Will a Taurus Man Use A Woman For Money ?

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This bull has chased me aggressively for over a decade, but we've never actually gotten together.

He's offered to buy me things before, which I've declined because I didn't want him to feel like I owed him something. Especially since we weren't in a relationship.

Since then we've talked on and off, and he's given me the typical Taurus characteristics
hot one minute cold the next... the disappearing acts.. he's even shown a slight possessive side

And he has recently hit hard times. Someone in his family died, he lost his job... the way he acts screams depression to me.

He comes to me literally falling at my feet. We meet up one day and he can't stop touching me. I would move his hands and they would find their way back smh. He's acting all emotional, clingy, vunerable and weird. Sad sight. He asks me to be his gf and I don't answer and just stare at him cause I'm kinda weirded out but I'm curious so I continue to talk to him.

He starts getting possessive when I talk to other guys and tries to make me jealous by trying to to talk to one of my friends to get a reaction out of me. He starts stalking me lol asking me questions all in my business acting like he is my man. Disagreeing with my "lack of clothes" and I shouldn't leave the house "unclothed" smh.


We get closer and I can feel he has a lot of trust for me now, he's starting to ignore his typical taurus "female fan club"

But later down the road he asks me for a "favor" and that is some money... not much $ 20. But to me it's not about the amount it's about him asking.

If I had just met him I would think that he is 100% trying to use me.. but our childhood history of him chasing me puts a twist on it..

Does he genuinely just want a favor and need some support or is he trying to manipulate me.

Oh and he has a Venus in Aries. bleh

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Posted by M143

lovepiscesrising,

so now be cautious with that bull. My Bull is different. He gave me everything I need.



lol I was born cautious... I've been side-eyeing him for a while

I need to come to a conclusion, because I'm not gonna entertain him any longer if he IS trying to use me. He will be kicked to the curb!

.. I'm gonna question him and see if I can find out his true intentions
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So, he's wanted to be with you for over a decade, but now that he asks for a measly $ 20 bucks the assumption is he's trying to use you?

I guess this person isn't a friend of yours.

Doesn't sound like he's in a position to be beginning a relationship anyway, and you're obviously turned off by his behavior. I'd just do him the favor as a kind act and then distance myself.



Ok let me clarify

He's chased me for a decade, but not once did he ever ask me to be his girlfriend well except for the one time in middle school... smh
Idk if that counts

He's also "chased" other chicks, this man always has tons of women after him

I've also been used before as a Virgo sun and Pisces rising I am very kind, sympathetic and would give you my last.

People around me know this. He knows this. I've been taken advantage of as long as I can remember from family, to friends.

And I'm not having it anymore, from anybody.

I agree with you I don't think he needs a relationship which is why I kinda brushed off his advances...

And trust me I've distanced myself from him plenty of times. I don't like the hot and cold Taurus games he plays. I straight ignored him for a whole year once, it drove him CRAZY. He blew up my phone at all hours of the day and sent zillions of FB messages all day everyday until I finally answered him.

I had to block him on my phone. It got ridiculous. I finally gave in and talked to him.... apparently his kind takes the words "go away" and "stop calling me" as a challenge I read somewhere.

I would like to keep him around, we do have a deep connection but I just don't trust him nowadays.

Not since I heard that Tauruses' love of money is greater than anything else











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YES..



Have/Would you personally do this?



NOT REALLY. I THINK I TAKE MORE THAN I GIVE IN RELATIONSHIPS. MATERIALLY PERHAPS.

WOULD I PERSONALLY DO IT? IT'S A PLUS IF SHE WAS WEALTHY BUT MONEY ALONE AND FUG FACE I MUST RLY BE IN THE DUMPS.😈

ARE YOU AN ARIES?/ VENUS IN TAURUS?
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vir sun/Pisces rising/ vir venus
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runnnnn. Otherwise this materialistic taurus eates his cake! and you finally lose your 20 dollars. Sorry for sarcasm. But you should be able to know/feel the answer for this question after knowing him for a decade.

i would say its more about you than him. I guess your sun is in 7th house? i suppose this position indicates some tendency to give to people more than you rreceive and feeling not that comfortable about it...like you said feeling used. There's nothing wrong about giving smth to people. Its our perception to feel blessed about it or to feel used...
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Posted by robyn808
There are a few lessons people can learn from Taurus, in cases like this is trust and faith. Its a lesson because it can often be challenging.

