why is it always taurus?

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I am a Sag. I got interested in astrology after last breakup, and in hindsight, I am realizing that to my surprise ALL signifficant relationships I had were with Taurus girls.

I am:

Sun, Mercury, Saturn in Sag

Asc in Virgo

Moon in Pisces

Venus in Capricorn

Mars, Neptune, N.Node, in Scorpio

It has been over 2 years since a 8 year relationship break-up with a Taurus girl. 😢

I can't get over it. Time has stopped, the saddnes and sense of loss is unbearable.

Why are Taurus girs so fatal to me?



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It is the natural energy vibration that you are attracted to. Even the other relationships may have had some Taurus influences. Just maybe not as much as you needed to really relate with... However yes normally everyone has a basic energy they seem to go for more then others. For me it has always been Aquarius... They are the hardest for me to figure out and maybe that is why... I seem to figure everyone out to quickly.

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I am dating a Sag and although I tried to avoid him with everything in me years ago I'm really attracted to his positivity and sense of humor. It definitely doesn't hurt that he is tall, dark and Handsome with a winning smile and kind eyes.

The only time I'm really mean is when I genuinely don't like someone and they keep pushing me like Im not allowed to feel how I feel. Maybe something about you scares them or is off putting. I've read that yall like to flirt and keep female friends.....
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Posted by cKfUdTcN
I am a Sag. I got interested in astrology after last breakup, and in hindsight, I am realizing that to my surprise ALL signifficant relationships I had were with Taurus girls.

I am:

Sun, Mercury, Saturn in Sag

Asc in Virgo

Moon in Pisces

Venus in Capricorn

Mars, Neptune, N.Node, in Scorpio

It has been over 2 years since a 8 year relationship break-up with a Taurus girl. 😢

I can't get over it. Time has stopped, the saddnes and sense of loss is unbearable.

Why are Taurus girs so fatal to me?




What about her chart and the synastry between you two? Taurus and Sag usually don't last as long as you two did so you must've had something going for you that hasn't been discussed so far.
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I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling. To be honest, this is the first time I've heard of a f-Taurus being so toxic/fatal/unforgettable (of the sort). I'd like to hear more.
Thankyou.

I think she was the most kind person I met. I found the sense of Home with her, for the first time in my life.

I am still looking for the answer.

I was not cheating, abusive, gambed our money, that kind of thing.

I am not totally excluding my blame. I think I failed to find a way to communicate through inertia and stubborness on her part. And she knows I love and care for her.

Could my Virgo rising been playing a part?

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TBH, it's a bad match. The pain fades, eventually. Stay strong, and next time you start a relationship; make sure they're either Leo, Aries, Sag or maybe Gemini. I'm a Taurus and I've found that sticking to signs that we have an affinity towards works best for me.

How is it a bad match?

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Well we tend to be the wrong sort of opposites. Unlike a TaurusXScorpio. Potential for a good friendship, yes. Relationship... difficult.
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That's alot of mutable energy you will have joined problem finding another Taurus. It's rare you find one and let along keep one.
How rare? My best male friend from grade 5 is one, I had 6 relations lasting over a year, this last one 8, All Tauruses.

Takes two to tango, right? :-)
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Im just saying Taurus and Sag meet as in my experience. I probably don't even know it because it pops off immediately. Then I wonder why it pops off so suddenly. 8 out of 10 it's sag once I get to know you alittle better. Sag males do meet Taurus.

How did you work out your difference? What's your mercury, moon, and mercury?
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Sorry, took me some time to dig out the charts.

To be honest, I did not even know we were not supposed to be compatible,the mystery of attraction still remains.



Me:

Rising Sign is in 05 Degrees Virgo

Sun is in 08 Degrees Sagittarius.

Moon is in 26 Degrees Pisces.

Mercury is in 27 Degrees Sagittarius.

Venus is in 24 Degrees Capricorn.

Mars is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.

Jupiter is in 23 Degrees Libra.

Saturn is in 15 Degrees Sagittarius.

Uranus is in 11 Degrees Leo.

Neptune is in 03 Degrees Scorpio.

Pluto is in 02 Degrees Virgo.

N. Node is in 10 Degrees Scorpio.

Her:

Rising Sign is in 17 Degrees Leo.

