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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioYup. I know that.. When Scorpia starts to flirt with that bull. Bull cannot help it but fall so hard. I know the tricks - Scorpia needs patience. flirts a lot. touch the bull but No sex yet until he surrender and confess his love.
"As a Taurus, your flirtation style is predominantly physical, magnetic, and sweet. Taurus people have a steadfast and down to earth approach with everything. In regards to flirting, they will come across as passive, until a competitor steps in their domain. These folks are ruled by Venus, the planet of love, pleasure, and sensuality. A Taurus' flirting style will consist of subtle physical contact such as gently touching a prospects arms or hands. Taurus people have a knack for reeling people in with their magnetism..."
http://new.theastrologer.com/articles/taurus-flirting-style/1459

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioWell I'm going with the direct approach and I've just asked out a Taurus fella. 28th April 86 I think. He's 29. We worked together a few years back. I actually liked him the first time I saw him. Dark hair, blue eyes, nice smile, friendly, not over imposing. He looked my age at the time, about 32 but I found out he had just turned 26 so that was a bummer. He's on linked in so I connected with him and we exchanged a good few messages until I took the plunge. He's been travelling about a bit and has returned from California so we were discussing that. He's taken a temp job for the next few months as he wants to save up to go back out there. He's a medic but not a doctor. I assume he's single due to his travels/break etc. this is what my directness looked like:Posted by AgentP911That's how I'd approach it if I were a Scorp. Scorp's seem to really want to get things going. I hear that "is this going anywhere?" issue come up a lot. Bulls are definitely not in a rush, but being straightforward like this is the best way to circumvent the matter of us living in a world where time flows a little slower and you wind up feeling neglected, etc. Rather than sit around waiting, if you want something now, ask for it now. This is what I like about fire sign women; they're like that. Sometimes you have to take the bull by the horns, because we're content to just *be* more so than a lot of other signs.
Do you like me? Yes. Do you want to go out? Yes. Done. Maybe we can get somewhere and enjoy it!
Ps: Taurus forum is becoming boring of late... ”
And when has the Taurus forum not been boring? I think we've been pretty consistent with that..lol
What jeane is saying about a bull charging ahead, and not wavering, right...I agree actually, but that's when a bull really knows what they want. But that's not typically very early on in the relationship. What we're talking about here is courtship and the typically long/prolonged decision phase.click to expand


Posted by busyeyes88Busy - I am a man. I just don't have to chase after women. They usually will pursue me, in the sense of initiating our first convos, then we form a friendship. They always fall first, and over time I develop an interest more gradually. Once I am sure I want to be with them, I make that clear and there aren't any obstacles in my way at that point. I've never had any issues with it, and have been in a long-term relationship for most of my life. I'm not sure why that bothers you. Especially since you're a woman, and you display very masculine qualities. I'd say you display a lot more masculinity than most Taurus men do femininity. Again and again, you seem to be very unaware of your own hypocrisy though.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioBut you are a MAN!! This should not apply to you!! Taurus men really lazy!!!
"In contrast to Aries, Taurus quietly draws toward itself what it needs for its own sustenance and well-being, drawing on the magnetism of the earth element, and the attractive power of Venus, its ruling planet."
http://www.thealchemicaljourney.co.uk/uncategorized/taurus-the-power-of-manifestation-2click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Breath of fresh air. nothing wrong with this at all. Just straightforward and honest.
Anyway, this is my mobile: xxxxxx. I like you. Would you like to go for a drink... Or a protein shake? Heh heh heh.
He used to be quite into his fitness and have protein shakes a lot. I thought I'd take the piss a bit! I'll see what he says but it would actually be quit


Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioHe is very nice. I thought I'd take the plunge. Last time round he was, in my opinion, after midnight booty calls which I couldn't be arsed with. I tried to invite him round for dinner and to see how it goes (so we could at least talk and enjoy company) but I don't think I was clear or direct enough. I thought I was at the time but in hindsight I probably text him a load of waffle.Posted by AgentP911Breath of fresh air. nothing wrong with this at all. Just straightforward and honest.
Anyway, this is my mobile: xxxxxx. I like you. Would you like to go for a drink... Or a protein shake? Heh heh heh.
He used to be quite into his fitness and have protein shakes a lot. I thought I'd take the piss a bit! I'll see what he says but it would actually be quitclick to expand
Posted by AgentP911Exactly. "Traditional" gender roles are obviously way too constricting. You'd have to be a complete idiot to live in the modern world and not realize that - particularly if you are a woman! Furthermore, if you accept the basics of Astrology, you should realize you're going to be dealing with a mix of feminine/masculine energies, that have nothing to do with biology, in different areas of your personality, and spheres of your life. I can be extremely aggressive in some areas of life, and utterly passive in others. As a *great* example, busy's chart is loaded with masculine energy, which shows so clearly in her interactions here. Hence the hypocrisy of her intolerance in this area. I have to say I see this a LOT with masculine women. It is really common that women who give off a lot of masculine energy are almost in competition with other men with regards *to* masculinity. Probably a defense mechanism that has developed out of a lifetime of not fitting into the traditional feminine role themselves. Being told they're too assertive/aggressive/domineering, and then lashing back with "You're not a man!!!".
I think the debate between Man vs Woman and the man being the man etc is losing its individuality. I don't think everyone fits into or conforms to only two set rules of how they should act which is determined only by gender. That's like saying astrology is only based on sun sign. It's not. We are far more individual and unique. I think we need to find what works for each person. What works for me might not work for the next person, male or female.
Posted by AgentP911lol...you love it.
This dude has Gem Venus (nooooooo),
Posted by AgentP911I'm glad you have a sense of humor about having Venus in Scorpio...hahahah
Mind you, if he turns me down I'll swear at him and put a voodoo doll type curse on his arse before crying into my chocolate and shuffling my feet onto my next victim... Always plenty of victims... Ž

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by AgentP911lol...you love it.
This dude has Gem Venus (nooooooo),click to expand

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by AgentP911I'm glad you have a sense of humor about having Venus in Scorpio...hahahah
Mind you, if he turns me down I'll swear at him and put a voodoo doll type curse on his arse before crying into my chocolate and shuffling my feet onto my next victim... Always plenty of victims... Žclick to expand

