Guess who's getting married today...

None other than Dy the man. Finally, he'll be getting his Scorpion Queen. I wish you all the best, Dy. Have a great day today and a great honeymoon. Do check in on the Virgo forum once in a while, unless.. um... you're too busy doing you know what. Nah, I'm just teasing. Have a great future with the lady. I'm truly happy for you.

If it is true... then.... my congratulations DY... I am happy for you.!.

Congrats ✨

Congrats Dy!

Hope you can keep up with her on the honeymoon "ole dawg".

Congrats DY!!! Have a wonderful marriage. -ST

DY RIP...

What? He's a mature Virgo male?

Brandon, please, for Gods sake, take this statement back or I gonna get heart attack!

This guy is anything but mature male. He couldnt identify his pain in the ass which was my dick. lmao.

ALV

Put your head between your legs and kiss your own anus....PLEASE!

LMAO!

Oh c'mon. He's an ex military dickhead. How mature he could be. The only thing he know in his life is "Left!", "Right!" or "Marsh!" stuff. He must be pretty brainless after all this military thing.

They all same Brandon. Once you get in army you forciblity become removed of any conscious thinking. You just do what others say you to do. It's pretty much brainlesss, and anyone who stood there for too long, also loses brains and no further repairs are usually possible.

As for US and Turkish army, LAMO! They all pretty same...

Anytime Brandon. Later.

Thats Right! Today is the day! Congratulations you ol' dawg you 😉

OOO I'm so happy for you DY 🙂 Let us know how everything went, okay?

ALV

The only thing you could get in that case is a big kick in da azz! So stop dreaming about it and go back to your previous task. Which is bend down yourself and kiss your own anus.

ho kay, so...back on track...

Congratualtions dyrstr8z! Now just make sure you're honest, don't think too much, don't discriminate on her because of her gender, and finally, never give her a reason to question your fidelity 😛. Best of luck.

CONGRADULATIONS DY!!!!!

LOLOL!

Your anus definetly not interests me. And if I talk about it, it because it's the right course of action to make you shut the fuck up. It doesn't mean I have personal interest in it. And if you can't understand the difference, well my suggestion stills, go kiss your own anus. I'm sure you'll figure it out. If not, da hell with ya.lol.

And for yur defending DY.

DY and me are old friends. If I say anything about him, it has nothing to do with fool like you. So shut the fuck up.

"you have sex with the lights off so NO THANKS old old HAFFO"

And what makes you think this way? I don't think you have any knowledge about my preferences. So next time, before you jump on conclusions, draw a line between reality and your "fantasy" because first I'm not interested, second you make little sense.

Congratulations!!!!

Dy the man,

You are very welcome. I was hoping you'd see this thread soon. Ooooo, I like Lady Mystical by the way. Well, I'm always a Lady in every way that counts. Thanks for giving me a new nickname. Now I look forward to all your news. Let it roll....

You remembered about my career? It's true what they say when Virgos remember everything. I'm touched.

Well, I'm done with my internship in the children's department at the hospital. I truly had a blast there. I was able to be like a child again since I was with children all day. All the toys they have these days are so much fun. I wish I had those toys when I was younger. Now, I'm in the Psychiatrics ward (as a nursing student not a patient) and it is very different. I'm where the older people are who have Alzheimers and Demente. Some can also be Psycho. I'm a bit scared to be there as I'm never sure if the patients are going to change in their moods so I never turn my back on them. I'll be there until Christmas. Just had my first week there. It's a little dull with little to do. However, I'm doing a lot of observing to get a drift on how things are done there. Eventually, I'll be able to work on my own even though I'm scared. Well, I'm a tough cookie so I'll get by. I already have caught the eye of a med. student there. He's already a doctor and is just finishing up his internship. He seems keen on me so today I finally plucked up the courage to talk to him as he seemed so shy to say anything to me, but stare. He suddenly opened up. I asked him about his schooling which he told me a little about. I work part-time in a foodstore as I was telling somebody else about. He was all ears and wanted to know where it was that I worked. I explained it to him. I told him he had to visit me then too. Now I was serious but said it jokingly, not expecting an answer back. He replied every quickly back oh, yeah, he'd be there. So hopefully, I'll see him outside of the Psychiatrics ward also.

