see if that may help the situation.

Haffo,I didn't steal your words,I stole my bf's.Im never his girlfriend or anything,im always HIS woman,it's almost as if I don't have a name to him.If it wasn't for the fact that he's usually saying it in a joking manner,I'd feel like an object or something.😢.Damn men.🙂

Tiamat are you unhappy with something? There is something BIG is going on...

No,im kdding about the bf's stuff he's kidding when he does it,look under the volumputious woman for taurus topic and look at fernand's post about aries in venus and you have his venus and some of his characteristics.It's like a "me" centered thing but it's cute and innocent when it is done,it's a very playful relationship basically,we're never serious about anything for the most part if it's not a serious matter.