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ladies, do you find that those brooding sexy looking men just makes you want to go....DAYUMMM yeahhhh ummmm *drools*
compared to a smiling happy faced guy?
ok that's extreme lol
but you get it. heehee. π π
Posted by GreyWiz
i think the smiley guy is the true alpha male
lmao.
the "hidden" alpha huh? no woman would have suspected.
Lol! I think it's just we don't take the happy men seriously.. Maybe we tend to trust brooding men more because we find them more responsible kind or something on those lines?
Posted by Teena
Lol! I think it's just we don't take the happy men seriously.. Maybe we tend to trust brooding men more because we find them more responsible kind or something on those lines?
it's truly hard to find a "happygo Lucky guy who doens't look TOO extremely happy" online. π
it's like, maybe they will lol all the time.
Posted by GreyWiz
those broody guys look like their emo and like they just got bitch slapped by their girlfriend. If i could make a caption for their picture it would read"why i am such a emo little b.i.t.c.h".the smiley guys is simply excited because he is going to be getting a lot of sex. His caption would read" i made a killing in the stock market and now i am going to bang some bicthes".
now that's a very very good perspective!! he's going to go meet his new date.
or he won the lottery!!! He knows that with money $ $ $ $ $ he can change his life around and get a new attitude. lol
anyway, i agree with Teena, i dont know about other women, maybe they dont mind the smiling happy guy. I just find it interesting that they made a little scientific research on this about women wanting to bang hot brooding men. I know what they mean. lmao
Posted by lisabethur8
ladies, do you find that those brooding sexy looking men just makes you want to go....DAYUMMM yeahhhh ummmm *drools*
ok that's extreme lol
but you get it. heehee. π π
YUMMMM..... (as long as what's on his head isn't a man-bun. EW.)
As a side note, my guy looked quite a bit like that 20 years ago.
and it's like this:
π
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by lisabethur8
ladies, do you find that those brooding sexy looking men just makes you want to go....DAYUMMM yeahhhh ummmm *drools*
ok that's extreme lol
but you get it. heehee. π π
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YUMMMM..... (as long as what's on his head isn't a man-bun. EW.)
As a side note, my guy looked quite a bit like that 20 years ago.
lol hahaha on the man bun π but yeah the rest yummmmy dark sunglasses and the hot brooding mysterious look. Ay ay ayay!!! chicita!!! π just like my own man too.
ay aya yaaayyyyyy !!! pussycat pussycat. lol
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Teena
Lol! I think it's just we don't take the happy men seriously.. Maybe we tend to trust brooding men more because we find them more responsible kind or something on those lines?
it's truly hard to find a "happygo Lucky guy who doens't look TOO extremely happy" online. π
it's like, maybe they will lol all the time.
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Now this made me lol π
But yeah..ikr??! They lol all the time n creep us out at times :-P
Happy go lucky men just tend to be ''typical''. I like both but I'm more attracted to the reserved brooding one. I think the quietest people are the most interesting once you get to know them. Personally, I'm just curious about reserved guys. They seem so mature and they're a challenge.
Posted by crescents
That ginger looks like he could be teased into smiling and then some.Λ
I think he looks like a bit of a hot mess, tbh.
The first pics seem a bit too forced imo. I wouldn't want to hang around someone with a furrowed brow too often. But I can't stop looking at the guy in the black shirt.
Lord help me.
Posted by Teena
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Teena
Lol! I think it's just we don't take the happy men seriously.. Maybe we tend to trust brooding men more because we find them more responsible kind or something on those lines?
it's truly hard to find a "happygo Lucky guy who doens't look TOO extremely happy" online. π
it's like, maybe they will lol all the time.
Now this made me lol π
But yeah..ikr??! They lol all the time n creep us out at times :-Pclick to expand
lmao ohhh shit it looks like looking for men online π but it's looking for gifs. They're all so goofy and stupid looking faces (overly extreme)
it IS creepy, just like a clown. π
Posted by GreyWiz
those broody guys look like their emo and like they just got bitch slapped by their girlfriend. If i could make a caption for their picture it would read"why i am such a emo little b.i.t.c.h".
Aw you're breaking my heart
Posted by crescents
That ginger looks like he could be teased into smiling and then some.Λ
oh you wicked wicked girl π
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by crescents
That ginger looks like he could be teased into smiling and then some.ΛI think he looks like a bit of a hot mess, tbh.
