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Are virgo men heartbreakers??
Are Virgo Men Heartbreakers or Loyal Partners
Virgo men are typically known for their loyalty, punctuality, and caring nature. While they value honesty and commitment, some may be cautious or reserved, which can sometimes be mistaken for heartbreaker tendencies. Overall, their intent is usually to build stable and genuine relationships, not to cause heartbreak.
Definitely heartbreakers. They make us females (Virgos) look bad.
When they're good, they're really good; and when they're bad, they're liars, cheats, heartbreakers, and commitment phobes!
Except for 25th Decan. I meant to say except for 25th Decan.
😛
Yeah, just don't go breakin' my heart or ima hafta kick yo *#& $ ^@% !
Posted by 25thDecan
We all have flaws, ya know?
But not all flaws are forgivable. 🙂
Virgo men are heartbreakers towards women they are not 100% satisfied with--mind, body, soul.
Perhaps. I've never witnessed a satisfied Virgo breaking his lover's heart. It is only when they're not completely satisfied in one way or another that they become detached/aloof. I could be wrong, but this is a testament for all the Virgos in my life.
And I don't mean that they up and leave without a trace if they're in a relationship, which is normally an incredibly difficult task for a Virgo once he's in it even if he is not completely happy he'll fight to the very end. But, once he's made up his mind, you can cry and beg all you want, but be certain that he'll just ignore you. Then, you're going to think he's a heartless piece-of-sh.. But, he's not a heartbreaker, he's practical. And know that this behavior/decision is amplified by tenfold if you aren't in a relationship with him, it's even easier for him to just up and disappear. Seems heartless, but if you think about it, it makes sense. Why linger and lead someone on? Cut ties and move along--efficient.
i have had my heart broken twice already by two virgos and currently on my third atm... i can't understand why i attract them
Posted by FemmeScorpion
So whats the score with Virgo males? Are you guys well behaved,punctual,loyal,caring and complimentary OR undercover heartbreakers??
All of the above? 🙂
Particularly so to Scorpio women, heehee
Posted by P-Angel
I don't see how anybody could be a heartbreaker, actually ... I can see how people would blind themselves to the signs on the wall.
That's not another person doing something to you .... it's you doing something to you
It still doesn't make the "heartbreaker's" actions (or dishonesty) excusable nor should the "victimized" (short of those terminally co-dependent or equally narcissistic) be blamed for the narcissist's behavior. Surely we women should follow our gut and turn away from clear red flags, but there is such a thing as giving someone the benefit of the doubt---considering we're all flawed to some effect. Herein lies the guilt of the heartbreaker: he takes advantage of a good woman's forgiveness and forbearance and basically plays her for what she's worth. Yeah, she kicks herself later, because she may have ignored that hunch in her gut, but since when must the loving, caring, nurturing, puttin'-up-with-all-your-BS species bear the blame of the BS-er just because she pardoned/looked beyond some of the BS? (And by BS, I'm referring to Typical Male Behavior.)
Mmmmm no one wants a heartbreaker. From experience I know you guys cheat.
Ummm, P-Angel, why hide? I've just quoted your entire post right beneath it. **Strings scratches head.**
Posted by FemmeScorpion
Mmmmm no one wants a heartbreaker. From experience I know you guys cheat.
Yeah, they are ... if you listen to stories in here, seems they all cheat.
I don't know....ARE virgo men heartbreakers? Let me know because I've never dated one. I know a sign that swim away and flow into a different relationship without realizing it. What sign is that—
I do know one thing though, virgo men will not stay with a woman just because they don't want to hurt her feelings. Years of pain will not be on his agenda like other signs.
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I don't know....ARE virgo men heartbreakers? Let me know because I've never dated one. I know a sign that swim away and flow into a different relationship without realizing it. What sign is that—I do know one thing though, Virgo men will not stay with a woman just because they don't want to hurt her feelings. Years of pain will not be on his agenda like other signs.
Could it beeeeee curtain #1, Le Filet. hehe
And I agree with your second part. Virgos... tsk, those men.
