degenerate_ingenue
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strange conversations - out of the blue
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He doesn't necessarily picture you getting pregnant or masturbate to himself saying that.
It's just his twisted way of destabilizing you, leaving you, as you mentioned, in a "wait...what?" state.
Nonsense words are usually used by men to draw the attention, he could have said anything really, its only intent is to make you think about him.
The weirder the conversation the more time you'll be spending trying to figure him out. Problem is there's nothing to figure out so you're wasting your time trying to come up with an answer when there's none.
My guess would be that he's trying to implant in your brain the idea, not for now maybe for the future, of starting a family together. There's usually a moment in your life when you start thinking about havin kids and you have no certainty you'll be in relationship when that happens. So there's an outside chance you'll associate, when the thought occurs, the idea of having kids with his figure and if you're single by that time who knows what could happen if you're still in speaking terms.
Besides, the fact you haven't shut him down means you probably value your time with him and he knows that.
It's just his twisted way of destabilizing you, leaving you, as you mentioned, in a "wait...what?" state.
Nonsense words are usually used by men to draw the attention, he could have said anything really, its only intent is to make you think about him.
The weirder the conversation the more time you'll be spending trying to figure him out. Problem is there's nothing to figure out so you're wasting your time trying to come up with an answer when there's none.
My guess would be that he's trying to implant in your brain the idea, not for now maybe for the future, of starting a family together. There's usually a moment in your life when you start thinking about havin kids and you have no certainty you'll be in relationship when that happens. So there's an outside chance you'll associate, when the thought occurs, the idea of having kids with his figure and if you're single by that time who knows what could happen if you're still in speaking terms.
Besides, the fact you haven't shut him down means you probably value your time with him and he knows that.
It's like the reverse trap-- crazy women intentionally get knocked up so this
guy has to stay in her orbit forever.
Maybe he's thinking if he knocks you up... you'll never leave him, ever.
Personally, it would kind of creep me out.
guy has to stay in her orbit forever.
Maybe he's thinking if he knocks you up... you'll never leave him, ever.
Personally, it would kind of creep me out.
Posted by MontgomeryIt's totally reverse.
It's like the reverse trap-- crazy women intentionally get knocked up so this
guy has to stay in her orbit forever.
Maybe he's thinking if he knocks you up... you'll never leave him, ever.
Personally, it would kind of creep me out.
There's also a chance is not doing it on purpose and that he genuinely likes you.
In his attempt to get more intimate with you (probably bored of normal conversations) he's projecting a life after because he probably reached the point where he physically needs you but knows he can't have you now.
Most people are progressive in their way of knowing other people and if they see a wall (being actually together) they can't overcome they just skip it, so they start talking about random stuff such as marriage and kids.
In his attempt to get more intimate with you (probably bored of normal conversations) he's projecting a life after because he probably reached the point where he physically needs you but knows he can't have you now.
Most people are progressive in their way of knowing other people and if they see a wall (being actually together) they can't overcome they just skip it, so they start talking about random stuff such as marriage and kids.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.
Posted by Paleriothat is really....interesting. if he put that much thought into it id be surprised (hence my assumptions). I love to figure things out (Scorpio tendencies), so I DEFINITELY have been thinking about it. he's been mentioning it randomly for months now, but I figured it was a phase that would pass. since he just said it a couple days ago I got back to wondering "why" again. so strange. but as someone mentioned below I figured it was a pregnant woman fetish. I wasn't sure the motive. yes we've been friends for maybe...a little over 2 years. approaching the three year mark. I'm very receptive of hurting someone else's feelings, but yes. the wait what response was very prominent. lmao.
He doesn't necessarily picture you getting pregnant or masturbate to himself saying that.
It's just his twisted way of destabilizing you, leaving you, as you mentioned, in a "wait...what?" state.
Nonsense words are usually used by men to draw the attention, he could have said anything really, its only intent is to make you think about him.
The weirder the conversation the more time you'll be spending trying to figure him out. Problem is there's nothing to figure out so you're wasting your time trying to come up with an answer when there's none.
My guess would be that he's trying to implant in your brain the idea, not for now maybe for the future, of starting a family together. There's usually a moment in your life when you start thinking about havin kids and you have no certainty you'll be in relationship when that happens. So there's an outside chance you'll associate, when the thought occurs, the idea of having kids with his figure and if you're single by that time who knows what could happen if you're still in speaking terms.
Besides, the fact you haven't shut him down means you probably value your time with him and he knows that.
it's still so strange to me. never had someone consistently say something like that to me before LOL. definitely makes you think "what the hell" over it for awhile
Posted by justagirllook at yourself and you'll find the answer 🙂
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.
Posted by Sugarfootyeah! I've heard of that. my Aries best friend told me once about pregnant porn being a thing, and I'm like "oh shit, not me. please not me"
Impregnation fetishist.
