Sagg101
@Sagg101
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How do you break up with a Virgo Male ?
Don't do it through a text message.
Meet face to face.
Tell him it's not working out.
Don't criticize too much about the relationship, he's probably done that enough already.
If you want to remain friends, put that option on the table.
Then wa-la!
You're free, run lil saggy, run. ?
Meet face to face.
Tell him it's not working out.
Don't criticize too much about the relationship, he's probably done that enough already.
If you want to remain friends, put that option on the table.
Then wa-la!
You're free, run lil saggy, run. ?
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
It doesn't matter how you break up with him.
In the long run, both of you will find a new partner.
I am not so sure about that Tom....my Virgo ex says he is not interested in finding a partner ... It has been almost 10 years since we lived separately
He told me that if a man meets a woman when he is young and she is the one, he rarely matches that....
OP... be as kind, gentle and sensitive as you can. Despite what is said about Virgo men, they can be vey sensitive
Posted by IxionPosted by leolionladyShe ain't lying to you for the most part, if he really is sensitive then I mean expect anything from anger to "cold" indifference, to tears...But likely, he won't break from being honest. I wouldn't shy away from giving him real closure and real reasons as to why you and him are splitting, just don't be cruel.
Don't do it through a text message.
Meet face to face.
Tell him it's not working out.
Don't criticize too much about the relationship, he's probably done that enough already.
If you want to remain friends, put that option on the table.
Then wa-la!
You're free, run lil saggy, run. ?
Be kind to your Virgo I would say though and give him space to heal. "The entire lets be friends" thing can keep hope alive......which means keeping the wound you are about to inflict open as well, it won't be a good time for either of you.........or maybe thats just me lol? Lol either way be straight forward and firm.click to expand
I agree
Suggesting being friends isn't always a good idea
You don't break up with them, only they make that decision.
Posted by Tom_SawyerPosted by MyStarsShineHe's right on the finding a perfect match when you're young.Posted by Tom_Sawyer
It doesn't matter how you break up with him.
In the long run, both of you will find a new partner.
I am not so sure about that Tom....my Virgo ex says he is not interested in finding a partner ... It has been almost 10 years since we lived separately
He told me that if a man meets a woman when he is young and she is the one, he rarely matches that....
OP... be as kind, gentle and sensitive as you can. Despite what is said about Virgo men, they can be vey sensitive
It can be a very bad situation tho, mainly because when you're young, you're wilder and "care free".
Hence, the perfect match can slip through your fingers and you'll be regretting a situation which you pretty much have never had control over in the first place.
Imho.
I met mine at 18 and ever since been noticing that I subconciously compare every one to her.
Finding the similar traits etc.
I guess your Virgo ex just realized that he won't find what he's looking for and just said F it.click to expand
Yes to all you say
And like you, he met me at 18 and also we have a son together so double the connection
There's no reason for you to ask this question, unless you have an ulterior motive.
If your intentions were to just break up .... then it would be simple to do, you'd just do it.
But, if you have to figure out a specific way to do it, so as to have a specific reaction/response from him ... then it means you're not trying to break up, rather manipulate for a result.
Most likely you want to tell him this so you can trick him into coming for you ...... because it just doesn't make sense otherwise.
to break up with someone doesn't require information from others on how to proceed
Don't overthink too much just break up, Just tell him you don't wanna continue the relationship with him. Ta-da!!! Both of you are free and hopefully both of you will find the right person for each other after your breakup.
Posted by Sagg101You can try telling him it's not working out, not a good fit, differences, etc. Be logical and practical about how those differences will/are complicating things.
Our differences will get the best of us in the long run and we are simply drifting.
Yeah
title says its all basically
he's such a sensitive guys 😢
Your main point can be that you're not happy anymore together (this should work).
you don't.
Posted by bittercupcakeI didnt say it.......my Virgo ex did. I think he meant, you can't find that match more than once?Posted by MyStarsShinewhat do you mean by that?
He told me that if a man meets a woman when he is young and she is the one, he rarely matches that....
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Posted by bittercupcakeYesPosted by MyStarsShineoooh yeah when i first read it it didn't make sensePosted by bittercupcakeI didnt say it.......my Virgo ex did. I think he meant, you can't find that match more than once?Posted by MyStarsShinewhat do you mean by that?
He told me that if a man meets a woman when he is young and she is the one, he rarely matches that....
but re-reading it it makes more sense...like
when you find that 'one' but you move on to
other people because you wish to find someone
on that level but can't. so you just go about floating
around in relationships right? or someone trying to fit
into that mold and no one filling those shoes?
setting the bar high?
any virgos wish to clarify?click to expand
It's like the man that left home to find what he needed ... Travelled the globe and on his return home discovered it was there all the time
Posted by leolionladyI'm not planning on doing it via text that will hurt him
Don't do it through a text message.
