What is up with all of this Taurus Male Bashing?

It's strange because I've done my research (taurus moon) on taurus males, because one has most certainly caught my attention, they all say they are straight forward, honest, affectionate, loving, stubborn and slow moving. Alrighty I can deal and appreciate all of this.

Then I come on here and most chicks are saying they are full of shite, users, manipulative bastards? What the hell...why is there such a disconnect. Most sites that I visit I read about the opposite person then I read about my own sign to see if they are full of shite. Some are, some are dead on. The ones that are dead on are saying the complete opposite than what is being claimed here. Not that I'm saying your full of shite but isn't it possible you got a hold of one big steaming big pile of bullshi*?

Taurus males are alluring as all get out and yes I have noticed that this one does have a lot of women friends, some call them harems. So what I don't get is if he has this pool of women to tap into for some arse, why go forth to deceive you? Wouldn't he just bang someone without any illusions then to go through with chasing a woman for a long time, just to sleep with you then bounce? To me something went awry...he didn't like something, he was interested then left rather than he wasted all his time and effort just to have your legs in the air. Why do all that, certainly he could pull any chick off the street and bang them...taurus hate to waste their time right?

I just don't get it. I've been on here a while and I've seen some pisces bashing threads but not to the extent of taurus males. WOW! Maybe it's because they are so downright adorable and alluring it's easy to fall (trust me I know, I've made this one taurus wait for over 6 months for a date and we've had 2 in one week and boy oh boy I'm hooked. The guy played the guitar and sang for me, offered to cook for me and we laid in his bed for an hour just looking into each others eyes, trust me a girl could fall hard and fast). So when he doesn't fall with you...you feel like he deceived you. When it could be he tried it but he didn't want to go there for who knows what reason.

I've also read that a taurus male wouldn't want to deceive a "good girl" lie to them and deceive them for getting laid or using them, but this board is littered with all these types of threads. Things that make you go hmmm.

I have wondered the same thing ever since I have been here. All my Taurus males in my life are terrific men. Mad respect from this Cow to the Bulls in the yard.

I think on a friendship level Taurus males are the sweetest, easy going guys out there and it's hard to understand anyone's capability or reasoning behind bashing them buuuuuuut.... On a relationship level it is easy to fall for the tall, sexy Taurus and that's where the issues start! My problem is mine never let me in on how he felt or what he wanted and it was hard to establish a relationship with him with so many things unanswered for so long! I am far from a clinger and have alotted my Taurus so much space and mutual "slow and steady" take on things but I can see how others would become so frustrated with their Taurus. The bashing is more like hey dude I like you so what gives— And we are all doin' time waiting on the answer AHHHHHH and using this forum to vent. 🙂

my taurus male friends are the bestest friends I could ever have; very dependable, always there for u when u need them, and they never judge u BUT they are extremely flirtatious...holy cow :x However, on a relationship level, they take their time so u have to be a very patient person to deal with them and i honestly think its worth it in the end. If u love them enough, u will stick with them. My taurus has taught me to be patient and to enjoy the small things in life. I've always been a restless person, always on the go, and he has showed me to take it slower (a lot slower lol). Annnnnd I've never met one taurus I didn't like 🙂

I agree that the bashing comes from women not be patient with Taurus man. The one thing I've learned is patience and giving him space to miss me. Its been almost 6 long months but he's becoming my best friend. He's there when I need him and I make sure he knows that I appreciate every thing he does for me. I like that I can spend the night and him not pushing sex, just wanting to cuddle. Its a slow process but I like it, very different from the rest. He's the my favorite person. Totally smitten.

My patience, on the relationship end, can run a little longer than a Taurus, it seems. I'm definitely not quick to jump in and out of a relationship. My only gripe with them, well him, is wanting to put 100% trust there and feeling I just can't. My Taurus friend cut me off for understandable reasons, but it's just sad to want to give something to someone that you feel probably won't handle it with the care you need. It wasn't his fault, and it wasn't mine either. Just is what it is, but that's the only unfortunate thing with my experience with Taurus.

Really, I think this is why many women bash earth signs in general.

An important thing to remember on a place like DXP is that in general folk are more likley to post here with problems/gripes/grumbles than rave reviews.

