Why would a Taurus go full-on silent?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by TheGreatSearcher on Friday, July 8, 2016 and has 26 replies.

Why a Taurus Woman May Go Silent

A Taurus woman often goes silent when she feels overwhelmed, wants to avoid conflict, or needs time to process before replying. In real situations, that silence can be temporary rather than a full shutdown. If she is still checking in later or replying normally after space, it usually points to needing breathing room, not automatic disinterest.

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Recently started casually chatting with a Taurus girl (not particularly interested), and 4-ish days ago she stopped responding to my messages.

She did read them, but she didn't respond, even after I asked her a number of questions and did my best. At the time she was still active on other sites and didn't seem to have anything connected to the fact that she didn't reply to my messages in any way...

So, Taureans, why would you no longer to reply to private messages or go flat-out silent (but read the messages)?

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Taurus here! Ignoring someone altogether is not something I personally would do in a situation like this. But the only reason I can think of is that she may have sensed your disinterest/waning interest, and decided to stop communication. We can be persistent, but we also (for the most part 😄) know when we're not wanted/being a nuisance. To compensate for that we recoil dramatically- at least, that's the case in my own experiences.

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Posted by brandyp
Are you saying you are not interested in her or she was not interested in you?? 😕

If you aren't interested, who cares if she is ignoring you. She probably senses that.

He probably became interested after she started ignoring him. You know how that goes...

My guess is she probably met someone else and started replying to him instead.

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Posted by Fleshpot

Posted by brandyp
Are you saying you are not interested in her or she was not interested in you?? 😕

If you aren't interested, who cares if she is ignoring you. She probably senses that.

He probably became interested after she started ignoring him. You know how that goes...

My guess is she probably met someone else and started replying to him instead.

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You are so right!! 🙂

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ditto all the above - we can't quite tell if it was you or her that was not interested but if you thought she was not interested why did you pursue - if you were not interested why did you pursue

all in all yes, I'm sure she may have sensed whichever way the above went cause I feel like I'm in a car wash - and you don't really sound interested - but I'll read your messages out of curiosity and/or boredom - something to do ...

she was checking you out - how you move, how you vibe, she may or may not have gotten the feeling that you were seriously interested and/or she may have had something hotter going on ... see if you want something you go for it and don't beat around the bush Aqua!

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I feel really bad now. I just pulled this on an Aqua male.

I can bet you are asking questions but not listening to what she's saying and responding to it or offering your own answers. Aquas I've talked to can't engage in a conversation....it's like they're going down a checklist, writing the answers down, and just going onto the next. There's no back and forth. You answer the question and kind of expect the Aqua to reciprocate so you ask them back and *BAM* meet the brick wall of Aquarius. A conversation should be an exchange, not a one sided survey.

I won't keep trying if I don't feel like there's some kind of connection -friendship or romance- happening...it's just not worth my time. (Or if someone is being extremely pushy and sexual if I've told them no but if you did that, leave her alone).

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Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Recently started casually chatting with a Taurus girl (not particularly interested), and 4-ish days ago she stopped responding to my messages.

She did read them, but she didn't respond, even after I asked her a number of questions and did my best. At the time she was still active on other sites and didn't seem to have anything connected to the fact that she didn't reply to my messages in any way...

So, Taureans, why would you no longer to reply to private messages or go flat-out silent (but read the messages)?

I do that...im either bored or someone else sparked my interest. I don't do texting or online chatting. I'm a let's do this kind of girl, either we're going on a date or not.

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Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Recently started casually chatting with a Taurus girl (not particularly interested), and 4-ish days ago she stopped responding to my messages.

She did read them, but she didn't respond, even after I asked her a number of questions and did my best. At the time she was still active on other sites and didn't seem to have anything connected to the fact that she didn't reply to my messages in any way...

So, Taureans, why would you no longer to reply to private messages or go flat-out silent (but read the messages)?

Because Taurus for last couple months been changing so much wait til it gets better this month for Taurus. You starts slowly coming together after going through whatever situation was thrown at you in the last 2 months. Detach and evaluate life and all.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Recently started casually chatting with a Taurus girl (not particularly interested), and 4-ish days ago she stopped responding to my messages.