Meet face to face.
Tell him it's not working out.
Don't criticize too much about the relationship, he's probably done that enough already.
If you want to remain friends, put that option on the table.
Then wa-la!
You're free, run lil saggy, run. ?
I did want to explain some points: we just not compatible, we just don't have time for each other, he's lost interest (so i feel) and I just didn't feel important to himetc but I want to leave on a good note. Yeah we are not compatible but that has helped me learn more about myself and he's helped me develop as a person. I would like us to remain friends but I dont think that will happen. It will be too hard to maintain. We had a lot of special moments together.
OMG IT WILL FEEL SO GOOD TO BE FREE
Posted by Nathan912Truthfully, I would like to see what HE wants to do. I want to know if HE wants to continue the relationship and how HE feels about me. It's going to take a lot more effort on both parts. If he's willing to do that then so am I and we can work on it. But if he is busy with other commitments or just not feeling it THEN i want to break up. I kinda want to put the ball in his court.
Don't overthink too much just break up, Just tell him you don't wanna continue the relationship with him. Ta-da!!! Both of you are free and hopefully both of you will find the right person for each other after your breakup.
I just really really don't want to hurt him. So many occasions I though he was going to break up with me which i prepared for but he bounces back around.
I don't know what to do or how to work it correctly.
Posted by bittercupcakeIt's known as pushing your luck and then falling flat on your face. Men that cheat on their wife's often realize when it's too late that she is the right onePosted by MyStarsShinecommon young trait. the grass is greener syndrome.Posted by bittercupcakeYesPosted by MyStarsShineoooh yeah when i first read it it didn't make sensePosted by bittercupcakeI didnt say it.......my Virgo ex did. I think he meant, you can't find that match more than once?Posted by MyStarsShinewhat do you mean by that?
He told me that if a man meets a woman when he is young and she is the one, he rarely matches that....
but re-reading it it makes more sense...like
when you find that 'one' but you move on to
other people because you wish to find someone
on that level but can't. so you just go about floating
around in relationships right? or someone trying to fit
into that mold and no one filling those shoes?
setting the bar high?
any virgos wish to clarify?
It's like the man that left home to find what he needed ... Travelled the globe and on his return home discovered it was there all the time
experienced the same thing with my ex.
he would berate me and put me down put when
he realized that no other woman measured up
he had come back trying to get me back.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bittercupcakeIt's known as pushing your luck and then falling flat on your face. Men that cheat on their wife's often realize when it's too late that she is the right onePosted by MyStarsShinecommon young trait. the grass is greener syndrome.Posted by bittercupcakeYesPosted by MyStarsShineoooh yeah when i first read it it didn't make sensePosted by bittercupcakeI didnt say it.......my Virgo ex did. I think he meant, you can't find that match more than once?Posted by MyStarsShinewhat do you mean by that?
He told me that if a man meets a woman when he is young and she is the one, he rarely matches that....
but re-reading it it makes more sense...like
when you find that 'one' but you move on to
other people because you wish to find someone
on that level but can't. so you just go about floating
around in relationships right? or someone trying to fit
into that mold and no one filling those shoes?
setting the bar high?
any virgos wish to clarify?
It's like the man that left home to find what he needed ... Travelled the globe and on his return home discovered it was there all the time
experienced the same thing with my ex.
he would berate me and put me down put when
he realized that no other woman measured up
he had come back trying to get me back.
click to expand
I honestly don't think he loved me and I definitely don't think im the one for him
Posted by EarthgoddessI swear to god I'm about to write a flow chart of what to say and how to respond if he answers haha. We both hate confrontation but this has been a long time coming.Posted by Sagg101So you dnt want to break up?Posted by Nathan912Truthfully, I would like to see what HE wants to do. I want to know if HE wants to continue the relationship and how HE feels about me. It's going to take a lot more effort on both parts. If he's willing to do that then so am I and we can work on it. But if he is busy with other commitments or just not feeling it THEN i want to break up. I kinda want to put the ball in his court.
Don't overthink too much just break up, Just tell him you don't wanna continue the relationship with him. Ta-da!!! Both of you are free and hopefully both of you will find the right person for each other after your breakup.
I just really really don't want to hurt him. So many occasions I though he was going to break up with me which i prepared for but he bounces back around.
I don't know what to do or how to work it correctly.
You want to know how he feels?
And him to show more effort and emotion?