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioWould you say I'm a masculine woman?Posted by AgentP911Exactly. "Traditional" gender roles are obviously way too constricting. You'd have to be a complete idiot to live in the modern world and not realize that - particularly if you are a woman! Furthermore, if you accept the basics of Astrology, you should realize you're going to be dealing with a mix of feminine/masculine energies, that have nothing to do with biology, in different areas of your personality, and spheres of your life. I can be extremely aggressive in some areas of life, and utterly passive in others. As a *great* example, busy's chart is loaded with masculine energy, which shows so clearly in her interactions here. Hence the hypocrisy of her intolerance in this area. I have to say I see this a LOT with masculine women. It is really common that women who give off a lot of masculine energy are almost in competition with other men with regards *to* masculinity. Probably a defense mechanism that has developed out of a lifetime of not fitting into the traditional feminine role themselves. Being told they're too assertive/aggressive/domineering, and then lashing back with "You're not a man!!!".
I think the debate between Man vs Woman and the man being the man etc is losing its individuality. I don't think everyone fits into or conforms to only two set rules of how they should act which is determined only by gender. That's like saying astrology is only based on sun sign. It's not. We are far more individual and unique. I think we need to find what works for each person. What works for me might not work for the next person, male or female.
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Posted by AgentP911I probably wouldn't/shouldn't use phrases like that. You have a good amount of masculine energy in some areas, yes. You're assertive/aggressive/courageous/driven/dominant/etc.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioWould you say I'm a masculine woman?Posted by AgentP911Exactly. "Traditional" gender roles are obviously way too constricting. You'd have to be a complete idiot to live in the modern world and not realize that - particularly if you are a woman! Furthermore, if you accept the basics of Astrology, you should realize you're going to be dealing with a mix of feminine/masculine energies, that have nothing to do with biology, in different areas of your personality, and spheres of your life. I can be extremely aggressive in some areas of life, and utterly passive in others. As a *great* example, busy's chart is loaded with masculine energy, which shows so clearly in her interactions here. Hence the hypocrisy of her intolerance in this area. I have to say I see this a LOT with masculine women. It is really common that women who give off a lot of masculine energy are almost in competition with other men with regards *to* masculinity. Probably a defense mechanism that has developed out of a lifetime of not fitting into the traditional feminine role themselves. Being told they're too assertive/aggressive/domineering, and then lashing back with "You're not a man!!!".
I think the debate between Man vs Woman and the man being the man etc is losing its individuality. I don't think everyone fits into or conforms to only two set rules of how they should act which is determined only by gender. That's like saying astrology is only based on sun sign. It's not. We are far more individual and unique. I think we need to find what works for each person. What works for me might not work for the next person, male or female.
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Posted by busyeyes88busy - this is you, right?Posted by P_AndsDo you have venus in Aries?!
others. Mezzo-high if you can stand your ground. Unbelievably high if he knows you’re the only one he cantrust—’cause he’s made so many enemies in the past, he needs at least one person he can rely on.
I have venus in pisces But need a man who is masculine!! Lolclick to expand
Posted by busyeyes88LOL@ black & white movies...According to a recent biography, the real life Humphrey Bogart was apparently almost driven to suicide by fears of his own homosexuality, and he became habitually impotent with his second wife, who continually mocked him for his inability to perform:
Can you imagine the woman that bogart sees in a bar pursing him?! He would lose that kind of "masculinity" at least in my eyes anyway!! I am a strong willed woman but pretty tame in a relationship. I just will not start the "ball rolling"!
Posted by busyeyes88Until dxp...lol. People are probably too afraid of you in real life...lolol
I never been told I am aggressive, domineering etc. But I know my nature and I am those things.
Posted by busyeyes88LOL, so she went and did exactly what I said.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioHello!! You.sound like a woman now!!!Posted by AgentP911Exactly. "Traditional" gender roles are obviously way too constricting. You'd have to be a complete idiot to live in the modern world and not realize that - particularly if you are a woman! Furthermore, if you accept the basics of Astrology, you should realize you're going to be dealing with a mix of feminine/masculine energies, that have nothing to do with biology, in different areas of your personality, and spheres of your life. I can be extremely aggressive in some areas of life, and utterly passive in others. As a *great* example, busy's chart is loaded with masculine energy, which shows so clearly in her interactions here. Hence the hypocrisy of her intolerance in this area. I have to say I see this a LOT with masculine women. It is really common that women who give off a lot of masculine energy are almost in competition with other men with regards *to* masculinity. Probably a defense mechanism that has developed out of a lifetime of not fitting into the traditional feminine role themselves. Being told they're too assertive/aggressive/domineering, and then lashing back with "You're not a man!!!".
I think the debate between Man vs Woman and the man being the man etc is losing its individuality. I don't think everyone fits into or conforms to only two set rules of how they should act which is determined only by gender. That's like saying astrology is only based on sun sign. It's not. We are far more individual and unique. I think we need to find what works for each person. What works for me might not work for the next person, male or female.
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioI scored 66 which puts me in the 'more feminine' category... Yes!!!!!
Take this test I found..lol:
http://www.southfloridaastrologer.com/masculine--feminine-signs-are-you-more-masculine-or-feminine.html
Posted by busyeyes88I know...I did it for you already and posted it. That is right on the cusp of "More Masculine". hahaha...
Did test. I'm only 75 lol
Posted by busyeyes88Brando's interviews are the greatest...Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioI love Brando and Cooper and James Stewart!! Errol Flynn mmm
wow...Cooper had a lot of Taurus - Sun, Asc., Merc, and Venus...
I like Brando, who was like the coolest Aries man ever IMO (Aries Sun, Moon, Merc):
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Posted by busyeyes88Nope, I'm even more masculine than you. I was surprised by that...hahahahahPosted by TaurusLovesScorpioWas yours on the cusp of feminine ".... Hahaha..Posted by busyeyes88I know...I did it for you already and posted it. That is right on the cusp of "More Masculine". hahaha...
Did test. I'm only 75 lolclick to expand
Posted by busyeyes88LOL...you are going to have to take the lead a bit.
My taurus got 65!
Posted by P_Andshahahaha...very true.
he trolls like an aries lol
Posted by jeaneBut the test is like overall planetary placements - not necessarily placements that would affect your relationship dynamic most drastically. Like how busy said she's more feminine/passive *in* the relationship with her super fem Venus in Pisces, even though she's more masculine overall...
according to that quiz, i am more masculine. my fella is more feminine. huh. interesting. it certainly doesn't feel like that in our relationship...although i think it is right that i can be fairly insensitive most of the time....
Posted by busyeyes88lol....our manly Moons and Mercs can be bros.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioI'm female?! So can't be Bro!! Perhaps a hoe?!! Only kidding lol lol lol lol lol lol lol
we are in the same "more masculine" bracket though; we can be bros.click to expand

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioI already took it. I posted it earlier. Dumb arse! Open your damn eyes.
AgentP, take that test already. I'm curious to see where you rank. If you beat my score, you can be King of the Taurus board....

Posted by AgentP911Here.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioI scored 66 which puts me in the 'more feminine' category... Yes!!!!!
Take this test I found..lol:
http://www.southfloridaastrologer.com/masculine--feminine-signs-are-you-more-masculine-or-feminine.html
74 – 53: More Feminine
63 – 45 without rising sign
You take time to feel and savor things as you move through life. It’s more important to experience the moment than it is to push forward. You use caution in making decisions because you are aware of the dangers in life. You understand your feelings and the affect you have on other people, making you careful in communicating with people. Feelings are more important than facts.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88Meh... Sloppy seconds...Posted by AgentP911Not quite!! Royalty is already here!!! But you could be my "lady in waiting "! 😄Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioI already took it. I posted it earlier. Dumb arse! Open your damn eyes.
AgentP, take that test already. I'm curious to see where you rank. If you beat my score, you can be King of the Taurus board....
I did not beat your score. I am 'more feminine' so I shall be The Queen of the Taurus Board!click to expand

