3 strikes!!!

Do women give virguys 3 strikes faster then any other sign? If you go around looking at some of the shit other men of the zodiac do...hell we look like angels compared to some of the shit I read on other boards!! Don't get me wrong,we do have our faults,but do you guys think ours are more magnified!! Like women lose their absolute mind if a virguy do the same exact thing another guy of another sign do...are we just that powerful,or that hated— Like a cancer guy can disappear on his girl for weeks,months,years...and still come back,and she'll be waiting with open arms!! Let a virguy do something like that!! A scorpio guy can go cold for a while,go crazy then calm down!! Women still there!! Let a virguy do that,it's headline News!! Etc ...just my two cents..🙂

Lol yeah we do have 3 strikes the key is to know when you got with a strike. These women are not telling them they are on strike if he knew he would act right and shape up.

I think what it may be is that some virgo men may give the impression that they are so innocent, but when the woman finds out that he is not that innocent at all, there this huge outrage. For instance my the Libra guys that i have dated let me know from that start that the have a very hard time being faithful. They weren't trying to hide anything or act innocent. The Leo men who I have dated let me know that they were jealous and territorial up front. So when they started to show this kind of behavior it was no big shock.

Posted by canerleo101
I think what it may be is that some virgo men may give the impression that they are so innocent, but when the woman finds out that he is not that innocent at all, there this huge outrage. For instance my the Libra guys that i have dated let me know from that start that the have a very hard time being faithful. They weren't trying to hide anything or act innocent. The Leo men who I have dated let me know that they were jealous and territorial up front. So when they started to show this kind of behavior it was no big shock.

That's the virgo curse even if we tell you we are bad people don't believe. It's some aura we have around us to make us seem that way. That's why we get mad when we have to repeat our self people think we are playing and we are not.

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Posted by canerleo101
I think what it may be is that some virgo men may give the impression that they are so innocent, but when the woman finds out that he is not that innocent at all, there this huge outrage. For instance my the Libra guys that i have dated let me know from that start that the have a very hard time being faithful. They weren't trying to hide anything or act innocent. The Leo men who I have dated let me know that they were jealous and territorial up front. So when they started to show this kind of behavior it was no big shock.

That's the virgo curse even if we tell you we are bad people don't believe. It's some aura we have around us to make us seem that way. That's why we get mad when we have to repeat our self people think we are playing and we are not.

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You have a point because i always used to tell him that he was the perfect man, and he would say "im not perfect", and when he would say this it would make hin seem even more innocent. But at the same time i think he knew what he was doing.

Posted by CluelessCancer
It's not 3 strikes your out, it's just that the Virgo builds a fantasy for you, builds something dreamy and most women fall for it, thinking they found the perfect guy, to later find out it's just smoke and mirrors and a whole bunch of lies....

Virgos are very good actors and actresses off screen, they can make you believe in them, in their goodness, in their morals, until you get to really know and understand them, there are lots of layers to a Virgo, it's not clearcut.

I think that's what hurts many women including me, the idea of what they presented, and then having that idea shattered.

That fake shit real men know how to keep it 100/real. I have gone out with so many dogs who kept it real.

Posted by LilyTree
Or maybe it's us. Maybe we are the ones building the fantasy and not seem them for who they are.

No. I specificlly told this vigo guy that I was seeing that he and I should just be friends and that he still needs time to sow his wild oats. I told him this more than once. He played the role and acted as if he was so ready for marriage.Mind you that he is the one who mentioned marriage first, not me. Now he is lying to me about other women. He still can't keep it real. He only cares about his self.

Posted by scorchedearth
that's not a virgo specific thing though. the virgo you're dealing with is a douchebag. any man could do that to you, not just a virgo.

But I have dated so many men and i have never had this problem. I am 34 years old. I have been through divorces ect...

Posted by scorchedearth
blaming the sign of one person who's been fucked up to you really isn't fair. the fact that dude is a virgo is incidental. he's an asshat. you should tell him to go fuck himself and find someone else who won't be pulling that shit. if you stick around bitching about it but not trying to make your situation better you're not really doing yourself any favors. he's not the right guy for you. it's not his sign that did that.

True, after this i'm done with dating guys that are the same race as me.

Posted by scorchedearth
blaming the sign of one person who's been fucked up to you really isn't fair. the fact that dude is a virgo is incidental. he's an asshat. you should tell him to go fuck himself and find someone else who won't be pulling that shit. if you stick around bitching about it but not trying to make your situation better you're not really doing yourself any favors. he's not the right guy for you. it's not his sign that did that.

Now that i have read up on vigo men i have heard sooooo much negative stuff about them. But I kind of wanted info on virgo men just in case i encounter another one in the future.

Posted by scorchedearth
if you read any of the boards all men have a bunch of shit talked about them. mostly it's a bunch of women who can't accept responsibility for their own feelings projecting onto innocent men. even when the guys are being asshats the women are stupid and are staying even though they know they should leave. it's not so cut and dry that it's always the man's fault. women are responsible for their part in shit too. women expect men to be more like women and when they're not they get asshurt. you can't blame men for being men. you have to adjust your expectations.

if a man isn't treating you the way you want to be treated leave him and find someone who will. not every man you get into contact with is worth keeping around.

