Alyzabeth
@Alyzabeth
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Drama queen?
Yes, it is typical of the male Virgo ... they tend to exaggerate when they feel slighted or rejected and will refuse to see how minor of an issue it is. Like if your Virgo can't see you because you have to work, he would say something like, "I never get to see you on Saturday, you're always busy."
No ... it's not never, and it isn't always.
It is tonight, and it one time .. not never, and not always.
But, that dramatic exaggeration ^^^^^ will be included in the response so long as you allow it.
I've dealt with it for 28 years with my husband and the only times I can get him to snap out of it is to agree with his nonesense.
For example in your situation .... if you had said, "okay, well I'll see you in 3 months then, do you need a suitcase to carry your stuff?" .... he would then turn himself around. And to my amazement, this is when he apologizes for his behaviour, which is a rare event.
But, so long as you are there to tell him how to handle this part of his emotions, he will continue in conducting himself like he was handed rotten tomatoes, and oh my god, look how much he has to endure .... when really it's only sprinkling outside.
No ... it's not never, and it isn't always.
It is tonight, and it one time .. not never, and not always.
But, that dramatic exaggeration ^^^^^ will be included in the response so long as you allow it.
I've dealt with it for 28 years with my husband and the only times I can get him to snap out of it is to agree with his nonesense.
For example in your situation .... if you had said, "okay, well I'll see you in 3 months then, do you need a suitcase to carry your stuff?" .... he would then turn himself around. And to my amazement, this is when he apologizes for his behaviour, which is a rare event.
But, so long as you are there to tell him how to handle this part of his emotions, he will continue in conducting himself like he was handed rotten tomatoes, and oh my god, look how much he has to endure .... when really it's only sprinkling outside.
I've said it many times in here, and I'll say it again ... the virgo is driven by negative energy. They will acknowledge the negative side, and will have to be told the positive.
It can be something very insignificant .... like the dog won't come inside .... and the Virgo will view it over-the-top ... and say to the dog something like, "I'll never let you outside again if you don't come in."
It wouldn't dawn on them to go get a treat, talk to the dog nicely and coax him in the house .... nope, you'd have to tell the Virgo that .... just like you had to tell him that the world hasn't come to an end just because him and his roommate had a dispute.
It can be something very insignificant .... like the dog won't come inside .... and the Virgo will view it over-the-top ... and say to the dog something like, "I'll never let you outside again if you don't come in."
It wouldn't dawn on them to go get a treat, talk to the dog nicely and coax him in the house .... nope, you'd have to tell the Virgo that .... just like you had to tell him that the world hasn't come to an end just because him and his roommate had a dispute.
Virgos are emotionally high-maintenance ... they should come with a warning label of such
Sorry this man is not really a Virgo. NO VIRGO HAS EVER BEEN HOMELESS... Nuff said.
NO TRUE VIRGO WOULD EVER THROW HIMSELF A PITY PARTY THAT WOULD MAKE OTHERS FEEL INDEBTED TO HELP HIM.
If he were actually homeless, he would pretend like he had a place to say, until you found out, and you'd have to grease him a certain way to let him stay with you because he'd be super ashamed if you knew.
And yes, some Virgos are emotional drama queens when they get more oppen with you, but that's the young immature men and the weak females. A Virgo maxim is to be emotionally independent, a Virgo that is not living that way, IS NOT HAPPY WITH HIMSELF...STAY AWAY.
If he were actually homeless, he would pretend like he had a place to say, until you found out, and you'd have to grease him a certain way to let him stay with you because he'd be super ashamed if you knew.
And yes, some Virgos are emotional drama queens when they get more oppen with you, but that's the young immature men and the weak females. A Virgo maxim is to be emotionally independent, a Virgo that is not living that way, IS NOT HAPPY WITH HIMSELF...STAY AWAY.
Posted by sikkario
NO TRUE VIRGO WOULD EVER THROW HIMSELF A PITY PARTY THAT WOULD MAKE OTHERS FEEL INDEBTED TO HELP HIM.
If he were actually homeless, he would pretend like he had a place to say, until you found out, and you'd have to grease him a certain way to let him stay with you because he'd be super ashamed if you knew.
And yes, some Virgos are emotional drama queens when they get more oppen with you, but that's the young immature men and the weak females. A Virgo maxim is to be emotionally independent, a Virgo that is not living that way, IS NOT HAPPY WITH HIMSELF...STAY AWAY.
rightttttttttt do u have the right to bash someone and call someone a non virgo when u threw a couple of fits over some chick.
you emotional independent when u said u need a woman to control u so u feel needed right lmao.
and for the op i dont think it was right to air out his personal biss that he's homeless that's something i woulda of kept to myself.
all virgos are different yet the same you always have to do a birth chart to get more deeper analysis.
Hi Aly,
To be honest, you just have to bear while he finds composure. When my Virgo bf is stressed or worried or any of that sort there is honestly no way of snapping him out of it until it runs its course. I've learned to listen to him, give him good advice, complement him on other things in his life that is great and wonderful to remind him that not all is lost and tragic as he makes it in his head (they're such compulsive analyzers, hence scaring themselves to death, basically). My advice to you is to wait for the momentary upset to pass. The fact that he even expresses such personal information about himself to you means that he really trusts you so try to be patient while he figures things out. They usually do.
To be honest, you just have to bear while he finds composure. When my Virgo bf is stressed or worried or any of that sort there is honestly no way of snapping him out of it until it runs its course. I've learned to listen to him, give him good advice, complement him on other things in his life that is great and wonderful to remind him that not all is lost and tragic as he makes it in his head (they're such compulsive analyzers, hence scaring themselves to death, basically). My advice to you is to wait for the momentary upset to pass. The fact that he even expresses such personal information about himself to you means that he really trusts you so try to be patient while he figures things out. They usually do.
