Virgo and Aries.

This topic was created in the Aries forum by WeirdoVirgo on Saturday, August 24, 2013 and has 25 replies.

Compatibility Between Virgo and Aries

Virgo and Aries have contrasting personalities with Virgo being detail-oriented and Aries being energetic. Their relationship can work with effort, as Virgo provides stability while Aries brings enthusiasm. Understanding and patience are key to balancing these differences for a harmonious partnership.

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Oh man. If my Aries coworker were still here, i'd ask if she's dated one. There's also a Virgo who's supposedly homosexual, but I don't know if she is and since we don't work together, I haven't seen her in a while.

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Don't be too critical. Aries men and women have fragile egos try not to say something too mean. They mean well but tend to be very self involved. Aries are more about action.. We can talk a lot of shit. Don't believe us..Well pretend that you do. Watch her actions. That's more important. Some are bad with words. Don't expect us to write a soliloquy on how we feel a out you.

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Don't be too critical. Aries men and women have fragile egos try not to say something too mean. They mean well but tend to be very self involved. Aries are more about action.. We can talk a lot of shit. Don't believe us..Well pretend that you do. Watch her actions. That's more important. Some are bad with words. Don't expect us to write a soliloquy on how we feel about you. Just watch.. Observe. You're good at that. Let her chase you. Let her know you want to be chased though..

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@WeirdoVirgo
15 Years

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Don't be too critical. Aries men and women have fragile egos try not to say something too mean. They mean well but tend to be very self involved. Aries are more about action.. We can talk a lot of shit. Don't believe us..Well pretend that you do. Watch her actions. That's more important. Some are bad with words. Don't expect us to write a soliloquy on how we feel about you. Just watch.. Observe. You're good at that. Let her chase you. Let her know you want to be chased though..

Observation is my strong point, doing a lot of that already...Thanks! (:

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14 YearsVirgo

Bad match. I get stressed if there's an Aries in the room. They like to pick fights knowing the the Virgo generally doesn't confront - they'll use it to their advantage.

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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
I don't agree with what is being said above. Aries don't pick fights, they clear the air. I say go for it.

Actually they do both. 🙂

Pick a fight, ruffle the other individual's feathers, and then convince themselves they were clearing the air because they held nothing back.

Virgos, in my opinion, are just as blunt. They clear the air without resorting to confrontation.

When the other individual appears as if they're shrinking or being combative....

You're picking a fight.

When the other individual feels as if you're being insensitive, but still able to rationalize it within minutes...

Then you're clearing the air.

I DO believe there is a difference.

Nothing against Aries, just an observation....

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14 YearsVirgo

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
I don't agree with what is being said above. Aries don't pick fights, they clear the air. I say go for it.

Actually they do both. 🙂
Pick a fight, ruffle the other individual's feathers, and then convince themselves they were clearing the air because they held nothing back.
Virgos, in my opinion, are just as blunt. They clear the air without resorting to confrontation.
When the other individual appears as if they're shrinking or being combative....
You're picking a fight.
When the other individual feels as if you're being insensitive, but still able to rationalize it within minutes...
Then you're clearing the air.
I DO believe there is a difference.
Nothing against Aries, just an observation....

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For the first time I agree with cluelesscancer! However, wouldn't say they don't know shit. They do seek knowledge and are often quite informed but not about the issue being debated.

My brother who is very close to me and who I know as good as anyone can know a person is exactly how TaurusBull said. He is so confident in his manner and the fact that he doesn't filter what he says. He certainly doesn't have any issue in bringing up "dirty laundry" in a heartbeat with total ease. Recently, I had an argument with him and since I hate to confront, I stayed quiet, he just went "as they say, silence is golden". I found it extremely arrogant.
And yes, we Virgos are definitely blunt but like you said, we generally try to remain calm and present facts in an orderly fashion.
They also do this thing where they pick a fight very aggressively and when you reply proportionally, they feel extremely offended as if they had the right and you don't. I've witnessed it a lot of times.
I can get along fine with them only if I keep constantly swallowing any ego I have and being submissive which over time, doesn't work.

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Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
I don't agree with what is being said above. Aries don't pick fights, they clear the air. I say go for it.

Actually they do both. 🙂

Pick a fight, ruffle the other individual's feathers, and then convince themselves they were clearing the air because they held nothing back.

Virgos, in my opinion, are just as blunt. They clear the air without resorting to confrontation.

When the other individual appears as if they're shrinking or being combative....

You're picking a fight.

When the other individual feels as if you're being insensitive, but still able to rationalize it within minutes...

Then you're clearing the air.

I DO believe there is a difference.

Nothing against Aries, just an observation....

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I prefer to pick a fight in order to clear the air. 😛 Jk.. I'd rather wait for the other person to bring up the problem first.. and then start fighting.. lol.

Thanks for clearing up the two.

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13 Years

I knew one Aries female and what a absolute displeasure that was . Every negative trait a person could have and she had them , not my kind of person at all .