Oh, the emotionally damaged VirGuy. You remember him too? Well, he's still around. In September he called me in the middle of the night. I didn't answer. I knew it was him as none of my other friends would be so rude to call at 4.27 in the morning. Then I ignored him for a whole month because I finally gave up. After I ignored him, he calls me again in early October. Again in the middle of the night at 4.37. I again ignore him as it's so rude to be calling me. First he ignores me for a while and then when I ignore him, he doesn't like it. I had figured out when I didn't send him text messages every 2 weeks, he got worried. He doesn't want to lose me either which kind of shocks me. So on October 16th, I finally found out I had passed my ending evaluation for the

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children's department. I truly wanted to see where this VirGuy's head was at. So I wrote a text message saying I was so happy that day and if there was a day I was going to party it would have been that day (as I don't drink). I wrote I was so nervous and that things finally were looking brighter for me after so much darkness. This is what I wrote to VirGuy because I felt bad ignoring him, and therefore I sent him this somewhat coded text. He had no idea what I was so happy about as he and I hadn't spoken since the ending of July. Don't you know within an hour of me sending that text, he calls me. I was so shocked that I couldn't believe it. It was a decent time he was calling. Now I'm not into games whatsoever, but I didn't pick up when he called. I've been so fricken mad at him so I wanted to control my temper and didn't want to say anything I might regret. Also when he's been calling, in my mobile display it says "Private" so I'm forced to pick up to see who is calling. Anyway, my guilty conscious got the best of me again. So the next day, on October 17th, I sent him a very direct text because I'm tired of his games. I wrote to him is he still alive and if he was it would be nice of him to show some sign of life. Within 13 minutes he calls me. Again, I was so stunned. Before when I've tried to reach him he doesn't respond. Now all of a sudden he responds like nothing. He congratulated me on my passing. Anyway, he claims to have a girlfriend. However, when I asked how long they've been together, he can't remember. He didn't say he misses her either. I said she must miss you and he didn't respond. He's at sea. I was so happy for him with finding a girlfriend because he does deserve happiness. Don't you know, he didn't like hearing the joy in my voice for him. He actually sounded sad for me being happy for him. I honestly don't get why he'd be sad for me being happy for him which I truly am. However, I think he's trying the jealousy thing again with wanting me to know how popular he is. I just don't understand when someone is in a relationship with someone why they'd be sad when someone is happy for them. I don't think that's normal, do you? He claims it's so easy for him to get girls. He has no problem with that. However, when he's drunk, he's told me he doesn't have a chance with anybody. I don't know what to believe. The calling in the middle of the night drunk, I don't get either. Only thing I can think of is, I'm in his subconscious.

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How I got there, I don't know. He says his girlfriend is from Poland, and they will be going there after the New Year. I was again very happy for him. I asked him will he be meeting her parents and how long will they be there. He didn't know to both of the questions. I found it so odd. Also when he couldn't remember how long he'd be dating this new girl, he could hear the sarcasm in my voice and then said June or July. Again, I was truly happy for him. It's like he wants to get a reaction out of me whenever he can. He's been in contact with me as he called me last weekend because I was so frightened with starting in the Psychiatrics ward. It was late at night when he called, so I didn't answer. I did send him a text in the morning thanking him for calling me, but I had already gone to bed when he called. That wasn't the truth, but I didn't think talking at 2 in the morning was appropiate. I haven't heard from him since which is just as well. I've told him I'm his friend which again, he doesn't seem to like when I say that. Like when I said I'm interested in a med.student (not the one I mentioned earlier, but another one also so I have 2 that have caught my eye). His response was: "I'm not going to be a doctor." I don't know where that fit in at all. I wasn't asking him if he wanted to be a doctor. Then he didn't want to hear anymore and got very quiet and changed the subject. He wanted to know if I could travel to another country since I'm a nursing student because an ex of his has just done that. I said yes I could, and if I wanted to I'd go back the States. Oh, he wouldn't want to do that. I wasn't even asking him. I just got the feeling he was trying to plan something. He also remembered my part-time job which astonished me. I thought he forgot little details but he doesn't seem to forget anything. However, he doesn't like it when I'm interested in a guy. I feel, if he can say he has a girlfriend, I can say I'm also looking around. Once I let go of his games, I became a much happier person. This is why when he started calling me again, after ignoring me, it made no sense to me whatsoever. He knows I'm a great catch and very loyal (unfortunately). He also knows I deserve much better than him which is the truth. However, it's very difficult understanding what it is he wants from me. When I say the friend word, he gets a little weird on the phone.

