Flirting Virgo

I'm completely smitten with a Virgo woman. Is there likely to be some truth in a virgo (sun, moon, venus) jokingly telling you they would date you? Is this a sign I should make a move? Or just a simple remark without meaning? How do you flirt? Do you give subtle hints or simply tell someone you like them? Some context: Virgo woman made a point of telling me that there were some in our friendship group that thought she flirted with me. An hour or so later she joked she would totally date me. We get on really well and she's somewhat tactile with me. This is unusual for virgos, right? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

It's seems she likes you...those are subtle hints. Pursue her don't force it though. Hope it works out. 🙂

virgo women can flirt with a doorknob but I think you can tell when they really like you. It's more engaging.

If she just out right said that, then I'd say pursue her but slowly. If you asked about dating her and she laughed and said she'd date you, she is probably just saying that to not be rude. Lol we tend to not like to let people down.

Posted by starwars
is u crab?

No, Scorpio everywhere in my chart.

Have birth date, birth place and birth time... Sun and Mercury in Virgo. Venus in Libra (a killer). Moon and Jupiter in Capricorn. Mars, Uranus, Neptune and Rising in Sagittarius. Saturn and Pluto in Scorpio. Thoughts?

My details... Sun, Venus and Mars in Scorpio. Moon in Taurus. Aqarius rising. Mercury, Uranus and Pluto in Libra. Jupiter in Picies. Saturn Cancer. Neptune in Sagittarius.

Venus in Libra tend to flirt indiscriminately (?) and, for the most part, it means nothing at all. Oh well...

But then Moon in Capricorn don't like invasion of personal space yet she touches me very subtly?

Mars and rising in Sagittarius will likely tell you?

Completely confused!

Posted by blackmoon
she's throwing subtle hints at you 😉

but for virgos you should most likely be the intiator and by flirting, just be yourself.. and next time she makes that remark say something like 'i would totally date you too' and leave her flustered

im a virgo moon, venus, mercury and dominant

Haha! I wanted to respond by asking "who said you flirt with me"? Or respond similar to what you suggested, but I was completely flustered myself. So flustered I had to walk away from the bar... I'm an idiot for her! I'm definitely going to try that - hopefully there's a next time!

"Where's her mars?"

"maybe she flirt bc you're shy? cause I know I would since it'd be more playful, less mushy and awkward."

I'm incredibly shy!

Her Mars is in Sagittarius. Our charts...

Sun and Mercury in Virgo. Venus in Libra (a killer). Moon and Jupiter in Capricorn. Mars, Uranus, Neptune and Rising in Sagittarius. Saturn and Pluto in Scorpio. Thoughts?

My details... Sun, Venus and Mars in Scorpio. Moon in Taurus. Aqarius rising. Mercury, Uranus and Pluto in Libra. Jupiter in Picies. Saturn Cancer. Neptune in Sagittarius.

I'm Virgo Sun, Venus, and Merc too. Sounds like it was said in the moment because she was bantering with you and comfortable enough to say it. If you make a move she might freeze up and actually think of what she actually said haha. It is something I'd rarely joke about such as if I'm really not feeling the person or wanting to lead him on. I say it doesn't hurt to ask.

I loathe being so introverted when it comes to romance because I'm confident in other areas of my life. I also hate that I can't read her as well as I read other people. It makes me question a lot more than I usually would. Makes me think I simply imagine things... I'm seeing her tonight and will be trying to gauge a little better. Wish me luck! Thanks for all the advice.

Posted by Bumblebee31
I loathe being so introverted when it comes to romance because I'm confident in other areas of my life. I also hate that I can't read her as well as I read other people. It makes me question a lot more than I usually would. Makes me think I simply imagine things... I'm seeing her tonight and will be trying to gauge a little better. Wish me luck! Thanks for all the advice.

Any updates?

Good and bad - more confusion! Thanked me for organising the the trivia fundraiser via fb just before it started, arrived with a gift for me (a book), then barely spoke a word for the rest of the night. Virgos are very hard to understand.

Again, I very much enjoyed your post in the Virgo love style forum.

Posted by Bumblebee31
Good and bad - more confusion! Thanked me for organising the the trivia fundraiser via fb just before it started, arrived with a gift for me (a book), then barely spoke a word for the rest of the night. Virgos are very hard to understand.

Again, I very much enjoyed your post in the Virgo love style forum.

You're welcome =)

Was the book meaningful to you? Not the gesture, but the book itself did it relate to you in anyway? I tend to give meaningful gifts that accentuate a person's interests.

You're welcome =)

Was the book meaningful to you? Not the gesture, but the book itself did it relate to you in anyway? I tend to give meaningful gifts that accentuate a person's interests.



The book had no special significance. It was a book I wanted to read but the local library was backlogged for booking, 8 week wait. I fb posted to see if anyone had one I could borrow and she arrived with a new copy. But then nothing. I also forgot to mention she had a choice to sit next to me or another friend as most hadn't arrived for the trivia night. She chose the seat next to me, further from the closest when she came in. But then, rather noticeable to me at least, proceeded to move her chair away from me a little bit and then sit down. Barely spoke for the entire evening. Also, late in the night there was some banter amongst the group. I sugested she was a natural flirt and she seemed surprised that anyone would think that. Otherwise, seemed cold and detached. Now I'm even more confused.

Okay, so an update... After a week or two of barely no contact we saw each other again last night at our local trivia group get together. Plenty of jokes amongst our group of ten, rather jovial... I'm known as the old person of the group as I'm 5 years senior so jokes are aplenty if there's a question associated with anything from the 80's... Things like "you should know this old man" etc... I take it well as we're always joking with each other about everything. The Virgo in question joked about my age and I joked back "I'm not talking to you now you've called me old". This was met with a complete hissy fit. Initiallt, I thought she was joking back about but leaving but I realised she was serious. Virgo proceeded to grab her bag and coat, and started to leave... I tried to placate her with "Hey, I was joking... " which was met with "You saying you're not talking to me isn't very funny" and then stormed out. We were all dumbfounded and a little lost for words, especially me... I have heard nothing from her and I, along with our friends, feel I am owed an apology. I don't feel I should message her as she seemed very upset. But I want to message her if that makes any sense. Thoughts? Is this a pysh pull thing? Do Virgos start fights like that normally? She's usually very cool, calm and collected - externally anyway. Any advice?

Posted by Bumblebee31
Okay, so an update... After a week or two of barely no contact we saw each other again last night at our local trivia group get together. Plenty of jokes amongst our group of ten, rather jovial... I'm known as the old person of the group as I'm 5 years senior so jokes are aplenty if there's a question associated with anything from the 80's... Things like "you should know this old man" etc... I take it well as we're always joking with each other about everything. The Virgo in question joked about my age and I joked back "I'm not talking to you now you've called me old". This was met with a complete hissy fit. Initiallt, I thought she was joking back about but leaving but I realised she was serious. Virgo proceeded to grab her bag and coat, and started to leave... I tried to placate her with "Hey, I was joking... " which was met with "You saying you're not talking to me isn't very funny" and then stormed out. We were all dumbfounded and a little lost for words, especially me... I have heard nothing from her and I, along with our friends, feel I am owed an apology. I don't feel I should message her as she seemed very upset. But I want to message her if that makes any sense. Thoughts? Is this a pysh pull thing? Do Virgos start fights like that normally? She's usually very cool, calm and collected - externally anyway. Any advice?

Lmao

Immature child throwing a tantrum.

I would not contact her.