PoloChat
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How to open up a guy on a personal level
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
Posted by mars_in_cappy
Open him up by opening his zip.
Umm that is kinda off limits right now
Posted by pinkbird03
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i startđ
Posted by PoloChatPosted by pinkbird03
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i startđclick to expand
âWhat other things do you enjoy doing?â
Posted by PoloChatPosted by pinkbird03
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i startđclick to expand
I think take the pressure off yourself. It's just a conversation to get to know him better. It's all about being genuinely curious.
Taking your example
hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed.
Oh yeah? Anything you would recommend? Favourite movie as a kid? Did you see it in the cinema? (Share a cinema memory of yours.) Were you a popcorn or an ice cream kid? What about your brothers and sisters? Did you fight as kids? How do you get on now?
Really its endless. Just get out of your brain and freaking out about how much you like him and be genuinely curious to learn more about him as a person and a potential friend.
With a name like polochat you don't know how to open up to a guy?
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by PoloChatPosted by pinkbird03
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i startđ
âWhat other things do you enjoy doing?âclick to expand
Yeah i can ask that...yesss
Posted by jeanePosted by PoloChatPosted by pinkbird03
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i startđ
I think take the pressure off yourself. It's just a conversation to get to know him better. It's all about being genuinely curious.
Taking your example
hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed.
Oh yeah? Anything you would recommend? Favourite movie as a kid? Did you see it in the cinema? (Share a cinema memory of yours.) Were you a popcorn or an ice cream kid? What about your brothers and sisters? Did you fight as kids? How do you get on now?
Really its endless. Just get out of your brain and freaking out about how much you like him and be genuinely curious to learn more about him as a person and a potential friend.click to expand
Uhhh i like it!!! Really i have to stop thinking that i like him, and just focus on getting to know him!
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
With a name like polochat you don't know how to open up to a guy?
Crazy isn't it?!
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Just ask. The other thing I would say is work can be a minefield for men, some guys just donât want to get involved. I would not date someone at work.
We're not working at the same place. Different jobs
Posted by PoloChatPosted by jeanePosted by PoloChatPosted by pinkbird03
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i startđ
I think take the pressure off yourself. It's just a conversation to get to know him better. It's all about being genuinely curious.
Taking your example
hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed.
Oh yeah? Anything you would recommend? Favourite movie as a kid? Did you see it in the cinema? (Share a cinema memory of yours.) Were you a popcorn or an ice cream kid? What about your brothers and sisters? Did you fight as kids? How do you get on now?
Really its endless. Just get out of your brain and freaking out about how much you like him and be genuinely curious to learn more about him as a person and a potential friend.
Uhhh i like it!!! Really i have to stop thinking that i like him, and just focus on getting to know him!click to expand
Exactly. You've made friends before. You've had conversations before. This is exactly the same. You've got this.
If all goes well you'll find that he is even better than you imagined.
Posted by jeanePosted by PoloChatPosted by jeanePosted by PoloChatPosted by pinkbird03
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i startđ
I think take the pressure off yourself. It's just a conversation to get to know him better. It's all about being genuinely curious.
Taking your example
hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed.
Oh yeah? Anything you would recommend? Favourite movie as a kid? Did you see it in the cinema? (Share a cinema memory of yours.) Were you a popcorn or an ice cream kid? What about your brothers and sisters? Did you fight as kids? How do you get on now?
Really its endless. Just get out of your brain and freaking out about how much you like him and be genuinely curious to learn more about him as a person and a potential friend.
Uhhh i like it!!! Really i have to stop thinking that i like him, and just focus on getting to know him!
Exactly. You've made friends before. You've had conversations before. This is exactly the same. You've got this.
If all goes well you'll find that he is even better than you imagined.click to expand
Wow you are saying all the correct things at the correct time. Thank you really!
Posted by bmoon8
Thatâs the problem with most people or the run-of-the-mill people... they donât know how to carry a conversation.
On dating apps and even selling apps such as offer up, it is common to meet people like this.
I am smooth on dating app. Coz on dating app you know both the parties are interested in dating, so personal questions are a must to go ahead.
But he is neither my friend nor my dating app guy, so asking things seems awkward as in what if he thinks i am showing way too much curiosity.
But i think i am going to ask him questions keeping aside the fact that i like him!
Posted by jeanePosted by PoloChatPosted by jeanePosted by PoloChatPosted by pinkbird03
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i startđ
I think take the pressure off yourself. It's just a conversation to get to know him better. It's all about being genuinely curious.
Taking your example
hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed.
Oh yeah? Anything you would recommend? Favourite movie as a kid? Did you see it in the cinema? (Share a cinema memory of yours.) Were you a popcorn or an ice cream kid? What about your brothers and sisters? Did you fight as kids? How do you get on now?