The first pics seem a bit too forced imo. I wouldn't want to hang around someone with a furrowed brow too often. But I can't stop looking at the guy in the black shirt.
Lord help me.
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you better do some praying!!! π π
get down on your knees from his angle.
π
these girls bring out the bad girls in us. *smh* tsk tsk terrible!!! lord have mercrrryyyyy
OOPS π
shit. I'm loling so much.
it should have written, THESE GUYS!!!
holy shit.
Posted by GreyWiz
poor happy go lucky guys.
i feel the compassion from you Grey.
I'm sure its the need to save them and make them happy
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by GreyWiz
poor happy go lucky guys.i feel the compassion from you Grey.
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ops forgot to include this.
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
I'm sure its the need to save them and make them happy
YES!!! π
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by GreyWiz
poor happy go lucky guys.i feel the compassion from you Grey.
ops forgot to include this.
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WTFβ! LMAO.
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by GreyWiz
poor happy go lucky guys.i feel the compassion from you Grey.
ops forgot to include this.
WTFβ! LMAO.
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lmao!!! Grey was feeling SAD for the happy go Lucky guys. soooooo he needed a gif too.
Now HE looks like he needs saving, lol. Someone go get the motherly/nuturing types in here.
this topic is just for fun and lols.
those happy go Lucky guys are HAPPY for a reason. So let's not make it so that they are LACKING. they're smiling!!! hey, no need to really be sad about them.
I'm just having fun with grey.
it's just the irony of it all.
Posted by sultrykitty
Now HE looks like he needs saving, lol. Someone go get the motherly/nuturing types in here.
lmao if Grey were a woman.....
would he be the nurturing type?
I think he may be the whiny type. (at least in the powder room)
π
I prefer happy go lucky men...always. The brooding type of guy is NOT for me.
Posted by GreyWiz
Posted by sultrykitty
I think he may be the whiny type. (at least in the powder room)π
get off my dick
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Easy Trigger. All in jest. :-)
Posted by GreyWiz
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by GreyWiz
Posted by sultrykitty
I think he may be the whiny type. (at least in the powder room)π
get off my dick
Easy Trigger. All in jest. :-)
oh you must not know me very well.
all i do is jest miss π
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Thank you, good to know!! Watch out for me, then..
Posted by GreyWiz
sultry kitty? come on you could have chosen a cooler name.how about catlady?
felinepleasure?
Twerkqueen π
LOL
jk
I know, I know. Cut ne some slack. I admit to being really bad at coming up with forum names.
Posted by GreyWiz
Posted by MsTeeq1974
I prefer happy go lucky men...always. The brooding type of guy is NOT for me.
YES!
Victory!
I hope you are blessed with a happy and successful relationship.
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Lol....so far, so good. We'll see what the future brings me and my guy. He just told me today that they might switch their schedule from six 12hr days to SEVEN 12hr days. That will NOT do! Holy cow. I'm praying hard about this one.
But yeah...brooding guys...IDK...I always feel like things are being taken too serious or that they haven't quite mastered the art of playing nice with strangers. I love it when the guy I'm with says hello and makes people feel at ease with conversation. So far the past two guys that I've formed a relationship with are GREAT at that. Each in their own way. The Aries would crack these random jokes and laugh...strangers LOVED it. My Scorp says hello to random strangers like he's a small town Mayor. He's sooooo social/happy go lucky that it's not even funny. lol
Posted by MsTeeq1974
Posted by GreyWiz
Posted by MsTeeq1974
I prefer happy go lucky men...always. The brooding type of guy is NOT for me.
YES!
Victory!
I hope you are blessed with a happy and successful relationship.
Lol....so far, so good. We'll see what the future brings me and my guy. He just told me today that they might switch their schedule from six 12hr days to SEVEN 12hr days. That will NOT do! Holy cow. I'm praying hard about this one.
But yeah...brooding guys...IDK...I always feel like things are being taken too serious or that they haven't quite mastered the art of playing nice with strangers. I love it when the guy I'm with says hello and makes people feel at ease with conversation. So far the past two guys that I've formed a relationship with are GREAT at that. Each in their own way. The Aries would crack these random jokes and laugh...strangers LOVED it. My Scorp says hello to random strangers like he's a small town Mayor. He's sooooo social/happy go lucky that it's not even funny. lol
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lol
your Scorpio man has a libra rising with saturn and Jupiter all in libra so it makes sense he's very happy go Lucky.
my man's moody, maybe it's his 4th house. lol but he's super yummy licioius.
but his sag mars can play
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by GreyWiz
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by GreyWiz
Posted by sultrykitty
I think he may be the whiny type. (at least in the powder room)π
get off my dick
Easy Trigger. All in jest. :-)
oh you must not know me very well.
all i do is jest miss π
Thank you, good to know!! Watch out for me, then..