Pregnant sex fetishist.
It's real and yes it's happened to me. I agree it's alarming at first.
Posted by justagirllots of cap though. moon, ascendant, Neptune and Saturn. Mars and Uranus in Sag.... Aries Venus.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.
Posted by degenerate_ingenuehmm okay, nope not similiar.Posted by justagirllots of cap though. moon, ascendant, Neptune and Saturn. Mars and Uranus in Sag.... Aries Venus.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.click to expand
Posted by Montgomeryit is kind of odd. we aren't even dating. I'm definitely not having a kid when not in a relationship with the person. it definitely had the "wtf" attribute to it
It's like the reverse trap-- crazy women intentionally get knocked up so this
guy has to stay in her orbit forever.
Maybe he's thinking if he knocks you up... you'll never leave him, ever.
Personally, it would kind of creep me out.
Posted by justagirlanother guy who did was a Taurus/Scorp moon/Gem Venus/Aqua Mars. but the phase passed.Posted by degenerate_ingenuehmm okay, nope not similiar.Posted by justagirllots of cap though. moon, ascendant, Neptune and Saturn. Mars and Uranus in Sag.... Aries Venus.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.click to expand
that's kind of how I assumed this to be so I never paid much attention to it. "avoid the issue and it will go away" mindset, but then he brought it up two-three days ago again. it's been ongoing since maybe last May or earlier. but he kind of set it down for a bit, and now he's bringing it up again.
Posted by degenerate_ingenuethis was the cancer sun, aqua moon, Taurus venus/mars guy. but we were in a realationship lolPosted by justagirlanother guy who did was a Taurus/Scorp moon/Gem Venus/Aqua Mars. but the phase passed.Posted by degenerate_ingenuehmm okay, nope not similiar.Posted by justagirllots of cap though. moon, ascendant, Neptune and Saturn. Mars and Uranus in Sag.... Aries Venus.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.
that's kind of how I assumed this to be so I never paid much attention to it. "avoid the issue and it will go away" mindset, but then he brought it up two-three days ago again. it's been ongoing since maybe last May or earlier. but he kind of set it down for a bit, and now he's bringing it up again.click to expand
Posted by justagirlEXACTLY. that's why this doesn't make sense to me period!! if he thinks I'm having a kid and we're not in a relationship he's dreaming. he talks about marriage and kids yet we aren't even dating LOL. wut.Posted by degenerate_ingenuethis was the cancer sun, aqua moon, Taurus venus/mars guy. but we were in a realationship lolPosted by justagirlanother guy who did was a Taurus/Scorp moon/Gem Venus/Aqua Mars. but the phase passed.Posted by degenerate_ingenuehmm okay, nope not similiar.Posted by justagirllots of cap though. moon, ascendant, Neptune and Saturn. Mars and Uranus in Sag.... Aries Venus.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.
that's kind of how I assumed this to be so I never paid much attention to it. "avoid the issue and it will go away" mindset, but then he brought it up two-three days ago again. it's been ongoing since maybe last May or earlier. but he kind of set it down for a bit, and now he's bringing it up again.click to expand
Neptune must be prominent in his chart because he's delusional. ok that's my joke for the day. I'm done now LOL. he's actually a Mars, Saturn and I think Jupiter guy.. I'll have to check sometime. he's a mystery I'll never understand. maybe it's the Capricorn/Aries factor. and neither one is winning
Posted by rampartsinteresting! I'm about to check. I'll be back to you on that in 5-10. use my little Astro app 🤓
Check your moon/Mars aspects with this person. Never fails. If they aspect each other it brings on impregnation fantasies.
Posted by degenerate_ingenueIt's not supposed to make sense, that's why you're "tripping".Posted by justagirlEXACTLY. that's why this doesn't make sense to me period!!Posted by degenerate_ingenuethis was the cancer sun, aqua moon, Taurus venus/mars guy. but we were in a realationship lolPosted by justagirlanother guy who did was a Taurus/Scorp moon/Gem Venus/Aqua Mars. but the phase passed.Posted by degenerate_ingenuehmm okay, nope not similiar.Posted by justagirllots of cap though. moon, ascendant, Neptune and Saturn. Mars and Uranus in Sag.... Aries Venus.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.
