What would you do if he wanted marry you?
Are virgos always...
No. We may look like it but we are not. It's just that we are constantly thinking about something ALL the time. It's hard to turn off those thoughts. He probably just analyzing every words u just saying to him and thinking the best possible scenario or possibility in order to make the relationship to work. Just be PATIENT him and give him some time. We (me personally) won't hang out yet alone talk with that person that long if i don't like or interest you in the slightest.
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Yes, we can be cold.
Especially us second decans 😄 (September 1st through 10th)
But the thing is, so are Libra women. You all are extremely versed in pretending you don't care and being all uppity, nose in the sky bitches.
You show and tell him how you feel and he is likely to follow suit.
Especially us second decans 😄 (September 1st through 10th)
But the thing is, so are Libra women. You all are extremely versed in pretending you don't care and being all uppity, nose in the sky bitches.
You show and tell him how you feel and he is likely to follow suit.
mslibra...
u know... we are somewhat the of the same situation...if u have read my other posts... we are really somewhat alike.... but i have overcome the jitters i have and finally told him how i feel for him... and he answered back also... i love u too... and thats it.. i think we really have to initiate.... i just got enough courage in confessing my feelings because of this DXP.... their convincing power and advises persuaded me to do so... give it a try though
u know... we are somewhat the of the same situation...if u have read my other posts... we are really somewhat alike.... but i have overcome the jitters i have and finally told him how i feel for him... and he answered back also... i love u too... and thats it.. i think we really have to initiate.... i just got enough courage in confessing my feelings because of this DXP.... their convincing power and advises persuaded me to do so... give it a try though
okay...mslibra.. update me on whats happening to u... my virgo guy is also like that... he puts so much value to work first and hate being unproductive... u will just have to observe his likes and dislikes and soon u will be able to learn of his personality better... just an advise... have control of ur emotion... our emotion with virguys will be up and down...
Posted by Cajunspirit
But the thing is, so are Libra women. You all are extremely versed in pretending you don't care and being all uppity, nose in the sky bitches.
You show and tell him how you feel and he is likely to follow suit.
this is true. with virgos or anyone else for that matter. we tend to come off as cold, and like we don't want to be intruded upon. and with most people, we don't. so it's not really fair for being upset with someone we like if they hold back a little.
also, he doesn't sound cold at all. he sounds very respectful and nice.
"warm" guys usually seem to spread the warmth around a bit too much to be worth dating anyhow.
we are very different libras, i think. my parents were both very warm and affectionate, but i didn't like being hugged most of the time. i wasn't usually very affectionate. i liked my space. i liked to play alone and draw and listen to music. there were moments i wanted them, but for the most part, i think they were the ones who felt rejected, not me.
i can say a lot of things, but a lot of it doesn't mean anything. my priorities are clear from what i actually do. that's why i trust actions and not words.
i think the guy you're involved with sounds great. i'd love to meet somebody like that. he doesn't sound like he's what you need, though.
if you really do like him, stick around. he'll open up more as he knows that he can trust that you'll continue to stick around.
i can say a lot of things, but a lot of it doesn't mean anything. my priorities are clear from what i actually do. that's why i trust actions and not words.
i think the guy you're involved with sounds great. i'd love to meet somebody like that. he doesn't sound like he's what you need, though.
if you really do like him, stick around. he'll open up more as he knows that he can trust that you'll continue to stick around.
Kudos to you Mslibra for knowing your worth and not settling....
Ive dated 2 virgo males, but I think that they had some fire in their chartsor something, because they were aggressive in getting to know me and dating me. My brother is also a Virgo and he is like that too in his life. But the ones I know as friends or coworkers are very cheap and lazy when it comes to dating.
That is his loss Mslibra!
That is his loss Mslibra!
Posted by GeorgiaPeach
Ive dated 2 virgo males, but I think that they had some fire in their chartsor something, because they were aggressive in getting to know me and dating me. My brother is also a Virgo and he is like that too in his life.
>=D
Posted by mslibraHe..like any other virgo like him is going to treat any girl he bumps into like this..cheap..lazy..non emotional.
I hate it when people apply the faults of one person to the rest of those in the same sign.