If you let this moment define your perception of him, then you might not be able to rise above your own retardedness.

Even at my lowest point never count me out, never lose faith. If you underestimate me, if you can't believe in me, I'll never trust you enough to show you my best. I will leave you with the burden of your own perception, showing you little more than what your expectations can fathom. You will be shut out, because you are not worthy enough to set foot in my world, and you will never dance in my riches.

or some shit.



my own retardedness ?

are you a male Taurus?

I kinda dig this post you do think he is sincerely asking for help and not trying to use me






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Posted by Springmood
runnnnn. Otherwise this materialistic taurus eates his cake! and you finally lose your 20 dollars. Sorry for sarcasm. But you should be able to know/feel the answer for this question after knowing him for a decade.

i would say its more about you than him. I guess your sun is in 7th house? i suppose this position indicates some tendency to give to people more than you rreceive and feeling not that comfortable about it...like you said feeling used. There's nothing wrong about giving smth to people. Its our perception to feel blessed about it or to feel used...



he's always been kind of trustworthy, BUT I do know for a fact that good people can turn evil when life hits and they lose everything they have.

He has also changed in the past year or so, he acts kinda distant and unstable compared to when I first started getting closer to him.. kind of scares me a little

I don't know what to think of him, especially since he doesn't really communicate how he feels...

I'm gonna have to pry my way into his mind




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There are a few lessons people can learn from Taurus, in cases like this is trust and faith. Its a lesson because it can often be challenging.

If you let this moment define your perception of him, then you might not be able to rise above your own retardedness.

Even at my lowest point never count me out, never lose faith. If you underestimate me, if you can't believe in me, I'll never trust you enough to show you my best. I will leave you with the burden of your own perception, showing you little more than what your expectations can fathom. You will be shut out, because you are not worthy enough to set foot in my world, and you will never dance in my riches.

or some shit.



my own retardedness ?

are you a male Taurus?

I kinda dig this post you do think he is sincerely asking for help and not trying to use me



I think your missing the point, and I also think your worried about the wrong things.
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No. I get what you are saying.

I need to not underestimate his potential to make it to the top and to trust him, to believe in him even when he doesn't have much, and don't let him being at the low point he's at change the way I view him. I get it.

And I agree 100% which is why I said I "dig your post". Very very well said. I'm actually gonna save it for offline reading. I was moved.

However, I don't believe every taurus guy is worth this level of patience and commitment

I just want to ensure I'm investing in someone who would return this favor if the tables were turned. That's all.





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This bull has chased me aggressively for over a decade, but we've never actually gotten together.



He chased you. You played hard to get. Is this correct?

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He's offered to buy me things before, which I've declined because I didn't want him to feel like I owed him something. Especially since we weren't in a relationship.
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He expressed generosity, and you declined for humble reasons, is this correct?

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@Lovepiscesrising---

FYI...

A Bull will always return a good deed in ten-folds....

The loyalty of a Bull isn't grossly exaggerated by the zodiac...

It's a TRUE STORY!

Which is something I noticed you fail to mention about Bulls as opposed to you embracing the latter negative qualities, greed & materialism.

Ten years? ...And you haven't solidified anything. Why?

Let me guess, and this is pure speculation...

You're keeping him at arms length, protecting yourself, keeping your options open, discriminating, analyzing...in other words, you're all over the place, creating gray shaded areas.

Bulls, it's all or nothing, Black or White. You're in or you're out. You want him or you don't. No shaded areas.

Newsflash, even with a Venus in Aries ( I have a Venus in Aries, myself), I may not chase...But if I did, I wouldn't waste energy or solidify anything with uncertainty.

My guess, for the last 10 years, you presented uncertainty.
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This bull has chased me aggressively for over a decade, but we've never actually gotten together.



He chased you. You played hard to get. Is this correct?

Posted by lovepiscesrising
He's offered to buy me things before, which I've declined because I didn't want him to feel like I owed him something. Especially since we weren't in a relationship.
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He expressed generosity, and you declined for humble reasons, is this correct?

