Does virgo women come back after the break up?

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kino
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Had one that came back every couple of months. She'd flirt and as soon as I bit, her replies would slow all the way down. She'd even send pics of her ass and all that, just for her to turn around and act like I'm some dude on a dating site trying to get at her.

Anyway, I ended up blocking her. Most of the time, I would only be replying because of our history. There was a point in time when she was always there for me, so I was simply returning the favor.
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It depends on her other placements.. What are they?

Not all Virgo Sun women are the same
I did not know her time of birth but I got these: Virgo Sun, Virgo Moon, Virgo Venus, Virgo Mercury and Libra Mars. hope this helps! 🙂
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I'll bet she will return no matter what, if she truly loves you. (If she doesn't though idk she might still check up on you in the future) all ego aside she will reach out. But she needs time, can't wait pressure her.. Virgos are hard on those they care about but even harder on themselves... the question is when will she? Libra mars is pretty slow when it comes to taking action usually they need a push or at the very least a bunch of time to analyze their decision. She probably likes to feel needed or important but that most likely will come from her own judgement
"maybe I was too harsh, I should call him." "He probably misses me, maybe I should talk to him again... I do kinda miss him too."
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It depends on her other placements.. What are they?

Not all Virgo Sun women are the same
I did not know her time of birth but I got these: Virgo Sun, Virgo Moon, Virgo Venus, Virgo Mercury and Libra Mars. hope this helps! 🙂
I'll bet she will return no matter what, if she truly loves you. (If she doesn't though idk she might still check up on you in the future) all ego aside she will reach out. But she needs time, can't wait pressure her.. Virgos are hard on those they care about but even harder on themselves... the question is when will she? Libra mars is pretty slow when it comes to taking action usually they need a push or at the very least a bunch of time to analyze their decision. She probably likes to feel needed or important but that most likely will come from her own judgement
"maybe I was too harsh, I should call him." "He probably misses me, maybe I should talk to him again... I do kinda miss him too."
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Well we chat back month ago as during the break up she said it's better for us to be friends. I told her that I'm ready for the friendship and she said she's ready too but don't know what to say suddenly. We talked like friends but I can see her response is quite weird (you know what i mean?) I am still waiting for her reply from my last message to her. I don't want to give pressure on her as she said she's pressured by me before so..yeah......
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You've just received the best gift in life!

And you don't even know it



Here come her claws again ‚‚‚
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I dunno what her deal is, I had went through the same thing with a Virgo Ex, but there are just some signs that don't mix well at all, add in lack of elements in the placements and its recipe for disaster.

And sometimes, Men and women are just assholes, regardless of sign. I don't get the Virgo Bashing.
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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
It depends on her other placements.. What are they?

Not all Virgo Sun women are the same
I did not know her time of birth but I got these: Virgo Sun, Virgo Moon, Virgo Venus, Virgo Mercury and Libra Mars. hope this helps! 🙂
I'll bet she will return no matter what, if she truly loves you. (If she doesn't though idk she might still check up on you in the future) all ego aside she will reach out. But she needs time, can't wait pressure her.. Virgos are hard on those they care about but even harder on themselves... the question is when will she? Libra mars is pretty slow when it comes to taking action usually they need a push or at the very least a bunch of time to analyze their decision. She probably likes to feel needed or important but that most likely will come from her own judgement
"maybe I was too harsh, I should call him." "He probably misses me, maybe I should talk to him again... I do kinda miss him too."
Well we chat back month ago as during the break up she said it's better for us to be friends. I told her that I'm ready for the friendship and she said she's ready too but don't know what to say suddenly. We talked like friends but I can see her response is quite weird (you know what i mean?) I am still waiting for her reply from my last message to her. I don't want to give pressure on her as she said she's pressured by me before so..yeah......
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Shes gone dude. Sorry. You need to move on and stop thinking about her.
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Depends on how she reply's via text

If you ask her how is your day,and her response is

"It's going good etc etc etc how is your day" she may still be interested

But if it's short and cut like
"Its OK, thanx.

