Hello, this monique1 I am a taurus and i am in love with a younger virgo guy, iam 40 (29) and he is 28(45) we have been together for 7 1/2 months . when i met him i was not looking for any one and it was so odd that my car got a flat tire being as though everything was fine when i left my house. i gave him my number and he called and we hit it off . during our relationship of dating only i allowed him to remain in my life after he finshed his plans with another woman that doesnt live in the same state as us , i allowed us to pursue a relationship . i really love him and i think he loves me, i had some issues in the relationship , i guess dealig with my insecurities for one that im older and then he still text and talked to his old friends which seem to be really ovelrly done. i also had an issue that he was reluctant to introduce me to his family ,in which i did get a chance to meet his close cousin by his admission and was on the verge of meeting his sister. ( he is without parents just like me) anyways when the weekend came for me to meet his sister , i had an issue with it because he didnt tell me all the details of her visist in which she was bringing a friend and when i found it out i asked why didnt he tell me and it became a big dispute . well when i called him he was entertainng his sister and family and my call was a little hostile , the sister was in the background telling me to calm down." i was affended and embarressed and i overreacted by taking his clothes to him and putting them on his doorstep and meeting him somewhere to get my keys form him. now mind you that during our relationship we did things together like a family , he stayed with me everyday but one day out of the week, we made home videos ,i mean we really enjoyed each other and my kids love him (teenagers) but because of my insecurities and his secretive atitude i would often suggest to him that if he needed us to be an open relationship then lets do it and i was saying that out of fear of getting hurt really because i realized i was falling in love with him. we have talked since our seperation and he asked me to give him some space he just wanted to asses things ... is he ever coming back i mean he says that he is and i want to believe that , im making my self not call or text him but i realize that i really love him . am i expecting to much from this young man is it possible for a virgo man to really be being honest with me or am i needing to just move on, how do i do that?