She did read them, but she didn't respond, even after I asked her a number of questions and did my best. At the time she was still active on other sites and didn't seem to have anything connected to the fact that she didn't reply to my messages in any way...

So, Taureans, why would you no longer to reply to private messages or go flat-out silent (but read the messages)?

Because Taurus for last couple months been changing so much wait til it gets better this month for Taurus. You starts slowly coming together after going through whatever situation was thrown at you in the last 2 months. Detach and evaluate life and all.

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It's been a NIGHTMARE past couple of months but I feel so much energy now...im kicking major ass in life. I feel rejuvenated which is a nice change from the shit past few months...God awful

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Posted by Scorpmoon39

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Recently started casually chatting with a Taurus girl (not particularly interested), and 4-ish days ago she stopped responding to my messages.

She did read them, but she didn't respond, even after I asked her a number of questions and did my best. At the time she was still active on other sites and didn't seem to have anything connected to the fact that she didn't reply to my messages in any way...

So, Taureans, why would you no longer to reply to private messages or go flat-out silent (but read the messages)?

Because Taurus for last couple months been changing so much wait til it gets better this month for Taurus. You starts slowly coming together after going through whatever situation was thrown at you in the last 2 months. Detach and evaluate life and all.

It's been a NIGHTMARE past couple of months but I feel so much energy now...im kicking major ass in life. I feel rejuvenated which is a nice change from the shit past few months...God awful

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But hopefully it was more helpful in the way the atmosphere and energetic slow but positive outcomes. Some problems probably needed to be sort out.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by Scorpmoon39

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Recently started casually chatting with a Taurus girl (not particularly interested), and 4-ish days ago she stopped responding to my messages.

She did read them, but she didn't respond, even after I asked her a number of questions and did my best. At the time she was still active on other sites and didn't seem to have anything connected to the fact that she didn't reply to my messages in any way...

So, Taureans, why would you no longer to reply to private messages or go flat-out silent (but read the messages)?

Because Taurus for last couple months been changing so much wait til it gets better this month for Taurus. You starts slowly coming together after going through whatever situation was thrown at you in the last 2 months. Detach and evaluate life and all.

It's been a NIGHTMARE past couple of months but I feel so much energy now...im kicking major ass in life. I feel rejuvenated which is a nice change from the shit past few months...God awful

But hopefully it was more helpful in the way the atmosphere and energetic slow but positive outcomes. Some problems probably needed to be sort out.

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It literally felt like my entire life was falling down around me and I couldn't stop it. Glad it's over.

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Posted by Scorpmoon39

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by Scorpmoon39

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Recently started casually chatting with a Taurus girl (not particularly interested), and 4-ish days ago she stopped responding to my messages.

She did read them, but she didn't respond, even after I asked her a number of questions and did my best. At the time she was still active on other sites and didn't seem to have anything connected to the fact that she didn't reply to my messages in any way...

So, Taureans, why would you no longer to reply to private messages or go flat-out silent (but read the messages)?

Because Taurus for last couple months been changing so much wait til it gets better this month for Taurus. You starts slowly coming together after going through whatever situation was thrown at you in the last 2 months. Detach and evaluate life and all.

It's been a NIGHTMARE past couple of months but I feel so much energy now...im kicking major ass in life. I feel rejuvenated which is a nice change from the shit past few months...God awful

But hopefully it was more helpful in the way the atmosphere and energetic slow but positive outcomes. Some problems probably needed to be sort out.

It literally felt like my entire life was falling down around me and I couldn't stop it. Glad it's over.

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What's your sign again?

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by Scorpmoon39

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Recently started casually chatting with a Taurus girl (not particularly interested), and 4-ish days ago she stopped responding to my messages.

She did read them, but she didn't respond, even after I asked her a number of questions and did my best. At the time she was still active on other sites and didn't seem to have anything connected to the fact that she didn't reply to my messages in any way...

So, Taureans, why would you no longer to reply to private messages or go flat-out silent (but read the messages)?

Because Taurus for last couple months been changing so much wait til it gets better this month for Taurus. You starts slowly coming together after going through whatever situation was thrown at you in the last 2 months. Detach and evaluate life and all.

