Gem/ Scorpio

Hi all,
I've often read the Scorp/ Gem messages, but until now have not had the courage to reply or post a message.
One lesson being offered in a Gem/ Scorp relationship is patience...

6 months ago I met a Scorpio male while travelling in SAmerica.He is Austrian and I am English.A Month later he broke his travels( year long sabbatical) in SA to visit me.We've dated ever since with him visiting me for a weekend each month.
While travelling in SA we kept in touch via email, but since his return to Austria, he seldom calls, emails or responds to my text messages.Its left to me to call him and even then, he has implied that unless it's important, he'd rather I didn't call. He is still on his Sabbatical.

I am a gemini so need to communicate, more so with a love interest who lives in a different country.He visits monthly but inbetween, nothing. Our weekends together are intense in that we spend all our time together in absolute bliss, but hardly a way of getting to know each other.
I believe him when he says he loves me and am sure that he is available.
Do I exercise patience and hope that he will come around or do I follow his lead and not contact him unless he initiates contact? This is so exhausting as each text message/ email goes unacknowledged and I am left feeling silly for sending it.

My moons in Virgo, his in Gemini.
His Venus in Sagittarius while mines in Gemini.

WHAT IS A VENUS AND MOON AND MARS? what is all of this? I thought Gemini's planet was Mercury...can someone explain that to me? I really dont get what you guys are talking about with the moon thing, whats the difference, i am a gemini but does that mean I have another sign too?

SCORPIOS AND GEMINIS DO NOT MIX. THEY ARE COUNTER REACTIONS

OKAY GEMS AND SCORPS DON'T MIX. HOWEVER GEMS LOVE SCORPS , THEY ARE VERY ATTRACTED TO US, WHY, BECAUSE WE ARE NATURALLY MAGNETIC. WE ALSO HAVE MANY SIDES BUT WE ARE STABLE AND FIXED, UNLIKE THE GEMINI. ALSO SCORPIOS ARE DEEP, VERY DEEP. GEMS ARE SMART , THEREFORE WE ATTRACT GEMS. GEMS TO US , SEEM TO BE INCONSISTENT, AND LIKE I READ IN A BOOK, GEMS COME OFF AS SOCIALLY INCONSPICUOUS AND US SCORPS DON'T LIKE THAT, SORRY!!! I PERSONALLY FEEL THAT GEMINIS HAVE ONE PERSONALITY THAT CONTRADICTS THE OTHER. THEY COME OFF AS VERY CONFUSED AND LOVE THE SPOT LIGHT. THEY LIKE CHALLENGES AND THEY ARE VERY COMPETITIVE. WE SCORPS, LOVE TO LOVE AND WON'T STOP, WE DON'T NEED THE SPOT LIGHT BECAUSE WE ARE MAGNETIC , AND WE AREN'T COMPETITVE BECAUSE WE FEEL THERE IS NO COMPETITION. SCORPS AND GEMS ARE KIND OF OPPOSITE , I MEAN THINK ABOUT SCORPS OPPOSITE, TAURUS, IS RIGHT NEXT TO GEMINI. AND GEMINIS DO TALK HEAVLY AND SCORPS ARE MORE SUBTLE. GEMS ARE SELF ABSORBED AND SCORPIOS SHARE THERE RICHES BY SHARING THERE KNOWLEDGE. WE LOVE PEOPLE OTHER THAN OURSELVES. NOWAY , NO SCORP GEM LOVE.

SORRY EMARALD , YOU JUST DON'T WANT TO BELIEVE BECAUSE YOU GUYS LOVE US SOO. BUT ITS TRUE!!! I THINK THE THING THAT ATTRACTS US TO YOU GUYS IS THE FACT THAT YOU GUYS ARE NEVER THE SAME , WHICH ECOURAGES US TO BE TOTALLY COMFORTABLE BEING WHO WE ARE. YOU KNOW PEOPLE JUST DIE WHEN OUR MOODS CHANGE AND WHEN WE DON'T WANT TO BE BOTHERED. WELL YOU GUYS SHOW US THAT IT'S OKAY TO NOT WANT TO BE BOTHERED.

"Scorpio men are sexy bitches."

no...they're just bitches...

...but we Gems just can't get enough of them.... 🙂

Im a female scorp and....maybe just "paranoid" type thinking here maybe but i'd be alittle suspecious if I were you about him all of a sudden having a problem with you calling him at home.Kinda makes me think its possibly a red flag that he is involved with someone at home....anyways,voice your opinion about this to him and see how it goes,at the worst you'll find out he's cheating on someone with you.But thats a good thing also,you don't have to waste your time on him instead of someone who you can see regularly.

as usual satan makes a cogent point...

""Scorpio men are sexy bitches."

no...they're just bitches..."

what, not sexy? not at all? really? not just a tad lil bit sexy? a tiny tiny tiny lil bit sexy—? not even a fracture?

oh... *goes jumping off the nearest bridge*

fracture = fraction

i still can't get over the fact that... and i still haven't jumped. BUT I WILL!!! i mean, if i'm not even in the slightest... sexy!?!?

ok, what sign is sexy? i mean seriously sexy!?!?!?

anyone want's to trade signs with me—? LOOK, SCORPIO IS A RELLY REALLY COOL SIGN. just not sexy. BUT!!!! THEY'VE GOT EVERYTHING ELSE GOING FOR THEM! you're sure you don't want to swap signs— 😢

but i want to be sexy, damit!!!!!

ok, maybe i can learn. any tips? guys? sch?ne?

deal! there! *hands over scorpio sign to m&mgem*

ok, am i sexy now?

don't forget the stinger 😉

hahaha... is your man a scorp?

we all are stingy sometimes, regardless of our sign.

yes, real life got quite demanding. 😢

no one should change signs, really. we're all unique and special as we are. variety is just great 🙂

i just love it when you lie to me 😉

LMAO @ you two...