I am sure there are many many deliriously happy women out there NOT posting about their awesome Tauruses because, well they are too busy doing all stuff you do when you have a hot sexy Taurus on your hands.

The first male role model in my life is a Taurus, my grandfather. I can honestly say that he's the epitome of what I deeply value within those around me. When he's gone in this lifetime (which I will the Earth and stars to delay), I've vowed to create a home that continues such trueness and strength of character.

My grandfather holds the world in my eyes. He is my Atlas.

Brava madam.

Standing ovation!

Above all else, I've got to say thank you to all of you for this thread. It really made me think and evaluate my behavior, emotions and actions when interacting with one particular Bull in my life.

I agree with Robyn when she said lack of communication brings out insecurity. This Bull does in me that's for sure and thr past few days helped me realize this.

In some ways, maybe the sometimes lack of communication is some form of control...i don't know.. but i understand fully where you are coming from and thank you for the insight. It gives me a lot to reflect upon.

Now..do i admit this insecurity to the Bull or just let it go? He seems to have walked away for now..not sure how long..bc of the above stated.

In my eyes, showing that truthful and humble side of yourself (well, who likes sharing insecurities - yanno?) is never too late nor improper.

This Bull may see that you took alot of effort to find that within yourself. He could appreciate that you felt so strongly about him that you continued seeking for some ground to see what was really going on DESPITE it being an uncomfortable admittance of self.

Of course there's always a chance of rejection, however the personal gains you've made in character from this outweigh any negativity.

I find this to be commendable. I'm always proud to see another reflecting upon themselves when seeking for truths and answers from the external world.

Hope all goes ridiculously well.

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In my eyes, showing that truthful and humble side of yourself (well, who likes sharing insecurities - yanno?) is never too late nor improper.

This Bull may see that you took alot of effort to find that within yourself. He could appreciate that you felt so strongly about him that you continued seeking for some ground to see what was really going on DESPITE it being an uncomfortable admittance of self.

Of course there's always a chance of rejection, however the personal gains you've made in character from this outweigh any negativity.

I find this to be commendable. I'm always proud to see another reflecting upon themselves when seeking for truths and answers from the external world.

Hope all goes ridiculously well.

Thanks, Huntress. Right now.. I want to respect space and time. I will be sure to explain all if/when I see him again. I will apologize be my patience has been thin and fragile due to my need for reassurance vs his ability to give it or not (can't give what you don't know= false hope/manipulation). For that reason, I will respect his space. He's aware of the time that I will be local and I am hoping that this is more of a conversation to have in person vs via phone/text. If the opportunity comes, I will be sure to lay it out if not, I have come to a new understanding within. I would image said Bull would much rather hear apologies stemming from a new understanding when the mind and heart is clear of change vs right in the middle of new things that effect change in every aspect of life. If that is incorrect, by all means, please let me know.

Thank you.

Yes. He has become silent and I am giving him his space since he said he had a lot going on in his heart and mind. But now I have a question to pose to all of you.

You mentioned that their slow progression brings out the other party's insecurities. What if the opposite is revealed?

For example, if you state to a Bull exactly what you would like, are hoping for or expect, and they retreat, is this then exposing their insecurities/ inadequacies? I've seen this MANY times where others have posted that Bulls/ Bullettes have retreated after a significant conversation. What is that about? Fear, vulnerability or something else?

Lastly, it seems that they are super sensitive, which I respect as am I. However, what are they expecting us to reach out or reach out when they are ready?

Thanks.

I'm not too sure about your situation, and how close you guy's have become?

He said he had a lot going on in his heart and mind... Could this be about another person? I don't mean to be negative about this but you gave the impression that you guy's hadn't spent a lot of time together and he didn't fall for you so soon in the same way.



We were exes. Reconnected last yr. Seemes to open up emotionally from a distance but now..not so much. Yes. There is/was another person in the picture but the relationship ended. You are correct. We haven't spent much time in each others physical presence. It seems to me that when he saw me again he wasnt attracted like he once was. But again being that bulls have a rep for non-concrontation, he just walks away. I dont want to play games at all...but no response in a week..time to chalk it up as a loss?

Being a pisces female i can help a bit with your guy in question. My bull went back to his son's mom Again. They do this every other month and i wont be a part any more. Im taking my jacks and going home.

