Different than most Virgos?

I'd just like to get a little insight from some other male Virgos, about generalized descriptions of Virgos that don't quite fit me, and was wondering

and was wondering if other male Virgos were the same?

Most of the descriptions about us say we're supposed to be "shy and modest" which is anything but true for me, I've always been a very outgoing individual who has no problems talking to strangers or making a scene in public. Most of my friends tell me that I'm cocky, although I prefer to use the word confident, is this normal for any other male Virgos out there?

Also, we're supposed to be "followers" by nature... the very idea of it bothers me... in groups whether it be around friends or at work, I'm pretty much in charge, as a matter of fact I can't stand having other people tell me what to do, any virgos want to comment?

I've also had friends, co-workers & enemies that were Aries, Scorpios & Leos which are supposed to be the more dominating & aggressive of the signs, which I've found to be anything but true. In actuality, whenever one of them has irritated me, or had some sort of conflict, I've found I'm far more aggressive, and have always been more dominant, I never back down in an argument, or even physical comfrontation if it comes to that. Is this normal for a Virgo?

I am not like any other Virgo I have met before in life; and I believe that is what life is about; being unique and not being the run of the mill. I enjoy being an individual, and think it is DEATH to lose my face in a crowd, not becuase I am nothing but the crowd, but becuase I AM ONE. I AM ME, MY LIFE IS WHAT I MAKE IT AND I WANT TO MAKE IT SOMETHING ORIGINAL, AND EVENTFULLY ECCLECTIC. I didn't want admiration; I wanted understanding, and to abolish some of the myths that float around virgo seaselessly; I went into this fight purely, with sole desires to change the world preception of and for virgos; perhaps that's a little TOO high; but I always aim high becuase I believe...maybe it's becuase I'm a kid, but maybe not; I haven't lived a sheltered life, and suffered a great deal; I lost one parent, and the other barely acknowledges me...I am 17, but I KNOW I CAN DO GREAT THINGS BECUASE I AM A VIRGO; it is not ever enough to merely have inner strength, if it is selfishly withheld, and withdrawn; you are weak and undeserving of life if you choose to do this; we all have something to bring to the table and are expected to do so becuase in life, we often need of each other; and if you mere state you've inner strength, and show it to no one, and aren't of the inner strength to give, and go beyond yourself, you don't really exist, and a life without you in it isn't really worth living now is it—?

I live unconventionally, and zestfully; life is meant to be lived, and partaken upon; to be enjoyed, and not just thought of or to be analyzed, or observed; yet I am a Virgo, and perhaps for this Virgo, he wishes to see himself in his true hue; some are afraid of this, but not I; I know that as a Virgo, I am meant to enlighten, enrich, and sanctify this cursed world of ignorance, and give the empathy, and knowledge I have inside to all; we were destined to be 'perfect' in the garden of eden, I think Virgos are of some divine purpose, afterall all the 'perfection' and drive to 'perfect' must have some divine purpose, or meaning; as a virgo I search for ways to give my love practically; but being practical isn't a matter of just being grounded anymore; emotions are real; yet we can't see them, and I as a Virgo enjoy being close to someone despite my fears, and let downs, sharing, and giving of my time to see seeds of towmorrow grow into strong oaks of the future. I am something of a guardian; a leader, a prophet who brings the word of hope and light into a world of mundanity; the way I feel most people describe Virgos, and Earth elements is in THE WORST POSSIBLE WAY; I am not shooting down others opinions, but in the interest of fair-mindedness, allow me the chance to share my thoughts, and opinions. I feel life is meant to be SENSED, not observered, that is one sense, sight; we have many things in life to experience, and sense; so it's possible to go beyond just 'what is here or now' I stated before, I will be the first and last in my belief sphere; that matters not, yet if I can 'enlighten' or reach one soul virgo, or leo, or taurus, or capricorn; it's worth my virgoan existence; I am no longer astrology's shy servant; I am a Angel, apart of the goddess Astrea, who brought justice, and fair play; I am a Virgo love it or hate it.

Life should be touched, tasted, smelled, enjoyed!! not just analyzed coldly; you miss out on life if you live that way; I am no fraud I can assure you; I have my own vices to deal with, such as shyness, but I usually have strong feelings and passions anyway, so well, I am me, and you are you; I'm different and always wuz.