This is uncomfortable....

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My ex cap texted me the other day to tell me that he told his wife about me, he even showed her my picture. Before you jump to conclusions let me give you background.

They were separated when we "dated." I say it that way because it was only for like a couple months. (They separated cause she cheated) Obviously I shouldn't of done but lesson learned.

I haven't talked to him in weeks and then he texts me out of the blue the other day to tell me. I didn't text him back but this whole thing makes me uneasy. Like what the heck does she want to know about me? Nothing is going on between him and I anymore. She's a Scorpio/libra cusp not that really has anything to do with it. Am I freaking out over nothing? I'm pretty sure I am, I just feel like it's morbid of her to even ask him about me. Help me to rationalize this my fellow Taureans cause I have a bit of anxiety. I mean we live in a small village town that is 3 miles wide and contains 2K people, we're bound to run into each other and that freaking sucks. I just worry she's going to confront me or something.
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OMG NOOOOOOOO! What is up with the Caps in the month of April? They are ballsy AF! Me being such a curious cat, I would've responded with "why do you keep reaching out to me? Go focus on your wife" Also, I would've been super annoyed that he even spoke about me to her. I would do my best to keep it classy if she confronts me, but if she gets out of line, then I would get hood on her ass and warn her to step back before I put her to sleep and just walk away.

But in all seriousness, what is your mind telling you to do?
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OMG NOOOOOOOO! What is up with the Caps in the month of April? They are ballsy AF! Me being such a curious cat, I would've responded with "why do you keep reaching out to me? Go focus on your wife" Also, I would've been super annoyed that he even spoke about me to her. I would do my best to keep it classy if she confronts me, but if she gets out of line, then I would get hood on her ass and warn her to step back before I put her to sleep and just walk away.

But in all seriousness, what is your mind telling you to do?
I haven't spoken to him about it but my gut and my mind is telling me to get the eff out this town asap. Lol.
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OMG NOOOOOOOO! What is up with the Caps in the month of April? They are ballsy AF! Me being such a curious cat, I would've responded with "why do you keep reaching out to me? Go focus on your wife" Also, I would've been super annoyed that he even spoke about me to her. I would do my best to keep it classy if she confronts me, but if she gets out of line, then I would get hood on her ass and warn her to step back before I put her to sleep and just walk away.

But in all seriousness, what is your mind telling you to do?
I haven't spoken to him about it but my gut and my mind is telling me to get the eff out this town asap. Lol.
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LOL! Well if you don't want to respond then don't. Don't force yourself to do something you might regret later. But it's making you anxious so idk. Just take some deep breaths, a bath, relax and then give it a few days and the what you really want to do. Good Luck!
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My ex cap texted me the other day to tell me that he told his wife about me, he even showed her my picture. Before you jump to conclusions let me give you background.

They were separated when we "dated." I say it that way because it was only for like a couple months. (They separated cause she cheated) Obviously I shouldn't of done but lesson learned.

I haven't talked to him in weeks and then he texts me out of the blue the other day to tell me. I didn't text him back but this whole thing makes me uneasy. Like what the heck does she want to know about me? Nothing is going on between him and I anymore. She's a Scorpio/libra cusp not that really has anything to do with it. Am I freaking out over nothing? I'm pretty sure I am, I just feel like it's morbid of her to even ask him about me. Help me to rationalize this my fellow Taureans cause I have a bit of anxiety. I mean we live in a small village town that is 3 miles wide and contains 2K people, we're bound to run into each other and that freaking sucks. I just worry she's going to confront me or something.
Sorry to put it to you babe... But she is his wife.. They parted and you knew about her yet you still dated him. Obviously, he went back to her and she is dumb enough to take him back but you are even dumber to still have his number.

Because if that were myself the message he would have received would have been "sorry who is this? I don't recognise this number as I have deleted unused numbers from my phone".... Do you seriously think I would engage with him after that fiasco?

Also if I were his wife, yes, I would want to know who the "other" woman was and what she looked like.... I have Neptune in Scorpio and six 8th house placements including merc, Venus and Saturn so i am extremely , Are you scared of a cat fight?

Scorps are possessive... But as I said, i wouldn't have taken him back... But it seems as though Scorps can't live without being in ANY kind of relationship....
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I didn't engage in any kind of conversation with him. And I have his number memorized so that's how I knew it was him. But you're right, lesson learned. I got my karma for dating him.
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My guess,

She may have been obsessing over the idea that he was romantically involved during your courtship.