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Being a pisces female i can help a bit with your guy in question. My bull went back to his son's mom Again. They do this every other month and i wont be a part any more. Im taking my jacks and going home.

Funny thing is that I was talking to a bull and he went silent and my fishy senses kicked in and asked him. He came right out stating his ex has been contacting him lately and messing with his mind. I pretty much told him that I appreicate him being forthcoming and I wish him the best. Also that I am completely removing myself from the situation, bowing out gracefully and moving on. Also that if I start a relationship with someone I don't want there to be any unanswered questions or possibilities left. I want there to be just me and the other person.

So basically I threw up the double deuces and went along my merry way. I deleted him off my phone and FB. He's not a douche or anything. I'm not too happy about the situation, but meh what can a mermaid do? Swim on my dear, oh yes swim on.

BTW I'm quite suprised by this cause I thought if a bull moves on from an ex they move on. *shrugs shoulders* He does have a cancer venus so maybe that's it. I dunno but I have a bull venus and moon. I don't play well with others when it comes to a potential mate. Oh so your ex is calling you and you can't not answer the phone or go there with them. MMM yeah bye, bye. Moving on. NEXT!!! LMFAO

@tbird- I thought when Bulls are done..they are done too. I guess not in this case. He tells be its bc of wanting his son to have both parents in the home unlike him. I told him, if you two always fight and argue...then thats worse for him not better.

He's got a taurus sun but a libra moon, Gem venus and pisces rising.

Regardless of anything else..he loves her and will stay there. I've got to really take the door down and replace it with sheet rock so that there will be zero re-entry. As hard as it will be, it's for the best.

So...i got bold today. (Because I'm hard headed and stubborn) ..i asked him if he will ever leave her...his response "I don't kno ...I kno I'm not Happy there .but I have a son with her so I have to try". Im taking that as a gentle no. If someone sees something else tell me..but i don't think so.

At least I got a half response right? LOL

Oh gosh that last sentence summed up every non-Taurus thought after speaking to a Taurean. 😛

I think he is showing to you that he is not happy there. Redundant.. but that's about it. Taurus is all about perseverance and family. It's not ideal but 'it's the right thing' (as I would imagine my Taurus grandfather saying).

I'd say let him try and back off to let him try his hardest. That way, if something ever changes and he's around again.. you'll know it was not from lack of effort.

Oh gosh that last sentence summed up every non-Taurus thought after speaking to a Taurean. 😛

I think he is showing to you that he is not happy there. Redundant.. but that's about it. Taurus is all about perseverance and family. It's not ideal but 'it's the right thing' (as I would imagine my Taurus grandfather saying).

I'd say let him try and back off to let him try his hardest. That way, if something ever changes and he's around again.. you'll know it was not from lack of effort.

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Oh gosh that last sentence summed up every non-Taurus thought after speaking to a Taurean. 😛

I think he is showing to you that he is not happy there. Redundant.. but that's about it. Taurus is all about perseverance and family. It's not ideal but 'it's the right thing' (as I would imagine my Taurus grandfather saying).

I'd say let him try and back off to let him try his hardest. That way, if something ever changes and he's around again.. you'll know it was not from lack of effort.

I agree.. i don't know what will happen, but I guess only time will tell. :-)

Lmao

This thread is older than my 7 year old nephew. What is this?

This thread misses Black Mamba. The ultimate Taurus basher... loll

Posted by tbird

It's strange because I've done my research (taurus moon) on taurus males, because one has most certainly caught my attention, they all say they are straight forward, honest, affectionate, loving, stubborn and slow moving. Alrighty I can deal and appreciate all of this.



Then I come on here and most chicks are saying they are full of shite, users, manipulative bastards? What the hell...why is there such a disconnect. Most sites that I visit I read about the opposite person then I read about my own sign to see if they are full of shite. Some are, some are dead on. The ones that are dead on are saying the complete opposite than what is being claimed here. Not that I'm saying your full of shite but isn't it possible you got a hold of one big steaming big pile of bullshi*?



Taurus males are alluring as all get out and yes I have noticed that this one does have a lot of women friends, some call them harems. So what I don't get is if he has this pool of women to tap into for some arse, why go forth to deceive you? Wouldn't he just bang someone without any illusions then to go through with chasing a woman for a long time, just to sleep with you then bounce? To me something went awry...he didn't like something, he was interested then left rather than he wasted all his time and effort just to have your legs in the air. Why do all that, certainly he could pull any chick off the street and bang them...taurus hate to waste their time right?



