Do you find it hard to tell someone you like them?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by TsarinaRose on Wednesday, September 12, 2012 and has 4 replies.

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@TsarinaRose
14 Years

I'm a Virgo. Still in highschool so that might have something to do with it.

And whenever I like someone, I'm always so afraid to tell them, mainly because I don't know how they'll react. At the moment, I'm having problems with this Cancer guy, but that is a compeltely different story. >.>

But when it comes to flirting with guys I don't like, I have no problem with it. It's kind of just my personally once you get to know me, playfully teasing and complimenting, I don't know why. But is anyone else like this?

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@Virggy
13 YearsVirgo

Sure, all the time. I talk to guys no problem but I won't tell them outright I like them unless they say it first. I can understand where you're coming from. It's the whole thing about being uncertain what the reaction will be that makes some people keep quiet. It's different when you like a guy. When you like him you actually care whether or not he'll think you're crazy/weird/awkward etc. Just try to get to know him a bit. Cancer guys can be tricky, but they're really cool when you get to know them. Good luck!

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@BadGalVirgo
13 YearsVirgo

I have a VERY hard time telling someone u like them of I Really like them!!! LoL... I have a very hard to articulating how I feel... Because I'm soooo busy thinking!!! Wondering what he's thinking about me and ect... So yea, I agree ?

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@wgamador2
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by TsarinaRose
I'm a Virgo. Still in highschool so that might have something to do with it.

And whenever I like someone, I'm always so afraid to tell them, mainly because I don't know how they'll react. At the moment, I'm having problems with this Cancer guy, but that is a compeltely different story. >.>

But when it comes to flirting with guys I don't like, I have no problem with it. It's kind of just my personally once you get to know me, playfully teasing and complimenting, I don't know why. But is anyone else like this?

Tell them. My general rule has always been...if im going to regret not taking the chance then i have nothing to lose.
I was also shy in high school but NEVER about what I wanted or better yet, HAD TO HAVE!

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@Wheat
13 Years

People say girls shouldn't tell the guy first...But, I don't really listen to that, I feel like it could make me more shy feeling like I'm doing something wrong. And it really depends on the person for me, but usually I don't have a hard time. It's really easy to tell when someone has feelings for me back...is it like that for a lot of other virgos?

Well, anyways. It's easy for me. 😛