that's kind of how I assumed this to be so I never paid much attention to it. "avoid the issue and it will go away" mindset, but then he brought it up two-three days ago again. it's been ongoing since maybe last May or earlier. but he kind of set it down for a bit, and now he's bringing it up again.click to expand
Posted by Paleriosigh.. at this point, that statement is the only one to make sense lmfao. I'm definitely tripping. I thought him saying that was definitely a phase that would pass and never return. what a mind game, and I'm the loser. oh well lmao at least I have some well-rounded feedback on it. it helps to at least get it out there instead of trying to put a nonexistent puzzle together in my head. this reverse psychology tactic... NOT COOL. you'd never think a guy would say something like that.Posted by degenerate_ingenueIt's not supposed to make sense, that's why you're "tripping".Posted by justagirlEXACTLY. that's why this doesn't make sense to me period!!Posted by degenerate_ingenuethis was the cancer sun, aqua moon, Taurus venus/mars guy. but we were in a realationship lolPosted by justagirlanother guy who did was a Taurus/Scorp moon/Gem Venus/Aqua Mars. but the phase passed.Posted by degenerate_ingenuehmm okay, nope not similiar.Posted by justagirllots of cap though. moon, ascendant, Neptune and Saturn. Mars and Uranus in Sag.... Aries Venus.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.
that's kind of how I assumed this to be so I never paid much attention to it. "avoid the issue and it will go away" mindset, but then he brought it up two-three days ago again. it's been ongoing since maybe last May or earlier. but he kind of set it down for a bit, and now he's bringing it up again.click to expand
Posted by rampartsOMG you're golden. his Mars is square my moon. it's a very weak aspect. I'm at 15 degrees Virgo for my moon and he's at 21 or 23 degrees for his Sag Mars. the app says it is a weak aspect within 9.1 degrees. for a weak aspect it surely has a strong effect LOL.
Check your moon/Mars aspects with this person. Never fails. If they aspect each other it brings on impregnation fantasies.
that is crazy! I'm making mental note of moon-Mars synastry aspects
Posted by Sugarfootyea i was going to suggest that if her dude had cancer placements. didn't know it was like that for caps too.Posted by justagirlI think it's a cap and cancer thing which would make sense given that they are the parenthood signs.Posted by degenerate_ingenuethis was the cancer sun, aqua moon, Taurus venus/mars guy. but we were in a realationship lolPosted by justagirlanother guy who did was a Taurus/Scorp moon/Gem Venus/Aqua Mars. but the phase passed.Posted by degenerate_ingenuehmm okay, nope not similiar.Posted by justagirllots of cap though. moon, ascendant, Neptune and Saturn. Mars and Uranus in Sag.... Aries Venus.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.
that's kind of how I assumed this to be so I never paid much attention to it. "avoid the issue and it will go away" mindset, but then he brought it up two-three days ago again. it's been ongoing since maybe last May or earlier. but he kind of set it down for a bit, and now he's bringing it up again.click to expand
Posted by rampartsyes here's the apps description:Posted by degenerate_ingenueThat's actually perfect. It's always the man's mars on the woman's moon. I'd be careful around him. LolPosted by rampartsOMG you're golden. his Mars is square my moon. it's a very weak aspect. I'm at 15 degrees Virgo for my moon and he's at 21 or 23 degrees for his Sag Mars. the app says it is a weak aspect within 9.1 degrees. for a weak aspect it surely has a strong effect LOL.
Check your moon/Mars aspects with this person. Never fails. If they aspect each other it brings on impregnation fantasies.
that is crazy! I'm making mental note of moon-Mars synastry aspectsclick to expand
The planetary energies conflict; internal and creative tensions bring rich rewards through effort over time.
This aspect, of the Moon in square with partner's Mars, is indicative of volatile passions, a drive to control, and some disagreement about partnership direction and purpose. H (me) may dislike the impatience of M (him), and the desire for action for action's sake. One partner may be faster or more bold than the other, and risks may be taken when they should be avoided. In a romantic context, you will encounter active passion, perhaps magnetic physical attraction, but not a lot of support for each other's goals. This aspect can also indicate the potential for indiscretion, an inclination to temper or anger, desires gone a bit out of control. One partner may express their will strongly, emote without restraint, or desire without balance. There could also be fluctuations in romantic feelings between you, or business objectives can get in the way of romance. There may be a feeling of the too abrupt, or rude, or on the other hand, hypersensitivity, excess zeal, or rash demands made. Emotional reactions can become the norm, with one partner commandeering the other outside of the restraints of poise and balance. The exchange between you can be dynamic, but it needs careful attention and discipline, so that you don't get carried away into unwanted consequences.
Aspect details: M's Mars in weak square (within 9.1 degrees) with H's Moon.
Posted by ramparts"unwanted consequences" aka pregnancy. aka single and pregnantPosted by degenerate_ingenueThat's actually perfect. It's always the man's mars on the woman's moon. I'd be careful around him. LolPosted by rampartsOMG you're golden. his Mars is square my moon. it's a very weak aspect. I'm at 15 degrees Virgo for my moon and he's at 21 or 23 degrees for his Sag Mars. the app says it is a weak aspect within 9.1 degrees. for a weak aspect it surely has a strong effect LOL.