Sun is in 04 Degrees Taurus.

Moon is in 03 Degrees Leo.

Mercury is in 20 Degrees Taurus.

Venus is in 11 Degrees Aries.

Mars is in 16 Degrees Sagittarius.

Jupiter is in 27 Degrees Virgo.

Saturn is in 29 Degrees Aries.

Uranus is in 00 Degrees Libra.

Neptune is in 27 Degrees Scorpio.

Pluto is in 22 Degrees Virgo.

N. Node is in 29 Degrees Pisces.

What is going on here? I am still inexperienced with this stuff.

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Yes attraction will always be there.

One how does she view love and money apart from you.

You both are cardinal signs in Venus so who is the saver, spender, lover, giver, taker, who needs more spontaneous activities in the bedroom and not get bored after one night?

Your mercury would help or hurt her. She is fixed while your mutable so when talking make sure you listen then give your option. She will ask you alot of questions about everything silly or smart. You can't judge her when she says let's stay in and you want to go out. Find something to do yourself or together. Make time for a sit down a least once a week and make sure she listens to you as well and you don't get defensive. Make sure you are straight and don't lie to her.

Her moon might get to you and you may feel abit sensitive as well when she wants one on one time and shows you the world by perhaps being possessive, clinging, attached and you might feel suffocated and then you still need to talk when stuff happens right away.
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Ah, I never found her boring.

Controlling, yes! (I gave up)

I attributed that to her sense of insecurity. Slow, sensitive, quiet thinker, quick to get offended.

I think emotionally, there was always the component of bravado, hiding the hurt.

So as a f-Taurian, tell me how can I invite a dialogue without coming across as being confrontational?


You are a third sag-leo decan.. so you are soooooo oops hot tempered, and probably lash out not intentionally perhaps that would get her mercury not to come out and talk to you at all.

So you roll with the way you talk. She is controlling. Hot tempered, would not confront though when she feels she can't come to you about anything. It is stale mate. You just have to compromise together and when she says something and it isnt right show her in a way she can grasp and not feel belittle anyone.
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Ah, I never found her boring.

Controlling, yes! (I gave up)

I attributed that to her sense of insecurity. Slow, sensitive, quiet thinker, quick to get offended.

I think emotionally, there was always the component of bravado, hiding the hurt.

So as a f-Taurian, tell me how can I invite a dialogue without coming across as being confrontational?


You are a third sag-leo decan.. so you are soooooo oops hot tempered, and probably lash out not intentionally perhaps that would get her mercury not to come out and talk to you at all.

So you roll with the way you talk. She is controlling. Hot tempered, would not confront though when she feels she can't come to you about anything. It is stale mate. You just have to compromise together and when she says something and it isnt right show her in a way she can grasp and not feel belittle anyone.
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You are right.

And stale mate is what happened.

I believe I came across as impatient, I just move too fast.

Taurus is overthinking, IMO. And really hates to be proven wrong.

But I learned to live with that.

The damage is done tho. When I try to initiate a dialogue I get a feeling she thinks I want to be confrontational. 😢

I sincerelly don't. I just need to resolve the conflict. Whatever it takes, I can move slow.

How would you break this stale mate?

Thank you for talking to me.
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Ah, I never found her boring.

Controlling, yes! (I gave up)

I attributed that to her sense of insecurity. Slow, sensitive, quiet thinker, quick to get offended.

I think emotionally, there was always the component of bravado, hiding the hurt.

So as a f-Taurian, tell me how can I invite a dialogue without coming across as being confrontational?


You are a third sag-leo decan.. so you are soooooo oops hot tempered, and probably lash out not intentionally perhaps that would get her mercury not to come out and talk to you at all.

So you roll with the way you talk. She is controlling. Hot tempered, would not confront though when she feels she can't come to you about anything. It is stale mate. You just have to compromise together and when she says something and it isnt right show her in a way she can grasp and not feel belittle anyone.
You are right.

And stale mate is what happened.

I believe I came across as impatient, I just move too fast.

Taurus is overthinking, IMO. And really hates to be proven wrong.

But I learned to live with that.