I just don't get it. I've been on here a while and I've seen some pisces bashing threads but not to the extent of taurus males. WOW! Maybe it's because they are so downright adorable and alluring it's easy to fall (trust me I know, I've made this one taurus wait for over 6 months for a date and we've had 2 in one week and boy oh boy I'm hooked. The guy played the guitar and sang for me, offered to cook for me and we laid in his bed for an hour just looking into each others eyes, trust me a girl could fall hard and fast). So when he doesn't fall with you...you feel like he deceived you. When it could be he tried it but he didn't want to go there for who knows what reason.



I've also read that a taurus male wouldn't want to deceive a "good girl" lie to them and deceive them for getting laid or using them, but this board is littered with all these types of threads. Things that make you go hmmm.

i got with this taurus guy once. he just had a divorce this year just like me. he was straight with me. we both just need cuddling so we did. lol he came over drunk and has had a hard year like me. it was soo cute. i just hug him and said 'you need sex badly dont you?' its was to cute how he said 'yes' 😆

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This thread is older than my 7 year old nephew. What is this?

Even age old questions needs answers. Especially if you know the truth well enough.

The age of the question does not deteriorate its value.

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I was more astounded by the fact that someone took their time to DIG up this old seven year old thread. Like how many pages of DXP did someone have to go through to find it?

hahaha. They have a time to dig up. wondering too.

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Posted by tbird

It's strange because I've done my research (taurus moon) on taurus males, because one has most certainly caught my attention, they all say they are straight forward, honest, affectionate, loving, stubborn and slow moving. Alrighty I can deal and appreciate all of this.



Then I come on here and most chicks are saying they are full of shite, users, manipulative bastards? What the hell...why is there such a disconnect. Most sites that I visit I read about the opposite person then I read about my own sign to see if they are full of shite. Some are, some are dead on. The ones that are dead on are saying the complete opposite than what is being claimed here. Not that I'm saying your full of shite but isn't it possible you got a hold of one big steaming big pile of bullshi*?



Taurus males are alluring as all get out and yes I have noticed that this one does have a lot of women friends, some call them harems. So what I don't get is if he has this pool of women to tap into for some arse, why go forth to deceive you? Wouldn't he just bang someone without any illusions then to go through with chasing a woman for a long time, just to sleep with you then bounce? To me something went awry...he didn't like something, he was interested then left rather than he wasted all his time and effort just to have your legs in the air. Why do all that, certainly he could pull any chick off the street and bang them...taurus hate to waste their time right?



I just don't get it. I've been on here a while and I've seen some pisces bashing threads but not to the extent of taurus males. WOW! Maybe it's because they are so downright adorable and alluring it's easy to fall (trust me I know, I've made this one taurus wait for over 6 months for a date and we've had 2 in one week and boy oh boy I'm hooked. The guy played the guitar and sang for me, offered to cook for me and we laid in his bed for an hour just looking into each others eyes, trust me a girl could fall hard and fast). So when he doesn't fall with you...you feel like he deceived you. When it could be he tried it but he didn't want to go there for who knows what reason.



I've also read that a taurus male wouldn't want to deceive a "good girl" lie to them and deceive them for getting laid or using them, but this board is littered with all these types of threads. Things that make you go hmmm.

i got with this taurus guy once. he just had a divorce this year just like me. he was straight with me. we both just need cuddling so we did. lol he came over drunk and has had a hard year like me. it was soo cute. i just hug him and said 'you need sex badly dont you?' its was to cute how he said 'yes' 😆

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No offense did it work thats a childish approach

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Posted by tbird

It's strange because I've done my research (taurus moon) on taurus males, because one has most certainly caught my attention, they all say they are straight forward, honest, affectionate, loving, stubborn and slow moving. Alrighty I can deal and appreciate all of this.



Then I come on here and most chicks are saying they are full of shite, users, manipulative bastards? What the hell...why is there such a disconnect. Most sites that I visit I read about the opposite person then I read about my own sign to see if they are full of shite. Some are, some are dead on. The ones that are dead on are saying the complete opposite than what is being claimed here. Not that I'm saying your full of shite but isn't it possible you got a hold of one big steaming big pile of bullshi*?