Check your moon/Mars aspects with this person. Never fails. If they aspect each other it brings on impregnation fantasies.
that is crazy! I'm making mental note of moon-Mars synastry aspectsclick to expand
lmao ‚
Posted by degenerate_ingenueDid the idea of dating him ever crossed your mind in the past 3 years?Posted by Paleriosigh.. at this point, that statement is the only one to make sense lmfao. I'm definitely tripping. I thought him saying that was definitely a phase that would pass and never return. what a mind game, and I'm the loser. oh well lmao at least I have some well-rounded feedback on it. it helps to at least get it out there instead of trying to put a nonexistent puzzle together in my head. this reverse psychology tactic... NOT COOL. you'd never think a guy would say something like that.Posted by degenerate_ingenueIt's not supposed to make sense, that's why you're "tripping".Posted by justagirlEXACTLY. that's why this doesn't make sense to me period!!Posted by degenerate_ingenuethis was the cancer sun, aqua moon, Taurus venus/mars guy. but we were in a realationship lolPosted by justagirlanother guy who did was a Taurus/Scorp moon/Gem Venus/Aqua Mars. but the phase passed.Posted by degenerate_ingenuehmm okay, nope not similiar.Posted by justagirllots of cap though. moon, ascendant, Neptune and Saturn. Mars and Uranus in Sag.... Aries Venus.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.
that's kind of how I assumed this to be so I never paid much attention to it. "avoid the issue and it will go away" mindset, but then he brought it up two-three days ago again. it's been ongoing since maybe last May or earlier. but he kind of set it down for a bit, and now he's bringing it up again.click to expand
Posted by Palerioactually yes. but his behavior is unstable. so it is too frustrating. I would. I've always supported him, and we share similar world viewpoints. but I don't push the issue. we got in an argument once and stated "you're not my girlfriend." I responded with "when did I ever say I was".Posted by degenerate_ingenueDid the idea of dating him ever crossed your mind in the past 3 years?Posted by Paleriosigh.. at this point, that statement is the only one to make sense lmfao. I'm definitely tripping. I thought him saying that was definitely a phase that would pass and never return. what a mind game, and I'm the loser. oh well lmao at least I have some well-rounded feedback on it. it helps to at least get it out there instead of trying to put a nonexistent puzzle together in my head. this reverse psychology tactic... NOT COOL. you'd never think a guy would say something like that.Posted by degenerate_ingenueIt's not supposed to make sense, that's why you're "tripping".Posted by justagirlEXACTLY. that's why this doesn't make sense to me period!!Posted by degenerate_ingenuethis was the cancer sun, aqua moon, Taurus venus/mars guy. but we were in a realationship lolPosted by justagirlanother guy who did was a Taurus/Scorp moon/Gem Venus/Aqua Mars. but the phase passed.Posted by degenerate_ingenuehmm okay, nope not similiar.Posted by justagirllots of cap though. moon, ascendant, Neptune and Saturn. Mars and Uranus in Sag.... Aries Venus.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.
that's kind of how I assumed this to be so I never paid much attention to it. "avoid the issue and it will go away" mindset, but then he brought it up two-three days ago again. it's been ongoing since maybe last May or earlier. but he kind of set it down for a bit, and now he's bringing it up again.click to expand
the energy is very back and forth. that's the main reason why I don't understand it. then again, he may not even understan
understand it himself* ^
Posted by rampartsReversed roles works wonders, I'm experiencing it now.Posted by degenerate_ingenueThat's actually perfect. It's always the man's mars on the woman's moon. I'd be careful around him. LolPosted by rampartsOMG you're golden. his Mars is square my moon. it's a very weak aspect. I'm at 15 degrees Virgo for my moon and he's at 21 or 23 degrees for his Sag Mars. the app says it is a weak aspect within 9.1 degrees. for a weak aspect it surely has a strong effect LOL.
Check your moon/Mars aspects with this person. Never fails. If they aspect each other it brings on impregnation fantasies.
that is crazy! I'm making mental note of moon-Mars synastry aspectsclick to expand
Only difference I can't get pregnant 😄
Posted by justagirlyeah you'd think so. he has no cancer in his chart minus it being his descendant, and his fourth house only has the asteroid pholus. other than that: barePosted by Sugarfootyea i was going to suggest that if her dude had cancer placements. didn't know it was like that for caps too.Posted by justagirlI think it's a cap and cancer thing which would make sense given that they are the parenthood signs.Posted by degenerate_ingenuethis was the cancer sun, aqua moon, Taurus venus/mars guy. but we were in a realationship lolPosted by justagirlanother guy who did was a Taurus/Scorp moon/Gem Venus/Aqua Mars. but the phase passed.Posted by degenerate_ingenuehmm okay, nope not similiar.Posted by justagirllots of cap though. moon, ascendant, Neptune and Saturn. Mars and Uranus in Sag.... Aries Venus.
