commitment issues

commitment issues

Yes commitment Issues is a big issue for me. And its not just commitment to a person in a long-term relation but its beyond it. It is saying yes for a job, saying yes to someone who is asking me to help in his studies, saying yes to someone who is asking me to look after her garden in her absence etc. It is an issue because, once I said YES, then your problem will become my problem. Getting you A+ grade will be my responsibility, making your garden the most beautiful garden in the area will be my task. I am the one who will go beyond my ways once I do commitment with someone. I never let down anyone, never show my back to anyone once I make commitment so I am very careful to do it at the first place.

Someone who is not Virgo can't understand that being perfectionist, being Virgo is not easy at all.

Present.

My longest relationship (aside from my awful 4yr on n off LDR w/ a Libra) has been my current one w/ my Cancer; two months and counting. I'm much more satisfied w/ my Cancer in these two short months than I ever was w/ the Leeb.

Were afraid to trust someone with our heart so we.keep it hidden n it becomes hard for the other person to get to know us so it never works out for too long. Sad really because we miss out on so much love & emotional growth by guarding our hearts so mercilessly.

We cancel out emotional bonding (which every healthy relationship needs) out of fear.

Which is why Cancers are perfect for Virgos.

Gotta plug my Cancer peeps 😉