Help.... how to read this virguy....

maintain the "friendship," but continue to date other guys. when you do go out on date with others, do NOT compare them to the virgo. each and every experience is a new opportunity if you see it as such. if you go into a date with a new guy asking yourself if the guy is a good as the virgo, you're not giving the new guy or yourself a fair chance.

with that said, the virgo just isn't into you in that way and your trying to force the issue and explain away his actions isn't going to work. i know you're hurt, but sounds like it's time to move on.

"Why can't he just not respond to me or doesn't look like he cares? It would be easier for me. If he is dating others who he is serious with, why does he still waste my time?"

You're blaming him for your inability to cut him off. Take responsibility for your feelings!

Posted by starlover
Virgo men generally dont do too well in relationships of the heart
They are perfectionists, work addicts and loners

I was with one for 18yrs, it was very unsatisfying emotionally and romantically.
He is a good man, great dad, but didnt want the *hassle* of a committed relationship
He opted out of it and i ended up trying to hold it together
I am glad he left and now we are best friends and parents to our son 🙂

It wont change, men never do, you will always be doing the work and chasing him..is that
what you want?

Totally agree.

Posted by pis0378
I really appreciate your advices...that seems the only thing I can do. to keep the "frienship" and look for someone else.I dont want to cut it off completely like I did 2 months ago. I feel even worse. How I wish I dont feel hurt any more that he always forgets me (work is his top priority in life, not friends, not family)and I have to keep reminding him....

The only thing I can say he's like this, is you have either been clingy, demanding, emotional, or been whining too much. They hate it. If you just meet one you need to be your own person. In charge of your life. Don't complain, don't be emotional, have high sex drive, always look great, smell great, have some kind of order in your life and what you say, be organized, smart, and be perfect and positive. It's exhausting to be with a Virgo but that's what it takes. Honestly, that's it.