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@Lovepiscesrising---

FYI...

A Bull will always return a good deed in ten-folds....

The loyalty of a Bull isn't grossly exaggerated by the zodiac...

It's a TRUE STORY!

Which is something I noticed you fail to mention about Bulls as opposed to you embracing the latter negative qualities, greed & materialism.

Ten years? ...And you haven't solidified anything. Why?

Let me guess, and this is pure speculation...

You're keeping him at arms length, protecting yourself, keeping your options open, discriminating, analyzing...in other words, you're all over the place, creating gray shaded areas.

Bulls, it's all or nothing, Black or White. You're in or you're out. You want him or you don't. No shaded areas.

Newsflash, even with a Venus in Aries ( I have a Venus in Aries, myself), I may not chase...But if I did, I wouldn't waste energy or solidify anything with uncertainty.

My guess, for the last 10 years, you presented uncertainty.



It wasn't me who presented uncertainty all these years.

I let him know years ago I wanted a relationship with him. He started going hot and cold so I moved on.

Now all of a sudden he's back, with nothing to lose.

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Posted by lovepiscesrising

The fact that all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend now that he is broke and at rock bottom is very suspicious. While he had money in his pocket he wanted to play around



This is not true.

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He's offered to buy me things before, which I've declined because I didn't want him to feel like I owed him something. Especially since we weren't in a relationship.
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When he clearly had money in his pockets, he didn't mind sharing with you. You declined, remember?


Another question...
You stated that he chased you in the last 10 years, at what month, year in the last 10 years exactly did you tell him that you wanted to be official.

Although I have a Venus in Aries myself, it doesn't mean because I show a genuine interest, that I'm ready to commit to someone the next day.

(You indicated earlier that you fell back completely after he told you he wasn't sure)

Was there ever a gradual courtship prior to you asking to solidify a relationship?

Just curious....just trying to dot the I's and cross the T's.
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@lovepiscesrising

I understand now why you are sensitive and on guard to the possibility of being used.

Regarding the money specifically, I don't think he intends on using you, I think he's in a bad situation. Based on some other things you've said, I wouldn't pursue a relationship with him. After 10 years, seems like something would have already happened? His foundation is rocky anyway, not a good time to try now.

Believe it or not, money isn't everything to us. We're romantics.





Thank you I appreciate your understanding.

I want a relationship but definitely not right now. He needs to find stability within himself, because he is very unstable emotionally and physically.

And I'm just tired of being used. I sure hope he isn't as greedy as he comes off.

You are definitely right.
He is romantic lol. That kinda shocked me. He doesn't seem like the type.

I know we will always be friends at the least, we do have fun when we're together. Like two wild kids on a playground lol




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The fact that all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend now that he is broke and at rock bottom is very suspicious. While he had money in his pocket he wanted to play around



This is not true.

Posted by lovepiscesrising


He's offered to buy me things before, which I've declined because I didn't want him to feel like I owed him something. Especially since we weren't in a relationship.



When he clearly had money in his pockets, he didn't mind sharing with you. You declined, remember?


Another question...
You stated that he chased you in the last 10 years, at what month, year in the last 10 years exactly did you tell him that you wanted to be official.

Although I have a Venus in Aries myself, it doesn't mean because I show a genuine interest, that I'm ready to commit to someone the next day.

(You indicated earlier that you fell back completely after he told you he wasn't sure)

Was there ever a gradual courtship prior to you asking to solidify a relationship?

Just curious....just trying to dot the I's and cross the T's.
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Yes he offered to buy me a thing or two, but the main point is he still declined my offer to be his girlfriend. So why wait all this time to come back. Makes me look like a last resort.

We reconnected after high school and that's when we started getting close. There was never any courting really. We would just hang out and talk about life and act like a couple for that moment then I would never hear from him until weeks later.


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Posted by TaurusBull1977
I asked a DIRECT question, and once again, you give evasive answers.

Therefore....

I can't give you any DIRECT, genuine advice....

FYI --
A 10 year chase is a long time. No pretentious, opportunist (regardless of zodiac sign) puts forth the effort without longevity.

I'm still not buying the "he's broke now, so he wants a relationship" excuse"

Good Luck!