Really its endless. Just get out of your brain and freaking out about how much you like him and be genuinely curious to learn more about him as a person and a potential friend.
Uhhh i like it!!! Really i have to stop thinking that i like him, and just focus on getting to know him!
Exactly. You've made friends before. You've had conversations before. This is exactly the same. You've got this.
If all goes well you'll find that he is even better than you imagined.click to expand
Also i want to add a question here, since i like your advice!
So i was the one who intiated contact with him and texted him first. But he left the conversation mid way and didn't reply me back.
It was after 2 months that he started chatting again and since then we are chatting daily.
Do you think it will be cool if i ask what the reason was or something along the line or should i ignore the topic?
Posted by PoloChatPosted by pinkbird03Posted by PoloChatPosted by pinkbird03
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i startđ
âWhat other things do you enjoy doing?â
Yeah i can ask that...yesssclick to expand
Donât be afraid to be you- To show him your personality. Thatâs who needs to like if he ever dates you.
Posted by PoloChatPosted by jeanePosted by PoloChatPosted by jeanePosted by PoloChatPosted by pinkbird03
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i startđ
I think take the pressure off yourself. It's just a conversation to get to know him better. It's all about being genuinely curious.
Taking your example
hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed.
Oh yeah? Anything you would recommend? Favourite movie as a kid? Did you see it in the cinema? (Share a cinema memory of yours.) Were you a popcorn or an ice cream kid? What about your brothers and sisters? Did you fight as kids? How do you get on now?
Really its endless. Just get out of your brain and freaking out about how much you like him and be genuinely curious to learn more about him as a person and a potential friend.
Uhhh i like it!!! Really i have to stop thinking that i like him, and just focus on getting to know him!
Exactly. You've made friends before. You've had conversations before. This is exactly the same. You've got this.
If all goes well you'll find that he is even better than you imagined.
Also i want to add a question here, since i like your advice!
So i was the one who intiated contact with him and texted him first. But he left the conversation mid way and didn't reply me back.
It was after 2 months that he started chatting again and since then we are chatting daily.
Do you think it will be cool if i ask what the reason was or something along the line or should i ignore the topic?click to expand
Ignore it!
Posted by PoloChatPosted by jeanePosted by PoloChatPosted by jeanePosted by PoloChatPosted by pinkbird03
Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions
How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i startđ
I think take the pressure off yourself. It's just a conversation to get to know him better. It's all about being genuinely curious.
Taking your example
hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed.
Oh yeah? Anything you would recommend? Favourite movie as a kid? Did you see it in the cinema? (Share a cinema memory of yours.) Were you a popcorn or an ice cream kid? What about your brothers and sisters? Did you fight as kids? How do you get on now?
Really its endless. Just get out of your brain and freaking out about how much you like him and be genuinely curious to learn more about him as a person and a potential friend.
Uhhh i like it!!! Really i have to stop thinking that i like him, and just focus on getting to know him!
Exactly. You've made friends before. You've had conversations before. This is exactly the same. You've got this.
If all goes well you'll find that he is even better than you imagined.
Also i want to add a question here, since i like your advice!
So i was the one who intiated contact with him and texted him first. But he left the conversation mid way and didn't reply me back.
It was after 2 months that he started chatting again and since then we are chatting daily.
Do you think it will be cool if i ask what the reason was or something along the line or should i ignore the topic?click to expand
Personally it wouldn't be my focus at this point. I would be trying to build friendship capital at the moment.
If you are still curious and you're at a stage where you are comfortable with each other further down the line then ask.
Donât over share, that comes off as clingy most times.
You should match his level of interest/sharing. Atm your not hanging out face to face and thatâs when more intimate conversations occur. Maybe start dropping some hints that youâd like to kick it together. Or shit, just take the plunge and invite him out to grab a coffee or get lunch or whatever shared interest you guys might have.
You should match his level of interest/sharing. Atm your not hanging out face to face and thatâs when more intimate conversations occur. Maybe start dropping some hints that youâd like to kick it together. Or shit, just take the plunge and invite him out to grab a coffee or get lunch or whatever shared interest you guys might have.
just ask him the things you are most curious about him
Posted by Mesquite
Just have normal conversations with him as if you would any other random person. you better figure out how to have conversations because if you get with this man long-term, there better be more to him than just his cock.
True that man!
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We chat mostly about work things, plans on weekends and few things here & there. We are neither very good friends nor are we dating each other. And we have never hung out together or talked over call.
I don't feel like we are going beyond those plans and work topics. Like i want personal stuffs you know - what he likes/dislikes, his family, his friends etc.
I don't know how to start asking a guy questions about his personal life.
What do you guys think about it? I am really inexperienced. Help please đ