Taurus males are alluring as all get out and yes I have noticed that this one does have a lot of women friends, some call them harems. So what I don't get is if he has this pool of women to tap into for some arse, why go forth to deceive you? Wouldn't he just bang someone without any illusions then to go through with chasing a woman for a long time, just to sleep with you then bounce? To me something went awry...he didn't like something, he was interested then left rather than he wasted all his time and effort just to have your legs in the air. Why do all that, certainly he could pull any chick off the street and bang them...taurus hate to waste their time right?



I just don't get it. I've been on here a while and I've seen some pisces bashing threads but not to the extent of taurus males. WOW! Maybe it's because they are so downright adorable and alluring it's easy to fall (trust me I know, I've made this one taurus wait for over 6 months for a date and we've had 2 in one week and boy oh boy I'm hooked. The guy played the guitar and sang for me, offered to cook for me and we laid in his bed for an hour just looking into each others eyes, trust me a girl could fall hard and fast). So when he doesn't fall with you...you feel like he deceived you. When it could be he tried it but he didn't want to go there for who knows what reason.



I've also read that a taurus male wouldn't want to deceive a "good girl" lie to them and deceive them for getting laid or using them, but this board is littered with all these types of threads. Things that make you go hmmm.

i got with this taurus guy once. he just had a divorce this year just like me. he was straight with me. we both just need cuddling so we did. lol he came over drunk and has had a hard year like me. it was soo cute. i just hug him and said 'you need sex badly dont you?' its was to cute how he said 'yes' 😆

No offense did it work thats a childish approach

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it was not childish more that he was straight up with me about things. either of us wanted a relationship we both just got out of a very long term relationship. we both need comforting and cuddling. i found it very sweet that he showed that he was lonely and sad. people are very vulnerable when they do this. so to go into a playful mode helps a lot with the uneasiest of feel vulnerable. So we both enjoy each other company the whole night long. Now how is that childish?

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Posted by tbird

It's strange because I've done my research (taurus moon) on taurus males, because one has most certainly caught my attention, they all say they are straight forward, honest, affectionate, loving, stubborn and slow moving. Alrighty I can deal and appreciate all of this.



Then I come on here and most chicks are saying they are full of shite, users, manipulative bastards? What the hell...why is there such a disconnect. Most sites that I visit I read about the opposite person then I read about my own sign to see if they are full of shite. Some are, some are dead on. The ones that are dead on are saying the complete opposite than what is being claimed here. Not that I'm saying your full of shite but isn't it possible you got a hold of one big steaming big pile of bullshi*?



Taurus males are alluring as all get out and yes I have noticed that this one does have a lot of women friends, some call them harems. So what I don't get is if he has this pool of women to tap into for some arse, why go forth to deceive you? Wouldn't he just bang someone without any illusions then to go through with chasing a woman for a long time, just to sleep with you then bounce? To me something went awry...he didn't like something, he was interested then left rather than he wasted all his time and effort just to have your legs in the air. Why do all that, certainly he could pull any chick off the street and bang them...taurus hate to waste their time right?



I just don't get it. I've been on here a while and I've seen some pisces bashing threads but not to the extent of taurus males. WOW! Maybe it's because they are so downright adorable and alluring it's easy to fall (trust me I know, I've made this one taurus wait for over 6 months for a date and we've had 2 in one week and boy oh boy I'm hooked. The guy played the guitar and sang for me, offered to cook for me and we laid in his bed for an hour just looking into each others eyes, trust me a girl could fall hard and fast). So when he doesn't fall with you...you feel like he deceived you. When it could be he tried it but he didn't want to go there for who knows what reason.



I've also read that a taurus male wouldn't want to deceive a "good girl" lie to them and deceive them for getting laid or using them, but this board is littered with all these types of threads. Things that make you go hmmm.

i got with this taurus guy once. he just had a divorce this year just like me. he was straight with me. we both just need cuddling so we did. lol he came over drunk and has had a hard year like me. it was soo cute. i just hug him and said 'you need sex badly dont you?' its was to cute how he said 'yes' 😆

No offense did it work thats a childish approach

it was not childish more that he was straight up with me about things. either of us wanted a relationship we both just got out of a very long term relationship. we both need comforting and cuddling. i found it very sweet that he showed that he was lonely and sad. people are very vulnerable when they do this. so to go into a playful mode helps a lot with the uneasiest of feel vulnerable. So we both enjoy each other company the whole night long. Now how is that childish?

