Is it me? It must be me because I have tried and tried and tried to tolerate Virgo men romantically, but I cannot seem to do so. Unfortunately, I find myself extremely attracted to them when we do meet, although they hardly ever are my physical type. I find them intelligent and introverted, which I like until I try to deal with them romantically, and then the introversion becomes a problem.
I've been entertaining this Virgo up until recently I decided we are better off as friends. The more I view him from this mindset, the more he makes sense to me as a human being, this probably won't change my better judgment, but I do find him amazing to study. What's terrible about this is the more I fall out of like, the more I think he starts to like me. He's allowed me into his personal life more. For example, when I use to ask him personal questions, he would vaguely answer and then walk off. I mentioned this casually, "You know you do that a lot?" Him: "Do what?" Me: "Walk off when you vaguely answer a personal question." Another girl: "He does do that!!" Him: *turns red* Now he will answer all the personal questions I have in-depth. He calls me his friend (which I'm cool with now that I've emotionally killed it), and he now tries to touch me a lot, which I tell him to keep his hands to himself, but I hate being touched in general.
Recently, I've found out my personality type as well as his, and it makes even more sense as to why he is the way he is, which he'll deny until the death of him. Still, I see past all of that bravado nonsense, before we even found out each other's personality types, and call him out whenever he does some bullbutter, and he knows this. Which I think has caused him to relax more, I find that odd. I caught him looking up INTJ and INFP compatibility, I'm an INTJ, and he's an INFP. I've always gotten along with Virgo women, and I think they are hilarious and charming, too forgiving but sweet souls nonetheless.
I'm super curious why Aquarius and Virgo do not get along romantically, and we're so similar and different at the same time that you would think it would work. Other than the introversion and the fact that Virgo men are a massive contradiction to themselves, these are tolerable although annoying to deal with.