how do virguys express attraction?

What are the signs that they are attracted to a person? I have this Virguy in my life right now. Not sure what is going on as I am very poor in reading signs of attraction ( I'm a gemini and I admit I'm a big time flirt so I can't tell how genuine one's attraction is to me since I flirt a lot and most of the time, it's just flirting. Flirting.flirting for no reason at all. Lol. ) Anyway, he told me my messages in the morning makes him smile. Then after saying that, he asked if I was impressed with what he said. He asked me if I like demanding guys and ofcourse, I said I do and he said we are a perfect match because he is demanding. He said he plays the computer games I play, he likes chocolates just like me, he likes most of the food I like. He also says I'm cute. He said we have the same goals: to have a great career and be a good family provider/parent/spouse. He doesn't talk to anybody but me. He shares his emotions with me. He can't believe I'm still single and even asked me the type of guys I usually date. I'm not sure what is going on. We talk 5x a week. We don't add each other on facebook though. And we never talk through social networking sites. What is going on? Is he hitting on me but just that Virgos are kind of slow/conservative? Or he just thinks I'm a friend he can flirt with?

Definately touching. I need to touch my prey, ahemmm, my target just to see what type of chemistry is there.
Plus i like to believe i posses an electric touch when I like someone.
I swear she will feel my passion through my touch. Like in the movie 'The Last Dragon', you know Bruce Leeroy.

Okay crazy shit aside, i think the best way i express attraction is to ask you things about yourself.
All manner of things. Andif we are strangers, Ill bring you candy.

The one's I know and I know a few of them, will charm the heck out of a gal..

Posted by 25thDecan
"I got some real for you in these hands, bruce!"- Sho'Nuff. Lmfao!

Don't you wish you had a Daddy Green's Pizza near your?
I do.

You know a Virgo is flirting when:

?? You catch us staring at you, then looking away, then looking again...not once but over and over again on multiple occasions.
?? We ask you lots of questions, (we're trying to analyze whether you're a good fit).
?? We tease you and play tricks on you.
?? We feed you and try to make you feel better (if you're not feeling 100% yourself).
?? We hold your gaze for an extra second or two. Sometimes it's because we love the look of your eyes looking at us...(and sometimes it's because we're analyzing what you're saying and it takes a couple seconds to absorb, lol).


Things to note:

?? We'll oftentimes mirror you, so be open with what you're thinking. Sometimes being honest about your feelings will encourage that behaviour from your Virgo. For me anyhow, any doubt in my mind = a wall going up.
?? Also, the Virgo's I know including myself are not overtly flirtatious with the one they are admiring. Don't be put off if he hasn't asked you out yet and don't be afraid to take the first step.

Wow! Thanks for all the information! I've been really thinking about what's going on between us because it's not the usual that I experience with guys. I have experienced the teasing part from him and he likes to call me using my first name instead of the name that almost everybody calls me. He's a supportive guy and actually, when I panic ( which I do if I make mistakes ) he calms me down. I do the same for him when he tells me about his worries. I think Virguys are the perfect partner. I have never met a guy as great as he is. Wish us me luck! Gemini wants this Virguy. 🙂

I'm asking the same damn question lol.

Well yes my Virgo would nudge me, would want me to be touching him all the time, wanted to hangout frequently, etc..

If they didn't like ya they wouldn't want you around so much!! They are shy though when it comes to expressing themselves verbally but action wise, if he's there for you and sticks around during the tough times then he's a keeper right? 🙂

Yeah. I realized that. If he's doesn't like me, he wouldn't bother taking the time to talk everyday and make me laugh. I feel so connected with this Virguy... More than any other zodiac sign. Plus, he said he likes to be of service, he likes kids, family... As an asian girl, those are very important for me. 🙂 I think he is definitely a keeper. 🙂

Unfortunately often the more a Virgo is attracted to somebody the shyer and more tongue-tied they become! I have read this and it certainly tends to be true of me and is very hard to know how to deal with: I think I feel a kind of "awe" when I really like and admire somebody.

@Virgodog58:at first he was,actually. He appeared a bit snobbish but I guess, I made him feel comfortable so he opened up a bit. He definitely was a hard case to crack. Took me 3 months before I made him talk to me. Haha. Like everyday, I say good morning and he ignored me... He even asked me why I say good morning to him. But I just smiled. Until one day, I decided not to say good morning and he sent me a message to ask why I haven't said good morning at all. And that's how it started. 🙂

Posted by virgodog58
Unfortunately often the more a Virgo is attracted to somebody the shyer and more tongue-tied they become! I have read this and it certainly tends to be true of me and is very hard to know how to deal with: I think I feel a kind of "awe" when I really like and admire somebody.

wow, ditto. very few, but the ones that have stood out do this to me. wish it was easier to come out my shy shell!!!!

This. So very much. This is my experience with the (rare) virgo male.

What virgodog said.

Posted by StellaDaVirgo
You know a Virgo is flirting when:

?? You catch us staring at you, then looking away, then looking again...not once but over and over again on multiple occasions.
?? We ask you lots of questions, (we're trying to analyze whether you're a good fit).
?? We tease you and play tricks on you.
?? We feed you and try to make you feel better (if you're not feeling 100% yourself).
?? We hold your gaze for an extra second or two. Sometimes it's because we love the look of your eyes looking at us...(and sometimes it's because we're analyzing what you're saying and it takes a couple seconds to absorb, lol).


Things to note:

?? We'll oftentimes mirror you, so be open with what you're thinking. Sometimes being honest about your feelings will encourage that behaviour from your Virgo. For me anyhow, any doubt in my mind = a wall going up.
?? Also, the Virgo's I know including myself are not overtly flirtatious with the one they are admiring. Don't be put off if he hasn't asked you out yet and don't be afraid to take the first step.

If this is true then I am a very happy Lioness!

Lately me & VirGuy have had some "moments"
?? We had a moment where he got up to stretch (we sit next to each other at work) and I looked up at him. Our eyes met, he smiled, I smiled and we just stared...seemed like forever
?? There are moments when he will just ask me questions about myself...trying to get to know me better I assume
?? The man ALWAYS teases me! He's always making playful, sarcastic comments...one time he put a bug on my desk! It's like he's a little second grader pulling my pigtails on the playground!
?? Earlier this week I was having a bad day & became really sensitive & quiet (This is what Leo does) and he just kept IMing me..told me to cheer up and just let me talk about what was bothering me. He knows I love Tigger & cupcakes so he IMed me a picture of Tigger cupcakes & asked if I liked the pic. At the end of the convo I thanked him & told him I appreciated him listening to me. He replied "For you...Anytime!"

So seems like all signs are pointing to there being something between us no? I can't be imagining all this as him just being nice, or can I be?