42 YO Virgo M Sept. 6 Need Insight.

Hi, New here and need some clarity on my sign & all it's antecedents. I'm a 42 yo male (Sep 6 1982) and I'll like some help explaining my star sign. I haven't the exact time of birth, so all I know is: Sun - Virgo, Moon - Aries, Mars - Scorpio, Venus - Leo. Ordinarily I'd think such combination would be successful in life & relationships...but this hasn't been the case so far, and it's been life changing mistake after mistake. I'm quite articulate, and do not look too bad for my age (kind of into fitness), but I haven't my life together whatsoever. Where I come from, one is expected to have gotten their life together early (likely late 20's), and by mid 30's its considered you got it together late. I've never really achieved much finance-wise...just barely enough to get by. Most of my life I've gotten by being supported by family, and even that I threw away getting into wrong investments. Now I back to square one. I dropped out of Uni twice (crazy!) and couldn't figure out why life never seemed to work out. Even after I did alot of soul searching & self reflection, my discoveries weren't enough to prevent me from making the the terrible financial move - I mentioned above - years ago that has led me to my present predicament.

At my age, I've never been married (been in a few relationships), haven't a degree, and struggling to get by. All I have going for me now are fading looks (I do film & a bit of commercial/brand modeling), and tbh(upon deeper reflection) it's all I've ever depended on to get me by. Which I think is sad, since I never truly developed myself or skills & depending on something so superficial & fleeting.

Some background: I was practically raised by my mom, as my dad was a distant figure for most of my early life. Now I'm older, I realize that though not perfect by a long shot, he'd been misunderstood, and wasn't all the bad man he'd been painted to be, while my mom had put ideas in my head too that have influenced a lot of my decision making from childhood. I've come to take responsibility for all my shortcomings, while forgiving them for theirs as they were simply human trying to do the best they knew for the most part.

It seems like you are aware of patterns in your life re: dependency. Basically, you have never found a way to be fully independent. The past is the past tho - it exists but it doesn't have to dictate what happens now or in the future. I wouldn't worry about other people's expectations of where you should be in life. You have your health and 42 is not old, you can still do anything you want to do. The challenge is to find what that is and to approach it in a way that gives you a good chance of achieving it. Think building rather than hoping for life-changing events (like investments where you don't really know what you are doing)

Thank you @Geminiking I needed the encouragement.

Hello @rhymesaurusss, thanks for the kind words. I'm not sure if the chart I have is accurate as it's a free report. Hope I can figure out how to post images here.

Posted by rhymesaurusss
You are young free and unattached, the world is your oyster.

What insures you

What are your passions

You can basically do anything.

From astro persoecrive, Virgo is service orientated, how can you be of service?

Also curious about your chart, can you post the chart anyway, It will give other indicators, north node/venus etc.

Here is a second chart from a different site:



Thank you.

I believe I am Aries moon. I really am a novice when it comes to reading charts sorry, so half the time I don't know what any of it means lol. I wish I could provide more information

I’m no expert, but those placements indicate to me that you were born to FUCK.

Lol, I wish. Although I have always found the other gender fascinating, femininity & beauty intrigue me intensely. Sadly, exploring relationships where I come from - meaningful or otherwise - usually always entail some form of financial inducement. Which sucks, especially for someone who only wants intimacy if the feeling is mutual.

Ps: don't get me wrong, I haven't a problem spending on or showing care to a loved one. I just do not believe in buying 'affection'.

I don't think I know one Aries moon that's not driven. They take themselves where they want to be career wise and don't rely on others to solve their problems. That's my experience anyway.

I don't think you should be too hard on yourself and compare yourself to where others are in life. They may struggle with other things that you're not aware of. Unhappy relationships or divorce later on etc.

Work on where you want to be in life and as long as you're trying and doing something to improve your life towards your own goal you're doing well.

Posted by MalcolmXavier
Ps: don't get me wrong, I haven't a problem spending on or showing care to a loved one. I just do not believe in buying 'affection'.

Sometimes, the financial investment from a man creates a safe space for a woman to let her guard down and share herself intimately with him. I wouldn’t see it as “buying affection” (though I certainly cannot deny there is A LOT of that in this world), but rather providing the security she needs to be vulnerable with thou.

This will be easy to explain (because Virgo sun - aries moon = is so opposite in the way they are, you cant miss it).

Forget/ignore Everything you know about astrology. (Houses, degrees, whatever - also forget vedic astrology - its false)

Only focus on sun sign & moon sign.



"Sun sign" : is symbolized as your Conscious -self.

"Moon sign" : ia symbolized as your "Unconscious"/inner -self.



You're a virgo, right?

You ever been driven to do sum shit, and you just go with it.. almost as if on an auto-pilot?

Thats your Moon sign=inner self Driving you.



It seems that you're conscious..but your consciously Unconscious...

Maybe once in a while you "snap out of it".. almost as if you were in a trans of sort.

You become Awake..

Thats Virgo..very "nothingness", for the lack of a better word..

Just detached asf, observant asf, smart asf.