I hate it.
Don't judge all virgos as cheap. Maybe he was cheap because you let him be. I haven't been involved with many virgos, but I don't think I've ever experienced this cheapness aspect. Even virguys I was just friends with (who I later realized were trying to date me, but I was oblivious to this at the time) spent money. I remember once in HS looking at some stuff in a store. I really liked this pair of sunglasses (only 15 $ but completely unnecessary and quite gaudy), and my virguy friend bought them for me. I didn't even have to ask. They're as generous as they want to be.
Posted by valeria25Posted by AmandusPosted by mslibraHe..like any other virgo like him is going to treat any girl he bumps into like this..cheap..lazy..non emotional.
I hate it when people apply the faults of one person to the rest of those in the same sign.
I hate it.lockquote>
try not feel disgusted, Jason, I know it's tempting. Just help correct them that that's not always true. 🙂
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How about Cajun's labelling of Libras?
Did any libra get offended by offensive labeling? No.
Stop picking on Libras.
"You all are extremely versed in pretending you don't care and being all uppity, nose in the sky cookiemonsteres."
I believe what cajun said to be true. I know myself well enough to say I do act like I don't care..NOT with friends..but with virgo men..lol. A defense mechanism maybe. I did this with this virg bec he was cold so I immediately was aware of what I said ..he didn't make me feel "comfortable". I am not like this usually, so that is why I am not seeing him anymore. I can't open up around him, although I like to be with him..sounds weird, but how long do I keep waiting around for him to loosen up. I am not even wasting my time discussing it. I am impressed that there is a forum on here just for virgos, they really are interesting people, esp. the men. I think there are many women on here wasting their precious time on these men. I read many posts about how do I know a virgo likes me..geez..when will it end? just get rid of them and go find someone else.
Virgo and Libra are a bad match, I agree..
I had a virgo roomie once. He looked to be the perfect man. But I knew compatibility stakes were low, so I told him right off the bat to prevent further complications. Because he doesn't know about compatibility, he just went by first impressions.
I had a virgo roomie once. He looked to be the perfect man. But I knew compatibility stakes were low, so I told him right off the bat to prevent further complications. Because he doesn't know about compatibility, he just went by first impressions.
Posted by DyTryin
FOR THE UMPTEENTH TIME: Libra & Virgo don't work.
Lois Lane does it for Superman, but NEVER for Mr. Spock.
But, do dream on...
:: Cue Aerosmith ::
Yeah, sing with me, sing for the year
sing for the laughter, sing for the tear
sing with me, if it's just for today
Maybe tomorrow, the good Lord will take you away
Dream On Dream On Dream On
Dream until your dreams come true
it can work if a virgo has lots of fire placements or air placements in a chart.
i have three air placements and im cool with air signs 1 fire moon so i can get along with fire signs and two earth placements virgo sun mars in virgo saturn in cap i can get along with earth signs and two water planets Jupiter in cancer and pluto in scorp so i can understand water signs.
im blessed with a well rounded chart hehe lol.
I was friends with a virgo for 10 years, Air sign but romantically I dunno...maybe I will date LG and find out LOL, j/k but honestly I don't know much about libra/virgo combination...I do know if you felt neglected by this guy the best thing is to move on, maybe it's not so much as he's being neglectful but moreso that you need more than he's willing to put into it.
I am impressed that there is a forum on here just for virgos, they really are interesting people, esp. the men. I think there are many women on here wasting their precious time on these men. I read many posts about how do I know a virgo likes me..geez..when will it end? just get rid of them and go find someone else.
They can't get off the flowery covered roses. I guess that the deception of astrology is that people pick up on the qualities of people who are born on their sign, but when people are something that isn't a sign quality like being a player (which sag and leo are known for) then they become confused when they see that virgos do this as well.
Really you can notice whether the virgo is there for you or not.
He is consistant after having sex or showing displays of "real" emotions.click to expand
Any virgo who doesn't are players. Plain and simple. BLACK AND WHITE.