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Yes, I have let go of him but I had to get the confirmation it has been him who has been calling me. At times, he confuses me because just when I somewhat forget about him, he calls. It's like he knows if he doesn't contact me, he'll lose out which it correct. I've noticed he'll let 3 weeks go by because he's waiting for me to take contact with him like I would before after 2 weeks. When I don't do it, then he'll take contact with me. It's weird and odd. I've never had trouble understanding guys before this VirGuy came along. For a while, I began to question myself as to what I was doing wrong and became absolutely miserable. When I finally woke up and realized it was him who had the problem with being insecure, I became myself again. I was so sad this past summer. It was absolutely horrible. Actually, if I'm going to be honest, I feel 2006, has been the worst year I've had in years. A lot of it has to do with this VirGuy as it's been like a roller coaster on fast. This is why finally, in September, I said enough was enough and I couldn't take it anymore. I gave up. Then he starts up. It's like he has some antenna turned in, it seems like.

I don't know if he's into drugs. Drinking is something he does. You know what he did say that was so sweet. I told him I'd been at a party where there was a lot of drinking. I had some guy after me wanting me to drink which I refused. Basically, everyone was drunk (I wasn't) so it was a sight to see. I drank soda. I told him I don't understand the big thing about being drunk. Now suddenly he tells me there is nothing great with getting drunk. He's never told me that before. He said to get a little tipsy was okay but stay away from getting drunk. He said I'm not missing out on anything. Other times he tells me it's so much fun being drunk. Now he's telling me I should stay away from getting drunk. It felt like he doesn't want me to go down the wrong path. It astonished me that he was giving me advice.

He's captivated by me? Well, if he is, he'd never admit it. At least I'd understand better what is going on. He never admits to anything because I think it's because he's unsure of everything. Here I am, a next door type of girl, and he's the bad boy. He doesn't know how to handle me so he runs scared like a little boy. I'm mature and would like to know what the heck is going on. Communication is an important tool. I think he knows he has to be quick on his feet because I'm a quick thinker so he has to be quick.

I'm still a Virgo fan. No matter what happens, I've learned so much regarding this VirGuy. He's been like a teacher to me. It's been painful and miserable but finally, I see the light. Things are looking better for me. It's funny when you let a person go how much better you feel. It wasn't easy letting this VirGuy go. He really did get under my skin. He will always be a person I'll never forget. He'll always have a little part of me that is just for him because he opened my eyes. I'll be forever thankful to him. I'm a bit shy but after knowing him, I've opened up so much. Normally, I'd never talk to some guy like I did today. Before I'd just say hello and that is it. It's amazing how people teach each other lessons in life. It's just a shame this VirGuy is so slow realizing a good thing right in front of him. However, I have to look at it as I'm being saved from more misery.

hay hun i know i really dont know you and i know i dont really know your story but i can tell you i thought i could love someone so much that i could love that person from not only from my point of view but from his as well meaning i was jus clutching on the snipets that he presented me with and i thought that i could love him enough for both of us. the sorta love where you would of given your life for that other person and i can tell you he wouldnt of done it for me but i didnt care...

the thing is hun you do have to care i honestly believed i could never have loved someone as much as him and that i would never get over him and he played games up till the point that i had to standup and say iv givn you everything but you didnt want it and you do have to walk away and i cn say at the time it is the worst thing the most heart wrenchng thing to do but therez light

because now with someone who would do anything for me n i for him... hahaha most amazing feeling so drop that suker coz itz ur life and you deserve the freakin best youv only got one so why settle for something thatz making you more miserable than happy you gotta step up and love yourself and stop hurting yourself by waiting for him to realize

hahaha i think uv realized this on your own but do it for youself baby!!! you can do it!!! stay strong dont listen to him wen he calls dont give a shyt about him start living life for you hahaha

Dy,

You think I've taught him something also? I'd like to think so but it doesn't look like I've done a very good job at it. Unbalanced VirGuy? Well, I guess that is right. I just don't understand why he can't see the obvious. He must have blinders on. Or he doesn't want me to waste my time on him anymore.

Misty,
Thank you so very much for your response. Yes, I really do like this VirGuy and have hated him (I don't like the word hate but it's the truth, I'd see red when he called). He was able to get to a place in me where few people get (meaning my heart). That is what has been so difficult. I fought him so hard. However, being the Virgo guy he is, he wormed his way in. It just seemed to happen so fast. Getting him out has not been so quick. That's been the tough part. So I just left it be that he'll have a little part of me as I can never erase him from my mind. God knows, I've tried that. I have to think this VirGuy was the push I need to open my eyes. Well, I have no idea if he'll call me again. If he doesn't that is just as well. I had to move on. When he talked to me over a week ago, he heard a very confident girl (inside I was nervous as hell). Maybe I'll hear from him again. If I do, it will again be a shock. It will depend the mood I'm in that day.

Oh My!
I remember when he was first seeing her!!!
YEAHH
Congrats!