What sign is this guy? just curious. i had an odd conversation like this once too just wondering if they the same sign or have similair placements.
that's kind of how I assumed this to be so I never paid much attention to it. "avoid the issue and it will go away" mindset, but then he brought it up two-three days ago again. it's been ongoing since maybe last May or earlier. but he kind of set it down for a bit, and now he's bringing it up again.click to expand
Posted by littlemegabyte‚‚‚‚ he is a friend of mine, which is why I haven't cut the tie and have avoided the confrontation over it. I don't want to be mean, but I also don't want to be pregnant. as friends, we have a lot in common and have always gotten along well. if he was some random guy I didn't know trust me I'd be miles away and not even thinking about it. being somewhat close to him makes it so much more difficult for me! that's why my mind is in a knot. I did like him before, which also makes it hard. emphasis on still don't want to be pregnant. so far the single life is the life for me.
That is so creepy, gross. I would run so far and fast away from that shit.
I read somewhere that men with cancer placements can get turned on by the idea of getting a woman pregnant, but it looks like that was already mentioned and debunked by his placements.
but yeah maybe his cancer descendant is screaming at him from a distance though lmao.
Posted by rampartsNice 🙂Posted by PalerioYes 🙂 it works either way. I have a double whammy moon/Mars with my bfPosted by rampartsReversed roles works wonders, I'm experiencing it now.Posted by degenerate_ingenueThat's actually perfect. It's always the man's mars on the woman's moon. I'd be careful around him. LolPosted by rampartsOMG you're golden. his Mars is square my moon. it's a very weak aspect. I'm at 15 degrees Virgo for my moon and he's at 21 or 23 degrees for his Sag Mars. the app says it is a weak aspect within 9.1 degrees. for a weak aspect it surely has a strong effect LOL.
Check your moon/Mars aspects with this person. Never fails. If they aspect each other it brings on impregnation fantasies.
that is crazy! I'm making mental note of moon-Mars synastry aspects
Only difference I can't get pregnant 😄click to expand
I have venus/mars on her sun and my sun is on her moon.
Posted by littlemegabyteBasically he wants to rape you.Posted by rampartsForgive my ignorance, but what can be said about a moon-mars conjunction within about 2 degrees? My moon, his mars. In Capricorn.
Check your moon/Mars aspects with this person. Never fails. If they aspect each other it brings on impregnation fantasies.click to expand
Posted by littlemegabytesometimes I feel like I'm the epitome of ignorance so no forgiveness needed lmao. Ill readjust some times in my app for people and post the conjunction description here for you 🙂 brbPosted by rampartsForgive my ignorance, but what can be said about a moon-mars conjunction within about 2 degrees? My moon, his mars. In Capricorn.
Check your moon/Mars aspects with this person. Never fails. If they aspect each other it brings on impregnation fantasies.click to expand
Posted by littlemegabyteMartin's Mars in conjunction with Matt's MoonPosted by rampartsForgive my ignorance, but what can be said about a moon-mars conjunction within about 2 degrees? My moon, his mars. In Capricorn.
Check your moon/Mars aspects with this person. Never fails. If they aspect each other it brings on impregnation fantasies.click to expand
The strongest blend of the energies represented by these two planets.
With this aspect, of the Moon in conjunction with partner's Mars, your partnership is active and enthusiastic. You feel support for each other, with a definite drive to succeed and to express your emotional selves strongly. There could be volatile emotions expressed between you at times, in a mostly congenial relationship. In a romantic context, this aspect inclines towards energetic responses to each other, with magnetic physical attraction, sympathetic passion and appeal, real enjoyment of family and friends together. You may encounter open expressions of volatile emotions, even anger, but for the most part these can be resolved in short order. Your relationship involves active participation with each other. It is likely that Martin more often engages, and Matt more often responds with feeling. Together you have a strong desire for things of comfort: home, security, or a sense of protection. Your primal instincts are engaged, along with joyful and energetic physical expression, a sense of athletic enjoyment with each other. You experience the will to be bonded with your partner, the drive for more feeling and just being more alive together.
Aspect details: Martin's Mars in conjunction (within 6.0 degrees) with Matt's Moon
I left names in so you could tell who's who. that way you can differentiate the moon from the Mars person since both of them start with M.
Definitely moon-mars. More specifically the man's mars conjunct the woman's moon creates the obsession with getting amd keeping the woman pregnant.