Cheated on every gurlfriend I ever had except for the one I'm with right now. At 19 I decided the girlfriend/ relationship thing wasn't for me. Over 6 yrs later - now I'm with my gurl. Let's see what happens. 😄
yes i breaks my heart when i spend my money sigh lmao.
yes i breaks my heart when i spend my money sigh lmao.
LMAO!! Mr tightwad....
yes i breaks my heart when i spend my money sigh lmao.
LMAO!! Mr tightwad....
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lmfaooooooooooooooooooooooo
im being serious can u tell by my tone of voice or for better words by how i wrote lol.
HAHAHAHA......WELL, BEING A TIGHTWAD IS ONE OF VIRGO TRAITS, ISN'T IT??NO? NUH! I WAS LAUGHING WHEN YOU SAID YOU BREAK UR HEART WHEN U SPEND UR MONEY, RATHER THAN SAYING THAT"WOMAN IS BREAKING YOUR HEART"..LMAO!!!
Posted by preciousvirgin
HAHAHAHA......WELL, BEING A TIGHTWAD IS ONE OF VIRGO TRAITS, ISN'T IT??NO? NUH! I WAS LAUGHING WHEN YOU SAID YOU BREAK UR HEART WHEN U SPEND UR MONEY, RATHER THAN SAYING THAT"WOMAN IS BREAKING YOUR HEART"..LMAO!!!
lmao i know that i can be very witty and play wit words lmao.
im single so no one is breaking my heart besides those dollars when they leave my hand lmao.
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I don't know....ARE virgo men heartbreakers? Let me know because I've never dated one. I know a sign that swim away and flow into a different relationship without realizing it. What sign is that—I do know one thing though, Virgo men will not stay with a woman just because they don't want to hurt her feelings. Years of pain will not be on his agenda like other signs.
Could it beeeeee curtain #1, Le Filet. hehe
And I agree with your second part. Virgos... tsk, those men.
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LoL, Le Filet! LoL.
Yea, but do you know how some people will stay with a person because they think about how hurt that person would be if they broke up with them? They'd rather be miserable themselves then to break it off? Not virgo men at all. LoL
The virgo I was with was very nice and didn't cheat on me. Not every one is bad.
Ok I posted on I think the scorpio board about the virgo guy my mate slept with and then he started acting shady:avoiding her calls,text etc. When he use to bombarding her with msgs throughout the day.
It wasnt a case of her giving the goods too early because they were mates yrs before they slept together. Over the past mth things heated up with them and one thing led to another.
I was taken back when she told me about his sudden behaviour i.e disappearing act because I have a virgo male friend,and I couldnt see him carrying on like that. He's very nice,punctual and always compliments me.
Anyway my mate and I decided to catch this virgo out-if a man start going shady we assume he's pursuing someone else OR maybe he's just a damn payer.
So we got another friend of ours to add him via facebook and send him a couple msgs. 2days as past and he hasnt accepted her or responded to the msg. Now our mate who sent him the friend request is very attractive blonde girl. We used her as bait because my friend who slept with him,felt he has a thing for blondes.
My question is why hasnt he bitten yet? If the guy is a PLAYER,where is his game??
Femme - I am a Scorpio. My father (who I am very close with) is a Virgo and I dated a Virgo about 2 years ago. They are not for me. Lol. Seriously, they are a little difficult. They can be uber critical and I have seen a habit with them not being the most honest sign in the zodiac. Again, just what I have observed. However, if this Virgo is mature and READY (as with any man) to settle down and you give him space and allow him to kind of come to you, it very well may work. But if you have the typical Scorp passion/obessesion trait, you might have to clam it down a bit. Lol. 🙂
Posted by FemmeScorpion
Ok I posted on I think the scorpio board about the virgo guy my mate slept with and then he started acting shady:avoiding her calls,text etc. When he use to bombarding her with msgs throughout the day.
It wasnt a case of her giving the goods too early because they were mates yrs before they slept together. Over the past mth things heated up with them and one thing led to another.
I was taken back when she told me about his sudden behaviour i.e disappearing act because I have a virgo male friend,and I couldnt see him carrying on like that. He's very nice,punctual and always compliments me.