The damage is done tho. When I try to initiate a dialogue I get a feeling she thinks I want to be confrontational. 😢

I sincerelly don't. I just need to resolve the conflict. Whatever it takes, I can move slow.

How would you break this stale mate?

Thank you for talking to me.

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1. Good for you both of you have faults or flaws, why can't you two work it out if it's meant to be?

2. Don't confront you'll get the horns or the silent treatment. When she puts the silent treatment on you, you got to make it up to her somehow, think of ways to bring you closer.

3. He'll I can be impatient and show how I feel if I like and can open up. Taurus just don't do well with confrontation why. Because we like stable thoughts, and even debates. Without judging or being temperamental. It's you but she might also be hurting from past experiences and want to open up to you but then you may be overly critical or something similar and won't be steady to her.

4. You gotta bend and you can maybe more than her. You still gotta compromise. If she isn't in the mood for something and you are, try to bring excitement out for both. You are probably more creative.

5. I'm Aquarius moon but I so stable in my opinion that you would have to show proof I'm wrong in Taurus too. It's a battle of wits or control, maybe ego.

If you can't control ego, manipulative tactics and be more subtle maybe try that.
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That's alot of mutable energy you will have joined problem finding another Taurus. It's rare you find one and let along keep one.
How rare? My best male friend from grade 5 is one, I had 6 relations lasting over a year, this last one 8, All Tauruses.

Takes two to tango, right? :-)
But you are not "keeping" them are you?! They are your EXES right... So between the two signs the connection will only be short term... A Taurus usually seeks "forever"!

The mutually of a sun sag man is totally unstable to a sun female Taurus. Taurus likes a solid foundation which a sag man can't give but the sag man us usually attracted to the sex and sensuality and stability of the taurus female. Also sag men have too many female "friends". Taurus is possessive and loyal and expects the same in return. Another thing a sag man can't give fully.

All the sags men I have met and known and many women who have had relationship with them will say the same thing... They are like stray dogs. I will personally never ever have a relationship with a sag again.

They are good perhaps for a one night stand and then put them back on the streets the next day. Or an fwb. But long term investment NEVER. But they can make a friend to provide entertainment and jokes but not one you can depend on.

I can see why you are attracted to the Taurus. I attract sag and fire sign men like bees to honey but it's not good for the Taurus female she will lose out in the end. She is better off sharing an affinity that you can only get with another earth or water sign.

Why don't you try Leo or aries for fire or libra and aqua for air signs?

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I am sorry you had such a bitter experience.

Maybe your Sag was immature, or just flakey.

I am at the point in my life where I seek " forever".

I would never describe myself as not dependable, disloyal, a stray dog, a one night stand, a clown.

A lot of people know me by name, like when I am ordering at Sarbucks, and those are not friends, or " friends".

I feel comfortable being social.

But I can understand why you feel like that. Sometime we project our insecurities onto other people, as their flaws. And my Taurus does it too, l can tell how she feels by mirroring/reflecting her anxieties on me, as a defense mechanism, or ego booster.

What I mean is, if you are shy and insecure, for instance, someone whose social aptitudes are average may come across and be rejected as overly flirty and uncommitted. That is not fair.

What do you think?









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she pulled you in with her love, didnt she?
Sorry, but something clicked with what you said, just now - after reading an article on narciss-empath synergies yesterday.

Hmmm... ?

Can you ellaborate a bit further, why would you say that?

did you have a simillar experience?

Please do tell!





I am a Taurus sun. We love freely. We know how to give someone our everything, to love them and create an atmosphere where you know everything will be okay. Taurus love is...something not from this world.

Did she make you feel secure, did she look into your eyes and give you her soul? Did she tell you you were the only one for her, how no one else matters, how it is you? How it had always been you? They way she would look at you before your lips matched?

Take a breath. You will get over her and you will move on. She will love you forever, that is something out of our control, and if you did love her, you always will too.

I am probably way off topic from your article, but we Taurus are romantics, hidden ones. We have a deep understanding of love.
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She never said that. Why would she not say it?

A deep understanding?

She should then had understood that showing that one is loved is important. A lot.

Why hide it?

Taurus expect things to be understood without communicating it. They show it with gifts, right?

Like, here, have an icecream, I am not saying I want one too, guess it!

Why is that?