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Help! Lost with my Virgo man
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Sparks flew... within a few weeks he was telling me how stunning and perfect I am, that he loved me... he made me feel like the only girl in the world.
He then cooled off for a bit but I understood that he had a wealth of problems with his kids, exes, family. He cancelled meeting up about 4 times which really irritated me but I kept being ok with it as I knew he has loads of personal problems.
We finally got a day & evening together and it was amazing, he met my little boy and was just perfectly behaved and started talking about the future, saying he could see himself fall in love with me.
Then again he went distant after and cancelled a few times we were meant to meet up. Some evenings we would have amazing chats and other times he would be cold for a few days. I would message him sometimes out of the blue (I generally tried to leave it up to him) as when he went quiet I would worry that something had happened with his family as there was always a crisis.
Thursday I was feeling blue about the situation as it felt like it was getting worse and worse and was hoping to clear the air and just talk about what the deal was so I knew whether I should move on or be patient. He said he would call me... he didn't.... and 3 days later I've still had no news. I've even deleted his number to take away any temptation to message him.
To me this shows he doesn't care and isn't interested, which I find strange after telling me for the last month how amazing I am. Also he's so upfront and honest that I would thought he would have had the courtesy to send me a message. He's said so many times that he has lots of respect for me for doing so well as a working single mum so it feels cruel that he would just ignore me.
We haven't slept together as I wanted to take my time, especially knowing he was in a complex situation.
Is he just consumed with family problems? Is he analysing the situation? Is he being a dick?
If he does message... what do I say? Should I ignore him?
I really like him and felt such a strong connection with him physically and emotionally but I don't want to be a mug and accept unacceptable behaviour.
Any advice would be much appreciated x