Awww

I called the Aries gal earlier today and she's gonna be out of town to visit her sister this weekend, so even if I drive back home, I won't be able to see her...

*pouting*

I'm sorry...I hope you'll get to see her soon.

Well, I probably won't, because I know the last half of August we've already discussed how our schedules just aren't going to match up 😢

Next weekend, I have a fishing trip with the guys that was planned way before I ran into her, so I probably won't get to see her, grr... Though I might see her around my bday because I took the week off work, but I leave for Vegas at noon on my 21st bday (which is a wednesday) and I won't be back til that Saturday night, and I'm sure I'll be exhausted.

But that just so happens to be a 3 day holiday weekend, so I'll have Sunday and Monday to catch up with her so long as she's not busy.

Bahhhhhhhhhh... still pouting

Remember the saying:
"Good things come to those that have patience and wait".

I'm not going to lie. I'm not the most patient person in the world, but if I see something that is worth giving more time to, I'll do it. Just hang in there with your Aries girl. I've been following your story. In due time you'll know what to do. Hey, I'm a little older than you, and I'm still learning. I guess you are never to old to learn anything.

wow are virgo men always this excited about girls they like? How sweet.

Did you get to see her yet, Vpmoon?

Nope 😢

Probably won't get a chance to see her again til sometime around the 26th...

Awww, that's so sad. So let me mind-pick you while you're waiting (maybe anxiously)... What are some of the things that you are wondering about? For example, are you thinking that she is as interested as you are? Maybe that she's not as interested? How many times does the thought of her pop up each day? Or does it? etc,etc,etc...

This is a woman who rocked my socks off the first night I saw her after a 3 year gap...

Don't make me go into details... but to steal something from Dy: "rode me like Secretariat going for the Triple Crown"

Anyways... I have my days/hours/minutes where I think "Maybe she does" then I have my days where I think "Maybe she doesn't" in regards to the following:

-Think about me as much as I think about her
-Actually want this to get serious

But then again, when I had my discussion with her about not getting serious yet, I swear I heard a sigh of relief, as in maybe she's not ready for this to get serious yet either... so we might be in the same boat, which is good for now.

Oh and sneaky sneaky, I looked up her moon, and she's Aries with a Virgo moon...

I heard somewhere, maybe here that when one person's moon sign is the same as the other person's sun sign, they're supposed to be extremely compatible in every way.

Can't be that bad if it makes me feel good... right?

I was actually debating whether or not to tell the ENTIRE, hot and steamy details and all, story.

hahaha... yeah... I just know wheels and cappysweetie were asking about what vguys like, they might find it interesting.

Please read my first post so you get some background on this whole story, feel free to read the emotional upset this woman has thrown me into via my other posts as well...

Anyways, after the wedding reception we both ended up out at my sister's place (after changing out of the nice clothes of course!). So we sat around the fire chatting alot about what's been going on over the past couple years where we haven't seen each other...

My sister lives a good 45 minutes outside of the city, rolling hills, woods, etc. So after people began leaving, I decided I'd just stay at my sister's place so long as it was alright with her. Of course it's a small trailer in the woods, so there's not much sleeping real estate available, the Aries gal rode over to my sister's place in my sister's car because her car isn't running, so she had no ride back into town either and settled on staying over as well. I offered to sleep on the couch and let her sleep on this air mattress my sister inflated in the middle of the living room, but she said it'd be fine, and she didn't mind sharing.

So we go into the trailer and sit down on this air mattress, and kind of relax for a bit and continue chatting about life and continuing the conversations from the fire. My sis and her hubby come in and as my sis's hubby walks past, he says to us "Feel free to watch a movie or something" an tosses us a DVD case with a bunch of movies in it.

So Aries gal and I start leafing through the movies together, little did we know, in the back of this case there was porn... hardcore, XXX... she suggested we watch it... so I'm agree, basically thinking, I'm a grown man, it's nothing I haven't seen before...

So we end up watching porn for a little bit, critiquing it, and about how they're doing it all wrong... anyways we get distracted for a moment and start talking about more stuff. We get to a point where we're comparing tattoos (which requires me to take off my shirt to show mine) so she's checking mine out, then offers to show me hers, and I'm like sure, so she shows the visible ones, I comment, they're pretty nice, she's got good taste in ink, and this is where it begins to take a turn...

She takes off her shirt to show me another tattoo that was hidden... now this was only slightly out of the ordinary because she was not wearing a bra. So I be respectful and check out the tattoo make my little comment and all is going well, I'm not grabbing her and going at her or anything.

So then, instead of putting her shirt back on, she lays back down on the mattress... OK... hormones are kicking in. Anyways she our attention turns back to the TV where a woman is sucking her own breasts... at this point Aries gal makes this comment: "My boobs are too small, I can't do that" while saying this she is attempting and failing... so I say "Well, I can do that for you"... and she didn't say anything, but her arm moved to make her breasts accessible to me... and I took the hint. So I suckled on the nearest nipple to me, and gave it a little nibble as I went back to my original position (lying next to her)...

Then... she demonstrates again with her other breast and makes the comment: "Well, I can't get this one either", so now this puts me into a position where I offer again, no comment from her saying "Don't" so I go for the other breast, now this is the breast farther from me, so I roll over on top of her to get in position and proceed to calmly suckle the other breast. But instead of rolling back over I moved up to give her a kiss.

At this point she's topless, my shirt is off, and we are passionately kissing. I give a little nibble on her lower lip and begin to "explore" other areas. I kiss her neck, kiss the center of her chest, go back to her breasts, slowly kissing a stream down her belly in the process of going down to do what I like doing. As I get closer she stops me.

