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"As a Taurus, your flirtation style is predominantly physical, magnetic, and sweet. Taurus people have a steadfast and down to earth approach with everything. In regards to flirting, they will come across as passive, until a competitor steps in their domain. These folks are ruled by Venus, the planet of love, pleasure, and sensuality. A Taurus' flirting style will consist of subtle physical contact such as gently touching a prospects arms or hands. Taurus people have a knack for reeling people in with their magnetism..."


http://new.theastrologer.com/articles/taurus-flirting-style/1459
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"As a Taurus, your flirtation style is predominantly physical, magnetic, and sweet. Taurus people have a steadfast and down to earth approach with everything. In regards to flirting, they will come across as passive, until a competitor steps in their domain. These folks are ruled by Venus, the planet of love, pleasure, and sensuality. A Taurus' flirting style will consist of subtle physical contact such as gently touching a prospects arms or hands. Taurus people have a knack for reeling people in with their magnetism..."


http://new.theastrologer.com/articles/taurus-flirting-style/1459
Yup. I know that.. When Scorpia starts to flirt with that bull. Bull cannot help it but fall so hard. I know the tricks - Scorpia needs patience. flirts a lot. touch the bull but No sex yet until he surrender and confess his love.
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Do you like me? Yes. Do you want to go out? Yes. Done. Maybe we can get somewhere and enjoy it!

Ps: Taurus forum is becoming boring of late... ”
That's how I'd approach it if I were a Scorp. Scorp's seem to really want to get things going. I hear that "is this going anywhere?" issue come up a lot. Bulls are definitely not in a rush, but being straightforward like this is the best way to circumvent the matter of us living in a world where time flows a little slower and you wind up feeling neglected, etc. Rather than sit around waiting, if you want something now, ask for it now. This is what I like about fire sign women; they're like that. Sometimes you have to take the bull by the horns, because we're content to just *be* more so than a lot of other signs.

And when has the Taurus forum not been boring? I think we've been pretty consistent with that..lol

What jeane is saying about a bull charging ahead, and not wavering, right...I agree actually, but that's when a bull really knows what they want. But that's not typically very early on in the relationship. What we're talking about here is courtship and the typically long/prolonged decision phase.
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Well I'm going with the direct approach and I've just asked out a Taurus fella. 28th April 86 I think. He's 29. We worked together a few years back. I actually liked him the first time I saw him. Dark hair, blue eyes, nice smile, friendly, not over imposing. He looked my age at the time, about 32 but I found out he had just turned 26 so that was a bummer. He's on linked in so I connected with him and we exchanged a good few messages until I took the plunge. He's been travelling about a bit and has returned from California so we were discussing that. He's taken a temp job for the next few months as he wants to save up to go back out there. He's a medic but not a doctor. I assume he's single due to his travels/break etc. this is what my directness looked like:

Anyway, this is my mobile: xxxxxx. I like you. Would you like to go for a drink... Or a protein shake? Heh heh heh.

He used to be quite into his fitness and have protein shakes a lot. I thought I'd take the piss a bit! I'll see what he says but it would actually be quit
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^^^ ta!

I understand what you're saying. I like the idea of old school. Whether it be dating or in relationships. I have trouble sticking with it and when I try and be patient and wait and all that stuff I end up working myself up into a wreck when in reality the dude isn't even worth all that energy. Why put myself through all that when I can just cut to the chase and ask the dude if he wants to meet up. He either does or doesn't but I don't want to agonise about it which I have often done and that distracts me in an unhealthy way.

I don't think I know how to successfully be reactive. I've read the women are from Venus concept and completely agree with it. I've had guys ask me out and guys sit there being passive little shits with me staring at them thinking 'well? Are you going to find your balls?'

I think life is too short but I also don't want to push or steam roll a guy into something he doesn't want but then if I have to constantly lead then he's not the type I want and we are not going to get on.

I really don't know what approach is best for me but what I do know is I can function better when emotions are kept out of it and I can treat dating as more of a fun and enjoyable experience rather than fucking about with the 'does he like me, will he text me' stuff. If we continue dating and getting to know each other and I feel comfortable being able to text or call without worrying about how it looks or the consequences then I feel we might have a better chance.

