Venus in Aries, Mars in Cancer...help!

I'm 19 🙂. I have a Venus in Aries & Mars in Cancer.
Sometimes relationships are hard for me, because I tend to fall for a guy to quickly when we are just talking or hanging out. But by the time we get together, its like I'm bored with the guy already. 😢

And, I've heard that Taurus girls are usually slow movers, but I'm not at all. Lol
I also have days were I'm like really emotional and I want to cuddle, be cute ect. Then other days I just don't want to be bothered, like my bf is suffocating me. (Well when I have a bf.Lol) I've been told that I'm unpredictable, and have no inbetween. I'm hot or I'm cold.

Does this happen to any of you Aries/Cancer people?

Oh, and out of curiosity. What is a good compatible sign for a VenusAries/MarsCancer person?

Welcome to mars in cancer. It sucks!


If you have Mars in Cancer with Venus in Aries
you are . . .

The Hurry Home Body

You are the most confrontational of the Mars in Cancer Lovers. You??re not going to sit back all sexy and nice and hope someone gives you the love and emotional support you need; you go out and demand it. Nor are you likely to be satisfied with merely security and comfort in your relationships. You have a strong sense of pride and you also need your partner to recognize all your talents and abilities. Of all the Mars in Cancer Lovers you are the most protective of your Beloved and the most likely to come out swinging if you feel that your partner is being threatened. You are not afraid to fight for what you need but you are even more willing to fight for the one you love.


Your erotic life is naturally full of fire, conflict and crazy passion. Your feelings are so strong and your desires so compelling that you have no time for either gentleness or good manners. Perhaps more importantly, the contradictions within your sexual nature often cause you to veer wildly between aggression and passivity. One moment you are giving yourself completely, the next you are angrily demanding a refund. The person who loves you must be prepared for a challenge, but a sexier and more seductive challenge would be hard to imagine.

My Taurus friend has a gemini venus/Cancer Mars and i would see both sides in him. That need to talk to many girls/women, to explore and have variety, then Id see the need for affection and closeness. To bond. He seems to withdraw a lot, especially when he's at home.

When we were closer and worked together i liked how our mars and venus signs worked. My mars is in libra, his venus in gemini...he'd sit with other girls i knew he was attracted to, i wouldnt care id get on my phone or tend to other things. My venus in scorpio, his mars in cancer...he'd text me while sitting with them, stare at me, or reach over and offer me food etc.

Maybe you should try something similar. Like a venus is scorpio or pisces guy, with a mars in leo or sag. I dont know the odds of you findig that lol, but i think you will get your balance there..with someone that compliments your mars/venus..or a trine(i think). I know there are Cap suns with venus in scorp, and sag mars. I thing Virgo suns can have Leo mars.

I think your cancer mars will attract your partners.

Posted by juke
with venus pisces/mars sag, i want to commit one second and cut the strings the next so i can understand your pickle. but there's someone for everyone, don't fret. i get along very well with a fellow water sign with mars/venus gemini, another free spirit. look for your combination of in/dependence in others.

Thanks, and I have noticed that I get along with Gemini's quite often. I also a have a close gemini friend. They'er the only ones that keep my interest. (That souds kind of harsh but it's true.lol)

Posted by lnana04
My Taurus friend has a gemini venus/Cancer Mars and i would see both sides in him. That need to talk to many girls/women, to explore and have variety, then Id see the need for affection and closeness. To bond. He seems to withdraw a lot, especially when he's at home.

When we were closer and worked together i liked how our mars and venus signs worked. My mars is in libra, his venus in gemini...he'd sit with other girls i knew he was attracted to, i wouldnt care id get on my phone or tend to other things. My venus in scorpio, his mars in cancer...he'd text me while sitting with them, stare at me, or reach over and offer me food etc.

Maybe you should try something similar. Like a venus is scorpio or pisces guy, with a mars in leo or sag. I dont know the odds of you findig that lol, but i think you will get your balance there..with someone that compliments your mars/venus..or a trine(i think). I know there are Cap suns with venus in scorp, and sag mars. I thing Virgo suns can have Leo mars.

I think your cancer mars will attract your partners.

I can understand your friend I withdraw alot at home, to the point where people are asking me whats wrong. lol Im like a fire ball of energy then, I'm quiet and soft.
I would like to talk to a Cappy or, a Virgo, the only signs that I notice I attract are Scorpio(Because of my Sun), Cancer(Because of my mars & Moon) & Gemini(I think because of my Venus).

Posted by neuroticvirgo
Welcome to mars in cancer. It sucks!


If you have Mars in Cancer with Venus in Aries
you are . . .

The Hurry Home Body

You are the most confrontational of the Mars in Cancer Lovers. You??re not going to sit back all sexy and nice and hope someone gives you the love and emotional support you need; you go out and demand it. Nor are you likely to be satisfied with merely security and comfort in your relationships. You have a strong sense of pride and you also need your partner to recognize all your talents and abilities. Of all the Mars in Cancer Lovers you are the most protective of your Beloved and the most likely to come out swinging if you feel that your partner is being threatened. You are not afraid to fight for what you need but you are even more willing to fight for the one you love.


Your erotic life is naturally full of fire, conflict and crazy passion. Your feelings are so strong and your desires so compelling that you have no time for either gentleness or good manners. Perhaps more importantly, the contradictions within your sexual nature often cause you to veer wildly between aggression and passivity. One moment you are giving yourself completely, the next you are angrily demanding a refund. The person who loves you must be prepared for a challenge, but a sexier and more seductive challenge would be hard to imagine.

This is so true! I have extremely strong feelings for the guys I like. & I tend to contradict myslef alot, which bugs that crap out of me.