Aries female needs help with virgo man..

Exactly! It's weird.

So... You are hoping and wanting him to pounce you?

I am, but I'm willing to be patient. I've decided I'm way overthinking things. We have a great time together and I need to focus on that instead of worrying about stuff. 🙂

Posted by AriesWoman87
I am, but I'm willing to be patient. I've decided I'm way overthinking things. We have a great time together and I need to focus on that instead of worrying about stuff. 🙂

dress like it's 70 deg celsius. If he doesn't get the message, you're better off with a vibrator.

Posted by AriesWoman87

We go on dates, always have an amazing time, and while I stay the night about half the time, we rarely have sex.

I ask if he wants to be just friends since I don't feel like he's attracted to me.. He says he doesn't want to rush and that he likes me or wouldn't be spending so much time together.

I don't know what's unclear here.

This guy wants to know you and have dates with you, without the sex. He knows how the sex is like, he know wants to see how you're like, how you'd behave in a partnership. Instead of seeing this as respect..you're worried about him not sexing you up.

If your focus is still sex and not anything more, tell him that and the fwb will probably start again. If you want something more, try to take the mature approach. You say he likes spending time with you and that he likes you..then you say.. "he never compliments me or gives verbal cues on his feelings". He seems straight forward with you.

For us spending our time with you is a compliment in itself, since we don't like wasting it. We enjoy your company.

But yes, if you need compliments on the regular...Virgo is probably not the sign to go.

Thank you, Damnata. I'm over stressing about it. I realized after another date the other day that I'm really worrying over nothing and stressing myself out unnecessarily. I do wish he was slightly more verbal, but actions speak louder than words.

I'm totally smitten so if he wants to keep taking his time, I'm game. 🙂

CC you can swop with the aries.

Oh I love all the getting to know each other time. I was just venting.. Lack of sex makes me moody.
Honestly he's wonderful and I adore him.. So CC will have to find her own virgo 😉

I believe this is called intimacy. Have fun 🙂

Posted by AriesWoman87
Hi all..
I need some advice, or support, or whatever. If you don't have any clue either, say something random to distract me! 😉 I will keep this as short and clear as I can.

9 years ago I meet this virgo man. We were attracted to each other but didn't want to date. Casual friends with benefits off and on whenever we were both single. Always friends, but never went out on any dates.
Fast forward to a few months ago...
Earlier this year I got out of a long term relationship. I decided to say hi to my virgo and see how life was treating him. We met up, had a good time and it was nice. Then he tells me he wants to spend more time together and get to know me more..

We go on dates, always have an amazing time, and while I stay the night about half the time, we rarely have sex.

I ask if he wants to be just friends since I don't feel like he's attracted to me.. He says he doesn't want to rush and that he likes me or wouldn't be spending so much time together.

So help me out here Virgos..

We hangout probably twice a week, sporadically text every day ( he's not a texter but always says hi at least ) he's physically affectionate with me, I've met his family and it went great etc. and he plans out very thoughtful dates
If things are going so well why doesn't he want to be intimate with me? And only once has he said that he "likes spending time with me".. He never compliments me or gives verbal cues on his feelings. I know the subtle signs are there but I suck at subtle.
I am being a very patient aries but I feel so lost. Am I wasting my time?

(Yeah, that was long. Sorry )

he likes you. I am slightly confused...I thought treating a woman with respect was a good thing? I know you are saying you are being patient, but be more patient. Don't do something to expect anything. Just go with the flow, and do not push him. It takes a long time to get to know someone and understand him/her, so the fact that he is taking his time is a good thing...he respects you enough to do that.

It is a good thing! I just don't think I've ever dated someone like him before and it was making me feel insecure. I thought maybe he wasn't physically attracted to me and that that was what the issue was.
My first post was stupid.. I'm just going to keep enjoying our time and not worry about things.

Posted by AriesWoman87
It is a good thing! I just don't think I've ever dated someone like him before and it was making me feel insecure. I thought maybe he wasn't physically attracted to me and that that was what the issue was.
My first post was stupid.. I'm just going to keep enjoying our time and not worry about things.

If anything, I think he's attracted to you more since he doesn't want to get into your pants right away. It's okay I understand you are insecure, but you have to trust him and just let things happen. You'll be fine

so it seems.. virgo men are just crappy or yummy??_

What a sleazebag .... my hope is that he realizes sooner than later that you're not a decent and honorable enough woman to have any of his attention.

Since you obviously put your pussy above your integrity .... you're not really worth a Virgo's time.

Annnnd block. I have stated numerous times in this thread that I was wrong and just venting, and that he's worth the wait. Maybe read beyond the initial post next time instead of being a judgemental cockbag.

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Posted by AriesWoman87
It is a good thing! I just don't think I've ever dated someone like him before and it was making me feel insecure. I thought maybe he wasn't physically attracted to me and that that was what the issue was.
My first post was stupid.. I'm just going to keep enjoying our time and not worry about things.

If anything, I think he's attracted to you more since he doesn't want to get into your pants right away. It's okay I understand you are insecure, but you have to trust him and just let things happen. You'll be fine

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Thank you again. I think I was just so surprised. I've known him a long time though and he's amazing. Sex can wait! I came across like a whiny bitch in the first post, and it may be true 😉 but I appreciate him a lot.
I'm just going to take it a day at a time and be thankful that for some reason he likes me.