Regarding this Taurus, I'll keep you posted!! He's very cute... I did have an opportunity two years ago when he crashed at my house after work as he was travelling onto another shift early that morning but I turned him down. I think he took that as a rejection and since then we didn't talk but we never had a close friendship or anything, we just went separate ways which is normal in this particular line of work. I actually really enjoyed just sitting on the sofa talking with him and enjoying his company but when he was stood in front of me with his shirt half undone I chickened out. We never touched or kissed or slept in the same bed or room. He took my bed and I took the spare room. He text me from the room but I told him to go to sleep!

I just didn't want to be used ¢”

Anyway, let's see if he fancies a drink and a fuck now! ‰
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"In contrast to Aries, Taurus quietly draws toward itself what it needs for its own sustenance and well-being, drawing on the magnetism of the earth element, and the attractive power of Venus, its ruling planet."


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But you are a MAN!! This should not apply to you!! Taurus men really lazy!!!
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Busy - I am a man. I just don't have to chase after women. They usually will pursue me, in the sense of initiating our first convos, then we form a friendship. They always fall first, and over time I develop an interest more gradually. Once I am sure I want to be with them, I make that clear and there aren't any obstacles in my way at that point. I've never had any issues with it, and have been in a long-term relationship for most of my life. I'm not sure why that bothers you. Especially since you're a woman, and you display very masculine qualities. I'd say you display a lot more masculinity than most Taurus men do femininity. Again and again, you seem to be very unaware of your own hypocrisy though.
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Anyway, this is my mobile: xxxxxx. I like you. Would you like to go for a drink... Or a protein shake? Heh heh heh.

He used to be quite into his fitness and have protein shakes a lot. I thought I'd take the piss a bit! I'll see what he says but it would actually be quit
Breath of fresh air. nothing wrong with this at all. Just straightforward and honest.
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I think the debate between Man vs Woman and the man being the man etc is losing its individuality. I don't think everyone fits into or conforms to only two set rules of how they should act which is determined only by gender. That's like saying astrology is only based on sun sign. It's not. We are far more individual and unique. I think we need to find what works for each person. What works for me might not work for the next person, male or female.
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Anyway, this is my mobile: xxxxxx. I like you. Would you like to go for a drink... Or a protein shake? Heh heh heh.

He used to be quite into his fitness and have protein shakes a lot. I thought I'd take the piss a bit! I'll see what he says but it would actually be quit
Breath of fresh air. nothing wrong with this at all. Just straightforward and honest.
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He is very nice. I thought I'd take the plunge. Last time round he was, in my opinion, after midnight booty calls which I couldn't be arsed with. I tried to invite him round for dinner and to see how it goes (so we could at least talk and enjoy company) but I don't think I was clear or direct enough. I thought I was at the time but in hindsight I probably text him a load of waffle.

This dude has Gem Venus (nooooooo), Aries Merc, moon and Mars in cap with Pluto in Scorp. Don't know rising.

Maybe that's why I got on with him because he likes to talk about all sorts of shit!

He'd had a long term from maybe 18 to 23 or something and it was pretty serious (as serious as you get at that age) and he never cheated. I think he was quite hurt when they split up. Then he started dating a girl who I could see wasn't into him but mainly because of where she was in life. He thought he was quite into her and he was pulling out a few stops which was actually really sweet. He couldn't understand why she was being quite fickle and I felt she was leading him on but I asked him what exactly is it you like about her? He struggled to answer. I wanted to scream out 'but I like you' but at the time it just wasn't a great idea or match and the age thing worried me and he wasn't sure what he was going to do work wise so I just left it.

This time round I'm back with a vengeance!!

Mind you, if he turns me down I'll swear at him and put a voodoo doll type curse on his arse before crying into my chocolate and shuffling my feet onto my next victim... Always plenty of victims... Ž
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I think the debate between Man vs Woman and the man being the man etc is losing its individuality. I don't think everyone fits into or conforms to only two set rules of how they should act which is determined only by gender. That's like saying astrology is only based on sun sign. It's not. We are far more individual and unique. I think we need to find what works for each person. What works for me might not work for the next person, male or female.
Exactly. "Traditional" gender roles are obviously way too constricting. You'd have to be a complete idiot to live in the modern world and not realize that - particularly if you are a woman! Furthermore, if you accept the basics of Astrology, you should realize you're going to be dealing with a mix of feminine/masculine energies, that have nothing to do with biology, in different areas of your personality, and spheres of your life. I can be extremely aggressive in some areas of life, and utterly passive in others. As a *great* example, busy's chart is loaded with masculine energy, which shows so clearly in her interactions here. Hence the hypocrisy of her intolerance in this area. I have to say I see this a LOT with masculine women. It is really common that women who give off a lot of masculine energy are almost in competition with other men with regards *to* masculinity. Probably a defense mechanism that has developed out of a lifetime of not fitting into the traditional feminine role themselves. Being told they're too assertive/aggressive/domineering, and then lashing back with "You're not a man!!!".

