consequences?? if i confess my to virgo

im really having a hard time containing and hiding my love for my virgo man... i think he knows that im inlove with him.. (but does he really know??)i think he is having a hint based on my actions with him... i show i care for him... i show to him that i have interest in all that he says and does... virgos are sensitive right? so he does probably know... i think and feel that he also loves but its hard to assume and its killing me..."not knowing if he feels the same way too". i want to tell him that i am deeply in love with him but im a girl.... i want a guy to initiate first...and not me... if you are to ask his actions...his kind to me...suppportive... a little manipulative with my work and personal stuff... he wants me to save in the bank... help my parents with finances etc.... i really dont know what he is upto?? he is in his late 30's and could he probably be considering me to be his wife soon?? we are always together for more than a year now.. almost everyday but we never talk about our feelings...is he just not yet ready to commit or he just want my life to be stable first before he confess?or should i ask? should i confess my feelings? how? im just so afraid... help...

Unfortunately, we are retarded when it comes to expressing our feelings and noticing feelings of others. :p U might as well drop a big hint that u love him and i bet he felt the same way about u.

Hint: Showing ur boobies to him. haha i'm just kidding. 😛 I don't know, u figure that out. 😄

Posted by Beergo85
Unfortunately, we are retarded when it comes to expressing our feelings and noticing feelings of others. :p U might as well drop a big hint that u love him and i bet he felt the same way about u.

Yeah, we do suck when it comes to that. I'm often oblivious with what people throw at me, but for other people, I'm usually pretty aware. You really have to give a virgo a straightforward and fairly obvious hint that you like him. Otherwise, he'll just completely overanalyze your feelings until he sends himself running. The big thing is that if you do sort of make an attempt to tell him, but completely honest about it. Don't hold back regardless of the consequences. Virgos hate uncertainty, and if they can sense that you aren't being genuine, they'll distance themselves anyway. Even though I said we are oblivious, we can pick up some feelings, and we'll sort of go off that until we get the straight answer. So there is a possibility that he knows r at least has an idea, but he won't be okay until he REALLY knows.

Posted by libradimple
im really having a hard time containing and hiding my love for my virgo man... i think he knows that im inlove with him.. (but does he really know??)i think he is having a hint based on my actions with him... i show i care for him...

Coming from a Libra, definitely.

i show to him that i have interest in all that he says and does... virgos are sensitive right? so he does probably know...

Excellent.

i think and feel that he also loves but its hard to assume and its killing me..."not knowing if he feels the same way too". i want to tell him that i am deeply in love with him but im a girl.... i want a guy to initiate first...and not me...

Well your hopes are misplaced. The longer you take to come forward first, the more likely his heart is to wander off.

if you are to ask his actions...his kind to me...suppportive... a little manipulative with my work and personal stuff... he wants me to save in the bank... help my parents with finances etc.... i really dont know what he is upto?? he is in his late 30's and could he probably be considering me to be his wife soon?? we are always together for more than a year now.. almost everyday but we never talk about our feelings...is he just not yet ready to commit or he just want my life to be stable first before he confess?or should i ask? should i confess my feelings? how? im just so afraid... help...

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The sooner you confess, the sooner a resolution can be arrived at.

But, the simple fact is you are a Libra. You are going to take so long to make up your mind, that by the time you do make a move, it will be too late. If it is not already, that is.

Bottom line, act know, tell him how you feel.

He is a man after all and men need to be told.

Thank you so much for the advice... i have to earn my confidence first before i can confess to him...

OMG... i left my computer with this page open and i caught my virgo man reading cajun's post.... but when i arrived he just smiled and nothing seems to happen... i also act i didnt catch him reading this page.... oh what am i gonna do...

Posted by libradimple
Thank you so much for the advice... i have to earn my confidence first before i can confess to him...

OMG... i left my computer with this page open and i caught my virgo man reading cajun's post.... but when i arrived he just smiled and nothing seems to happen... i also act i didnt catch him reading this page.... oh what am i gonna do...

Oh well you dont have to worry he knows now. lol Just keep your cool and act like nothing has happened.

Posted by libradimple
Thank you so much for the advice... i have to earn my confidence first before i can confess to him...

OMG... i left my computer with this page open and i caught my virgo man reading cajun's post.... but when i arrived he just smiled and nothing seems to happen... i also act i didnt catch him reading this page.... oh what am i gonna do...

Sounds like he knows and is expecting you to follow up on my advice, stop hesitating.

Don't even bother trying to build up the confidence you think you need. You saw your virgo smiling after reading the page. Just sit him down and confess to him what you told us; and since he already knows, it wouldn't be twice as hard. Don't stall or your virgo is going to distance himself over time. He's simply waiting. So go for it.

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Posted by libradimple
Thank you so much for the advice... i have to earn my confidence first before i can confess to him...

OMG... i left my computer with this page open and i caught my virgo man reading cajun's post.... but when i arrived he just smiled and nothing seems to happen... i also act i didnt catch him reading this page.... oh what am i gonna do...

Sounds like he knows and is expecting you to follow up on my advice, stop hesitating.

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Please let come back and let us know what you did and what the outcome was.

well... we got intimate last week and we did have some fun together... we slept together... and before we finally sleep, i hug him tight and said i love him...and i want to be assured.... then he told me that he loves me too and hug me tight and slept together hugging... when we are in bed,, he is so caressing and caring and sweet.... but why is it when we are already outside the real world,,everything just seem to be normal... not sweet but caring in his own way... is that really virgo?? i supposed when he said he loves me... he mean it right?? virgos are not liars u supposed?? lol

wow! Congrats for expressing your feelings!!
Im trying to do that also with my virgo girl! Im sure she wont say to me that she loves me back, but at least she'll know how I feel about her. Goodluck with your guy!

Just be content to let things be what they are libradimple. If he said he loves you, and you know it, so what if he isn't into PDA? The loving is good within those walls when you're together. If a Virgo says he loves you, he means it.

No problem's will accure because we know what it's like to keep a secret. We're very good at hiding our feelings, so he might be relieved 🙂. But we do use info against each other when theres a conflict etc.. So if you fight he'll be like "remember the time you" that type of stuff. I did it all the time lol...

I just want to make a correction for the record .....


Somewhere in here it was inferred that Virgos suck as expressing their feelings, and that isn't the truth ... they only suck at showing positive feelings.


They excel at showing their negative feelings ... carry on .....