Why does this aqua hate me so much? I like him!

I am a pisces and very friendly and nice. Everyone likes me, except this one guy I know. He hangs out in my group, but completely ignores me and says mean things to me all the time. It makes me feel worthless.

He flirts and is so nice and sweet with every single girl he sees and is always telling me about all the girls he is sleeping with, but he won't make a move on me.

I would think he likes me, but I asked him to the movies a couple weeks ago and he said he would come, but stood me up. Also anytime I ask him to do something he doesn't respond.

I don't understand what it is about me he doesn't like. I am pretty, I am really nice to him, I have a masters degree and get asked out all the time. Meanwhile he's chasing women we know who aren't very nice or smart and who aren't that attractive.

well...hmm

he probably smells the desperation from you.

It's not a challenge for alot of men. Its NOT about being pretty or having a masters degree.

btw....it's good he isn't taking advantage of you.

ALOT of men will take advantage of women because they are EASY...as an example.

So thank your lucky stars.

First I would agree with the woman above me. This has nothing to do with his sign. It's the oldest trick in the book, he's picking with you because he likes you. Otherwise you wouldn't get any of his attention at all. He simply wouldn't bother. Also you do need to practice being a challenge. You should not be asking him out, he should be asking you. Make him come to you. If a man wants you he will come after YOU not the other way around.

I would imagine he goes for the other women because they aren't as established as you and therefore would not require as much as you to get in their pants. He can have sex with them without half trying and keep it moving to the next. I doubt he'd be able to do that with you. You need to practice not letting your emotions show so much. Take your feelings off your sleve. A man like him should not know he's getting to you, because he WILL began to take advantage. He's already getting a kick out of it as it is.

Could it be the Leo moon of yours I wonder? You know when people show no interest in what I do I take it as just that, no interest. No part of it is devastating to me because I'm not seeking approval of them but I work on the basis of reciprocation too.

I've read about Aquas who play the whole yeah I'm cool I don't give a fuck then do the 180 but seems like a pretty miserable way to be!

To be fair I don't think there's much to work out here, if you've been nice and he's not really reacting to it then ah well, perhaps it's his loss? 😛

Posted by 88PisceScorp
read "ignore the guy, get the guy book" & "why men love bitches" 😉 LOL

you will find all your answers there.

But reading your post, He is not interested in you and you should move on like right now. stop inviting this guy out, it is very unattractive when a woman keeps inviting a man out, and he keeps talking about women to her. He is clearly saying he is not interested in you.

why humiliate yourself over & over. It is not worth it.

Good luck sweetie, and I wish I had more time this morning but I have to get going.

It's time to be a Shark to this Aqua... lol

LMAO is that why my husband married me?

ick my post didn't go through.

What i wanted to say was, ladies, it's nice to read those "how to nab your man" books, but ultimately, a very SMART man will sniff it out if you are not genuine and true to your character. I mean they will help you get a better self esteem sure, but once he's in dating mode with you and after awhile he will figure it out that you're not the girl he thought you were.

Remember to be true to yourself. I know that sounds like yeah yeah i heard that before...

but seriously, don't fake yourself.

*jumps for joy*

my post went through!

Lol

well um, in conclusion,
if he does NOT like how you are, and your true character.

F - him! that's right F - him!

(i know it's hard, cause your synastry chemistry and hormones are probably going OMG soooooo yummy! SQUEALS and dear god, he's soooooo hot! ) but if you love yourself, you don't need that right?

I don't see any sign of the hatred you mentioned in the title. He's just not that into you.

Your Aqua Mercury tries to understand why. WHY? No idea. He doesn't feel the chemistry with you. You are not his type. You come across a bit too full of yourself (no criticism here).

Accept it, and find yourself a more responsive challenge.

maybe youre not his type, could be something as simple as that. Back off and leave the guy alone?

Posted by 88PisceScorp

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by 88PisceScorp
read "ignore the guy, get the guy book" & "why men love bitches" 😉 LOL

LMAO is that why my husband married me?

Yes, most likely. You aqua women have it in you naturally. LOL

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Lol

well i don't personally like to be one, and I know my hubby would never go for a real "bitch" (in terms of breaking balls? That's very unfeminine and those women are really aggressive)
but I guess it's because I stand firm in what I believe in you know? Even though, at times I can get fuzzy. But it works good 'cause he's way smarter than I am, and I admire his strength and brilliancy.

nope i haven't read it, but i did look on search and saw some quotes.

for example:

http://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/2572759-why-men-love-bitches-from-doormat-to-dreamgirl---a-woman-s-guide-to-hol

—Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion - be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards - only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.??
?? Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship

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—Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion - be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards - only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.??
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well i am an aquarius he is not into you .