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Mind you, if he turns me down I'll swear at him and put a voodoo doll type curse on his arse before crying into my chocolate and shuffling my feet onto my next victim... Always plenty of victims... Ž
I'm glad you have a sense of humor about having Venus in Scorpio...hahahah
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That must be my Sag bits coming out to play!!
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I think the debate between Man vs Woman and the man being the man etc is losing its individuality. I don't think everyone fits into or conforms to only two set rules of how they should act which is determined only by gender. That's like saying astrology is only based on sun sign. It's not. We are far more individual and unique. I think we need to find what works for each person. What works for me might not work for the next person, male or female.
Exactly. "Traditional" gender roles are obviously way too constricting. You'd have to be a complete idiot to live in the modern world and not realize that - particularly if you are a woman! Furthermore, if you accept the basics of Astrology, you should realize you're going to be dealing with a mix of feminine/masculine energies, that have nothing to do with biology, in different areas of your personality, and spheres of your life. I can be extremely aggressive in some areas of life, and utterly passive in others. As a *great* example, busy's chart is loaded with masculine energy, which shows so clearly in her interactions here. Hence the hypocrisy of her intolerance in this area. I have to say I see this a LOT with masculine women. It is really common that women who give off a lot of masculine energy are almost in competition with other men with regards *to* masculinity. Probably a defense mechanism that has developed out of a lifetime of not fitting into the traditional feminine role themselves. Being told they're too assertive/aggressive/domineering, and then lashing back with "You're not a man!!!".

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Would you say I'm a masculine woman?
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I think the debate between Man vs Woman and the man being the man etc is losing its individuality. I don't think everyone fits into or conforms to only two set rules of how they should act which is determined only by gender. That's like saying astrology is only based on sun sign. It's not. We are far more individual and unique. I think we need to find what works for each person. What works for me might not work for the next person, male or female.
Exactly. "Traditional" gender roles are obviously way too constricting. You'd have to be a complete idiot to live in the modern world and not realize that - particularly if you are a woman! Furthermore, if you accept the basics of Astrology, you should realize you're going to be dealing with a mix of feminine/masculine energies, that have nothing to do with biology, in different areas of your personality, and spheres of your life. I can be extremely aggressive in some areas of life, and utterly passive in others. As a *great* example, busy's chart is loaded with masculine energy, which shows so clearly in her interactions here. Hence the hypocrisy of her intolerance in this area. I have to say I see this a LOT with masculine women. It is really common that women who give off a lot of masculine energy are almost in competition with other men with regards *to* masculinity. Probably a defense mechanism that has developed out of a lifetime of not fitting into the traditional feminine role themselves. Being told they're too assertive/aggressive/domineering, and then lashing back with "You're not a man!!!".
Would you say I'm a masculine woman?
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I probably wouldn't/shouldn't use phrases like that. You have a good amount of masculine energy in some areas, yes. You're assertive/aggressive/courageous/driven/dominant/etc.
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Off that test, I come up as:

96 – 75: More Masculine...

Keeping things moving is more important than being careful. You try to consider how you affect people. However, you don’t always understand the depth of emotions some people have and how you affect people because you prefer not to get deeply involved with feelings. At times you are unaware of how the things you say affect people because your communication is more factual than based on feelings.
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others. Mezzo-high if you can stand your ground. Unbelievably high if he knows you’re the only one he cantrust—’cause he’s made so many enemies in the past, he needs at least one person he can rely on.
Do you have venus in Aries?!

I have venus in pisces But need a man who is masculine!! Lol
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busy - this is you, right?