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lol@ twerk queen. everytime i hear twerk queen... maybe "hornyqueen" too much?? π
Posted by GreyWiz
why do i feel rebellious all of sudden. i feel like doing the opposite of what every lisa does.shit.
Posted by sultrykitty
I think he may be the whiny type. (at least in the powder room)π
opposite of whiny? π π
what's that?
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by MsTeeq1974
Posted by GreyWiz
Posted by MsTeeq1974
I prefer happy go lucky men...always. The brooding type of guy is NOT for me.
YES!
Victory!
I hope you are blessed with a happy and successful relationship.
Lol....so far, so good. We'll see what the future brings me and my guy. He just told me today that they might switch their schedule from six 12hr days to SEVEN 12hr days. That will NOT do! Holy cow. I'm praying hard about this one.
But yeah...brooding guys...IDK...I always feel like things are being taken too serious or that they haven't quite mastered the art of playing nice with strangers. I love it when the guy I'm with says hello and makes people feel at ease with conversation. So far the past two guys that I've formed a relationship with are GREAT at that. Each in their own way. The Aries would crack these random jokes and laugh...strangers LOVED it. My Scorp says hello to random strangers like he's a small town Mayor. He's sooooo social/happy go lucky that it's not even funny. lol
lol
your Scorpio man has a libra rising with saturn and Jupiter all in libra so it makes sense he's very happy go Lucky.
my man's moody, maybe it's his 4th house. lol but he's super yummy licioius.
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Yes. I was shocked to find out that he's a Libra rising...until I saw that Jupiter conj...then it was like...ahhh...then the Venus chart ruler in Cap with Saturn in the first house....he wants to have the reputation of the guy who's cool with everybody. Now, the FUNNY part is that when we get alone and he's observing people, he talks mad shit about random strangers...LMBO!!! The stuff he says drops my jaw. At first it made me uncomfortable, because I was thinking that he was one of those people who thinks that they're better than everyone else. Then without me mentioning it, he fessed up that he knows that talking about people is a nasty habit and he stops himself...willingly. I was like, Whew! At least he knows that it's a nasty habit that he shouldn't have developed in the first place. He is a bit of an undercover snob though. Just a lil.
t liked my own post on accident -_- lolPosted by MsTeeq1974
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by MsTeeq1974
Posted by GreyWiz
Posted by MsTeeq1974
I prefer happy go lucky men...always. The brooding type of guy is NOT for me.
YES!
Victory!
I hope you are blessed with a happy and successful relationship.
Lol....so far, so good. We'll see what the future brings me and my guy. He just told me today that they might switch their schedule from six 12hr days to SEVEN 12hr days. That will NOT do! Holy cow. I'm praying hard about this one.
But yeah...brooding guys...IDK...I always feel like things are being taken too serious or that they haven't quite mastered the art of playing nice with strangers. I love it when the guy I'm with says hello and makes people feel at ease with conversation. So far the past two guys that I've formed a relationship with are GREAT at that. Each in their own way. The Aries would crack these random jokes and laugh...strangers LOVED it. My Scorp says hello to random strangers like he's a small town Mayor. He's sooooo social/happy go lucky that it's not even funny. lol
lol
your Scorpio man has a libra rising with saturn and Jupiter all in libra so it makes sense he's very happy go Lucky.
my man's moody, maybe it's his 4th house. lol but he's super yummy licioius.
Yes. I was shocked to find out that he's a Libra rising...until I saw that Jupiter conj...then it was like...ahhh...then the Venus chart ruler in Cap with Saturn in the first house....he wants to have the reputation of the guy who's cool with everybody. Now, the FUNNY part is that when we get alone and he's observing people, he talks mad shit about random strangers...LMBO!!! The stuff he says drops my jaw. At first it made me uncomfortable, because I was thinking that he was one of those people who thinks that they're better than everyone else. Then without me mentioning it, he fessed up that he knows that talking about people is a nasty habit and he stops himself...willingly. I was like, Whew! At least he knows that it's a nasty habit that he shouldn't have developed in the first place. He is a bit of an undercover snob though. Just a lil.