Posted by AgentP911oof....I missed that...I thought that was ands' post. Anyway, that sucks. I was hoping we could also be bros.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioI already took it. I posted it earlier. Dumb arse! Open your damn eyes.
AgentP, take that test already. I'm curious to see where you rank. If you beat my score, you can be King of the Taurus board....
I did not beat your score. I am 'more feminine' so I shall be The Queen of the Taurus Board!click to expand


Posted by M143Posted by Camilla_DillaNext time. Don't tell him to call you. If he want to call. He will do. Don't demand.
Whoa this thread blew up! lol I'm just coming back to give a quick update. So after the busy Labor Day weekend ended the Taurus guy who.... Ignored me? Didn't respond to me? Kinda sorta got back to normal. Texting and responding as before. I just myself feel a little weird now. I'm playing it cool and just trying to feel how I did before last week but I'm still cautious.
Today, I sent him a text and got no response. I asked him to call me and usually like clockwork he would but not today.
I like him a lot and I keep replaying that weekend in June over in my mind and anticipating seeing him again. But if things don't get back on track with the communication then IDK about this. Just taking this day by day at this point.
I Always define taurus men are just like any other men of the zodiac sign. when a man is interested. He will tell you. No confusion. I just don't get it why women kept figuring out their man's behavior. Or maybe expectation are just too high to meet.
I had lots of taurus exes. I didn't initiate contacts. They are the one who called me and kept on saying why I did not send any msg. I always said.. I was busy.
No wonder they are my ex. lol.click to expand

Posted by P_Andscute Ands.
lol m143 can be ur lady in waiting busy

Posted by jeaneJeane - Thank you for your advice.. it really goes help me have a good understanding from experiences. Everyone is different of course, but experinces can give you a good insight. I see the random interest he shows but just doesnt act on it. Best thing to do at this point is carry on with my usual.. enjoy life as it is.. keep busyPosted by Angeleyes17yeah. see that is the thing i don't see with a taurus who is interested. in my experience, if they are interested they won't stop until they get you. once their mind is made up there is no changing it (which we all know, is both a blessing and a curse).Posted by busyeyes88thats the thing.. I'm being told or read here that Taurus's dont respond straight away or take there time or they are busy etc.. so how does that work? I leave them to it? cut them off because they dont respond back? This guy does respond but takes his time and randomly contacts me here and there,, which is the confusing part,
Respond! But if a person cannot be bothered to be in contact with you then what is the point?
my advice would be to chase but not too much where you are , like agent p said, flogging a dead horse. these guys are shy, they are cautious and like everyone everywhere don't like to be rejected. if they know they have a good chance they you are going to say yes, then they will go for it but you have to have the right combination of them being interested and them knowing you are interested too.
once that happens, you can sit back and be pursued. they know they'll catch you eventually. so, show your interest (sometimes showing your interest overtly is needed with this lot) and then see how he responds. if he doesn't then you have your answer. if he does, winner winner chicken dinner.
don't want to be vulnerable? for me, i got so fed up with wondering about his feelings as well as thinking he was too good and i didn't want to let him get away that i was willing to take the chance on being rejected. i knew what i wanted. it was a case of money where your mouth is.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88I understand what you mean. The interest was more previously and he used to message me on a regular pattern but somewhere along the line it just faded. Either he’s found someone else, was passing the time, lost interest. I'll try the mirror approach, its not like i have anything to lose right? hehe.. thank you for your advise. I appreciate it very much xPosted by Angeleyes17The thing is, you have to recognise if the person is in "pursuit" or "just biding time"!!! If his texts are random it shows little interest if he is in pursuit it would be often and on a regular basis!!! Taurus is reactionary not actionary... So if you can't work the scenario out for yourself I suggest you mirror him! If his texts are random then you do the same etc. But just continue to live your life and meet others. Do not initiate.. Let him. It's not just based on an astrological sign ALL men do this and when they do this... I CUT THEM CLEAN OFF!! I.will not give attention to someone who is not giving me any attention or not responding to me. He is not the only dick (excuse my French) on the planet!!!!!Posted by busyeyes88thats the thing.. I'm being told or read here that Taurus's dont respond straight away or take there time or they are busy etc.. so how does that work? I leave them to it? cut them off because they dont respond back? This guy does respond but takes his time and randomly contacts me here and there,, which is the confusing part,
Respond! But if a person cannot be bothered to be in contact with you then what is the point?click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88That’s very true. Its just shocking how hard its really become to have someone invest in you with there time and effort. Its become so rare.
Just remember that only invest in someone who has invested in you!!! Do not give more!!! A
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