Boo fuckin hoo.
Posted by sikkario
NO TRUE VIRGO WOULD EVER THROW HIMSELF A PITY PARTY THAT WOULD MAKE OTHERS FEEL INDEBTED TO HELP HIM.
If he were actually homeless, he would pretend like he had a place to say, until you found out, and you'd have to grease him a certain way to let him stay with you because he'd be super ashamed if you knew.
You are amazing!I agree. A virgo usually doesn't like to burden others with their problems. So yes, when things are going tough in their world, they won't want to tell anyone. They will try and handle it themselves while at the same time trying to make sure that things are running smoothly with their friends and family.
Posted by CancerMoon
Why not let the guy vent?
I also see nothing bad about being overly dramatic. I'm like that, too. I call it 'the game'. And there are actually just 2 people I can play it with. It starts with me complaining, getting more and more dramatic, then my friend starts kicking in, suggesting more dramatic scenarios until we're both on the floor laughing our head's off. It's so stress releasing, I love it.
Hahaha! That is so true! I like befriending people who have the strength for healthy debates and scenario sharing, LoL. It keeps the mind sharp!
I have "outbursts" like that (rarely)....but its only to people I trust with everything. If your anybody else you wont know that I ever had any problems.
Virgos and outbursts? I'd be scared for my life if I ever saw one. haha
My Virgo has weird outbursts and mood swings also. A few weeks ago he was sooooo mad at his cat for urinating in his room that you would think it was the end of the world. He was ranting how the damn cat would never come in again and he didn't care if I took it home. I explained to him that since he had so much going on in his life right now the cat probably felt isolated. He continued to rant about it and said he didn't care and that the cat was still going to live outside. I told him that in a few weeks he will be back in the house...sure enough he was back in the house this week! LOL !!! They really are drama queens...LOL
Coincidentally, I made a posting today of how my Virgo interest gets soooo stressed out over small things and he even gets kinda rude with me. My situation is slightly similiar to yours of how we are really close friends and may be taking it to the next level. I want a FWB, but I think he is interested in more. In some ways it is better to stay on the friend side rather than the GF side because I don't want to be responsible when he goes into his rants.
Coincidentally, I made a posting today of how my Virgo interest gets soooo stressed out over small things and he even gets kinda rude with me. My situation is slightly similiar to yours of how we are really close friends and may be taking it to the next level. I want a FWB, but I think he is interested in more. In some ways it is better to stay on the friend side rather than the GF side because I don't want to be responsible when he goes into his rants.
Posted by MedullaOblongata
Virgos and outbursts? I'd be scared for my life if I ever saw one. haha
Care to elaborate?
Well PMG,
The only thing I can elaborate on that is I've never seen one; quite frankly, I don't want to. Imagine the capacity of a Virgo's outburst when generally they are so levelheaded and composed. Chills*
The only thing I can elaborate on that is I've never seen one; quite frankly, I don't want to. Imagine the capacity of a Virgo's outburst when generally they are so levelheaded and composed. Chills*
Posted by MedullaOblongata
Well PMG,
The only thing I can elaborate on that is I've never seen one; quite frankly, I don't want to. Imagine the capacity of a Virgo's outburst when generally they are so levelheaded and composed. Chills*
That's what I thought that you meant. It can make someone that likes to hoot and holler get even more upset.
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by MedullaOblongata
Well PMG,
The only thing I can elaborate on that is I've never seen one; quite frankly, I don't want to. Imagine the capacity of a Virgo's outburst when generally they are so levelheaded and composed. Chills*
That's what I thought that you meant. It can make someone that likes to hoot and holler get even more upset.click to expand
Yeah, because they're most likely shocked that a Virgo has it in him.
Posted by MedullaOblongataPosted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by MedullaOblongata
Well PMG,
The only thing I can elaborate on that is I've never seen one; quite frankly, I don't want to. Imagine the capacity of a Virgo's outburst when generally they are so levelheaded and composed. Chills*
That's what I thought that you meant. It can make someone that likes to hoot and holler get even more upset.
Yeah, because they're most likely shocked that a Virgo has it in him.click to expand
No, I meant that it can make someone that likes to get loud even more upset when a virgo chooses to remain calm.
Oh! My apologies! My Virgo is actually really good at that... "Baby, why are you so upset right now? Can we be calm and talk to each other like we care about each other and not like we're enemies? Can we please do that?" lol
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We're not dating, although we talked about it before, but him being scared and me being cold, we both don't wanna take the next step to make it official. We talked about taking it before, but we're happy the way we are. We are however, exclusive.
Like the good Cappy that I am. I get him perfectly. Respect his space, know what to do and say to him, we're just a perfect match.
Sometimes, though, Virgo will have some drama queen burst as I call them.
For exemple: Last night he got in a fight with his room mate. It's been happening often lately.
He texted me: "hey i'm homeless again cancel our plans for the next 3 months i'm out. anyways cya"
Instead of just asking me for help, or to talk, it's like BAM! here's what happened and here's my reaction.
Now, here's what's going to happen. I will text him, ask him what's up and he will go on and on about how his life is a mess, how everything is bad in his life (when it's not at all)
He won't listen to anything I say, not understand that his life is not a mess and that things will get better with his room mate like they always do.
Is this normal Virgo behavior?
That's pretty much the only I don't understand about him.
Thank you,
Aly the Capricorn.