Any idea that you have - if you're not vigilant = will go into your subconscious/& or, will be sampled oN = on-to your Moon sign (inner self)

& you will react to it

& go into your moon sign

& continue forward.



This should help for starters

It's hard to say when you don't have your exact chart. However, I have noticed a pattern of older Virgo men who are used to having things done for them by people in their lives. Some more than others.

Your Leo venus probably helps in this and you might be a bit of a romantic as well.

With the Scorpio mars coupled by your Leo venus it's not surprise that you have gotten by on looks most of your life. I agree with @whorpie withe the sex thing, that is a pretty hot combo 😂 but the Virgo sun probably does humble you a little bit.

Not sure what country you are in but I'm assuming somewhere in Europe to where you feel more pressure about where you should be in your life?

Posted by Timone
I don't think I know one Aries moon that's not driven. They take themselves where they want to be career wise and don't rely on others to solve their problems. That's my experience anyway.

I don't think you should be too hard on yourself and compare yourself to where others are in life. They may struggle with other things that you're not aware of. Unhappy relationships or divorce later on etc.

Work on where you want to be in life and as long as you're trying and doing something to improve your life towards your own goal you're doing well.

Thanks for the kind & encouraging words @Timone. I'm presenting looking into self-help materials, while also pursuing jobs I am passionate about. I intend to upskill once I am able to afford certain courses online, then I guess we'll see. I appreciate

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Posted by MalcolmXavier
Ps: don't get me wrong, I haven't a problem spending on or showing care to a loved one. I just do not believe in buying 'affection'.

Sometimes, the financial investment from a man creates a safe space for a woman to let her guard down and share herself intimately with him. I wouldn’t see it as “buying affection” (though I certainly cannot deny there is A LOT of that in this world), but rather providing the security she needs to be vulnerable with thou.

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Totally get you. I understand we each have our different love languages, and for some it can be a feeling of being secure in your partners ability to provide. I'm not dating at the moment, as I intend to sort out the financial factor where I'm lacking presently. Not being financial stable at a certain stage in life has an effect on male confidence I guess, even without much pressure from the opposite sex. Wouldn't want to be with a lady & not be 'present' enough to thoroughly enjoy her because I'm stressed & occupied with worries of being financially incompetent, which may inadvertently translate to 'lack luster performance'.. don't think that would be fair to her

Posted by yourMother
I don’t think there are any shortcuts in life hun you just gotta pick something and work at it put the effort in. Wouldn’t it be great if it wasn’t the case but c’est las vie 🤷‍♀️ it’s never too late to start though. I know many cases of people who did a complete 180 even in their 40s and smashed it.

Thanks for the encouragement. I am working on being the best version of myself, so long as I have breath in me.

Posted by wildASF_tommy90
This will be easy to explain (because Virgo sun - aries moon = is so opposite in the way they are, you cant miss it).

Forget/ignore Everything you know about astrology. (Houses, degrees, whatever - also forget vedic astrology - its false)

Only focus on sun sign & moon sign.



"Sun sign" : is symbolized as your Conscious -self.

"Moon sign" : ia symbolized as your "Unconscious"/inner -self.


You're a virgo, right?

You ever been driven to do sum shit, and you just go with it.. almost as if on an auto-pilot?

Thats your Moon sign=inner self Driving you.


It seems that you're conscious..but your consciously Unconscious...

Maybe once in a while you "snap out of it".. almost as if you were in a trans of sort.

You become Awake..

Thats Virgo..very "nothingness", for the lack of a better word..

Just detached asf, observant asf, smart asf.



Any idea that you have - if you're not vigilant = will go into your subconscious/& or, will be sampled oN = on-to your Moon sign (inner self)

& you will react to it

& go into your moon sign

& continue forward.


This should help for starters

Hello @wildASF_tommy90

I'm trying to wrap my head around this one. Yes I do get those spontaneous urges to do things, but I kind of feel so of the can come across as extremist lol. Personally I believe due to my childhood, I never truly explored my capabilities as a younger man, and even as Virgos are said to be wise/smart...i was quite naive for the longest time & fell for a number of ruses, which all contributed to the setbacks I'm currently facing. I've learned a great deal, but it's all affected my confidence and determination. I'm still pushing on, but always scared now that whenever I get that 'urge' to get 'spontaneous' again, I mistrust it, believing it'll get me in trouble once more. Sucks man. I feel like I have it in me to be capable of so much, but since I wasn't as 'smart' or 'wiser' as a younger man with numerous opportunities, waking up now things are much tougher, so now I'm more of 'overthinking' & less of 'overdoing' if that makes much sense. So I realize where I've erred in the past, but keep critiquing & beating myself now that I'm really not as smart as I think. It's vicious man, and leads to paralysis. If only I can get that confidence back, but I'm working on it due in no small measure to the wonderful contributions here.

Posted by SeaLion
It's hard to say when you don't have your exact chart. However, I have noticed a pattern of older Virgo men who are used to having things done for them by people in their lives. Some more than others.