I agree that's why I have a no sex before marriage policy. It makes it easy to move on to the next.

Posted by scorchedearth
if you read any of the boards all men have a bunch of shit talked about them. mostly it's a bunch of women who can't accept responsibility for their own feelings projecting onto innocent men. even when the guys are being asshats the women are stupid and are staying even though they know they should leave. it's not so cut and dry that it's always the man's fault. women are responsible for their part in shit too. women expect men to be more like women and when they're not they get asshurt. you can't blame men for being men. you have to adjust your expectations.

if a man isn't treating you the way you want to be treated leave him and find someone who will. not every man you get into contact with is worth keeping around.

And trust me men get butthurt also but their way of dealing with it is being abusive to the woman. So it goes both ways. I know some woman that all the do is dog men.

Posted by CluelessCancer
It's not 3 strikes your out, it's just that the Virgo builds a fantasy for you, builds something dreamy and most women fall for it, thinking they found the perfect guy, to later find out it's just smoke and mirrors and a whole bunch of lies....

there are lots of layers to a Virgo

and here we all hear how women want men with depth/layers. They like the mystery that keeps them women on their toes during a romantic relationship. Just to put it out there for all women, quit having us conform to your beliefs, when it is only your emotional fantasy. Men don't even make their relevant wants of their women.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
It's not 3 strikes your out, it's just that the Virgo builds a fantasy for you, builds something dreamy and most women fall for it, thinking they found the perfect guy, to later find out it's just smoke and mirrors and a whole bunch of lies....

there are lots of layers to a Virgo

and here we all hear how women want men with depth/layers. They like the mystery that keeps them women on their toes during a romantic relationship. Just to put it out there for all women, quit having us conform to your beliefs, when it is only your emotional fantasy. Men don't even make their relevant wants of their women.

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I can agree with you some women want a challenge but now i'm too old for that shit. I guess that's why i left by cancer boyfriend. He wanted to get married but he was way too easy.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by virgowithasoul

Posted by CluelessCancer
It's not 3 strikes your out, it's just that the Virgo builds a fantasy for you, builds something dreamy and most women fall for it, thinking they found the perfect guy, to later find out it's just smoke and mirrors and a whole bunch of lies....

there are lots of layers to a Virgo

and here we all hear how women want men with depth/layers. They like the mystery that keeps them women on their toes during a romantic relationship. Just to put it out there for all women, quit having us conform to your beliefs, when it is only your emotional fantasy. Men don't even make their relevant wants of their women.

layers and depth doesnt mean idiotic and confusing, also if i wanted mystery i would read a novel, there is nothing mysterious about a Virgo, just pure selfishness, my way, or the highway, i want to live life the way i want, well...then don't form relationships or bonds with other people, because life isn't about the SELF alone, it's about the collection.

either go off to a island or fuk off with your selfishness simple.

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I get it when you say layers and depth. It kind of reminds me of my libra ex boyfriend. They say libras are the sign that is about agreements and compromise.

Posted by CluelessCancer

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Posted by CluelessCancer
It's not 3 strikes your out, it's just that the Virgo builds a fantasy for you, builds something dreamy and most women fall for it, thinking they found the perfect guy, to later find out it's just smoke and mirrors and a whole bunch of lies....

there are lots of layers to a Virgo

. Men don't even make their relevant wants of their women.

what does this mean?

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I was confused also but i think what she meant is "Men don't even make their wants relevant of their women"

Posted by LilyTree

Posted by canerleo101

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by virgowithasoul

Posted by CluelessCancer
It's not 3 strikes your out, it's just that the Virgo builds a fantasy for you, builds something dreamy and most women fall for it, thinking they found the perfect guy, to later find out it's just smoke and mirrors and a whole bunch of lies....

there are lots of layers to a Virgo

. Men don't even make their relevant wants of their women.

what does this mean?

I was confused also but i think what she meant is "Men don't even make their wants relevant of their women"

What "SHE" meant? LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL! 😆

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My bad i got him confused with Virgodragirl

Posted by LilyTree
Or maybe it's us. Maybe we are the ones building the fantasy and not seem them for who they are.

There is a lot more truth to this statement than most are willing to look at.

Many issues that arise in relationships, whether it's a friendship, marriage, boyfriend/girlfriend is due to expectations. Expectations (mostly unspoken ones) placed on the other person which then are not met and boom it can blow up from there.

People build this fantasy of "how it is or should be" and when your partner does not meet said expectations, shit hits the fan, feelings are hurt..etc.




Some additional food for thought and it is kinda cheesy but going to say it anyways:

Whenever you are pointing the finger at someone else, there are 3 pointing back at you. 😄

Posted by AVG
Do women give virguys 3 strikes faster then any other sign?

Yeah, most women cannot deal with Virgo Men having a life of their own and not going crazy about possessing them and whispering nothings in their ears..which would still not go through because there's a vast emptiness in between their ears. It's like yelling in the void of space.

Also, we don't treat people that bad so they think they should persevere to get a rise out of us. It's futile work.