All Hail the Great Houdini

"I send him good night messages, nothing. Today, he basically posts about needing time and a break from everything. Why couldn't he say these things to me directly? He seems to act like he's single, the things he said to girls, how he's acting. He knows I can see it. So, I end up removing him from everything, so that way I'm not hurt seeing anything else.

Nothing has been discussed. There was no real breakup."


Hmm, whatever serious troubles he's having (you didn't mention what they were), you can be sure it will throw a Virgo male off. They need to address all issues (fix) to get a balance back. In actuality he did tell you he had to take care of these things whatever they are. The other reality, is there wouldn't be a break up. You only saw him twice a week in a 3 month period. You were only dating him as mentioned. What's odd is the way you say you constantly texted him throughout this ordeal which probably through him off a bit I'm sure, and then ultimately cut him off "from everything". He probably won't respond (50/50) to the cut off, because you were not in a long term relationship with him in the first place. Yet, in your mind while he was taking care of his issues (in which he did inform you he was doing) you reacted like you were exclusive with one another, and got upset because he didn't respond to you. That is confusing imo.

what do both of your charts look like

Posted by virgoking
what do both of your charts look like

I'm not sure. I'm new to this. Sorry.

Posted by mechanism

Posted by virgoking
what do both of your charts look like

I'm not sure. I'm new to this. Sorry.

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Ok whats your time and bday and place and what is his bday and place and I can find out.

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Posted by mechanism

Posted by virgoking
what do both of your charts look like

I'm not sure. I'm new to this. Sorry.

Ok whats your time and bday and place and what is his bday and place and I can find out.

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That would be great. I'll PM you.

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This was my first 'real' relationship, so I'm kind of new to the dating game. He's more cultured and experienced, so I expect that this all went differently for him anyway. Probably not a big deal, so I'm trying not to treat it as one. I just wanted more insight. I know I'll be fine. I'm not crying, I'm not tearing apart the things I have from him, I'm not aching to call him. The next relationship, I'll try and be more careful. I honestly don't consider anyone without being sure. I was pretty damn sure, but I guess I made a mistake.

Maybe at the beginning these things were true and felt real for him? He probably really felt those things for you. I'm not validating any hope or anything, since you seemed to have been through the wringer with that one, but I hope in the future that you get some form of contact that establishes a hint of regret. Something that can ease your mind.

But you've learned, and so will I, once I'm completely over it.

I'll look into it! Thank you.

LOL the BABOON still initiates contact with me. My problem is I'm so weak I don't know how to stop responding or contacting him back knowing we are TOTALLY OVER.

I'm super obsessed. Right now I am like waiting on his call...just anticipating it..my stomach is embroiled in panic anxiety...when and if i hear his phone call...it' will alleviate my stress...

This can't be love. This is something unhealthy.

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He has you in the virgo spell there is no use in fighting it join the dark side of the force its your destiny muhahahah lol jk