@BeachBum
17 Years
This Taurus is moving to fast.
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Just this week he asked that we be exclusive, which I agreed to. We both are 50 yrs old so it's not like we're young lovers. My heart says go for it, but my head tells me slow down.
Thank you Soultalk for responding.
I have dated 2 Taurus men and neither of them moved slowly. Well they both walk slow, talk slow, think slow (that doesn't mean they are slow minded just take their time thinking over things in order to come to the right decision). However where matters of the heart were concerned they weren't slow, IMO once a bull(ette) decides what they want then they go for it fully and relentlessly. having said that I did know both for quite some time before dating. Taurus no 2, who is my current man, professed love after 5 weeks, although I logically told myself that it was too early I still stayed with it and gave it time and took the chance - which paid off very nicely. But you do need to keep a level head if it feels too early, just go with it and enjoy the moment.
Posted by BeachBum
I feel that if someone falls in love that fast that you fall out of love just as fast.
I STRONGLY agree.
I am a Taurus with a Venus in Aries. Just because I fall fast, it does NOT necessarily mean that I move fast or will commit to an individual prematurely.
I may discover some things I dislike about that person in the next few dates, and the chemistry can fizzle out just as quickly.
Only time will tell.
People can put on a myriad of facades when courting you.
@Beachbum,
It's OK to tell him you feel the same way, and that you are interested, but you prefer to simply take things slow and get to know each other, first.
@Beachbum....
You will be amazed to know how many 'Hot and Cold' and 'Disappearing Act' threads that circulate this board.
Once the initial interest fizzles out, the 'longevity/ryde or die' trait of a Bull is no longer applicable.
Telling him you want to take things slow will be your best bet.
A man who moved quickly would freak me out! 😢
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He is an adorable man and I do have feelings for him. We have only seen each other for a little
over a month now. He has already told me he loves me and that I will love him. I am confused by
this because I thought Taurueans moved slow. I do have some deep feelings and can see myself with him in the long run. Its that I have been single for 10 yrs and am very guarded with my heart. I feel that if someone falls in love that fast that you fall out of love just as fast. I am so confused. Any thoughts would be appreciated.