The wife may have tried to find you on social media, kept harassing him about who you were or what you looked like, and he just simply told her.

The fact that he felt to reach out to you and 'share' this info is what concerns me.

He could have kept that to himself.

Unless he likes drama.

Or maybe there is drama to come....

More likely from the wife instead of him.

...And he is giving you a heads up.
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Why the fuck would you move lol unless you did something bad.

Also why get involved with someone who's on a break with his wife.
Because he was in the process of divorcing her, I saw the papers and everything. I guess he changed his mind. Lol.

I haven't done anything bad I just can't stand being here anymore. Lol
You did do something bad. You shat on your own doorstep by dating a man whose divorce papers not even signed. U basically had an affair with a married man and to make it worse, in a village that is sooo small and everyone practically knows each other..

Scorp will seek revenge.. She will either tell people about you or confront you herself...

I suggest you get your sleeves rolled up and prefer for a catfight.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
My guess,

She may have been obsessing over the idea that he was romantically involved during your courtship.

The wife may have tried to find you on social media, kept harassing him about who you were or what you looked like, and he just simply told her.

The fact that he felt to reach out to you and 'share' this info is what concerns me.

He could have kept that to himself.

Unless he likes drama.

Or maybe there is drama to come....

More likely from the wife instead of him.

...And he is giving you a heads up.
My mom told me that she'll most likely obsess over me and maybe even try to confront me at some point since she herself is a Scorp. I already blocked her on social media though.

I'm not afraid of a cat fight I just hate drama and I want to be over this whole situation already.
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My ex cap texted me the other day to tell me that he told his wife about me, he even showed her my picture. Before you jump to conclusions let me give you background.

They were separated when we "dated." I say it that way because it was only for like a couple months. (They separated cause she cheated) Obviously I shouldn't of done but lesson learned.

I haven't talked to him in weeks and then he texts me out of the blue the other day to tell me. I didn't text him back but this whole thing makes me uneasy. Like what the heck does she want to know about me? Nothing is going on between him and I anymore. She's a Scorpio/libra cusp not that really has anything to do with it. Am I freaking out over nothing? I'm pretty sure I am, I just feel like it's morbid of her to even ask him about me. Help me to rationalize this my fellow Taureans cause I have a bit of anxiety. I mean we live in a small village town that is 3 miles wide and contains 2K people, we're bound to run into each other and that freaking sucks. I just worry she's going to confront me or something.
Sorry to put it to you babe... But she is his wife.. They parted and you knew about her yet you still dated him. Obviously, he went back to her and she is dumb enough to take him back but you are even dumber to still have his number.

Because if that were myself the message he would have received would have been "sorry who is this? I don't recognise this number as I have deleted unused numbers from my phone".... Do you seriously think I would engage with him after that fiasco?

Also if I were his wife, yes, I would want to know who the "other" woman was and what she looked like.... I have Neptune in Scorpio and six 8th house placements including merc, Venus and Saturn so i am extremely , Are you scared of a cat fight?

Scorps are possessive... But as I said, i wouldn't have taken him back... But it seems as though Scorps can't live without being in ANY kind of relationship....
I didn't engage in any kind of conversation with him. And I have his number memorized so that's how I knew it was him. But you're right, lesson learned. I got my karma for dating him.


Another lesson... "never memorise a guys number" 😉
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Can't help it, photographic memory. ??
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I mean she is his wife. If she feels like she needs to know about what he did during their separation and he wants to reconcile she's well within her rights to ask about his part of the separation. That's what the separations are for, to see if the relationship shakes out and both parties really want to make it work. Frankly since it's their relationship they can choose how much or little to share if they want. I'd think it's weird if they didn't talk about it.

That being said, none of this is really any of your concern. Him contacting you is unnecessary. And he probably just wants attention, from you, his wife or both. I wouldn't think anymore into it than that. As long as you are certain you want nothing to do with him, just continuing to ignore him should fix any potential drama.

Who cares if it's a small town. You're all adults, you don't want to be with him and they are together now. I don't think it's as big of a deal as it you might think. Unless the ex wife has a history of violence or instability there shouldn't be any need to be concerned.