Anyway my mate and I decided to catch this virgo out-if a man start going shady we assume he's pursuing someone else OR maybe he's just a damn payer.
So we got another friend of ours to add him via facebook and send him a couple msgs. 2days as past and he hasnt accepted her or responded to the msg. Now our mate who sent him the friend request is very attractive blonde girl. We used her as bait because my friend who slept with him,felt he has a thing for blondes.
My question is why hasnt he bitten yet? If the guy is a PLAYER,where is his game??
Maybe he's not a player?
Maybe when your friend gave up the goods too soon (they were only "heated" for a month like you said) it made him think differently about her. Virgo males don't like Loosey Susies. They may be friends for years but getting into bed too soon is a very skeptical behavior for most Virgos. The fact that your friend is playing "this game" on him really says a lot about herself as well; she's probably very controlling and demanding, possibly clingy as well. Virgos are so perceptive, he probably senses this about her and doesn't see those traits as relationship potential, at least not for his taste.
Posted by FemmeScorpion
So whats the score with Virgo males? Are you guys well behaved,punctual,loyal,caring and complimentary OR undercover heartbreakers??
No...Non of the above...lol...
Regarding of "undercover heart breakers?? Everyone's capable to break ones heart ,No matter what their sign is....
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I don't know....ARE virgo men heartbreakers? Let me know because I've never dated one. I know a sign that swim away and flow into a different relationship without realizing it. What sign is that—I do know one thing though, Virgo men will not stay with a woman just because they don't want to hurt her feelings. Years of pain will not be on his agenda like other signs.
Could it beeeeee curtain #1, Le Filet. hehe
And I agree with your second part. Virgos... tsk, those men.
LoL, Le Filet! LoL.
Yea, but do you know how some people will stay with a person because they think about how hurt that person would be if they broke up with them? They'd rather be miserable themselves then to break it off? Not virgo men at all. LoL
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RAISES HANDS*
Been through that once in my life and will never ever do that again. I actually did not think he would be hurt, I've witnessed his hurt. I've tried many times and the guy... oh goodness, I can't even fathom how I dealt with all those tears and pleading phone calls. But, Cancer boys, it's so hard to break their kind hearts. However, we are still very great friends today 7 years after the breakup so I'm grateful for that experience.
Virgo men. That's like a whole 'nother story. Don't even try to get clever, you'll just lose him forever. hehe
I hate to say this (and I hope that this is not the situation) but before a virgo gets in bed with someone, they will fantasize about what it might be like. If the friendship is wonderful and they get along well with someone, then the level of how great the sex will be raises very high. It's kind of like giving someone an A+ just for being cool and down to earth. In a virgos mind that means that the sex should be that much better because the vibes have been proven to be off the charts. When a virgo combines their soul with a lover it needs to be on a deeper level than just a slam-bam, thank you ma'am. With that being said (and after much anticipation).....if the performance doesn't meet the expectation then, well......the other party will get ignored through all forms of communication . When a virgo feels safe enough to emerge (that is after you possibly wouldn't take them back anyway after all the drama that they caused) they will still want to be friends.
"if the performance doesn't meet the expectation then, well......the other party will get ignored through all forms of communication . When a virgo feels safe enough to emerge (that is after you possibly wouldn't take them back anyway after all the drama that they caused) they will still want to be friends."
Translation: The magic didn't meet the expectation. Cie la vie.
Hola Virgins. lol!! Thanks for the feedback,I am meeting up with my mate tonite. So I will access dxpnet via my blackberry and get her to have a read.
Just an update he msg her yesterday afternoon " Hey hows it going? Sorry am just rubbish at replying and keeping in touch with everyone. Take no offence,as have been thinking about us having "lunch".Haha! So you having to play on your own today?"
Ok let me explain a few things....Lunch=sex.I believe they had sex during thier lunch hr.
Maybe I jumped the gun,but when she 4warded this to me,I told her to tell him to F Off!! Am no expert but this guy seriously is confused.🙂
^^^^^^^^^^Ok, wait....why are you interested in this guy again?
According to Luda. YES!!
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So whats the score with Virgo males? Are you guys well behaved,punctual,loyal,caring and complimentary OR undercover heartbreakers??