Do virgo guys come back after disappearing after a huge fight?

Posted by 777

Cap woman can be overly demanding.

He probably can read through the reason u keep asking him "about space". You asking him about space is an unconscious way of making him make a decision.

The best thing to do is tell him ur not ready for what u guys currently have going

Posted by Browneyebty

I just experienced the same thing with a virgo man. He's hot and cold. My advice to you is not show him your emotions and just pretend like you don't care. The more you chase, the more they pull away, and now I'm blocked and he refuses ro return my house key. Just live your life and do you and always let him come to you. When I would ignore him in the beginning he was all over me, but soon after I start catching feelings and showing him affection, he started being different. He could possibly be dating others also, so protect yourself and don't put too much energy into it.

Posted by LethalFantasia

Earth sign men?

/usuallynot

unless they lahv/lahved you enough

then they always come back

Posted by PhoenixStorm

How long has he been MIA? My sister is a Virgo and I can’t imagine her ghosting anyone.. she’s too polished for that, I can definitely see her withdrawing from the situation to get her cool if she became upset, but she’s the type that would give an explanation, at the very least, and not just ghost someone.

Of all the bad things a woman could do, you simply asked if he needed space. lol I understand his frustration as it does get annoying to have someone ask the same question twice, but I don’t see how that would be a deal breaker. Unless he’s immature.

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Posted by LethalFantasia

Earth sign men?

/usuallynot

unless they lahv/lahved you enough

then they always come back

thanks thats reassuring. But our fight was pretty big even though it was mostly me trying to explain and him not really listening, I know virgo guys don't like being called out on stuff but I had to do it unknowingly so he would understand my point of view. But super annoying but do Virgos eventually calm down a forgive stuff like this ?

O that was just his little boy ego

he'll be back x

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How long has he been MIA? My sister is a Virgo and I can’t imagine her ghosting anyone.. she’s too polished for that, I can definitely see her withdrawing from the situation to get her cool if she became upset, but she’s the type that would give an explanation, at the very least, and not just ghost someone.

Of all the bad things a woman could do, you simply asked if he needed space. lol I understand his frustration as it does get annoying to have someone ask the same question twice, but I don’t see how that would be a deal breaker. Unless he’s immature.

he has been distant since I asked the second time. we only had the 'talk' about it over last week and he has not responded to the last texts I sent 2 days ago. He did get a new job and will be busy, he mentioned before that he wanted to take time off dating but was still ok with us talking, when I asked if it was his final decision he said we could go back to how things were it just won't be the same because of work. So I did have some explanation, but after that I did get defensive and tried my best to unemotionally explain my side which seemed to have made it worse. almost like he wasn't ready to have such uncomfortable discussion. The last questions I asked were if he can get past this whole thing and if not will he be a friend? perhaps he doesn't know the answer to these questions yet and needs more time....??

But to be honest with yourself, can you really be “just friends” with him? I feel like that would be painful/torturous in a way, but you may not be as sensitive as I am.

I would just back off entirely, no more messages.. the ball is in his court. He may just be analyzing the situation. I’m not a Virgo but I have Venus in Virgo and I tend to overthink relationship issues and can withdraw. Maybe he just needs space and time. Just accept that you’ve done all that you can at this point. It may not have anything at all to do with you.

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Posted by LethalFantasia

Earth sign men?

/usuallynot

unless they lahv/lahved you enough

then they always come back

thanks thats reassuring. But our fight was pretty big even though it was mostly me trying to explain and him not really listening, I know virgo guys don't like being called out on stuff but I had to do it unknowingly so he would understand my point of view. But super annoying but do Virgos eventually calm down a forgive stuff like this ?

Virgos aren’t fixed signs so I would think so. You haven’t betrayed him or anything, maybe he just got annoyed. Again I don’t see why it would be a deal breaker (if he was really truly serious about you). If you guys were just casual I could see him saying eh, this isn’t what I was going for, but you made it sound like you guys had feelings established.

I wonder what the rest of his chart is like. If he has a lot of air in his chart, that might explain the detachment and aloofness.

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Posted by PhoenixStorm

Virgos typically don’t mind working at relationships, that’s one thing I admire about them, their willingness to put in the work and the communication is typically good. I am sure he will be back. It can’t hurt to send a text saying “hope you’ve been well, you crossed my mind just wanted to say hi” or something like that, but no more probing for answers.

