Experiences with Aqua?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by BeautifulVirgo on Friday, August 30, 2013 and has 12 replies.

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@Missvirgo99
13 Years

I dated a aqua for ten years . Think of hiking the steepest of mountains and you get a general idea to what dating one is like . Saying that we were both young , the older male might be a different story but the young ones love the partying and women .

On the upper the reason it lasted ten years because the other 50% of the relationship was spent laughing and joking . He was my best friend and on a friendship level he is was the absolute best .

Good luck !

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@WaterCup
14 Years10,000+ Posts

My father was an aqua & my mother was a virgo. She left him, but continued to love him in her heart until she died. She said he couldn't give her enough emotional support, she felt lonely & like she was in the marriage by herself.

Her sister passed away while they were still married & she was quite emotional about it like expected, it's family. He didn't give her comfort & honestly didn't get why she was so upset because according to him, my mother hated her sister..so what is the crying all about? Its true that my mom & her sister weren't close, they've ceased talking 15+ years prior the death, so her sudden emotionalism was a WTF MOMENT to him lol. She left closely after.

But my mom had a leo stellium, so attention of all kinds (including emotional attention) must have been of great importance..something she couldn't be without hence why she opted to leave him even though she still loved him.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by WaterCup
My father was an aqua & my mother was a virgo. She left him, but continued to love him in her heart until she died. She said he couldn't give her enough emotional support, she felt lonely & like she was in the marriage by herself.

Her sister passed away while they were still married & she was quite emotional about it like expected, it's family. He didn't give her comfort & honestly didn't get why she was so upset because according to him, my mother hated her sister..so what is the crying all about? Its true that my mom & her sister weren't close, they've ceased talking 15+ years prior the death, so her sudden emotionalism was a WTF MOMENT to him lol. She left closely after.

But my mom had a leo stellium, so attention of all kinds (including emotional attention) must have been of great importance..something she couldn't be without hence why she opted to leave him even though she still loved him.

She left because of that? What is one's breaking point? I guess if it's not cheating or abandonment, it's something else.
I'm guessing there were DEEPER issues than that.

People stay together even when a man has a live-in mistress, as long as the wife remains as no.1 and the husband gives obligation to his first family.

People even stay together when there's alcoholism and addiction in there.

Everyone has a breaking point and some people's breaking points are small. And some are huge. Some don't have any. They stay even if the man has several mistresses and flaunts them in his wife's face.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Believe me, i have seen it!

Men who keep mistresses and live with them in a 2nd home, and have children with them, and come home to his wife on other weeks.

These women don't have a breaking point. Marriage is marriage.

And some go through abuse, mental and physical day in and day out. No breaking point.

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@WaterCup
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by WaterCup
My father was an aqua & my mother was a virgo. She left him, but continued to love him in her heart until she died. She said he couldn't give her enough emotional support, she felt lonely & like she was in the marriage by herself.

Her sister passed away while they were still married & she was quite emotional about it like expected, it's family. He didn't give her comfort & honestly didn't get why she was so upset because according to him, my mother hated her sister..so what is the crying all about? Its true that my mom & her sister weren't close, they've ceased talking 15+ years prior the death, so her sudden emotionalism was a WTF MOMENT to him lol. She left closely after.

But my mom had a leo stellium, so attention of all kinds (including emotional attention) must have been of great importance..something she couldn't be without hence why she opted to leave him even though she still loved him.

She left because of that? What is one's breaking point? I guess if it's not cheating or abandonment, it's something else.
I'm guessing there were DEEPER issues than that.

People stay together even when a man has a live-in mistress, as long as the wife remains as no.1 and the husband gives obligation to his first family.

People even stay together when there's alcoholism and addiction in there.

Everyone has a breaking point and some people's breaking points are small. And some are huge. Some don't have any. They stay even if the man has several mistresses and flaunts them in his wife's face.

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There could be more, but I was young at the time, so of courrse she didn't share her real reasons for leaving with me..all I know is that she upped & left because he was unsympathetic to her when her sister died.

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@BeautifulVirgo
13 Years

WC, sad...ugh, I can only imagine how tough that was. I'm not a Virgo that holds grudges especially with family. I'm very family oriented.

I have an Aqua man I'm very interested in and I'm almost positive he's interested in me. Thus far our friendship is what is blooming but the physically attraction is building up big time. I just wanted to see what people have experienced before I jump into this. We are both older (me in middle 30's & he's 10 yrs older) so I'm looking for someone who's ready for a serious relationship.

Would love more feedback if y'all would help a girl out.