Sun Taurus, Moon Leo, Ascendant Leo, Merc Aries, Venus Pisces....What are the rest of your placements?
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Can you imagine the woman that bogart sees in a bar pursing him?! He would lose that kind of "masculinity" at least in my eyes anyway!! I am a strong willed woman but pretty tame in a relationship. I just will not start the "ball rolling"!
LOL@ black & white movies...According to a recent biography, the real life Humphrey Bogart was apparently almost driven to suicide by fears of his own homosexuality, and he became habitually impotent with his second wife, who continually mocked him for his inability to perform:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1315409/Humphrey-Bogarts-fears-gay-drove-suicide.html

o_O

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I think the debate between Man vs Woman and the man being the man etc is losing its individuality. I don't think everyone fits into or conforms to only two set rules of how they should act which is determined only by gender. That's like saying astrology is only based on sun sign. It's not. We are far more individual and unique. I think we need to find what works for each person. What works for me might not work for the next person, male or female.
Exactly. "Traditional" gender roles are obviously way too constricting. You'd have to be a complete idiot to live in the modern world and not realize that - particularly if you are a woman! Furthermore, if you accept the basics of Astrology, you should realize you're going to be dealing with a mix of feminine/masculine energies, that have nothing to do with biology, in different areas of your personality, and spheres of your life. I can be extremely aggressive in some areas of life, and utterly passive in others. As a *great* example, busy's chart is loaded with masculine energy, which shows so clearly in her interactions here. Hence the hypocrisy of her intolerance in this area. I have to say I see this a LOT with masculine women. It is really common that women who give off a lot of masculine energy are almost in competition with other men with regards *to* masculinity. Probably a defense mechanism that has developed out of a lifetime of not fitting into the traditional feminine role themselves. Being told they're too assertive/aggressive/domineering, and then lashing back with "You're not a man!!!".
Hello!! You.sound like a woman now!!!

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LOL, so she went and did exactly what I said.
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Take this test I found..lol:

http://www.southfloridaastrologer.com/masculine--feminine-signs-are-you-more-masculine-or-feminine.html
I scored 66 which puts me in the 'more feminine' category... Yes!!!!!

74 – 53: More Feminine
63 – 45 without rising sign
You take time to feel and savor things as you move through life. It’s more important to experience the moment than it is to push forward. You use caution in making decisions because you are aware of the dangers in life. You understand your feelings and the affect you have on other people, making you careful in communicating with people. Feelings are more important than facts.
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Busy - according to that test I posted a link to (which you should actually read on Astrological Masculine/Feminine bc you seem to get these confused with typical gender roles), you score a 75, which is:

More Masculine

"Keeping things moving is more important than being careful. You try to consider how you affect people. However, you don’t always understand the depth of emotions some people have and how you affect people because you prefer not to get deeply involved with feelings. At times you are unaware of how the things you say affect people because your communication is more factual than based on feelings."

In the same bracket as me, but I've got quite a few more man points...lol.

Your Moon/Asc/Merc are super masculine. Merc in Aries is the most masculine Merc, and Leo Moon and Asc. are ranked as 2nd most masculine for those placements. But your Venus is the most feminine there is. I can see how that could be challenging....


Link: http://www.southfloridaastrologer.com/masculine--feminine-signs-are-you-more-masculine-or-feminine.html
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according to that quiz, i am more masculine. my fella is more feminine. huh. interesting. it certainly doesn't feel like that in our relationship...although i think it is right that i can be fairly insensitive most of the time....
But the test is like overall planetary placements - not necessarily placements that would affect your relationship dynamic most drastically. Like how busy said she's more feminine/passive *in* the relationship with her super fem Venus in Pisces, even though she's more masculine overall...
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Take this test I found..lol:

http://www.southfloridaastrologer.com/masculine--feminine-signs-are-you-more-masculine-or-feminine.html
I scored 66 which puts me in the 'more feminine' category... Yes!!!!!

74 – 53: More Feminine
63 – 45 without rising sign
You take time to feel and savor things as you move through life. It’s more important to experience the moment than it is to push forward. You use caution in making decisions because you are aware of the dangers in life. You understand your feelings and the affect you have on other people, making you careful in communicating with people. Feelings are more important than facts.
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Here.
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AgentP, take that test already. I'm curious to see where you rank. If you beat my score, you can be King of the Taurus board....
I already took it. I posted it earlier. Dumb arse! Open your damn eyes.

I did not beat your score. I am 'more feminine' so I shall be The Queen of the Taurus Board!
Not quite!! Royalty is already here!!! But you could be my "lady in waiting "! 😄
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Meh... Sloppy seconds...
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AgentP, take that test already. I'm curious to see where you rank. If you beat my score, you can be King of the Taurus board....
I already took it. I posted it earlier. Dumb arse! Open your damn eyes.