The fact it has unsettled you a lot might mean you still need to work through some things personally about it. Especially if the situation upsets you to the point it makes you want to move.
Thank you for helping me rationalize this. And yes I do have something feelings I need to work through toward him but it's not anything like I want him back. I wouldn't be stupid enough to take him back. I just feel guilty for dating him in the first place for obvious reasons.
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Block him!! Be careful. I'm not sure what she wants, but it could be curiosity or could be something worse.
She is probably just curiois (wife) but I can't imagine thee conversation...

Hey! Do you want to know whom I cheated with? There she is!!! Cool huh?

Let's go have sex...

I wish you looked more like her though - I would be turned on more but what ta heck? Lose your pants...

The question here is why he is back to OP with this nonsense?

I love you so I told my wife?

I told my wife so she knows. (So what?)

Can we invite my wife to our wedding?

Where is the logic and point in this if any?

Confused!!!
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For him to have divulged that information to you, out of the blue, was pretty reckless of him. That was information you didn't need to know.

Ignore him, cut him out of your life.


Smart advice
Except it'll fly over her head like it wasn't even given!

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Have you so little faith in me, Gemitati? Lol. He's already been cut of life as far as communication, I haven't spoken to him since my last post in the Capricorn message boards.
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For him to have divulged that information to you, out of the blue, was pretty reckless of him. That was information you didn't need to know.

Ignore him, cut him out of your life.


Smart advice
Except it'll fly over her head like it wasn't even given!


Have you so little faith in me, Gemitati? Lol. He's already been cut of life as far as communication, I haven't spoken to him since my last post in the Capricorn message boards.
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People don't post here about people they don't care about!!!!

No! Never! Naaah...

Because they don't care!!!

And you did so you do...bullshit someone else doll!
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Posted by Gob_Shite
For him to have divulged that information to you, out of the blue, was pretty reckless of him. That was information you didn't need to know.

Ignore him, cut him out of your life.


Smart advice
Except it'll fly over her head like it wasn't even given!


Have you so little faith in me, Gemitati? Lol. He's already been cut of life as far as communication, I haven't spoken to him since my last post in the Capricorn message boards.
People don't post here about people they don't care about!!!!

No! Never! Naaah...

Because they don't care!!!

And you did so you do...bullshit someone else doll!
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Yeah I care about him but doesn't mean I'm communicating with him. There is a difference.
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Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by SugarandSpunk
Posted by Gob_Shite
For him to have divulged that information to you, out of the blue, was pretty reckless of him. That was information you didn't need to know.

Ignore him, cut him out of your life.


Smart advice
Except it'll fly over her head like it wasn't even given!


Have you so little faith in me, Gemitati? Lol. He's already been cut of life as far as communication, I haven't spoken to him since my last post in the Capricorn message boards.
People don't post here about people they don't care about!!!!

No! Never! Naaah...

Because they don't care!!!

And you did so you do...bullshit someone else doll!
Yeah I care about him but doesn't mean I'm communicating with him. There is a difference.

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The direerent economy is 1...2...3...he be for your message!!!
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Posted by SugarandSpunk
Posted by Gob_Shite
For him to have divulged that information to you, out of the blue, was pretty reckless of him. That was information you didn't need to know.

Ignore him, cut him out of your life.


Smart advice
Except it'll fly over her head like it wasn't even given!


Have you so little faith in me, Gemitati? Lol. He's already been cut of life as far as communication, I haven't spoken to him since my last post in the Capricorn message boards.
People don't post here about people they don't care about!!!!

No! Never! Naaah...

Because they don't care!!!

And you did so you do...bullshit someone else doll!
Yeah I care about him but doesn't mean I'm communicating with him. There is a difference.


The direerent economy is 1...2...3...he be for your message!!!
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This makes no sense at all. Go pester someone else.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by SugarandSpunk
Posted by Gob_Shite
For him to have divulged that information to you, out of the blue, was pretty reckless of him. That was information you didn't need to know.

Ignore him, cut him out of your life.


Smart advice
Except it'll fly over her head like it wasn't even given!


Have you so little faith in me, Gemitati? Lol. He's already been cut of life as far as communication, I haven't spoken to him since my last post in the Capricorn message boards.
People don't post here about people they don't care about!!!!

No! Never! Naaah...

Because they don't care!!!

And you did so you do...bullshit someone else doll!
Yeah I care about him but doesn't mean I'm communicating with him. There is a difference.


The direerent economy is 1...2...3...he be for your message!!!


This makes no sense at all. Go pester someone else.

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I do! All the time. Haven't noticed? Duh!