Tried a Taurus

Good morning Dx, I'm back on here because I've tried someone who folks say is right up my cancer Ally! I tried a Taurus!!

Now this was much an accident, we met on social media, and realized we lived in the same area and even work for the same corporation. She reached out for something her friend needed and the sexy funny banter started there. We exhaled numbers, she was extremely attentive and she asked me out for a drink. We both saw nothing here, until the 3rd hang out we realized we did like one another.

Now the only problem is, I had my ex living with me and I literally had to numb over boundaries to make time to see the Taurus. I initially told her the truth from the beginning and she said I was worth it. Now we have had the most intimate moments, sexually emotionally spiritually, everything you name it. She confided in me in everything, she sent love songs, love memes she was very into me asking me to travel with her, hang with her friends. Then she picked up a new shift at work where she was working 12 hours everyday no breaks , initially this didn't interrupt us, we made time. Fast forward, to my ex finally moving out , it got ugly but she was right there waiting for me to tell her if I needed help.

She heard how distraught I was so she left a meeting drove home so I can lay up with her.

Fast forward to the weekend before vday she told me her ex was coming to town and asked to drop her son off while she took care of business, this was a recent ex whom she said they were friends first for several years and she adored the son we aren't exclusive but she felt it was best to share with me.

I said ok, change the subject. That day she completely forgot about our plans for that morning,and worked her double and went to tend to this kid, she called and text to keep me comfortable I guess and when the photos went up the ex commented in a manor that made me uncomfortable, when I spoke to the Taurus about it she became defensive I called it off told her I'll remove myself. She hung up in hurt and never reached out. I then called her to discuss after the blow out and she agreed to work it out. She apologized I apologized and we began to move forward but alllll love seem to quickly fade. When I asked her what's changing she said she's not herself and she's tired from these hours.

It is now march, she went on vacation with her best friend and cousin reached out everyday which was sweet. Her ex began with the inappropriate comments I asked her about it since we discussed this before. I decided to unfollow her to save myself the trouble but when she returns from the trip we were still good. Still not overly attentive with the poems and love songs but enough to keep a repot.

It's not until a few days after her return I went to see her; when she learned my friends were coming over and I was busy the entire weekend, she flipped a complete 180. I said to her things have changed you're not trying to do things with me etc

She went to a party with her friends never called.

Now since my company she said that I didn't want to spend time with her(flipping the issue on me) she isn't initiating any calls, I asked her if she wants to end this she says why would I want to do that, she texts when I text.

I've talked marriage with this woman who told me she never wanted to get married, sadly she's 42 and I'm 31 I would assume a better sense of maturity. We've made plans for vacation, smh I just don't get it.

We've talked about a future but it's almost like since the challenge of my ex is gone so is her interest. Wth happened—??

She always said never feel slighted to ask me a blunt question I've asked if there is someone else and she says no. Taurus folks wth is going on——

Tried a Taurus

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