WOULD U ....

Heya
i would like to know if you had a best friend of 14 yrs and she suddenly started dating and moved in with your x husband and is talkin about marriage..would you still call that person a friend—?

I personally have a prob callin her friend...after she seen what i went through and also spilled every lil secret to him i ever confided in her about...i thought it was b/s so i dumped her as a friend...


my x and her both don't understand y—!!!! Are people that stupid or is it jus me—....I say they deserve each other and what comes around goes around!!!!!

btw....she is a taurus and he is a leo...

i would probably have done the same thing as you... i think friend's ex's are off limits, it would only complicate things for me anyway... i'd be just as content finding new friends :o

Depends on the circumstances on whether or not they will still be considered friends.Unless the spilling secrets was a form of munipluation to get what she has now,not enough info to give an opinion.If she told him something out of a warning and they just happen to get together later,yeah I would be still a friend to her.If I screwed up I have no problem admitting and dealing with the circumstances.

I have heard something like this before. If their relationship starts abruptly after a break with you, quite often a relationship between friends is lost. You feel you cann't befriend with someone who has done all these things behind your back. If it happens long after that, I think it's another story. Simply put, your love story is ending.

No. She's not a friend anymore. It may be looking weird, but that is the best way to protect your feelings.

Fcuk that!! The thought of it makes me feel sick. Ex's are off limits in my book.

I could never do that to a friend no matter what the circumstances. The fact that it's your ex HUSBAND makes it even worse!! That's just plain selfish!!

LOL BJ!!!!

Calm down dude. It's not your personal problem after all!!!

its not my problem anymore either....i think they are screwed up in the head!!!

more power to them...and i know my love story ended four yrs ago...way over him jus tryin to accept my b-friend bein out of my life .....

It won't work anyways. Taurus-Leo? hmmmmmmmmmmm

yah tgoddess, leo wants too much flattery? i've heard that it leads to arguments and misunderstandings? i dunno, i've never really met a leo i wanted to bed, i mean wed 😛
OH! but, one of my best friends and roomates in school was a leo, i love the guy to death to this day, but our relationship isn't the same because of really dumb miscommunications
i think the behind the back is what bothers me-- if it was so innocent, then i think i would deserve the respect to know-- not even permission, but just a heads up ya know? i wouldn't have any desire to stop them, but it just feels shady if they have to hide something...

OMG

What nastiness! But then again, it's gotta make you wonder if they were doing anything while you guys were married. I imagine it just didn't start overnite!

You did good, leave them both alone!

CL

LMAO.... u hit the nail on the head ... i found out about their torrid lil affair on valentines day about 6 months after we split up..

the bad thing is my son had surgery and she had her azz up there..i figured she didn't need to b up there ..she isn't his mother...but i tolerated it for my son's sake..but you can bet ur azz's i was the one taken care of him and it seems to me after seeing them two together..its a relationship of convinance(i know spelling)...i laugh at them when i see them...i think its funny..cuz i know later on down the road it comes back around...

revenge of not my own is soooo damn SWEET.....

What a B-I T-C-H!

I hate the girl even more because we KNOW how men are! They almost can't control themselves sometimes, but to betray a friend of 14 yrs? It make me sick to my stomach...I hope she gets EVERYTHING she deserves, him too.

What is with women anyway? WHY the HELL would you date a married man in hopes of a relationship and not think he won't do the same to you down the road? I mean I KNOW there are instances where the marriage was bad anyway and he might be a good man trapped in a bad situation with a bad women, but GEEZ! COME ON!

Crystaltears...dry your tears because neither of these scum-bags are worth them! JERKS!

CL

awwww...CL,

ur totally awesome with your words!!!...

my tears have been dried for awhile now...and that goes for my taurus love affair too..i told him off today on the phone and hung up on him...tired of the games!!!..and ur right...i guess i'm a bitch too thinkin about what i jus said up there..the only thing is the taurus lovers biootch is NOT my friend of 14 yrs ....

i don't what was with her...jealousy mayb—??...wanted the life i had ...which was a life of hell!!!...fightin his family for attention...and now she has her hands in raising my son!!! .....EWWWWW, I FEEL SO SICK AT THIS POINT...o well...i have told her where her bounderies are and not to cross them or hell hath no fury like the lion!!!!
*HUGS AND KISSES*

I wasn't saying YOU were a B--I--T CH...I was saying the girl who did that to you was.

I am sorta confused though about who is who...I need to go back and read!CL

I know you weren't sayin i was a b*tch...i was jus sayin i was for what i did...

I made a mistake....