Fuck patience. I'm done.

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I tried my hardest...I really did to try to be patient with this Virgo man, but he's testing my nerves and trying my life with all of his stupid ass games.

So, I decided to ask him what were we and he answered:

"I don't know. I really don't know. I'm sorry".

*Queue eye rolling and slamming the door in his face*

Since then, he's been avoiding me all day, but it was the answer I needed to move on. Virgos are now officially on my shit list.
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Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by Chelsey07
I tried my hardest...I really did to try to be patient with this Virgo man, but he's testing my nerves and trying my life with all of his stupid ass games.

So, I decided to ask him what were we and he answered:

"I don't know. I really don't know. I'm sorry".

*Queue eye rolling and slamming the door in his face*

Since then, he's been avoiding me all day, but it was the answer I needed to move on. Virgos are now officially on my shit list.
Don't judge all, each one is different

But be glad he helped you make a decision to walk away and not string you along...

You can now walk away with your head held high

You asked and he answered your nothing at the point

So go invest in someone worthy of you
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I'm gonna go invest in myself. 🙂
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Posted by Sagiluv27
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I tried my hardest...I really did to try to be patient with this Virgo man, but he's testing my nerves and trying my life with all of his stupid ass games.

So, I decided to ask him what were we and he answered:

"I don't know. I really don't know. I'm sorry".

*Queue eye rolling and slamming the door in his face*

Since then, he's been avoiding me all day, but it was the answer I needed to move on. Virgos are now officially on my shit list.
Don't judge all, each one is different

But be glad he helped you make a decision to walk away and not string you along...

You can now walk away with your head held high

You asked and he answered your nothing at the point

So go invest in someone worthy of you


I'm gonna go invest in myself. 🙂


I think that's a wise choice chels
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Me too
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Posted by Chelsey07

...I just want him to act right.






You're not Virgo material .... never had him, never will.



Now, maybe it's possible to have one .. but, you'd have to get over your little Princess self first and that's highly doubtful considering how arrogant you are.
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@P-Angel, Someone pissed in your cereal again huh? And secondly, you don't know me enough to tell me who I am. Go be negative somewhere else.
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You asked him. He answered you and gave you a blunt honest answer. He didn't string you along. He didn't give you a false promise. He didn't LIE! What more do you want? Don't hate on Virgos cause one gave you an honest answer that you didn't like or want to hear. Would you have rather him whisper sweet nothing lies in your ear? Been there....done that....not worth the pain down the road.


I'm guessing you didn't read my previous posts.
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It's a bad match in the long run.

I don't have patience for virgos.
But you have patience for your stupidity. Hmm.
That's harsh.
No its not harsh. That cow is pestilence
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We all learn our lessons in our own time. Did you have to call her a cow? I thought it was a bit much too, but I won't knock her for it.
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It's a bad match in the long run.

I don't have patience for virgos.
But you have patience for your stupidity. Hmm.
That's harsh.
No its not harsh. That cow is pestilence
We all learn our lessons in our own time. Did you have to call her a cow? I thought it was a bit much too, but I won't knock her for it.
Yes a cow. Do i need to repeat. Cow cow cow

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Please, no need. It's just mean.
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You asked him. He answered you and gave you a blunt honest answer. He didn't string you along. He didn't give you a false promise. He didn't LIE! What more do you want? Don't hate on Virgos cause one gave you an honest answer that you didn't like or want to hear. Would you have rather him whisper sweet nothing lies in your ear? Been there....done that....not worth the pain down the road.


I'm guessing you didn't read my previous posts.
No. There have been so many Virgo man patience post latly, it's hard to keep track.
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If I can, I'll link you or PM you.
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It's a bad match in the long run.

I don't have patience for virgos.
But you have patience for your stupidity. Hmm.
That's harsh.
No its not harsh. That cow is pestilence
We all learn our lessons in our own time. Did you have to call her a cow? I thought it was a bit much too, but I won't knock her for it.
Yes a cow. Do i need to repeat. Cow cow cow


Please, no need. It's just mean.
You're so cute. I like your kindness. It's very sweet. That crab moon is strong. The Virgo will be back if you're like this in real life. They don't life pressure tho. At all

But the cow is mean. She only understands cruelty.
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I am like this in real life. I'm only "mean" when I have to be. Still don't think you should call her a cow, but whatever. Mooooo

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Posted by Chelsey07
I tried my hardest...I really did to try to be patient with this Virgo man, but he's testing my nerves and trying my life with all of his stupid ass games.

So, I decided to ask him what were we and he answered:

"I don't know. I really don't know. I'm sorry".

*Queue eye rolling and slamming the door in his face*

Since then, he's been avoiding me all day, but it was the answer I needed to move on. Virgos are now officially on my shit list.
I am sorry. I have the feeling though you might feel differently in a week. That's ok.