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like grey says, I wish you the best !!! π π and talking to random strangers?? dayummmm he is NOT shy at all. π
lol@Grey at not reading blogs & articles. lol π π
anyway, there's this other article that goes along the lines of this topic. Dating sites are ENCOURAGING guys to LOOK more serious and brooding because they did the research that women love that!!!
http://psychcentral.com/news/2011/05/25/brooding-proud-guys-score-high-on-sex-appeal/26471.html
"We are all familiar with media advertisements in which sullen looking men, often accompanied by a beautiful women, project an aura of sexuality and decadence. The βpictureβ sells the product, whatever the product may be.
The perceptions created by the ads may be accurate as investigators discover women find happy guys significantly less sexually attractive than swaggering or brooding men. University of British Columbia researchers say the findings may help explain the enduring allure of βbad boysβ and other iconic gender types.
The study β which may cause men to smile less on dates, and inspire online daters to update their profile photos β finds dramatic gender differences in how men and women rank the sexual attractiveness of non-verbal expressions of commonly displayed emotions, including happiness, pride, and shame.
Authors point out that very few studies have explored the relationship between emotions and attraction, and this is the first to report a significant gender difference in the attractiveness of smiles.
Another key contribution of this study is the unique inquiry into the attractiveness associated with displays of pride and shame.
The study is published online in the American Psychological Association journal Emotion.
βWhile showing a happy face is considered essential to friendly social interactions, including those involving sexual attraction β few studies have actually examined whether a smile is, in fact, attractive,β said psychologist Dr. Jessica Tracy. βThis study finds that men and women respond very differently to displays of emotion, including smiles.β
In a series of studies, more than 1,000 adult participants rated the sexual attractiveness of hundreds of images of the opposite sex engaged in universal displays of happiness (broad smiles), pride (raised heads, puffed-up chests) and shame (lowered heads, averted eyes)."
they have a photo of this guy looking super serious, after his natural smile was not encouraged. Jeeeez.....this is too much. Shouldn't it be NATURAL?
anyway i agree with grey about encouraging the guy. π
Yaaaaaasssssss I love miserable men.
Posted by lisabethur8
they have a photo of this guy looking super serious, after his natural smile was not encouraged. Jeeeez.....this is too much. Shouldn't it be NATURAL?
Hell no that mother fucker looks like he beats women for a living. happy or not. I'd run for the hills if I saw his ass walking towards me on the street.
LOL
No.
It's not like guys who smile are unattractive, it's that they have to look sexy and/or intense when they don't smile. And in general, scowls aren't sexy.
My Aquarius man is all about happy go lucky; he can be incredibly goofy. But when he's concentrating or super involved in something, he has an intensity that's super sexy.
He rides sport/racing ATV's for fun, and I have a pic of him riding full blast over some rocks in a creek with his riding pants, boots, and no shirt. Serious intense concentration on what he's doing. So f'ing hot.
I agree completely with Grey on not reading too many blogs, etc. There's are quite a few things that have happened in our relationship that let's me know that he's serious and one was randomly showing me his birth certificate one day. Lol ha ha ha ha
A Scorp showing someone a birth certificate out of the blue? I was shocked and pleased all at once. Lol
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Posted by lisabethur8
they have a photo of this guy looking super serious, after his natural smile was not encouraged. Jeeeez.....this is too much. Shouldn't it be NATURAL?
His smile looks more natural. You can't fake a serious face.
with a scorpio or capricorn moon = auto emo mode
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i would think it would be the rising, your moon sign doesn't show until you get into personal relationships (moon sign and house it's in) so basically the rising and mars (because mars is how you go about things = action) then in personal relationships you are comfortable to show your moon ect.
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-1390319/Scientists-happy-men-significantly-attractive-ladies.html
Women really DO find the silent, brooding type sexier: Scientists discover happy men are 'significantly less attractive'
But men prefer women with a smile on their faces, not those who are confident or proud
Women find happy men significantly less sexually attractive than those who swagger or brood, researchers said today.
They are least attracted to smiling men, instead preferring those who looked proud and powerful, or moody and ashamed, according to a study.
In contrast, men are most sexually attracted to women who look happy, and least attracted to those who appear proud and confident."