I answered both of your questions.


Yes he offered to buy me something, and I declined. I stated that in my OP.

And no there wasn't any courtship. At least in my opinion. Don't know what it was in his head.

He kissed me a lot, and tried to touch me but I don't consider that courting. He also asked me for sex a lot at the beginning.



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Another question...
You stated that he chased you in the last 10 years, at what month, year in the last 10 years exactly did you tell him that you wanted to be official.





This was the direct question you evaded.

It pin-points a time (duration) for the length of time he pursued you, and when you fell back completely (after he told you he was uncertain).

No one (regardless of zodiac sign) chases an individual for 10 consecutive yrs with no prospect for longevity.
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Posted by robyn808
There are a few lessons people can learn from Taurus, in cases like this is trust and faith. Its a lesson because it can often be challenging.

If you let this moment define your perception of him, then you might not be able to rise above your own retardedness.

Even at my lowest point never count me out, never lose faith. If you underestimate me, if you can't believe in me, I'll never trust you enough to show you my best. I will leave you with the burden of your own perception, showing you little more than what your expectations can fathom. You will be shut out, because you are not worthy enough to set foot in my world, and you will never dance in my riches.

or some shit.



This thread is absolutely heartrending. But when I first read this comment, I couldn't have said it better. Please listen to this lady.



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I have trusted him and told him things about how people have used me for money, and he almost looked amused.

I regret telling him.

The fact that all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend now that he is broke and at rock bottom is very suspicious. While he had money in his pocket he wanted to play around.

My end game? I would like to give a shot at a relationship with him, to see if we could actually work out.
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We can't only look to only one side of the coin. I think you're thinking that he won't be able to pay you and other negativities you can attached to the situation since you are full of doubt on him. How can this lady have the idea of giving a shot at a relationship with someone when she's full of doubt and seemed not very supportive of a potential partner.

However, maybe he thinks he can still prove himself to you somehow given of his low situation.
Given that:
You: Let him borrow $ 20
Him: Grateful
After +day(s).
Him: Gave you back your money
You: (insert your reaction here)

Given that he is aware of "I have trusted him and told him things about how people have used me for money...(regardless of his reaction, I think he still take it to his heart and mind about your confession but he handled it lightly)

and given the above situation I wrote, maybe he just want you to realize that when others had
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Another question...
You stated that he chased you in the last 10 years, at what month, year in the last 10 years exactly did you tell him that you wanted to be official.





This was the direct question you evaded.

It pin-points a time (duration) for the length of time he pursued you, and when you fell back completely (after he told you he was uncertain).

No one (regardless of zodiac sign) chases an individual for 10 consecutive yrs with no prospect for longevity.
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My apologies.

I asked him two years ago.... about September 2011.

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1. Was this Bull playing the field for 10 years with no relationship prospects? Was he single for 10 years?

2. Were you single for the last 10 years (no relationship) or no relationship prospects for the last 10 yrs?

3. Was the idea or concept of an exclusive relationship re-introduced or re-enforced during the last 10 yrs?



1.He was definitely playing the field.
There are about 2 or 3 other females that have been chased the same length of time as I have. We all went to school together and thanks to facebook, I know he still stays in contact with them. He had one serious relationship, not sure how long it lasted, around a year/year and a half probably but I know he had strong feelings for her. I'm not sure if he dated anyone else.

2. No I have been in one very, very serious relationship around the same time Taurus was in one. Except my relationship lasted a few years, I had broken up with my ex about 3 months before I asked this Taurus to be official.

You know what, kudos to you TaurusBull1977, I see where you are going with this now. Taurus knew about my ex, he knew we had been serious and he probably thought I was still "messing" around and seeing him. Which I did, me and my ex got back together that winter after Taurus rejected me. He could have possibly still had feelings for his ex also. He went back to her about the same time I went back to my ex.


3. Between me and Taurus? No, after I asked him, we got closer briefly then he disappeared and started entertaining his ex as well. (Still to this day not sure if he knew about me getting back with my ex or if both of us going back to our exes was just a coincidence) After some time with her he then went back to playing the field after that. He would randomly pop up here and there, but it didn't last long. He would just disappear again. Until now.