Do what is right for you.

Sometimes men are just jerks ..there is no reason.

If you are done you are done though.
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Posted by Chelsey07
Posted by Scorpio123
Posted by Maidemarilyn
It's a bad match in the long run.

I don't have patience for virgos.
But you have patience for your stupidity. Hmm.
That's harsh.
No its not harsh. That cow is pestilence
We all learn our lessons in our own time. Did you have to call her a cow? I thought it was a bit much too, but I won't knock her for it.
Yes a cow. Do i need to repeat. Cow cow cow


Please, no need. It's just mean.
You're so cute. I like your kindness. It's very sweet. That crab moon is strong. The Virgo will be back if you're like this in real life. They don't life pressure tho. At all

But the cow is mean. She only understands cruelty.


I am like this in real life. I'm only "mean" when I have to be. Still don't think you should call her a cow, but whatever. Mooooo


Lmao at moooo

But tbh earth signs need that feminine touch , it appeals to them over and over.

However they can tell when it may have been a facade just to get something, they need that cancery vibe going. Idk why but they seem to like that in women
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And here's the thing, when I care for you, I'm willing to go to the ends of the Earth for you. But you can't make someone accept your love when all they wanted from you from the beginning was ass. He no longer gets to see my nice side. My feelings have been played with and being used is no fun.
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I tried my hardest...I really did to try to be patient with this Virgo man, but he's testing my nerves and trying my life with all of his stupid ass games.

So, I decided to ask him what were we and he answered:

"I don't know. I really don't know. I'm sorry".

*Queue eye rolling and slamming the door in his face*

Since then, he's been avoiding me all day, but it was the answer I needed to move on. Virgos are now officially on my shit list.
I am sorry. I have the feeling though you might feel differently in a week. That's ok.

Do what is right for you.

Sometimes men are just jerks ..there is no reason.

If you are done you are done though.
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There is some truth in this, but I don't want to be taken as a fool you know? I don't want to be the one that he thinks will wait around for him because I won't. I can't lie and say that it didn't hurt even a teensy tiny bit, but I'm not terribly emotional over him either.
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Thats the sag sun talking, and it pushes men you know.

I'll tell you, earth signs have a knack for feminism in women that entire soft feel. The Lure with honey factor thing going. So you slam the door and walk away and he looks at it as the amount of drama he may not want to deal with in the future. Your temper must've freaked him out severely and time and time again.

What i find works is, talking direct and softly. I used to be so angry initially cos its like why tf do you not get it? But thats very disciplinary and no one wants to feel like a kid. Men especially.

So when im pissed knowing how ballistic i can get , i take time off. Come back and discuss like a mature lady with a genuine soft side. It appeals to a man who must genuinely care about you, no fussing, no anger. I have done this with the men in my life including my dad and it has worked over and over. You can never use anger to get anywhere

I feel he will be back though, if you've both shared more than just surface banter. That whole i dont know is his way of avoiding the confrontation or pressure he felt.


This is the first time I've ever been angry at him. When I say that I really tried to be patient and soft (which I am all the time BTW) and caring because that's who I am naturally, I really did. He pretty much took advantage of my kindness and felt he could treat me however he liked. One day he's all over me and the next day I don't exist to him. I'm not some toy that you pull out to play with and put back for later use. I'm a human being with feelings, so I feel like I have every right to be angry. He deserved that door being slammed in his face. And another thing...you can't talk to someone who constantly tries to avoid the elephant in the room. He's ALWAYS running and I'm not going to chase him.
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i honestly hate that "what are we talk" and I'm a woman. It's like forcing someone to be in a relationship. Sometimes a man wants you to automatically know and that's not enough for women. But couldn't you say it a different way from the usual?

I would like you all to myself and I don't want you to date anyone else but me and I want only you? Can we do that?

That would've probably been better.

Anyways if you're done you're done. From the last pm I thought you were taking a break didn't know you made this thread. Best of luck Hun.
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Posted by Shaniajam
i honestly hate that "what are we talk" and I'm a woman. It's like forcing someone to be in a relationship. Sometimes a man wants you to automatically know and that's not enough for women. But couldn't you say it a different way from the usual?

I would like you all to myself and I don't want you to date anyone else but me and I want only you? Can we do that?

That would've probably been better.

Anyways if you're done you're done. From the last pm I thought you were taking a break didn't know you made this thread. Best of luck Hun.


That's the thing, I needed clarification. His I don't know was enough for me to know that it's time for me to go. As for automatically knowing, I'm not a mind reader. We're grown and I don't have time for mind games. I was going to take a break, but I rather not be with someone who's not sure of our status. I'm not gonna be your fool and contingency pussy. He can move around with that bullshit.