At this point she asks, "Do you have anything?" and I stop and ask "What do you mean?", she says, "Protection?", and I say "Actually, yeah I do". Her reply: "Well, then why don't you just fuck me?"...

BOOM... that set me off. So MORE clothes start coming off... and I put on my "armor"... to make sure this is a team effort, I have her "guide" me into her... and I start out slowly thrusting, but thrusting with authority. We're still kissing during this, and I'm not forgetting about any of her pleasure points.

I start to pick up the pace, and after awhile, she gets real tense and then completely relaxes, at this point I know that I've held up my end of the bargain. But who stops there? Not me.

We keep going at it, and eventually, she pulls me close to her and whispers in my ear: "Are you close?", and to this I reply, "Not even"... and she get's really agitated at this and begins giving me a lecture about how she has already came multiple times and wants to make sure she pleases me (OH THAT MADE ME HOTTER, TURN ON: Girl who get's off and still wants me to get mine)

So instead of just letting me keep having my way, she rolls me over and gets on top... TAKES CHARGE!!! OMG... one of my biggest turn ons ever, is having the woman take control... she starts riding me hard, and fast, and after some time of this she collapses over me again! ANOTHER ONE! I get interrogated at this point: "Did you come?", me "No", "WHY NOT!" she's getting really impatient with me now...

Rides harder and harder, eventually I blow my load, had there not been rubber between us, I could swear I would have shot right through her (exaggeration, but that's how good it was)...

Then we take a bit of time to recoup from this and share a cigarette... And we begin talking again, and it was good talk, but then she brought it up again, she said "I only need to come once, you're an asshole" and kind of laughed, so I giggled too, and we had some private talk, where my deepest thoughts and feelings come out.

Afterwards, we lay down together and I held her in my arms the rest of the night.

BOOM, now you see what she has done to me.

And then after I tell my sister of the events my sister tells me "You never had a choice".

So I began analyzing the whole thing and I really didn't have a choice, made me feel less powerful, and made me more servile towards this powerful Aries woman.

well..um..yes...erm...that was very...informative *fans self*

Wow, what you just described reminds me precisely of the type of encounter most men have with me, especially the "Take charge" part. Go Aries girl! You do what you gotta do! 🙂

Ooops...I didn't mean most men as in many of them, just my ex boyfriends. And hopefully the Virguy will be next.

Ha Wheels... I know... I just about had a mental orgasm as I relived that night while I was writing up the story... sheesh.

AW: yeah....... I suppose this can be categorized as "normal" for her... this is only the story of the FIRST night we slept together.

Not sure. last time I looked up some womans moon I got slapped and arrested.

Ha, not that kind of moon...

I'm sure if I figure out how she got me, I'll let you all know, maybe if this takes off, I'll get her to explain.......

I still am not quite sure where I'm going with this girl yet... I have no idea... I really hope I can spend time with her Sunday, but thus far, it already sounds like it's a no-go... expecting the worst (not being able to see her) hoping for the best...

Yes, vpmoon, do share...do share. Good luck tomorrow!

Well, did you get to see her———

blahhhhhhhhhhhh

😢

no 😢

Awwww, I'm sorry...Hope you'll see each other soon. I have another week and a half before I get to see him. 😢

Hehe...blimey that was all a bit graphical..yikes..

Heh... yeah, she "gave feedback"...

The touch thing, is kind of so-so right now, it's not all the time, but it's more than other gals I've been with.

As for Respect and Romance, I'll get back to you on that later...

But here's more info on where I'm at right now...

Everyone (my parents, my friends, her family (specifically her sister and her cousin)) is telling me she's bad news... and things I've heard got me to conclude that as well... so if I follow my brain and logic, this thing is a no-go... but I don't want to follow my brain this time... grrrr... So this is honestly why I've been fighting with myself these past few weeks. I really want to trust my gut on this one. Maybe she's ditched her bad habits? Maybe not...

Maybe it's worth a shot, and even if it doesn't turn out good, at least I'd have given her a chance, isntead of letting her slip through my fingers.

And all the people I've asked opinions from, I kind of sense hidden motives or bias... like her cousin for example is a girl who I was close too for awhile (and still am) and that never went anywhere, because I didn't want it to, and I think the fact that she's (the cousin) close to me and doesn't like the Aries gal is the basis for negative bias.

My parents, well, they don't want me moving back to my home town, they made that clear when I left, "When you get your degree, there's nothing in this city for you, you'll do much better elsewhere." That's what they said... so not that I planned on moving home for this gal, but she does live there, so if I get with her, then there's that risk (in their minds)... Like I said, I'd rather convince her to move in with me.

My friends, they don't know her that well, a couple guys are jealous... (YES SHE'S FRICKEN HOTTTTTT)... and others can be influenced by the Aries gal's cousin...

The only one who shows genuine concern is my sister, and she didn't really say bad news, she just said be careful and think through everything that I've found out about her recently, yes, the stuff bugs me, but my sis says that she hasn't seen any of that crap, except for one thing she "thinks" she saw, which does concern me alot, because I care about this girl and if what my sis thinks she saw was really happening, then I'd really, regardless of the toll it would take and even if it would kill all possibilities of this relationship happening, I'd do everything in my power to help her overcome that problem.

Grrrr, I can't wait to see he

Grrrr, I can't wait to see her again... I NEED to spend more time with her.

Oh, and VPM goes to bed thinking of her again. And all her flaws, how beautiful they are, and how they will keep her in my thoughts, and how she somehow can overcome them all.