Posted by rampartslmao. hot and frightening. what a mix ‚. lots of moon, Venus and Saturn sextiles throughout the chart. hard aspects would be my Saturn conjunct his sun and Merc. our jupiters are opposite. my ascendant is opposite his Jupiter. Venus/Mars trine and sextile. moons trine. suns square. Sun/Merc Square. Moon/Merc sextile. it's an interesting compatibility chart given the emphasis on Saturn. and the impulsive pregnancy aspect which I never knew was a thing until today LOL. it's an interesting mix. his moon also has weak conjunction with my Uranus and Neptune. my moon sextile his Pluto.Posted by degenerate_ingenueLol possibly. Not well thought out urges on his part. He's being lead by his primal urges. He just wants to knock you up in the most animalistic way. There's no doubt he's masturbating to you like you said 😆Posted by ramparts"unwanted consequences" aka pregnancy. aka single and pregnantPosted by degenerate_ingenueThat's actually perfect. It's always the man's mars on the woman's moon. I'd be careful around him. LolPosted by rampartsOMG you're golden. his Mars is square my moon. it's a very weak aspect. I'm at 15 degrees Virgo for my moon and he's at 21 or 23 degrees for his Sag Mars. the app says it is a weak aspect within 9.1 degrees. for a weak aspect it surely has a strong effect LOL.
Check your moon/Mars aspects with this person. Never fails. If they aspect each other it brings on impregnation fantasies.
that is crazy! I'm making mental note of moon-Mars synastry aspects
lmao ‚
It's a hot aspect. But it needs lost of stabilizing from other harmonious aspectsclick to expand
the on and off factor with Uranus/moon is interesting, but whenever I think he's off and away, he scoots back in with a hello. it's a very interesting roller coaster.
I'm moving out of the area in a year anyways. that's the goal at least. I've lived here all my life and I want to get out and see and live in a new environment. it's stuffy and depressing here. so this will one day all be in the past. currently it's very fascinating though LOL
Posted by sultrykittythat is frightening. honestly pregnancy isn't my cup of tea. I think about kids sometimes. when I see little kids being cute in public, I'm like "awwww" then you see other ones screaming and crying and I'm like "screw that".
Definitely moon-mars. More specifically the man's mars conjunct the woman's moon creates the obsession with getting amd keeping the woman pregnant.
plus the fact that I'd have to deal with the labor process. yuck. honestly due to my scoliosis, one chiropractor said if it doesn't get better I may have issues during childbirth or I may die during childbirth. plus I'm a twig.
basically me and pregnancy.... we just don't get along.
Posted by degenerate_ingenueYeah, I had a period between 24-25 when I thought having kids would be something I'd be interested in. Before and after that, not a hint of interest. Some of us just aren't geared that way. 🙂Posted by sultrykittythat is frightening. honestly pregnancy isn't my cup of tea. I think about kids sometimes. when I see little kids being cute in public, I'm like "awwww" then you see other ones screaming and crying and I'm like "screw that".
Definitely moon-mars. More specifically the man's mars conjunct the woman's moon creates the obsession with getting amd keeping the woman pregnant.
plus the fact that I'd have to deal with the labor process. yuck. honestly due to my scoliosis, one chiropractor said if it doesn't get better I may have issues during childbirth or I may die during childbirth. plus I'm a twig.
basically me and pregnancy.... we just don't get along.click to expand
Posted by degenerate_ingenueVery interesting...it sounds like he's one move away from checkmating you but he has no clue 😆
actually yes. but his behavior is unstable. so it is too frustrating. I would. I've always supported him, and we share similar world viewpoints. but I don't push the issue. we got in an argument once and stated "you're not my girlfriend." I responded with "when did I ever say I was".
the energy is very back and forth. that's the main reason why I don't understand it. then again, he may not even understan
Posted by littlemegabytelmfao im the killer of dreams, what can I say? haha ‚‚
Also back to your post, OP - 😄 you're going to crush his dreams and eliminate his masturbation material when you tell him you don't want to bear his children ‚‚‚
and the app is TimePassages! I got it in the App Store. I paid for the full version because I'm crazy. I really liked the app. someone posted something on Twitter and I got the free version and loved it!
Posted by Paleriolmao! I still don't really want kids though 😛Posted by degenerate_ingenueVery interesting...it sounds like he's one move away from checkmating you but he has no clue 😆
actually yes. but his behavior is unstable. so it is too frustrating. I would. I've always supported him, and we share similar world viewpoints. but I don't push the issue. we got in an argument once and stated "you're not my girlfriend." I responded with "when did I ever say I was".
the energy is very back and forth. that's the main reason why I don't understand it. then again, he may not even understanclick to expand
Posted by tizianiinteresting. I've never had guys really say it to me. maybe a couple.
This seems normal to me. I've felt this way about women. No I did not masturbate to them. Him saying it repeatedly is what's abnormal - then it becomes just a ploy for your attention as if he lacks anything else to do/say.