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Posted by Mikell
Also, @TaurusBull1977, +infinity to your questions.

Btw, I think, in most cases that I see, for a bull to enter a relationship, he must be financially, emotionally, spiritually, physically and mentally stable first. BAM! Your taurus is exceptional so continue to watch out for that.



"Your Taurus is exceptional so continue to watch out for that."

Explain please! :0
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There are a few lessons people can learn from Taurus, in cases like this is trust and faith. Its a lesson because it can often be challenging.

If you let this moment define your perception of him, then you might not be able to rise above your own retardedness.

Even at my lowest point never count me out, never lose faith. If you underestimate me, if you can't believe in me, I'll never trust you enough to show you my best. I will leave you with the burden of your own perception, showing you little more than what your expectations can fathom. You will be shut out, because you are not worthy enough to set foot in my world, and you will never dance in my riches.

or some shit.



This thread is absolutely heartrending. But when I first read this comment, I couldn't have said it better. Please listen to this lady.



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I have trusted him and told him things about how people have used me for money, and he almost looked amused.

I regret telling him.

The fact that all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend now that he is broke and at rock bottom is very suspicious. While he had money in his pocket he wanted to play around.

My end game? I would like to give a shot at a relationship with him, to see if we could actually work out.
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We can't only look to only one side of the coin. I think you're thinking that he won't be able to pay you and other negativities you can attached to the situation since you are full of doubt on him. How can this lady have the idea of giving a shot at a relationship with someone when she's full of doubt and seemed not very supportive of a potential partner.

However, maybe he thinks he can still prove himself to you somehow given of his low situation.
Given that:
You: Let him borrow $ 20
Him: Grateful
After +day(s).
Him: Gave you back your money
You: (insert your reaction here)

Given that he is aware of "I have trusted him and told him things about how people have used me for money...(regardless of his reaction, I think he still take it to his heart and mind about your confession but he handled it lightly)
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Posted by lovepiscesrising

I asked him two years ago.... about September 2011.


Subtract two years from 2013 before this Bull was rejected (Sept 2011)...any year recorded after the rejection has no merit.


This will equate to 8 years of chasing.


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2. No I have been in one very, very serious relationship around the same time Taurus was in one. Except my relationship lasted a few years, I had broken up with my ex about 3 months before I asked this Taurus to be official.
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September 2011 - 3 months = June 2011 (This paints a more accurate duration period)

Prior to that duration period, you were already committed to someone else.
Which simply means while he spent 7 yrs and 9 months pining over you, he was obviously passing time with other women until you became emotionally available to be with him.






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Taurus knew about my ex, he knew we had been serious and he probably thought I was still "messing" around and seeing him. Which I did, me and my ex got back together that winter after Taurus rejected me.




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He chased me, to the point where I thought I would only seem right for us to move into a relationship, so I asked him if he wanted to be official...

His response ? "Idk yet"

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This is why you were given this response when you asked him to be official after 3 months of courtship.

Some Bull's are slow for a reason. Not because we're indecisive, but because we're cautious and smart!

If we see longevity or stability in a situation...this when we chaaaaaaaarge and go after what we want!

Many people have trouble understanding this about most Bulls.
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I asked him two years ago.... about September 2011.


Subtract two years from 2013 before this Bull was rejected (Sept 2011)...any year recorded after the rejection has no merit.


This will equate to 8 years of chasing.


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2. No I have been in one very, very serious relationship around the same time Taurus was in one. Except my relationship lasted a few years, I had broken up with my ex about 3 months before I asked this Taurus to be official.



September 2011 - 3 months = June 2011 (This paints a more accurate duration period)

Prior to that duration period, you were already committed to someone else.
Which simply means while he spent 7 yrs and 9 months pining over you, he was obviously passing time with other women until you became emotionally available to be with him.






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He didn't even know I was in a relationship until June 2011 though. We lost contact from 2009 until June 2011 when we re-connected. I started my relationship during that time.



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Taurus knew about my ex, he knew we had been serious and he probably thought I was still "messing" around and seeing him. Which I did, me and my ex got back together that winter after Taurus rejected me.




Posted by lovepiscesrising

He chased me, to the point where I thought I would only seem right for us to move into a relationship, so I asked him if he wanted to be official...