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13 Years

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Missvirgo99
I knew one Aries female and what a absolute displeasure that was . Every negative trait a person could have and she had them , not my kind of person at all .

You could say that about every sign, i love ARIES women.

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I believe I said PERSON ! she was a Aries and my god she is vulgar but that doesn't go to say every Aries woman is like this . Yes no ones perfect but this one had nothing nice about her at all !

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12 Years

couldn't say it better - least known and possibly the least bet upon combo - power pair!

esp if virgin man and ram woman-

and this is bs that virgo gives aries this and aries gives unlocks that in virgo... expired cow dung

aries - gives virgo. period. & that evolves aries itself. virgo just runs the things w/o aries knowing and caring much about it.

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12 YearsAries

My Mom is and Aries, she has been dating a Virgo female for 10 years. If the Aries woman is willing to allow the Virgo to "be in control", then it will work out. My mom is incredibly strong, and if she says a single word, my Virgo mom starts to cry. Generally, my mom just stays silent and lets my Virgo mom go nuts on all of us all of the time. I am an Aries male dating a Virgo male now. I have learned so much.

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Posted by aressupreme
My Mom is and Aries, she has been dating a Virgo female for 10 years. If the Aries woman is willing to allow the Virgo to "be in control", then it will work out. My mom is incredibly strong, and if she says a single word, my Virgo mom starts to cry. Generally, my mom just stays silent and lets my Virgo mom go nuts on all of us all of the time. I am an Aries male dating a Virgo male now. I have learned so much.

Lmaooo!! This sounds like me and my bff.. See the thing is, Aries is leaders and that's cool. I don't mind letting someone take lead because I find it to be a headache sometimes. But I find it that if I have a different opinion or just happen to wanna take lead in certain things, my BFF haves a heart attack. I mean she gets real aggressive and her words cut, lol smh. As a Virgo, sometimes I back down and cry lol. But once I reach that point it's over! Sometimes I'm screaming at my friend and we argue to the very bitter end. But that's the way we communicate lol. Less than 30 mins later, we're friends again, like nothing happen. I know it's weird but I love my BFF and she love me too. I wouldn't trade her for nothing. She's also like my personal pit bull, so protective over me, I love it!!

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Posted by Msboop01

Posted by aressupreme
My Mom is and Aries, she has been dating a Virgo female for 10 years. If the Aries woman is willing to allow the Virgo to "be in control", then it will work out. My mom is incredibly strong, and if she says a single word, my Virgo mom starts to cry. Generally, my mom just stays silent and lets my Virgo mom go nuts on all of us all of the time. I am an Aries male dating a Virgo male now. I have learned so much.

Lmaooo!! This sounds like me and my bff.. See the thing is, Aries is leaders and that's cool. I don't mind letting someone take lead because I find it to be a headache sometimes. But I find it that if I have a different opinion or just happen to wanna take lead in certain things, my BFF haves a heart attack. I mean she gets real aggressive and her words cut, lol smh. As a Virgo, sometimes I back down and cry lol. But once I reach that point it's over! Sometimes I'm screaming at my friend and we argue to the very bitter end. But that's the way we communicate lol. Less than 30 mins later, we're friends again, like nothing happen. I know it's weird but I love my BFF and she love me too. I wouldn't trade her for nothing. She's also like my personal pit bull, so protective over me, I love it!!

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This sounds sweet and emotionally abusive. Lol! I hope she doesn't make you cry often.

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13 Years

Yikes. Some of these comments hit home with me!! I just became interested in a Virgo about a month ago. He's studying abroad in Europe until November so it feels like things are on hold. ): But, he has messaged me once to say "Miss you!" and I've initiated a few fb messages. Yay.)

But, what's funny is the day before he left we spent about an hour talking. He referred to our conversation as having a lot of "personal questions." WHOA! To me, an Aries, there was NOTHING super personal or intrusive about the things we talked about. lol.

So, I hope Virgos aren't put off by Aries tendency to dig deep? I just like to hear about and share life experiences! The wackier, the better.

I did tell him he looked like a GQ model in his new "European" profile photo. haha. He hasn't responded, so I'm now feeling anxious. Typical Aries. :/

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Posted by CluelessCancer

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Posted by leejt86
one of my best friends is a aries female... could i ever date her? probably not

cause you know you'll be her slave. Aries women are dominant.

Lol farthest thing from the truth. One of my best friends is an aries AND she is also an ex. While I don't practice power games in a relationship (it complicates shit unnecessarily, I just need an equal) I was by no means submissive, though she had a powerful personality.

Why did you break up, curious, but now you're with a Cancer, which is an immensely way better fit, you went from dating a MAN to a WOMAN.

lmao jokes aries, don't stab me please.

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*Stab*

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13 Years

Posted by ShakenNotStirred

I hope Virgos aren't put off by Aries tendency to dig deep

You can dig, but for God's sake, use a spoon rather than backhoe.

Bahahaha. Good to know.

Virgo disappeared on me! Haven't heard from him at all since Sunday. So sad.