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attracting virgo women
Posted by Virgofemso your advice is... move on from this Virgo? she hasn't told me yes or no, or anything really. just seems like she likes talking to me, but if she's just using me i might just go. it just seems like i've been friendzoned by virgos before, only for them to want to date me when im not around or if im taken. lol
For me, once a guy is in the friend zone, that's where he stays. I can't shift to any other relationship. To me, it's like he's a brother or cousin.
If you've told her how you feel and she hasn't said anything back..... She might not be interested. She could very well just be using you to vent and get the male perspective. We're great at doing research on topics but tend not to tell people they're subjects.
We tend to know right away. It's either yes or no. There is no grey area for us.
Posted by earlorg16Well with me, I know in my head if a guy is a yes or a no. If he is a yes then guy will know it through my actions. But if its a no for me I won't tell him (I'm not that blunt or mean lol) ill just disappear and you will get the message...Posted by Virgofemso your advice is... move on from this Virgo? she hasn't told me yes or no, or anything really. just seems like she likes talking to me, but if she's just using me i might just go. it just seems like i've been friendzoned by virgos before, only for them to want to date me when im not around or if im taken. lol
For me, once a guy is in the friend zone, that's where he stays. I can't shift to any other relationship. To me, it's like he's a brother or cousin.
If you've told her how you feel and she hasn't said anything back..... She might not be interested. She could very well just be using you to vent and get the male perspective. We're great at doing research on topics but tend not to tell people they're subjects.
We tend to know right away. It's either yes or no. There is no grey area for us.click to expand
Posted by symone88ah the good ol passive aggressive approach. why not just say no though? isn't that easier lolPosted by earlorg16Well with me, I know in my head if a guy is a yes or a no. If he is a yes then guy will know it through my actions. But if its a no for me I won't tell him (I'm not that blunt or mean lol) ill just disappear and you will get the message...Posted by Virgofemso your advice is... move on from this Virgo? she hasn't told me yes or no, or anything really. just seems like she likes talking to me, but if she's just using me i might just go. it just seems like i've been friendzoned by virgos before, only for them to want to date me when im not around or if im taken. lol
For me, once a guy is in the friend zone, that's where he stays. I can't shift to any other relationship. To me, it's like he's a brother or cousin.
If you've told her how you feel and she hasn't said anything back..... She might not be interested. She could very well just be using you to vent and get the male perspective. We're great at doing research on topics but tend not to tell people they're subjects.
We tend to know right away. It's either yes or no. There is no grey area for us.click to expand
Posted by VirgofemPosted by earlorg16Posted by VirgofemYeah you seem like a different case compared to the other Virgo's I've met. But you're probably right. It just seemsl ike they like to analyze you first before they make a decision and you just gotta be patient about them.
Even if it was a distance situation, the guy would know. I bought a ticket and was ready to visit Germany for a guy.
When we like you, we like you!
Grey, fuzzy, not sure, maybe, give me time doesn't factor into our decision making.
This person might not have said anything because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. She might be waiting for you to just stop talking to her.
Pose it to her again and that should truthfully be your answer. We hate being asked twice..... About anything. We believe our actions say it all. You should get an answer but be forewarned, might not be what you want to hear.click to expand
Posted by VirgofemPosted by earlorg16Posted by Virgofemdamn all you lovely virgos... hopefully one day i can fully experience the embrace of one.Posted by earlorg16Could be my Scorpio Rising đPosted by VirgofemYeah you seem like a different case compared to the other Virgo's I've met. But you're probably right. It just seemsl ike they like to analyze you first before they make a decision and you just gotta be patient about them.
Even if it was a distance situation, the guy would know. I bought a ticket and was ready to visit Germany for a guy.
When we like you, we like you!
Grey, fuzzy, not sure, maybe, give me time doesn't factor into our decision making.
This person might not have said anything because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. She might be waiting for you to just stop talking to her.
Pose it to her again and that should truthfully be your answer. We hate being asked twice..... About anything. We believe our actions say it all. You should get an answer but be forewarned, might not be what you want to hear.
Thing about us Virgos, we're analyzing soon as we lay eyes on you.
I analyze guys standing in line. Based on shoes, watches, hair style .