Your Leo venus probably helps in this and you might be a bit of a romantic as well.

With the Scorpio mars coupled by your Leo venus it's not surprise that you have gotten by on looks most of your life. I agree with @whorpie withe the sex thing, that is a pretty hot combo 😂 but the Virgo sun probably does humble you a little bit.

Not sure what country you are in but I'm assuming somewhere in Europe to where you feel more pressure about where you should be in your life?

Hello @Sealion I am quite the romantic when I chose to be😄, though haven't done much romancing in a while. I'm actually from Africa (Nigeria specifically) and we're big on family & children here, and to achieve that you're expected to at least be financially independent so as to be able to handle the responsibilities that come with marriage. Maybe I wouldn't feel so pressured if I lived elsewhere, but here, men are measured by one's financial capabilities. As much as I've never been one to try to impress people or bend to societys expectations, I've come to understand (quite late) it's still to ones benefit to be able to afford it and not need it, than to need it and can't afford it.

I guess part of my reason for posting here isn't just to seek understanding via my sign/chart (the why), but also hopefully clarity of purpose for my next phase of life/future (the how/way). And I must say, your contributions here are been immensely helpful as they are entertaining 😄. Thanks you

Posted by MalcolmXavier

Posted by wildASF_tommy90
This will be easy to explain (because Virgo sun - aries moon = is so opposite in the way they are, you cant miss it).
Forget/ignore Everything you know about astrology. (Houses, degrees, whatever - also forget vedic astrology - its false)
Only focus on sun sign & moon sign.

"Sun sign" : is symbolized as your Conscious -self.
"Moon sign" : ia symbolized as your "Unconscious"/inner -self.

You're a virgo, right?
You ever been driven to do sum shit, and you just go with it.. almost as if on an auto-pilot?
Thats your Moon sign=inner self Driving you.

It seems that you're conscious..but your consciously Unconscious...
Maybe once in a while you "snap out of it".. almost as if you were in a trans of sort.
You become Awake..
Thats Virgo..very "nothingness", for the lack of a better word..
Just detached asf, observant asf, smart asf.

Any idea that you have - if you're not vigilant = will go into your subconscious/& or, will be sampled oN = on-to your Moon sign (inner self)
& you will react to it
& go into your moon sign
& continue forward.

This should help for starters

Hello @wildASF_tommy90

I'm trying to wrap my head around this one. Yes I do get those spontaneous urges to do things, but I kind of feel so of the can come across as extremist lol. Personally I believe due to my childhood, I never truly explored my capabilities as a younger man, and even as Virgos are said to be wise/smart...i was quite naive for the longest time & fell for a number of ruses, which all contributed to the setbacks I'm currently facing. I've learned a great deal, but it's all affected my confidence and determination. I'm still pushing on, but always scared now that whenever I get that 'urge' to get 'spontaneous' again, I mistrust it, believing it'll get me in trouble once more. Sucks man. I feel like I have it in me to be capable of so much, but since I wasn't as 'smart' or 'wiser' as a younger man with numerous opportunities, waking up now things are much tougher, so now I'm more of 'overthinking' & less of 'overdoing' if that makes much sense. So I realize where I've erred in the past, but keep critiquing & beating myself now that I'm really not as smart as I think. It's vicious man, and leads to paralysis. If only I can get that confidence back, but I'm working on it due in no small measure to the wonderful contributions here.

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I can definitely see you were writing this - as your moon sign.

"whenever I get that 'urge' to get 'spontaneous' again, I mistrust it,"

Bingo, thats your Virgo Conscious-self hitting the brakes.

& the "urge" to go so sumn - is an idea that bypassed your virgo awareness/consciousness

& went str8 into your aries moon/subconscious

& it got you moving.



Ill put very bluntly, so that you will understand.

Imagine your having fun @ your house/apartment

& all of a sudden = cops/swat-team surround your house/apartment building & they kick in your door & say :

"you're under arrest for Murder".



You're gonna sober up = Real Quick..to analyze the situation.

That "having fun" = was your aries moon.

That "analyzing situation/sobering up to make sense" = is your virgo sun.

Or another example :

Imagine Anything bad that can happen.

& notice how quick you become "alert".

After you thought of a bad idea.

If the idea bypasses your virgo sun/awareness

& goes straight into your aries moon/subconscious

= you will react , from/aS your aries moon..





Ill use an extreme example - myself.

So you can read between the lines.



Im virgo sun - leo moon.

If i walk outside, & some1 says something disrespectful, & i hear it.. i instantly notice it - aS = Virgo.

Which, if im not alert, will go straight into my leo moon/subconscious & im ready to throw down.

I then go (consciously)-unconscious & i start beating ass / mauling the dude.

I have no fear of any1/anything.

Ill fight a mfker 6'11 - i dont give a fuck.

I will murder them.

& wont stop til i stomp their fuckin face in.

But.. i notice this & Instantly i say "its not worth it"

⬆️ this is virgo sun kickin in & analyzing the situation & deciding to walk away.



Hope you can read between the lines of these examples.