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Man i cannot your answer your question after that explanation. Hug him for me wont you?

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Posted by tbird

It's strange because I've done my research (taurus moon) on taurus males, because one has most certainly caught my attention, they all say they are straight forward, honest, affectionate, loving, stubborn and slow moving. Alrighty I can deal and appreciate all of this.



Then I come on here and most chicks are saying they are full of shite, users, manipulative bastards? What the hell...why is there such a disconnect. Most sites that I visit I read about the opposite person then I read about my own sign to see if they are full of shite. Some are, some are dead on. The ones that are dead on are saying the complete opposite than what is being claimed here. Not that I'm saying your full of shite but isn't it possible you got a hold of one big steaming big pile of bullshi*?



Taurus males are alluring as all get out and yes I have noticed that this one does have a lot of women friends, some call them harems. So what I don't get is if he has this pool of women to tap into for some arse, why go forth to deceive you? Wouldn't he just bang someone without any illusions then to go through with chasing a woman for a long time, just to sleep with you then bounce? To me something went awry...he didn't like something, he was interested then left rather than he wasted all his time and effort just to have your legs in the air. Why do all that, certainly he could pull any chick off the street and bang them...taurus hate to waste their time right?



I just don't get it. I've been on here a while and I've seen some pisces bashing threads but not to the extent of taurus males. WOW! Maybe it's because they are so downright adorable and alluring it's easy to fall (trust me I know, I've made this one taurus wait for over 6 months for a date and we've had 2 in one week and boy oh boy I'm hooked. The guy played the guitar and sang for me, offered to cook for me and we laid in his bed for an hour just looking into each others eyes, trust me a girl could fall hard and fast). So when he doesn't fall with you...you feel like he deceived you. When it could be he tried it but he didn't want to go there for who knows what reason.



I've also read that a taurus male wouldn't want to deceive a "good girl" lie to them and deceive them for getting laid or using them, but this board is littered with all these types of threads. Things that make you go hmmm.

i got with this taurus guy once. he just had a divorce this year just like me. he was straight with me. we both just need cuddling so we did. lol he came over drunk and has had a hard year like me. it was soo cute. i just hug him and said 'you need sex badly dont you?' its was to cute how he said 'yes' 😆

No offense did it work thats a childish approach

it was not childish more that he was straight up with me about things. either of us wanted a relationship we both just got out of a very long term relationship. we both need comforting and cuddling. i found it very sweet that he showed that he was lonely and sad. people are very vulnerable when they do this. so to go into a playful mode helps a lot with the uneasiest of feel vulnerable. So we both enjoy each other company the whole night long. Now how is that childish?

Man i cannot your answer your question after that explanation. Hug him for me wont you?

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i will if i ever see him again.

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Posted by tbird

It's strange because I've done my research (taurus moon) on taurus males, because one has most certainly caught my attention, they all say they are straight forward, honest, affectionate, loving, stubborn and slow moving. Alrighty I can deal and appreciate all of this.



Then I come on here and most chicks are saying they are full of shite, users, manipulative bastards? What the hell...why is there such a disconnect. Most sites that I visit I read about the opposite person then I read about my own sign to see if they are full of shite. Some are, some are dead on. The ones that are dead on are saying the complete opposite than what is being claimed here. Not that I'm saying your full of shite but isn't it possible you got a hold of one big steaming big pile of bullshi*?



Taurus males are alluring as all get out and yes I have noticed that this one does have a lot of women friends, some call them harems. So what I don't get is if he has this pool of women to tap into for some arse, why go forth to deceive you? Wouldn't he just bang someone without any illusions then to go through with chasing a woman for a long time, just to sleep with you then bounce? To me something went awry...he didn't like something, he was interested then left rather than he wasted all his time and effort just to have your legs in the air. Why do all that, certainly he could pull any chick off the street and bang them...taurus hate to waste their time right?