Oh, we're a picky bunch.click to expand
Posted by starwarsshe stopped discussing guy problems with me when she reached back out to me. i actually cut her off for a couple of weeks and she magically reappeared. i've told her how i feel about her, and she knows im attracted to her. timing supposedly hasnt worked out with us meeting up due to our schedules, but it has almost happened a couple of times.
if you like her, don't be the guy she's comfortable discussing her guy problems with. you might like the friendship and even think she's flirting when she's just being really comfortable around you because you gave her the impression that there's nothing but friendship.
I'm reserved and shy around those whom I like, outgoing and all over the place around my friends.
make the first step more about getting to know each other than establishing a real close friendship, it might take time for her to warm up to you but it'd be better than her getting close to you and opening up because you're friends.
be a friend but don't put so much emphasis on the friendship to a point where she can't bring herself to perceive you as a relationship potential.
so are you suggesting to keep some distance between us but also maintain semi consistent communication?
Posted by starwarsshe was flattered by my words and thanked me, but that was that. moved on to another topic. hence why i don't think it was mutual. yet she sends me private snaps all the time of her trying out different dresses and such asking my opinion.Posted by earlorg16sounds good.Posted by starwarsshe stopped discussing guy problems with me when she reached back out to me. i actually cut her off for a couple of weeks and she magically reappeared. i've told her how i feel about her, and she knows im attracted to her. timing supposedly hasnt worked out with us meeting up due to our schedules, but it has almost happened a couple of times.
if you like her, don't be the guy she's comfortable discussing her guy problems with. you might like the friendship and even think she's flirting when she's just being really comfortable around you because you gave her the impression that there's nothing but friendship.
I'm reserved and shy around those whom I like, outgoing and all over the place around my friends.
make the first step more about getting to know each other than establishing a real close friendship, it might take time for her to warm up to you but it'd be better than her getting close to you and opening up because you're friends.
be a friend but don't put so much emphasis on the friendship to a point where she can't bring herself to perceive you as a relationship potential.
so are you suggesting to keep some distance between us but also maintain semi consistent communication?
what did she say? is it mutual? if so I won't worry about how you two communicate at this point.
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Posted by starwarsafter for sure.Posted by earlorg16*put Virgo glasses on*Posted by starwarsshe was flattered by my words and thanked me, but that was that. moved on to another topic. hence why i don't think it was mutual. yet she sends me private snaps all the time of her trying out different dresses and such asking my opinion.Posted by earlorg16sounds good.Posted by starwarsshe stopped discussing guy problems with me when she reached back out to me. i actually cut her off for a couple of weeks and she magically reappeared. i've told her how i feel about her, and she knows im attracted to her. timing supposedly hasnt worked out with us meeting up due to our schedules, but it has almost happened a couple of times.
if you like her, don't be the guy she's comfortable discussing her guy problems with. you might like the friendship and even think she's flirting when she's just being really comfortable around you because you gave her the impression that there's nothing but friendship.
I'm reserved and shy around those whom I like, outgoing and all over the place around my friends.
make the first step more about getting to know each other than establishing a real close friendship, it might take time for her to warm up to you but it'd be better than her getting close to you and opening up because you're friends.
be a friend but don't put so much emphasis on the friendship to a point where she can't bring herself to perceive you as a relationship potential.
so are you suggesting to keep some distance between us but also maintain semi consistent communication?
what did she say? is it mutual? if so I won't worry about how you two communicate at this point.
was that before or after your confession?click to expand
Posted by ChantillyBummer. I'm done overanalysing it at this point and have moved on to other things. If it happens, it'll happen. Otherwise, this is just gonna drive me nuts haha.
As a Virgo woman.....
I think you were friendzoned when you told a Virgo you liked her...
You need a sense of mystery and that unspoken attraction...
Posted by ChantillyUhh, so does this mean don't talk to her for two months?
As a Virgo woman myself, this is the right approach!