YES! sometimes I feel like he doesn't know what to say. he is a bit awkward emotionally & intimately. whenever he reveals stuff about himself he closes off for awhile. the first time he said that to me, the next day I saw him he just blushed, said hi and walked in the other direction to talk to someone else. every time he'd say that to me, the following interaction we'd have he'd turn pink/slightly avoid me but was still friendly, just awkward.
his chart is almost like an emotional confound altogether. it's interesting to analyze. regardless of what happens I'll always be his friend. sometimes I think that he just appreciates that I have an innate understanding for his sensitivity. he tries to act like a big tough guy. when I got to know him there's a lot more sensitivity to him than he allows it to appear. he knows that I know that. I've mentioned it to him a couple times in private, and he stays quiet. normally he gets combative (towards others). he confides in me and knows I won't judge him. sometimes I think that's why he acts this way. I feel like the people he surrounds himself with he always has to put an act on for to appear tough and cold, but it's not who he is on the inside. these are all people he grew up with, so he values them no matter what and doesn't want to lose those friendships.
some aspects of his moon and Venus:
Moon conjunct Saturn
sun semi-square moon
moon square Venus
Venus square Neptune
Venus square Uranus
Moon conjunct Uranus
moon conjunct Neptune
moon sextile Pluto
Venus bi-quintile Pluto
also Mars conjunct Saturn and Mars conjunct Uranus
I agree with the fact it's a weird thing to repeat... that's why I decided "why not let it all out on my own thread?". it is just...different. I thought it would pass, but like you said...it's almost like that's all he knows to say/do. he's very awkward emotionally.
the last time I saw him he was upset over an ending of a childhood friendship. he tried to act like a big tough guy (as usual) saying "he's a snitch. he's a snitch I don't give a fuck about him." I worked on him about it to help him be softer about it/more open-minded, but he took it as though I was siding with the other guy. I told him afterwards (I could sense his hurt feelings) "you know I care about YOU right?" he started waving his hand around saying "and...what. what do you want me to say" (he was still upset), and I said he didn't have to say anything. then he clammed up and said "oh...ok. well...ok well...thanks I guess...thanks".
@tiziani
altogether it is a big puzzle. and I'm naturally curious and wanting to figure everything out. sometimes I just think he appreciates my gentler approach to life and my understanding. then he overdoes it in his mind. fantasizing about things once he starts thinking about how I treat him. almost like he wants security that I appear to "provide" but he doesn't know about it at he same time.
altogether it is a big puzzle. and I'm naturally curious and wanting to figure everything out. sometimes I just think he appreciates my gentler approach to life and my understanding. then he overdoes it in his mind. fantasizing about things once he starts thinking about how I treat him. almost like he wants security that I appear to "provide" but he doesn't know about it at he same time.
Posted by Westsidekodakhaving kids is just too stuffy for me. I don't like that type of trap.Posted by degenerate_ingenueI like it when girls try to trap me. Kind of a turn on.
by a guy that he wants to get you pregnant so you can have kids together? (and also get married- but the pregnant thing is what really threw me off) no I'm not dating the guy who keeps saying this. he just said it again the other day. it's like he's fantasizing about getting me pregnant and it's really strange.
real talk. this guy keeps doing/saying that and I don't know how to react. the first time he ever said it I responded with "wait what?" he repeated. I go "uhh...let's not talk about that right now" lmfao. he gets really into it. I don't understand. I don't want to be a bitch and shut him down and ruin his hopes and dreams of getting me pregnant (LOL) but I dont even get the motive behind it anyways.
he probably masturbates to him saying that. though my response isn't masturbation worthy. he calls and tells me this. not always. we have normal conversation. then we have bizarre conversation. he's unpredictable. maybe he gets off on imagining getting me pregnant. kind of odd though...
anyone else have really strange encounters like this? where guys say really off things out of the blue leaving you like "wait...what?"click to expand
I'm just not the type to ever have children with someone unless I was 110% sure that I could see myself with them for the rest of my life.
everyone is different though 🙂
it is interesting to see someone with a different viewpoint. I'm just such a cautious person in general. not a fan of being confined either.
@degenerate_ingenue "YES! sometimes I feel like he doesn't know what to say. he is a bit awkward emotionally & intimately. whenever he reveals stuff about himself he closes off for awhile. the first time he said that to me, the next day I saw him he just blushed, said hi and walked in the other direction to talk to someone else. every time he'd say that to me, the following interaction we'd have he'd turn pink/slightly avoid me but was still friendly, just awkward."
That is his sun sign all the way... reveal and hide/withdraw.
That is his sun sign all the way... reveal and hide/withdraw.
Posted by sultrykittyyeah it is somewhat like that for me! my Aries best friend has been really on about having kids one day. she has baby fever lol for sure. it got me thinking about it in general, but idk.... my personality just isn't that nurturing. I'd want to KNOW I'd give them a great life, full of happiness, love and balance. and id want to have a child with someone who id be with til the end. it just seems very difficult to achieve that, and I wouldn't want to do it wrong. I like to do my own thing anyways, so I think I'm leaning towards no kids for life unless something truly changes my mind. kids are cute but not when they're wailing and screaming to get their way or just to scream and cry. I wouldn't really know what to do.Posted by degenerate_ingenueYeah, I had a period between 24-25 when I thought having kids would be something I'd be interested in. Before and after that, not a hint of interest. Some of us just aren't geared that way. 🙂Posted by sultrykittythat is frightening. honestly pregnancy isn't my cup of tea. I think about kids sometimes. when I see little kids being cute in public, I'm like "awwww" then you see other ones screaming and crying and I'm like "screw that".