😄
to get a virgo to open up, you've got to be open to them first, which is why they often like partners who are just open types (which then blows up in their face because those partners are open with everyone, which gets old fast).
libras are the same way, only we put a little bit more effort into getting people to open up before we will. we'll flatter them and talk about interesting things, but we keep it superficial til we know they're worth showing what's behind the facade.
this is why virgo and libra are such a difficult match. they both need that position of control. it's rare that one will budge before the other will, so all you get is a stalemate.
libras are the same way, only we put a little bit more effort into getting people to open up before we will. we'll flatter them and talk about interesting things, but we keep it superficial til we know they're worth showing what's behind the facade.
this is why virgo and libra are such a difficult match. they both need that position of control. it's rare that one will budge before the other will, so all you get is a stalemate.
"So many of us will jump into bed with someone and that is not a good way to gauge a relationship, its a faulty connection so to speak. We need to fight that need for physical closeness and put the person to the test ..not in a demeaning way..but in a way where we can look at them and say "Is this the type of person who will meet my emotional needs, can this person be a good friend?" It sort of throws a wet blanket over the relationship if we sleep with the other person too soon."
Exactly. Why do people think they need sex right off the bat? There are many ways to express love. Sex is only one of them. If they're not careful, it can spoil everything.
"this is why virgo and libra are such a difficult match. they both need that position of control. it's rare that one will budge before the other will, so all you get is a stalemate."
There's also that fact that Virgos dislike the romanticism of Libra, basically because they're not born romanticists. They are more minimalist zen than full blown romanticisers. Virgoan men can be perfect, but they don't appreciate the side of Libra necessary for a love relationship to last. It will soon get draggy and like one of pure companionship. Libra always needs the romance.
Exactly. Why do people think they need sex right off the bat? There are many ways to express love. Sex is only one of them. If they're not careful, it can spoil everything.
"this is why virgo and libra are such a difficult match. they both need that position of control. it's rare that one will budge before the other will, so all you get is a stalemate."
There's also that fact that Virgos dislike the romanticism of Libra, basically because they're not born romanticists. They are more minimalist zen than full blown romanticisers. Virgoan men can be perfect, but they don't appreciate the side of Libra necessary for a love relationship to last. It will soon get draggy and like one of pure companionship. Libra always needs the romance.
Posted by valeria25
^^ it's funny that even sags and leos that i know are NOT players at all, and many of them are sought after...
but so many claim they are. Nothing is really a set in stone that one is this way and that.
So i think maybe some think that because a guy is virgo they wont be like Charlie Sheen but may act like Richard Gere, and throw in a mix of Michael Jackson.
Yeah you are right. My leo nephew is a little lying bastard; he would always tell me stories about how he got laid this and there, and he how he would put on his "big heart" to attract all the girls, but he hardly got shit, and when he did, she was blown out of proportion. Although he was a liar, I sure did love the stories he told and many of them were lies, but its all good.
Same goes with the sag pal of mine, he hardly got any until he joined my friends band after i stopped playing music, and he started going after the sluts. 😄
Ah well, I may be wrong or I may be right, whatever...
Posted by curious visitor
to get a virgo to open up, you've got to be open to them first, which is why they often like partners who are just open types (which then blows up in their face because those partners are open with everyone, which gets old fast).
libras are the same way, only we put a little bit more effort into getting people to open up before we will. we'll flatter them and talk about interesting things, but we keep it superficial til we know they're worth showing what's behind the facade.
this is why virgo and libra are such a difficult match. they both need that position of control. it's rare that one will budge before the other will, so all you get is a stalemate.
The beginning process is difficult but as soon as the ball starts rollin' the virgo will take over. I've known 4 to 5 virgo-libra relationships and the virgo always took the lead, and it was almost to the point were the virgo was dictating everything the libra "will" do. Most of the virgos that are married to libra's are usually bitchy and commanding, and the libra's seem find with that, and i found it weird because i usually expect some retaliation, but i guess the libra's are a bit too calm to do such a thing (as other signs wouldn't) when a virgo takes over.
Funny, two of virgo's who married libras are born on september 6th, another on the 5, a fourth one on the 7, and the last one on the 9th...
I notice a trend, and whenever i see a coupling whom are virgo-libra, I find myself wondering if they'll end up the same way as the other couplings...
who knows.
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