2 months for the types of virgos with baggage (eg not ready to move on and whatnot)
Posted by irreconcilabledifferences
you plant seeds in their brain and make em run the hamster cage
check on them 2 mos later
boom cash in the checkclick to expand
If she sends you pictures of her and asks your opinion continuously then she likes you. I wonât ask for someoneâs opinion unless I value it. I send similar pics with a current bull because I secretly like the attention he gives me, but Iâm prideful and would never openly admit it to him. The only difference between us and your situation is that weâve already expressed our interest in each other. As stated, we are black and white with who we like. Pay special attention to our actions. If someone I see only as a friend has expressed their interest in me verbally then I will politely tell them the feeling is not mutual and will slowly begin to distance myself if they are not getting the hint. The keyword here is that her heart is âguarded.â She left a relationship where she was cheated on, therefore, her heart is surrounded by a solid fortress. She wonât openly admit to liking you just yet because doing so would open up her to be vulnerable. Our weakness is our vulnerability. Itâs very rare when we tell someone we like them, but when we do it is because youâve earned our trust. And she hasnât distanced herself completely because itâs possible she sees genuine qualities in you, but has to be certain that if she will pursue a relationship with you that it will not become a repeat offender. Unfortunately for you, that means a lot of patience on your end. But youâre a bull and bulls excel at that.
Posted by VirgoreanAll valid points here. It's more just confusing because we've never hung out so without being able to read her body language and such, I have only words and snaps to base things off of. I'm not as patient as I'd like to be for a bull, due to my other placements so it's an internal struggle every so often. :\ But thanks for the advice, they're really helpful!
If she sends you pictures of her and asks your opinion continuously then she likes you. I wonât ask for someoneâs opinion unless I value it. I send similar pics with a current bull because I secretly like the attention he gives me, but Iâm prideful and would never openly admit it to him. The only difference between us and your situation is that weâve already expressed our interest in each other. As stated, we are black and white with who we like. Pay special attention to our actions. If someone I see only as a friend has expressed their interest in me verbally then I will politely tell them the feeling is not mutual and will slowly begin to distance myself if they are not getting the hint. The keyword here is that her heart is âguarded.â She left a relationship where she was cheated on, therefore, her heart is surrounded by a solid fortress. She wonât openly admit to liking you just yet because doing so would open up her to be vulnerable. Our weakness is our vulnerability. Itâs very rare when we tell someone we like them, but when we do it is because youâve earned our trust. And she hasnât distanced herself completely because itâs possible she sees genuine qualities in you, but has to be certain that if she will pursue a relationship with you that it will not become a repeat offender. Unfortunately for you, that means a lot of patience on your end. But youâre a bull and bulls excel at that.
How long ago since she left her last relationship?
How long have you two been talking?
What have you suggested when trying to meet up with her?
How long have you two been talking?
What have you suggested when trying to meet up with her?
Posted by ChantillyYes, she knows OP likes her, but continues to send him pics AFTER having discovered his affirmation. And according to OP, she neither said yes or no. If I don't like someone why would I continue to send them pictures if I am trying to show my disinterest in them? I never send pictures to my friends, let alone my guy friends-that sends out mixed messages.
I disagree with this. She might just like the attention she's getting from him. She ALREADY knows op likes her. Virgos are known to reach out to friends etc when they've been hurt. They like company. The " friendzoned " kind of company. If you stick around a Virgo long enough she might change their mind at a moment of weakness. Otherwise is pretty much friendzoned forever.
Had it only been the conversations then I can understand your point, but she is doing something that involves action. Sending pictures is a sign of interest.
Posted by VirgoreanIt's only been like a month, still fresh. We've been talking for about 2 now. She's big into gigs and such, so invited her out to a gig of a mutual band we're both into.
How long ago since she left her last relationship?
How long have you two been talking?
What have you suggested when trying to meet up with her?
Posted by ChantillyWell in either case, I think I'm just gonna move on and if she reaches out than cool but otherwise, I got other things on to take care of. Thanks for all them tips everyone!
I don't know if you're really old school or what. Op IS friendzoned. But I didn't say she despises him. He's just become another fan. Astrology aside, this is clearly a girl who likes attention. I bet you if a Scorpio comes a along she'd be off the market in a minute!
You're basically setting up Op to be in the same situation as his history. Talking to a Virgo for a long time just so she dates someone else after. Sticking around a Virgo for a long time does that. Why do you think she reappeared after two weeks when he stopped talking to her? Because she likes the attention duh?Posted by VirgoreanPosted by ChantillyYes, she knows OP likes her, but continues to send him pics AFTER having discovered his affirmation. And according to OP, she neither said yes or no. If I don't like someone why would I continue to send them pictures if I am trying to show my disinterest in them? I never send pictures to my friends, let alone my guy friends-that sends out mixed messages.