Delete her number move on, she has her eyes sight on some 1 new or sees you as boring imperfect.

You could get her attention by showing her your not interested, Virgo women depending on moon love to chase what they can't have. But why waste your time with someone who only wants you when they can't have you, and doesn't want you when they do have you, defeats the purpose right.

It's constant battle in their minds to nit pick at what's all right or wrong with you, so they can say your either perfect or imperfect. I had Virgo moon girl for awhile just diss me, but when I showed her 0 interest, and I told her I don't find her attractive anymore like that, not that she isn't but my urge and pull towards her was gone, she spread her legs so fast and I was on top of her in a hotel room I barely knew what happened. The sex was OK she was hooked tho because I didn't care about her, it was like our position switched , she texted only to hook up and F..K she asked me could we be together, but I saw to many imperfections in her that I didn't like. Smell being 1 of them, dry personality being another, talkative but with nothing to say, she was screwing 2 other guys too, she was a size queen, she had energy to go but getting her started was always slow.

You dodged a bullet trust me, I thank God I never got official with her, she was just some a#@, and she knew it, because that's all I was to her.

You can get the same freaky nature from a cap and better connection.
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cappythehuman
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Posted by iVirgo
Depends on how she reply's via text

If you ask her how is your day,and her response is

"It's going good etc etc etc how is your day" she may still be interested

But if it's short and cut like
"Its OK, thanx.

Delete her number move on, she has her eyes sight on some 1 new or sees you as boring imperfect.

You could get her attention by showing her your not interested, Virgo women depending on moon love to chase what they can't have. But why waste your time with someone who only wants you when they can't have you, and doesn't want you when they do have you, defeats the purpose right.

It's constant battle in their minds to nit pick at what's all right or wrong with you, so they can say your either perfect or imperfect. I had Virgo moon girl for awhile just diss me, but when I showed her 0 interest, and I told her I don't find her attractive anymore like that, not that she isn't but my urge and pull towards her was gone, she spread her legs so fast and I was on top of her in a hotel room I barely knew what happened. The sex was OK she was hooked tho because I didn't care about her, it was like our position switched , she texted only to hook up and F..K she asked me could we be together, but I saw to many imperfections in her that I didn't like. Smell being 1 of them, dry personality being another, talkative but with nothing to say, she was screwing 2 other guys too, she was a size queen, she had energy to go but getting her started was always slow.

You dodged a bullet trust me, I thank God I never got official with her, she was just some a#@, and she knew it, because that's all I was to her.

You can get the same freaky nature from a cap and better connection.
well she asked me back how's everything going on with me tho, we chatted for awhile via text. I didn't want to like I'm giving pressure on her so I'll just wait her to text me back but not by spamming her lol i should start acting like I don't have any interest on her anymore.
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Just move on... you are just playing yourself, she's not worth it, I'm dealing with some issues myself and I'm thinking about walking away. It's easier when you decide to let go, and focus on things going on in your life besides feeding infatuation of somebody you presumed was perfect. She is just a human there is nothing extraordinary about her, find somebody else and ignore her no matter what, you might get lucky and she may never call you, so you won't have to avoid her.
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
You've just received the best gift in life!

And you don't even know it
I was selfish...and I only realized when we're separated... 😢
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A selfish person isn't going to change their core values, simply because a person took a pass on them.

Your realization of your actions didn't change your values.

perhaps, over time you might begin to morph yourself .... but, you haven't changed from a selfish person to a giving one just because a woman walked away from you.


Instead of worrying whether or not she will come back .... perhaps you should be worrying about being a selfish person
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what if she hurt you and got you in serious trouble to protect her addiction to alcohol? will she ever realise that her behaviour was unacceptable and i could forgive it and still love her deeply and understand that it was this terrible disease and would support her to get the help needed and in time we could have a fresh start and be happy like we were every time she was sober— I adore her so much