Zoning Out When Girlfriend Talks

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E. M. Henderson
@Emhendo
8 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

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I'm guilty. You probably are too...

I keep doing it with my Aqua chick. I don't know why. Maybe what she talking about isn't too interesting, or I can't keep up. She talks really slow and carefully (Capricorn Mercury), but she can say a mouth full and won't stop.

She tells me many stories and has many things to say, but I always end up asking her to repeat herself. I can HEAR her talking, but I'm not soakin in what she saying. Sometimes I be wanting her to just stop talking..

But I wanna be a better listener. It's so bad... She know I wasn't listening because she'll ask me if I was. I just be like "Right." "Oh wow.".. And I'll even ask her to repeat. She knows I'm not listening and I feel so bad.

I don't know if it's my stress, this retrograde, or just HER.. But I don't wanna blame her. I love talking to her, but I GOTTA STOP ZONING OUT.

Her mercury opposes mines. I can't tell our communication gonna be wacky anyway, but at least we can understand each other.