I disagree with this. She might just like the attention she's getting from him. She ALREADY knows op likes her. Virgos are known to reach out to friends etc when they've been hurt. They like company. The " friendzoned " kind of company. If you stick around a Virgo long enough she might change their mind at a moment of weakness. Otherwise is pretty much friendzoned forever.
Had it only been the conversations then I can understand your point, but she is doing something that involves action. Sending pictures is a sign of interest.click to expand
Posted by earlorg16Don't tell your interested just take your time no rush everything will fall in place don't force nor pressure her enjoy the moments
Fellow bull here. I've had poor luck with Virgos in the past, but have fallen hard for them through the years without it ever materializing. My first love was a Virgo. It was a platonic relationship, but I knew I loved her at the time. I told her about wanting it to be more back then and she wasn't ready. She dated someone else, I moved on, dated someone else, and then she broke up and confessed her love to me but I was already committed, then I broke up, and now she's married, but we're still best friends.
Most of my virgo interactions usually start with just being friends first, with there being mutual attraction, flirting, and when I ask em out, it's friend zoning. I've only had one fling with a Virgo, but she was... a bit on the nuttier side you could say.
I don't want to repeat the same mistakes, as I'm currently pursuing another Virgo atm. We met on the interwebs, we chat a bunch, she just got out of a relationship cuz she was cheated on so I've sorta been her sponge for that (as I can relate and it sucks), and I don't want to force the issue. I'd just like some cues on how to approach this as time goes on, she's very guarded and doesn't want to meet yet, but she knows of how I feel for her and comes back to chat and sends me snaps on the regular. I can't tell if she's interested or just in need of an ear. Regardless, any advice on Virgo women would be greatly appreciated đ
An update since this is such an old thread, she ended up getting back with her cheating ex. I backed off and after a couple of weeks, she texted me that she got back with him. Glad I moved away from that one.
Posted by earlorg16I swear that mess almost happened to me with my Virgo crush when i thought he went back to his ex, which was false. I'm so sorry she went back to him, obviously she was emotionally unavaible and she was still in love with him. You deserve so much better. At least you were courageous enough to tell her how you felt (which is something i haven"t been able yet to tell my virgo crush) and you were mature about it. A wonderful and genuine woman is out there for you and when that day comes you will feel in heaven that someone want you as much as you want her. â¤
An update since this is such an old thread, she ended up getting back with her cheating ex. I backed off and after a couple of weeks, she texted me that she got back with him. Glad I moved away from that one.
Maybe she was looking for attention and you were giving her that but nothing else. Which can be heartbreaking when you were being genuine to her. Her loss, she wont ever know the joy you could bring in her life.
Sending you positive & beautiful thoughts. Love will come find you in a way you wont expect! â¤
Posted by Mimi24thanks for the kind words mimi! love that leo energy. đPosted by earlorg16I swear that mess almost happened to me with my Virgo crush when i thought he went back to his ex, which was false. I'm so sorry she went back to him, obviously she was emotionally unavaible and she was still in love with him. You deserve so much better. At least you were courageous enough to tell her how you felt (which is something i haven"t been able yet to tell my virgo crush) and you were mature about it. A wonderful and genuine woman is out there for you and when that day comes you will feel in heaven that someone want you as much as you want her. â¤
An update since this is such an old thread, she ended up getting back with her cheating ex. I backed off and after a couple of weeks, she texted me that she got back with him. Glad I moved away from that one.
Maybe she was looking for attention and you were giving her that but nothing else. Which can be heartbreaking when you were being genuine to her. Her loss, she wont ever know the joy you could bring in her life.
Sending you positive & beautiful thoughts. Love will come find you in a way you wont expect! â¤click to expand
Wow, crazily enough, this girl just texted me today asking if I was doing anything for Valentines Day. Out. of. nowhere. She broke up with her ex, seems like a rebound situation. Lol wow.
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I don't want to repeat the same mistakes, as I'm currently pursuing another Virgo atm. We met on the interwebs, we chat a bunch, she just got out of a relationship cuz she was cheated on so I've sorta been her sponge for that (as I can relate and it sucks), and I don't want to force the issue. I'd just like some cues on how to approach this as time goes on, she's very guarded and doesn't want to meet yet, but she knows of how I feel for her and comes back to chat and sends me snaps on the regular. I can't tell if she's interested or just in need of an ear. Regardless, any advice on Virgo women would be greatly appreciated đ