I did not beat your score. I am 'more feminine' so I shall be The Queen of the Taurus Board!
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oof....I missed that...I thought that was ands' post. Anyway, that sucks. I was hoping we could also be bros.
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Whoa this thread blew up! lol I'm just coming back to give a quick update. So after the busy Labor Day weekend ended the Taurus guy who.... Ignored me? Didn't respond to me? Kinda sorta got back to normal. Texting and responding as before. I just myself feel a little weird now. I'm playing it cool and just trying to feel how I did before last week but I'm still cautious.

Today, I sent him a text and got no response. I asked him to call me and usually like clockwork he would but not today.

I like him a lot and I keep replaying that weekend in June over in my mind and anticipating seeing him again. But if things don't get back on track with the communication then IDK about this. Just taking this day by day at this point.
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Whoa this thread blew up! lol I'm just coming back to give a quick update. So after the busy Labor Day weekend ended the Taurus guy who.... Ignored me? Didn't respond to me? Kinda sorta got back to normal. Texting and responding as before. I just myself feel a little weird now. I'm playing it cool and just trying to feel how I did before last week but I'm still cautious.

Today, I sent him a text and got no response. I asked him to call me and usually like clockwork he would but not today.

I like him a lot and I keep replaying that weekend in June over in my mind and anticipating seeing him again. But if things don't get back on track with the communication then IDK about this. Just taking this day by day at this point.
Next time. Don't tell him to call you. If he want to call. He will do. Don't demand.

I Always define taurus men are just like any other men of the zodiac sign. when a man is interested. He will tell you. No confusion. I just don't get it why women kept figuring out their man's behavior. Or maybe expectation are just too high to meet.

I had lots of taurus exes. I didn't initiate contacts. They are the one who called me and kept on saying why I did not send any msg. I always said.. I was busy.

No wonder they are my ex. lol.
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Respond! But if a person cannot be bothered to be in contact with you then what is the point?
thats the thing.. I'm being told or read here that Taurus's dont respond straight away or take there time or they are busy etc.. so how does that work? I leave them to it? cut them off because they dont respond back? This guy does respond but takes his time and randomly contacts me here and there,, which is the confusing part,
yeah. see that is the thing i don't see with a taurus who is interested. in my experience, if they are interested they won't stop until they get you. once their mind is made up there is no changing it (which we all know, is both a blessing and a curse).

my advice would be to chase but not too much where you are , like agent p said, flogging a dead horse. these guys are shy, they are cautious and like everyone everywhere don't like to be rejected. if they know they have a good chance they you are going to say yes, then they will go for it but you have to have the right combination of them being interested and them knowing you are interested too.

once that happens, you can sit back and be pursued. they know they'll catch you eventually. so, show your interest (sometimes showing your interest overtly is needed with this lot) and then see how he responds. if he doesn't then you have your answer. if he does, winner winner chicken dinner.

don't want to be vulnerable? for me, i got so fed up with wondering about his feelings as well as thinking he was too good and i didn't want to let him get away that i was willing to take the chance on being rejected. i knew what i wanted. it was a case of money where your mouth is.
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Jeane - Thank you for your advice.. it really goes help me have a good understanding from experiences. Everyone is different of course, but experinces can give you a good insight. I see the random interest he shows but just doesnt act on it. Best thing to do at this point is carry on with my usual.. enjoy life as it is.. keep busy
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Respond! But if a person cannot be bothered to be in contact with you then what is the point?
thats the thing.. I'm being told or read here that Taurus's dont respond straight away or take there time or they are busy etc.. so how does that work? I leave them to it? cut them off because they dont respond back? This guy does respond but takes his time and randomly contacts me here and there,, which is the confusing part,
The thing is, you have to recognise if the person is in "pursuit" or "just biding time"!!! If his texts are random it shows little interest if he is in pursuit it would be often and on a regular basis!!! Taurus is reactionary not actionary... So if you can't work the scenario out for yourself I suggest you mirror him! If his texts are random then you do the same etc. But just continue to live your life and meet others. Do not initiate.. Let him. It's not just based on an astrological sign ALL men do this and when they do this... I CUT THEM CLEAN OFF!! I.will not give attention to someone who is not giving me any attention or not responding to me. He is not the only dick (excuse my French) on the planet!!!!!
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I understand what you mean. The interest was more previously and he used to message me on a regular pattern but somewhere along the line it just faded. Either he’s found someone else, was passing the time, lost interest. I'll try the mirror approach, its not like i have anything to lose right? hehe.. thank you for your advise. I appreciate it very much x