Virgo women makes me wonder ☺

Hello virgo ladies...its me again

Do you ladies usually aware that when you do silent treatment & distancing yourself from your partner...it only pushes your partner away with feeling un—loved? He/she maybe came to you or asking whats up with you once, twice, or as many times as he/she still can stand with your cold treatment. If he/she no longer can stand of that and 'chasing' you is not a task that he/she feel supposed to do all the time along the relationship...what are your advices ladies? One more thing, you love it when your partner notice and appreciate every little things you do for them...but do you appreciate and thankful to them if they do something for you too, either its big or little like yours too? Even if your partner didnt tell you how tough for him/her to get the things that you fancy alot. Do your partner need to sacrifice for you or just stay be himself/herself? When you repeatedly insist your partner to do something together with you, you know he/she cant coz he/she told you already, but you keep pushing him/her...do you realized that when he/she finally want to do it because of DESPERATE and not based on his/her own willingness?

Posted by zoe gonzales
Hello virgo ladies...its me again

Do you ladies usually aware that when you do silent treatment & distancing yourself from your partner...it only pushes your partner away with feeling un—loved? He/she maybe came to you or asking whats up with you once, twice, or as many times as he/she still can stand with your cold treatment. If he/she no longer can stand of that and 'chasing' you is not a task that he/she feel supposed to do all the time along the relationship...what are your advices ladies? One more thing, you love it when your partner notice and appreciate every little things you do for them...but do you appreciate and thankful to them if they do something for you too, either its big or little like yours too? Even if your partner didnt tell you how tough for him/her to get the things that you fancy alot. Do your partner need to sacrifice for you or just stay be himself/herself? When you repeatedly insist your partner to do something together with you, you know he/she cant coz he/she told you already, but you keep pushing him/her...do you realized that when he/she finally want to do it because of DESPERATE and not based on his/her own willingness?

Hi Zoe, it's nice to see you again.🙂
May i know how long your Virgo lady gives you silent treatment? Is it few days or a week or even a month?
If i value someone and i am angry with that person i might stay silent for maybe 1-2 days.
If i don't like someone and if that person is annoying me in some way then i will go silent with him/her forever.
Sometimes it's hard for me to forget, though i want to forget.

We don't forget what our loved one do for us. But in relationships i think words like 'Thankyou' should not be there.
If you always say 'thankyou' every now and then after your lover do something for you then it makes a relationship look not so close.

Hello Tanya...nice to meet you too dear

Just like you said...she went silent one, two days, she will continue if I didnt make the first move to speak out. Sometimes, i feel like I'm talking alone...while in texting, its all my conversations from top to the bottom, she either no reply or just "ok".

she also said she didnt want to meet me. Why is that dear? Should I follow as what she said or she actually hoping that I'm coming but just too ego to say it out?

Posted by zoe gonzales
Hello Tanya...nice to meet you too dear

Just like you said...she went silent one, two days, she will continue if I didnt make the first move to speak out. Sometimes, i feel like I'm talking alone...while in texting, its all my conversations from top to the bottom, she either no reply or just "ok".

she also said she didnt want to meet me. Why is that dear? Should I follow as what she said or she actually hoping that I'm coming but just too ego to say it out?

Does she stay silent after she fights with you? Maybe she is just angry with you and needs her time to be normal again.

Yes. I'm sulking, she's sulking too¥

Posted by zoe gonzales
Yes. I'm sulking, she's sulking too¥

lol..let her sulk for few days. Why don't you let her come to you? Just wait and don't contact her.

I'll try...I wont contact her n wont check her out. Wont make a status on facebook regarding about her...none. Make myself busy and stop frequently thinking about someone who never, ever thinking of coming to me ☺

As long as I knew, virgo have strong memory and tend to remember anything. To my disappointment she forgot our anniversary, she didnt prepare a present on the day of my birthday...I wont tell her that I've been prepared her birthday present 1 month earlier before her birthday comes. Feel so bad to know that she's not really prioritize me like I do to her.

virgorilla...do you ever thought that how many times your partner have been through heartbroken situation by you but he just pretend that he's all okay and fine? He's went through tough times at home and at work but he never make that angry face when he's with you? He cares for your heart and feelings when he's mad...he raise his voice but he never say harsh words and threats like breaking up, but you did to your bf without thinking of how your words and gone silence after could slash him apart? ☺ virgorilla, you become too cautious and being too attached to someone? Explain to me why you keep your relationship with your partner for long term? You seduce your partner, make him fell in love and care about you so much like his family too. You think your partner didnt attached his all to you and your life at all? Oh, maybe he needs to get less attached like you do too so that he no longer feel heartbroken.

Posted by zoe gonzales
I'll try...I wont contact her n wont check her out. Wont make a status on facebook regarding about her...none. Make myself busy and stop frequently thinking about someone who never, ever thinking of coming to me ☺

Ya that will be good.

Posted by virgorillaa
I'd appreciate someone who cares deeply for me but, when you're in relationship i don't think pretending to be okay or hiding your feelings for the sake of other person works! that's why they won't know what they've caused you since you're putting on a happy face. she can't read your mind nor your acts since you pretend you're fine. i think the silence thing after a fight is a normal thing so you'd calm and think things through. maybe you need to tell her that as well. anyway, im not trying to make her seem like she hasn't done wrong and put the blame on you. I'd just say if you feel upset about something just tell her instead of pretending its fine and get frustrated later and feel like she doesn't understand or is selfish, im sure if she care enough she wouldn't do it again or at least explain herself!

Zoe has mentioned in her other topic that when she confront her virgo lady and discuss about what are the things that have hurt her,
she listens to it but don't say 'sorry' for her actions, instead she says 'ok i got it'.

Virgorilla...I done that in out after argument recently. She didnt answer, just went silent all the way. I just let her be...wont chase her, wont respond to her 'sarcastic' picture—of—quotes sharing on facebook and more and more issues.

One day before...I just found out that she have this habit of 'you must feel the hurt that I felt by you too'...sort of revenge. She do that just to hurt my feelings...not doing it based on fact and proof. Unlike me with my fact, proof, I point out, flashback the things that cause the arguments.

Yeah, as Tanya said...I've mention that before. "Ok i got it" "yeah you're right, I'm wrong". I dont think shes really2 learn the lessons from the argument...she repeat and repeat the same mistakes again and, of course I'm the one who she blamed. ☺