It's been a NIGHTMARE past couple of months but I feel so much energy now...im kicking major ass in life. I feel rejuvenated which is a nice change from the shit past few months...God awful

But hopefully it was more helpful in the way the atmosphere and energetic slow but positive outcomes. Some problems probably needed to be sort out.

It literally felt like my entire life was falling down around me and I couldn't stop it. Glad it's over.

What's your sign again?

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Taurus

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Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Recently started casually chatting with a Taurus girl (not particularly interested), and 4-ish days ago she stopped responding to my messages.

She did read them, but she didn't respond, even after I asked her a number of questions and did my best. At the time she was still active on other sites and didn't seem to have anything connected to the fact that she didn't reply to my messages in any way...

So, Taureans, why would you no longer to reply to private messages or go flat-out silent (but read the messages)?

As as Taurus, theres two reason's as ti why I wouldnt really respond back..

1) Brutally speaking, I am just not interested in continuing the conversation, i am just not interested

OR

2) I am just really busy at the moment and i have other things in my mind that I am doing/ focusing on. I will reply back eventually or I just forgot you know? sometimes you just forget to text back.... dont take it too personally but it happens lol

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Recently started casually chatting with a Taurus girl (not particularly interested), and 4-ish days ago she stopped responding to my messages.

She did read them, but she didn't respond, even after I asked her a number of questions and did my best. At the time she was still active on other sites and didn't seem to have anything connected to the fact that she didn't reply to my messages in any way...

So, Taureans, why would you no longer to reply to private messages or go flat-out silent (but read the messages)?

Because Taurus for last couple months been changing so much wait til it gets better this month for Taurus. You starts slowly coming together after going through whatever situation was thrown at you in the last 2 months. Detach and evaluate life and all.

It's been a NIGHTMARE past couple of months but I feel so much energy now...im kicking major ass in life. I feel rejuvenated which is a nice change from the shit past few months...God awful

But hopefully it was more helpful in the way the atmosphere and energetic slow but positive outcomes. Some problems probably needed to be sort out.

It literally felt like my entire life was falling down around me and I couldn't stop it. Glad it's over.

What's your sign again?

Taurus

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Oh so you been feeling like that too. Hm. Change is for the better.

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Posted by nyxxee
I feel really bad now. I just pulled this on an Aqua male.

I can bet you are asking questions but not listening to what she's saying and responding to it or offering your own answers. Aquas I've talked to can't engage in a conversation....it's like they're going down a checklist, writing the answers down, and just going onto the next. There's no back and forth. You answer the question and kind of expect the Aqua to reciprocate so you ask them back and *BAM* meet the brick wall of Aquarius. A conversation should be an exchange, not a one sided survey.

I won't keep trying if I don't feel like there's some kind of connection -friendship or romance- happening...it's just not worth my time. (Or if someone is being extremely pushy and sexual if I've told them no but if you did that, leave her alone).

I can assure you that I didn't ignore any questions or messages in that conversation. I tried my bests not to be a nuisance or a problem.

The last message was "Hi".

She then became flat-out silent and hasn't replied ever since.

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Posted by nyxxee
I feel really bad now. I just pulled this on an Aqua male.

I can bet you are asking questions but not listening to what she's saying and responding to it or offering your own answers. Aquas I've talked to can't engage in a conversation....it's like they're going down a checklist, writing the answers down, and just going onto the next. There's no back and forth. You answer the question and kind of expect the Aqua to reciprocate so you ask them back and *BAM* meet the brick wall of Aquarius. A conversation should be an exchange, not a one sided survey.

I won't keep trying if I don't feel like there's some kind of connection -friendship or romance- happening...it's just not worth my time. (Or if someone is being extremely pushy and sexual if I've told them no but if you did that, leave her alone).

Pushing another person is something I consider unacceptable. I did, however, write a few things I'm not too fond of.

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Posted by faceroll
You really have to be a douche nozzle for me to disappear on you. If you were doing that too cool to be interested thing and got mad she didn't let you string her along I'd just let this one go.

Didn't do either one of the things though.

I, however, couldn't keep up communication (time zones are painful) as active as it should have been. This may have had some kind of effect, but this wasn't an issue previously.