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Posted by LethalFantasia

Earth sign men?

/usuallynot

unless they lahv/lahved you enough

then they always come back

thanks thats reassuring. But our fight was pretty big even though it was mostly me trying to explain and him not really listening, I know virgo guys don't like being called out on stuff but I had to do it unknowingly so he would understand my point of view. But super annoying but do Virgos eventually calm down a forgive stuff like this ?

Virgos aren’t fixed signs so I would think so. You haven’t betrayed him or anything, maybe he just got annoyed. Again I don’t see why it would be a deal breaker (if he was really truly serious about you). If you guys were just casual I could see him saying eh, this isn’t what I was going for, but you made it sound like you guys had feelings established.

I wonder what the rest of his chart is like. If he has a lot of air in his chart, that might explain the detachment and aloofness.

how do I figure this out? I only know his DOB

You can go here

https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php

And plug in his birthdate and location of birth

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Posted by PhoenixStorm

Where is his Venus and Mars?

Posted by PhoenixStorm

Found this on cafeastrology.com

“Venus in Libra people will try to impress you with their kindness, evenhandedness, and willingness to make your relationship work. They have a polished manner in love, which sometimes makes them appear insincere or superficial. They are gentle lovers who hate to be offended. They are threatened by bad manners and direct or abrasive expression of feelings. They not only prefer to choose the middle road, they seek the middle ground in their relationships. You can expect to be treated fairly, and you may be turned on by Venus in Libra’s willingness to concede and adjust their lives to fully accommodate you.

Venus in Libra men and women have idealized images of their relationships, even to the point where the relationship becomes bigger than life, taking on a life of its own. They can become quietly resentful if they feel they are being taken advantage of — and they make it easy for more aggressive types to bully them around.

Pleasing Venus in Libra involves treating them kindly and fairly. They love to share everything with you, so let them. Foreplay for them can be mental — they love to communicate with you about the relationship. Sharing turns them on, and tactless or uncouth behavior is a turn-off. Although they seem to put up with a lot, be fair with them. Over time, imbalance in their relationship is sure to make them unhappy, and when it comes to this, they may try to even the score in subtle, roundabout ways. Don’t let it come to that, and you will be rewarded with a lover who puts themselves in your shoes and treats you exactly how they would like to be treated.

My Personal Ad Bio: “I’m just a nice guy/gal — some say I’m too nice. I’m romantic and love good conversations. I will please you. All I ask for is fairness.”

Two months going into it, I started getting annoyed with his behavior and dissapearing acts. I would ask him if he have someone else, etc. He denied it. He would come by I guess to reassure me, then the same pattern happens again so I guess he got tired of me complaining so he just told he I don't know how to relax and I'm impatient, blah blah, it was down hill from there. I don't have time to relax and play games with people. You're either in or out.

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Posted by Browneyebty

I just experienced the same thing with a virgo man. He's hot and cold. My advice to you is not show him your emotions and just pretend like you don't care. The more you chase, the more they pull away, and now I'm blocked and he refuses ro return my house key. Just live your life and do you and always let him come to you. When I would ignore him in the beginning he was all over me, but soon after I start catching feelings and showing him affection, he started being different. He could possibly be dating others also, so protect yourself and don't put too much energy into it.

how long were you guys together and did he always disappear after a big fight or misunderstanding? only to return later on?

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Posted by ChiPri0815

Virgo men are completely different then Virgo Females, atleast me being a virgo I do not disappear I tend to want to solve the issue right there and then. I was seeing a guy who was a Virgo and us being the same in the sense being grounded made it easy. But we definitely got into an argument and rushed into something, he did disappear to ease the tension and it was refreshing for both of us. And now we are friends and talk once in a while to catch up. My advice would be to give a week and just do not bring up the relationship situation let him open up about it first. So when you do reach out to him just start with hey what's up, hope your doing well. and don't be so quick to reply back when he does text you back. Virgo men like their space well I feel all virgo's at a point like some space to breathe, but a small text like that will let him know that okay you're there but you're respecting the fact you're giving him space. =) keep me updated hope it all works out hun ❤️