@Brittfuzz
13 Years
Taurus often finds a strong connection with Cancer and Virgo due to shared values and stability. These signs tend to complement Taurus's dependable and practical nature, fostering harmonious relationships built on trust and mutual understanding.
From my experience Capricorns and Scorpios have intrigued me the most. I only talk to the ones that are OVERLY and obviously interested in me, while I take my time to get to know them and eventually reciprocate feelings...
I'm currently dealing with a Scorpio..(I could EASILY marry this man. We have SO many trines, sextiles & conjunctions barely any HARD squares.)
Meanwhile I'm also getting to know a Pisces.. His Merc is in Pisces + My Merc in Gemini=..awkward silences, & Pauses..He's more "Careful" & "filtered/overly reserved" & he gets easily sidetracked & forgets the topic of conversation..he usually wants to talk for short periods I guess as means to "SAVE" the rest of the convo for a later date.(when in reality, I think he ran out of things to talk about.)
...Meanwhile -I'm- comfortable talking about ANY and everything under the sun..NO FILTER or Chaser..and I can REEL the main topic of discussion back INTO focus..and I can talk for HOURS,(With the right person) and STILL find things to talk about for now & for later.
..it gets really frustrating.
I feel that if our communication doesn't flow, then WE as a pair probably wont either. Communication is BIG for me..shows a certain level of intelligence. If you can stimulate my mind..then, you're halfway there. π
SO with that said and put aside...while you look at the "general/generic" sun signs that "go best" together..take an EVEN CLOSER look at their OTHER aspects (I specifically look at Moon &Venus to see how sensitive, thoughtful & romantic they will be with regards to MY feelings, emotions..etc. I ALSO look at Mercury & Mars= to see how our Communication flows and/or how heated our aggressiveness &/or arguments will be. (Mars also gives a glimpse of how they are sexually/sensually.)....
When you look at these things, you are able to see what you have to "Work on" together as a couple -OR- you can analyze on your own, what to "over look" and/or tolerate about your mate, and see if its something or someONE that you'd feel like giving your time of day to..
My divine complement came in the form of a Virgo sun,Pisces Moon/Asc. In general, it seems I am drawn to Cancers, Virgos and Pisces men the most.
As far as friends/associates (women), I've found my self enjoying the company of the above mentioned, and esp. Sags, and a kind of love/hate with Scorpios, Aries and Geminis. I also enjoy the sense of humor Aquarians have to offer.
Three best signs for me....
1. VIRGO- No lost in translation here. I believe these men are our soul mates. Nothing needs to be said, translated, or understood. There seems to be a natural connection with these signs. They get us! They understand us! They're highly verbal which makes communication a lot easier for the shy, reserved, non-verbal Taurus.
2. CANCER- A cosmic connection. A perfect balance. There is also an unspoken language between these two signs. They're able to provide me with great emotional depth....and in turn, I looove being their 'rock.'
3. Scorpio- A love and hate relationship. But they're very good at getting us out our usual 'ruts.' They're somewhat of a free-spirit. Despite the two strong personalities(stemming from similar traits such as possessiveness, jealousy and both being 'fixed' signs) however, somehow, there is always a deep admiration/respect that we have for them and vice versa.
Awww the Bullsies woolsies have a crushy on the Crabby cab dashers. π
It's nice to see a a few Bulls actually like Cancers.
I like Bulls, get along with them very well. The women are most helpful, warm and thoughtful, especially in work situations.
I have never seriously dated the male but they seem to have a nice positive lusty attitude about life. My doorman is a Bull, he's been flirting with me for a long time. Asked me out on multiple occasions. Very lusty individual. I hug him often to encourage his positive mood. I don't know what I would do if I didn't see him at the front desk anymore.
I asked my niece, with an Aries moon btw, who her favorite sign was and before I could finish the sentence she said, "SCORPIO!!!!" π As she was batting her eyes.
Why do you feel Cancers are one of your best matches? π
Lunarmaidan: Ummm I dunno I can't really explain why, I just get instantly attracted - although I do think virgos are so similar to cancers I guess just less clingy in my experiences :')
I guess for me being a bull I like a challenge of opening up cancers they all seem quiet and hidden away It can get slightly frustrating when they get too clingy my ex took offence if I wanted todo my college work instead of cuddling her...
but it recently fell through Im still not a fully developed bull I became too controlling and possessive and treated her as 'mine' instead of her own person, just gotta learn from it I guess π
I don't know which to say here. I had a deep connection with a Cancer and it was wonderful while it lasted but we didn't see eye to eye about our future. I wanted to get married and have children and he was clear that he couldn't/ wouldn't do that and wanted to spite his family and prove them wrong about wanting marriage. Took a long time to disentangle from him.
Capricorn male was not good for me surprisingly. He was controlling and loved to argue. He took my laid back attitude as a sign I didn't like him and it would be these long arguments where my words got twisted around. He made my blood boil!
Virgo guy spent more time trying to get in my pants every time we were together.
It seems I got pure negative traits of the best Taurus matches. I'm still scratching my head about it.
I am only here because I want too see people actually choose a cancer as their fav for once. D'x
I love taureans, I find that they hold a strong stability, you can sense it with them. And their beautiful.
Why do you feel Cancers are one of your best matches? π
For me, I'm real big on PDA. Bulls are very affectionate. Where a Virgo might be caught off guard.... Cancers don't seem to mind. From my experience, Cancers seem to be the most receptive to my PDAs than any other zodiac sign. They feel that emotional void regarding loyalty. When I'm in the presence of a Cancer, I feel like there is no one else in the room.
Posted by Brittfuzz
Lunarmaidan: Ummm I dunno I can't really explain why, I just get instantly attracted - although I do think virgos are so similar to cancers I guess just less clingy in my experiences :')click to expand
Agreed.
Virgos, I have noticed tend to pout when they want attention, but it's in a much more subtle way than Cancers. They do not really require too much of our time. Only when it's needed. They're like babies in that way. Eager to please in bed...but this doesn't normally translate into PDAs or being emotionally expressive outside of the bedroom. But yet, I find them very soothing and nurturing, and they seem to understand us like no other sign.
Well most female Cancers I've known do like virgos very much, although it seems to me not a decent match if both are immature (or atleast one of them)
On the contrary I'm really attracted by the emotional side of cancers, perhaps their tendency to "depend" on someone else gives you a sort of recognition of their affection for you or whatever...
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I'm curious to know peoples experiences with a variety of signs and which you felt were the best to settle with π
Mine have been cancer and virgo so far from what I can tell π