Do I have to tell him what to do..

I have been with my virgo male for 8 months, all through this time he has never given one single gift, card or any momento. I am a natural giver so I have lavished many gifts, cards, candy and even flowers upon him. I have never in my life asked a man to give me a gift. Do I need to tell my Virgo to go buy me a card? When he says "you should'nt buy me things, I havent bought you anything", I just say, things like "a card would be nice, just something to keep and treasure"..... do I need to be bolder?

If you are a natural giver than you shouldn't expect anything in return. Stop giving him things if it bothers you that you don't get it in return. I have read that a lot of the Virgo Males are not romantic. The ones that I were with were romantic and giving though just not as much as other signs are.

NOOO
If its in him to give.. he will
If he doesnt then u already know.. its not as personal as he doesnt wana give to YOU but hey may not be in his nature.. u trying to make him feel guilty or change parts of him hes obviously comfortable with will leave u with nothing but misunderstandings

Its not that I "expect" something in return, I just wish to have some type of momento that I can cherish forever, and a card from the dollar store would suffice.

i feel wat u saying..like i said.. some people dont have strong attachment to animate objects..that being the case.. u cant make apple juice out of oranges

I do understand what you are saying but if it doesn't come from him without asking for it then why would you want to cherrish something that was forced

Thanks you all for you insight, he is open with words of affection when we are together, and occasionally he will send a text to "hey babe" and close with an "love you", but never a love letter or note. Our relationship has been awesome when we actually see each other, which seems to be less and less often. I only go to his house and since he leaves for work earlier than I do has booted me out when he leaves for work, leaving me with extra time before I need to arrive at work. Last time, I told him that the next time I spent the night he had to let me sleep an extra hour and I would go out the garage closing it behind me... He has not had me over during the week since. He often goes for days without contacting me, or even answering my calls. Then I get the same "sorry for being a jackass" text message. In the last week he has suggested a BBQ at his house in a non commital way and has not answered my calls on both evenings he has suggested the dinner.Hummmm,maybe he is the wrong tree to be barking up but I have fallen and in a hard way.