I just don't get it. I've been on here a while and I've seen some pisces bashing threads but not to the extent of taurus males. WOW! Maybe it's because they are so downright adorable and alluring it's easy to fall (trust me I know, I've made this one taurus wait for over 6 months for a date and we've had 2 in one week and boy oh boy I'm hooked. The guy played the guitar and sang for me, offered to cook for me and we laid in his bed for an hour just looking into each others eyes, trust me a girl could fall hard and fast). So when he doesn't fall with you...you feel like he deceived you. When it could be he tried it but he didn't want to go there for who knows what reason.



I've also read that a taurus male wouldn't want to deceive a "good girl" lie to them and deceive them for getting laid or using them, but this board is littered with all these types of threads. Things that make you go hmmm.

i got with this taurus guy once. he just had a divorce this year just like me. he was straight with me. we both just need cuddling so we did. lol he came over drunk and has had a hard year like me. it was soo cute. i just hug him and said 'you need sex badly dont you?' its was to cute how he said 'yes' 😆

No offense did it work thats a childish approach

it was not childish more that he was straight up with me about things. either of us wanted a relationship we both just got out of a very long term relationship. we both need comforting and cuddling. i found it very sweet that he showed that he was lonely and sad. people are very vulnerable when they do this. so to go into a playful mode helps a lot with the uneasiest of feel vulnerable. So we both enjoy each other company the whole night long. Now how is that childish?

Man i cannot your answer your question after that explanation. Hug him for me wont you?

i will if i ever see him again.

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Ever? What happened?

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It's strange because I've done my research (taurus moon) on taurus males, because one has most certainly caught my attention, they all say they are straight forward, honest, affectionate, loving, stubborn and slow moving. Alrighty I can deal and appreciate all of this.



Then I come on here and most chicks are saying they are full of shite, users, manipulative bastards? What the hell...why is there such a disconnect. Most sites that I visit I read about the opposite person then I read about my own sign to see if they are full of shite. Some are, some are dead on. The ones that are dead on are saying the complete opposite than what is being claimed here. Not that I'm saying your full of shite but isn't it possible you got a hold of one big steaming big pile of bullshi*?



Taurus males are alluring as all get out and yes I have noticed that this one does have a lot of women friends, some call them harems. So what I don't get is if he has this pool of women to tap into for some arse, why go forth to deceive you? Wouldn't he just bang someone without any illusions then to go through with chasing a woman for a long time, just to sleep with you then bounce? To me something went awry...he didn't like something, he was interested then left rather than he wasted all his time and effort just to have your legs in the air. Why do all that, certainly he could pull any chick off the street and bang them...taurus hate to waste their time right?



I just don't get it. I've been on here a while and I've seen some pisces bashing threads but not to the extent of taurus males. WOW! Maybe it's because they are so downright adorable and alluring it's easy to fall (trust me I know, I've made this one taurus wait for over 6 months for a date and we've had 2 in one week and boy oh boy I'm hooked. The guy played the guitar and sang for me, offered to cook for me and we laid in his bed for an hour just looking into each others eyes, trust me a girl could fall hard and fast). So when he doesn't fall with you...you feel like he deceived you. When it could be he tried it but he didn't want to go there for who knows what reason.



I've also read that a taurus male wouldn't want to deceive a "good girl" lie to them and deceive them for getting laid or using them, but this board is littered with all these types of threads. Things that make you go hmmm.

i got with this taurus guy once. he just had a divorce this year just like me. he was straight with me. we both just need cuddling so we did. lol he came over drunk and has had a hard year like me. it was soo cute. i just hug him and said 'you need sex badly dont you?' its was to cute how he said 'yes' 😆

No offense did it work thats a childish approach

it was not childish more that he was straight up with me about things. either of us wanted a relationship we both just got out of a very long term relationship. we both need comforting and cuddling. i found it very sweet that he showed that he was lonely and sad. people are very vulnerable when they do this. so to go into a playful mode helps a lot with the uneasiest of feel vulnerable. So we both enjoy each other company the whole night long. Now how is that childish?

Man i cannot your answer your question after that explanation. Hug him for me wont you?

i will if i ever see him again.

Ever? What happened?

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nothing happened. we were not looking for a relationship. we chat for time to time. we were never together.

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It has been and likely will always be an exercise in futility.

are you familiar with the sign at all? futility is no barrier once they have their mind set.