His response ? "Idk yet"



This is why you were given this response when you asked him to be official after 3 months of courtship.

Some Bull's are slow for a reason. Not because we're indecisive, but because we're cautious and smart!

If we see longevity or stability in a situation...this when we chaaaaaaaarge and go after what we want!

Many people have trouble understanding this about most Bulls.
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Yea I get it now.

He saw some warning signs and decided to take his time in his decision. Exactly the same with me. I'm treading these waters very carefully.



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well my husband's best friend is a taurus/aries cusper, and he makes really good $ $ $ much much more than his live-in girlfriend. He bought the house and paid for most of it, since she is a part time kindergarten teacher, which isn't really that much money though rewarding. she would still be living with her parents or with roommates if he hadn't told her to move in with him. And he bought them a 6 bedroom house, and there's only 2 of them. 😕
she's a libra sun (october 1) So it seems like a Pierce Brosnan coupling, since he's married to a Libra. Those lucky venuses!
what's with all the space? It's nice to have so much room, all the better to laze around and be happy.

Taurus and generosity is awesome, because taurus is the sign of generosity & good will too. He will give back more in return, because you are there for him (support). Just something i really noticed and admire. He likes to be pampered (meaning, make him really yummy food when him and his gf are coming over, he really appreciates the fact that you give him the best quality stuff, as if he notices. He likes sweets and cakes too.) Anyway thought i'd mention it since we caught up with him this weekend.
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Go ask one of your boys or your mama, not some girl u want a relationship with. Lol

lol, he had a venus in aries 2, chasing this horse for years!



Lol this was exactly my initial response.

Why would you ask me? Out of all your friends, family... you come and ask me.

Oh ok.

That's such a turnoff, if we didn't have so much history he would have been dropped at that instance.
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well my husband's best friend is a taurus/aries cusper, and he makes really good $ $ $ much much more than his live-in girlfriend. He bought the house and paid for most of it, since she is a part time kindergarten teacher, which isn't really that much money though rewarding. she would still be living with her parents or with roommates if he hadn't told her to move in with him. And he bought them a 6 bedroom house, and there's only 2 of them. 😕
she's a libra sun (october 1) So it seems like a Pierce Brosnan coupling, since he's married to a Libra. Those lucky venuses!
what's with all the space? It's nice to have so much room, all the better to laze around and be happy.

Taurus and generosity is awesome, because taurus is the sign of generosity & good will too. He will give back more in return, because you are there for him (support). Just something i really noticed and admire. He likes to be pampered (meaning, make him really yummy food when him and his gf are coming over, he really appreciates the fact that you give him the best quality stuff, as if he notices. He likes sweets and cakes too.) Anyway thought i'd mention it since we caught up with him this weekend.



That's so sweet

She's lucky!

I wouldn't mind helping this Taurus out at all if I knew he was sincerely genuine. I'm still trying to figure him out.

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Posted by lisabethur8
well my husband's best friend is a taurus/aries cusper, and he makes really good $ $ $ much much more than his live-in girlfriend. He bought the house and paid for most of it, since she is a part time kindergarten teacher, which isn't really that much money though rewarding. she would still be living with her parents or with roommates if he hadn't told her to move in with him. And he bought them a 6 bedroom house, and there's only 2 of them. 😕
she's a libra sun (october 1) So it seems like a Pierce Brosnan coupling, since he's married to a Libra. Those lucky venuses!
what's with all the space? It's nice to have so much room, all the better to laze around and be happy.

Taurus and generosity is awesome, because taurus is the sign of generosity & good will too. He will give back more in return, because you are there for him (support). Just something i really noticed and admire. He likes to be pampered (meaning, make him really yummy food when him and his gf are coming over, he really appreciates the fact that you give him the best quality stuff, as if he notices. He likes sweets and cakes too.) Anyway thought i'd mention it since we caught up with him this weekend.



That's so sweet

She's lucky!

I wouldn't mind helping this Taurus out at all if I knew he was sincerely genuine. I'm still trying to figure him out.

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she is super duper lucky! Even more luckier because in this time and hardship for many people, she's pregnant and the baby is due in May (Taurus!) they announced it to everyone as she's already further in pregnancy. So happy for them.