@Phil_1
10 Years
What does virgo gal think while ignoring someone?
What a Virgo woman Thinks When Ignoring Someone
A Virgo woman may ignore someone to assess her feelings, protect her boundaries, or focus on herself. She might distance herself when she feels overwhelmed or uncertain, then reappear when she is ready to reconnect. Her actions are often about sorting her emotions rather than personal rejection.
Posted by starwars
i dont intentionally ignore people, i dont use the "ignoring" tactic to manipulate my way...i do it to everyone and its not ignoring its called having a space and time to recharge.
This is why Virgos are the most hated sign of all: the act unintentionally and they still expect you to act with intent.
Double standard.
Posted by starwars
i dont intentionally ignore people, i dont use the "ignoring" tactic to manipulate my way...i do it to everyone and its not ignoring its called having a space and time to recharge.
This is why Virgos are the most hated sign of all: the act unintentionally and they still expect you to act with intent.
Double standard.
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Posted by Phil_1
but she has very low self esteem and i may seem out of her league.
Not sure how people missed this part to jump on the Virgo ignoring bandwagon but anyway...
For you to state this, it's a vibe you probably carry in every interaction with her so damn right someone who's as smug as you would get ignored by a Virgo.
This isn't the typical Virgo ignoring double standard, it's someone who isn't under any obligation to suffer smug people in her life beyond a degree of cordial behavior.
So really it's quite funny that you're getting ignored despite being so out of her league.
conceit was the word on the tip of my tongue .... it's surprising how a low-level girl would have the audacity to ignore a boy who is on the top.
@starwars
I was actually trying to be semi-serious for a sec.
Virgos may not ignore people intentionally, but when they do you can be damn sure they couldn't care less about you, not romantically at least. The "I need time to recharge" thing is just a nice way to say you're not interested, which is also fine and seems to be case here.
Also remember that when people like each other they buy time, which is especially true for Virgos, so if she hasn't bought it yet, she simply doesn't like him.
Posted by Palerio
@starwarsI was actually trying to be semi-serious for a sec.
Virgos may not ignore people intentionally, but when they do you can be damn sure they couldn't care less about you, not romantically at least. The "I need time to recharge" thing is just a nice way to say you're not interested, which is also fine and seems to be case here.
Also remember that when people like each other they buy time, which is especially true for Virgos, so if she hasn't bought it yet, she simply doesn't like him.
I dont think "need time to recharge" equal being un interested. i dont talk to people im interested in for days and im fine with that.
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I mean if you're interested romantically, dating or stuff like that, he's the charger and you'll find the time, which is something most people do actually. Then friends it's a different story.
Posted by Phil_1
but she has very low self esteem and i may seem out of her league.Not sure how people missed this part to jump on the Virgo ignoring bandwagon but anyway...
For you to state this, it's a vibe you probably carry in every interaction with her so damn right someone who's as smug as you would get ignored by a Virgo.
This isn't the typical Virgo ignoring double standard, it's someone who isn't under any obligation to suffer smug people in her life beyond a degree of cordial behavior.
So really it's quite funny that you're getting ignored despite being so out of her league.
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Yeah that part bugged me too. He doesn't see her as equal so she doesn't see him at all haha!
OP you have to accept people for who they are or else shit like this happens and leaves you all befuddled.
Idk usually when I like someone I have to stop myself from being all on their nuts. It shouldn't feel like it's easy for a Virgal to ignore you, and if it is easy for us to ignore you then there is no interest.
If we're constantly trying to see you & even if we cancel because we're busy BUT we schedule something else w you right away then there's interest.
When I like someone either romantically or platonically I become a giddy schoolgirl again. Lol. And if I have no interest then I'm constantly evading those social invitations.
Posted by Phil_1
but she has very low self esteem and i may seem out of her league.Not sure how people missed this part to jump on the Virgo ignoring bandwagon but anyway...
For you to state this, it's a vibe you probably carry in every interaction with her so damn right someone who's as smug as you would get ignored by a Virgo.
This isn't the typical Virgo ignoring double standard, it's someone who isn't under any obligation to suffer smug people in her life beyond a degree of cordial behavior.
So really it's quite funny that you're getting ignored despite being so out of her league.
Yeah that part bugged me too. He doesn't see her as equal so she doesn't see him at all haha!
OP you have to accept people for who they are or else shit like this happens and leaves you all befuddled.
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crystal ball wisdom*
for an update, there was some other dude in picture, so that sums it up.
Posted by Phil_1
but she has very low self esteem and i may seem out of her league.Not sure how people missed this part to jump on the Virgo ignoring bandwagon but anyway...
For you to state this, it's a vibe you probably carry in every interaction with her so damn right someone who's as smug as you would get ignored by a Virgo.
This isn't the typical Virgo ignoring double standard, it's someone who isn't under any obligation to suffer smug people in her life beyond a degree of cordial behavior.
So really it's quite funny that you're getting ignored despite being so out of her league.
Yeah that part bugged me too. He doesn't see her as equal so she doesn't see him at all haha!
OP you have to accept people for who they are or else shit like this happens and leaves you all befuddled.
crystal ball wisdom*
for an update, there was some other dude in picture, so that sums it up.
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Someone better suited for her.
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yeah i know, i have already given up on her,
but she (first virgal) has done that disappear and reappear thing several times,
but that was probably because she started seeing someone or went back to ex.
When it was over she reappears and act interested and
stuff with "we should do smth someday" etc.