Do You Have A Relationship Timeframe? (Page 2)

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Posted by 25thDecan
Oh...idk. *shrugs
I don't have "answers" right now. Cliche as it sounds, my focus is music and the money to support it and see it through. I thought it was going to go away with the bell's but it didn't. Some of it got "stronger". Don't wanna go for it and be screwed over again like in the past. Same with love and why I'm not looking...but....on the other side..it's also why I'm not believing I'm destined to meet anyone who will be with me and I with them for life and love. Not a detriment to the women I run into...just that...I don't see it happening. I WISH the dreams I have would go away about it because they are NOT coming to fruition and that shit bothers me. Dah well. I need a nap...time is money and I've got another shift at job #2 and a gig late late tonight. Love doesn't equal money but for me, money doesn't remain elusive no matter my approach or acceptance. *shrug



Next time I visit Texas, I am coming to see you Dec. And you'll find your girl soon..after your nap things will look brighter.
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@ 25th: You seem like a pretty good guy, too good to stay single for the rest of his life!! I can understand what you are saying, because I have had some of those thoughts myself. I am preparing myself for a single life, that may change in the future but I'm not gonna hold my breath.

Have you ever thought that maybe there is something in your life that you need to do or achieve first? Or maybe your lady isn't quite ready to meet you yet...

I am sure you will find your special lady. Who knows when, but up until that time you gotta enjoy life. Take care of yourself ok 🙂
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As for the topic at hand, I just met someone that's also a Virgo (which led me to finding this board to better understand what I was getting into) and he is testing my patience. LOL I love it on one hand because I see him briefly a few times a week and he's been asking all the questions you'd ask someone you're interested in but he has not asked me out yet. Normally, I'm used to obnoxious men just walking up and asking for my phone number, so he's actually quite refreshing because he wants to get to know me. However, I keep thinking, "Okay, by Friday he'll probably ask for it..." and several Fridays have past. This experience right now is changing my idea of the "right" timeframe. Had you asked me 10 years ago, yes, I'd probably have a list of when I expected things to happen. Now? Not really. I've been single for so long that, like Yossarian said, I'm lettin' it go and enjoying the ride. 🙂 Even if he is driving me crazy. lol
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Posted by CLCNY30
Any sign can answer--I'd like to hear answers from all signs/both sexes...

Do you find yourself operating on timeframes when in a relationship?

ex: Needs to say "I love you" by at least the 6th month
Cohabitation by 1 year mark
Engagement by 2 year mark

Or do you find yourself less rigid, free to possibilities all dependant on your relationship with each partner?

Would you mind being in a relationship with someone for 5 years with no ring, or cohabitation?

Have you ended relationships because you felt they "went on too long" with no set "dates"?

I guess the question of "do you ever see yourself getting married" would come into play here, as that might be ideal if you don't (having a long term relationship with no strict rules).



yes i use time. astrology is based on time

when i was younger i had more generous time frames but at my age i'm directly looking for married with kids purpose

before it was 2yrs friends, 2 yrs dating, 2 yrs engagement just to be sure

now it is analyse quickly to start dating earlier. engagement after 1 year, marriage after a year just to prove to both of us and to family. obviously our families need to spend as much time as possible to gain acceptance of each other to help catalyse things

when i was young, i wouldnt mind being in 5yrs no ring no cohabitation. virgo likes steady and stable, passes rigorous testing

wouldnt end a relationship if taking too long