Definitely moon-mars. More specifically the man's mars conjunct the woman's moon creates the obsession with getting amd keeping the woman pregnant.
plus the fact that I'd have to deal with the labor process. yuck. honestly due to my scoliosis, one chiropractor said if it doesn't get better I may have issues during childbirth or I may die during childbirth. plus I'm a twig.
basically me and pregnancy.... we just don't get along.click to expand
I volunteered at a Boys and Girls Club 3 years ago and I remember this kid was just crying!! I had no idea why. I tried to make him feel better and he just started crying more... I sat there completely dumbfounded. lmao ‚ so sad. well. at least I can say I tried.
Posted by tizianione time I was eating gummy worms and I had two. I missed my mouth with one but the other one was a success. (don't ask how I accomplish things like this- clumsy for life).
For me it doesn't have to do with loving a woman. It's a primal instinct.
Like DI with this guy I've no idea why he keeps mentioning what he's mentioning but it could just be something as simple as the way you walk.
he saw and thought it was hysterical.
I also tried playfully hitting him once and I hit myself in the face with my keys instead on accident. he was also very amused with that too.
maybe it's as simple as the way I am a klutz 😆
I had a guy tell me the same. More like this though:
"Would you have a baby with me or not?"
This was after like a month of "dating" (I guess)
I was like ummmm, no i would not
"Would you have a baby with me or not?"
This was after like a month of "dating" (I guess)
I was like ummmm, no i would not
Posted by justagirltrue!! I've always noticed that, even with my dad. that's why I always kind of knew he was serious, but I thought it would pass with time. I never really took it to heart. the more he brings it up more than 6 months later it is starting to make me really analyze the situation.
@degenerate_ingenue "YES! sometimes I feel like he doesn't know what to say. he is a bit awkward emotionally & intimately. whenever he reveals stuff about himself he closes off for awhile. the first time he said that to me, the next day I saw him he just blushed, said hi and walked in the other direction to talk to someone else. every time he'd say that to me, the following interaction we'd have he'd turn pink/slightly avoid me but was still friendly, just awkward."
That is his sun sign all the way... reveal and hide/withdraw.
hes a good guy. just has a very interesting way of expressing himself. lmao. he's a character 😆
I'll always appreciate and accept him regardless of his outbursts that has me analyzing everything to the nitty gritty. Virgo moon on overdrive combined with detective Scorpio tendencies = mental exhaustion
Posted by tiziani"when she hit herself in the face with the keys, I knew she was the one" LOL 😆Posted by degenerate_ingenuePure chemistry 🙂Posted by tizianione time I was eating gummy worms and I had two. I missed my mouth with one but the other one was a success. (don't ask how I accomplish things like this- clumsy for life).
For me it doesn't have to do with loving a woman. It's a primal instinct.
Like DI with this guy I've no idea why he keeps mentioning what he's mentioning but it could just be something as simple as the way you walk.
he saw and thought it was hysterical.
I also tried playfully hitting him once and I hit myself in the face with my keys instead on accident. he was also very amused with that too.
maybe it's as simple as the way I am a klutz 😆
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Posted by Ktammycoh lord. yeah I kind of dance around the question. I don't say no but I definitely don't say yes. I see "we'll see" "one step at a time". I just keep it vague.
I had a guy tell me the same. More like this though:
"Would you have a baby with me or not?"
This was after like a month of "dating" (I guess)
I was like ummmm, no i would not
my ex (Virgo) also said that to me, but he cheated on me all the time so I never even had sex with him. we dated for three years and no action. I just didn't trust him enough. I mean he banged all those other girls behind my back, so at that point, having sex with him just seemed like a statistical risk for STDs. I weighed it all out, and I just never wanted to have sex with him. I'd rationalize and talk myself out of it every time. I also was paranoid he would purposely "accidentally" get me pregnant. poke a hole in the condom type of stuff. I had the fear that anything could go wrong with him, so I avoided it altogether. LOL
I bet he thought he was close to the finish line the longer we dated. that relationship was a train wreck! but he always talked about having kids. it was strange. no way
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he probably masturbates to him saying that. though my response isn't masturbation worthy. he calls and tells me this. not always. we have normal conversation. then we have bizarre conversation. he's unpredictable. maybe he gets off on imagining getting me pregnant. kind of odd though...
anyone else have really strange encounters like this? where guys say really off things out of the blue leaving you like "wait...what?"