Just say that? dnt waste time with manipulation!!!!
He will sense it and we hate that
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I need a script ive never done this before haha
Posted by Sagg101Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bittercupcakeIt's known as pushing your luck and then falling flat on your face. Men that cheat on their wife's often realize when it's too late that she is the right onePosted by MyStarsShinecommon young trait. the grass is greener syndrome.Posted by bittercupcakeYesPosted by MyStarsShineoooh yeah when i first read it it didn't make sensePosted by bittercupcakeI didnt say it.......my Virgo ex did. I think he meant, you can't find that match more than once?Posted by MyStarsShinewhat do you mean by that?
He told me that if a man meets a woman when he is young and she is the one, he rarely matches that....
but re-reading it it makes more sense...like
when you find that 'one' but you move on to
other people because you wish to find someone
on that level but can't. so you just go about floating
around in relationships right? or someone trying to fit
into that mold and no one filling those shoes?
setting the bar high?
any virgos wish to clarify?
It's like the man that left home to find what he needed ... Travelled the globe and on his return home discovered it was there all the time
experienced the same thing with my ex.
he would berate me and put me down put when
he realized that no other woman measured up
he had come back trying to get me back.
I honestly don't think he loved me and I definitely don't think im the one for him
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Then you move this way >>>>>>>
Posted by Earthgoddessyeah trust me my mind has BLOWNPosted by Sagg101So you dnt want to break up?Posted by Nathan912Truthfully, I would like to see what HE wants to do. I want to know if HE wants to continue the relationship and how HE feels about me. It's going to take a lot more effort on both parts. If he's willing to do that then so am I and we can work on it. But if he is busy with other commitments or just not feeling it THEN i want to break up. I kinda want to put the ball in his court.
Don't overthink too much just break up, Just tell him you don't wanna continue the relationship with him. Ta-da!!! Both of you are free and hopefully both of you will find the right person for each other after your breakup.
I just really really don't want to hurt him. So many occasions I though he was going to break up with me which i prepared for but he bounces back around.
I don't know what to do or how to work it correctly.
You want to know how he feels?
And him to show more effort and emotion?
Just say that? dnt waste time with manipulation!!!!
He will sense it and we hate that
Wait didnt u say "it will feel good to be free"
Now im confused
You sound like you are confused urself
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I think what i meant by "it will feel good to be free" is I wont have to constantly worry about being "perfect" for him. A lot of stress comes from feeling like im not good enough, neat or tidy, smart enough for him. We are opposites. I get sloppy drunk and he's all neat and prime. Im insecure as hell. I think if we broke up it would be less weight on my shoulder.
But thats my own fault. I really am insecure
Posted by Sagg101
I would like to see what HE wants to do. I want to know if HE wants to continue the relationship and how HE feels about me.
kinda want to put the ball in his court.
..... how to work it .....
Just as I thought, and commented on ...... you want to manipulate him. You want to tell him about breaking up with intentions of tricking him into coming for you a certain way.
You want to know how to work it ..... which means, you're not sincere, your intentions are self serving and deceptive.
My hope is that he figures this out soon, so he can adjust his sails away from bitches who mean to harm him, and manipulate him
Posted by MyStarsShineWhat do you mean ??Posted by Sagg101Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bittercupcakeIt's known as pushing your luck and then falling flat on your face. Men that cheat on their wife's often realize when it's too late that she is the right onePosted by MyStarsShinecommon young trait. the grass is greener syndrome.Posted by bittercupcakeYesPosted by MyStarsShineoooh yeah when i first read it it didn't make sensePosted by bittercupcakeI didnt say it.......my Virgo ex did. I think he meant, you can't find that match more than once?Posted by MyStarsShinewhat do you mean by that?
He told me that if a man meets a woman when he is young and she is the one, he rarely matches that....
but re-reading it it makes more sense...like
when you find that 'one' but you move on to
other people because you wish to find someone
on that level but can't. so you just go about floating
around in relationships right? or someone trying to fit
into that mold and no one filling those shoes?
setting the bar high?
any virgos wish to clarify?
It's like the man that left home to find what he needed ... Travelled the globe and on his return home discovered it was there all the time
experienced the same thing with my ex.
he would berate me and put me down put when
he realized that no other woman measured up
he had come back trying to get me back.
I honestly don't think he loved me and I definitely don't think im the one for him
Then you move this way >>>>>>>click to expand
Posted by Sagg101When I finished my last rship....I stood firm and didn't allow myself to be moved from my decision. You have to be brave but more importantly sure of what you want before you make that decision.Posted by EarthgoddessI swear to god I'm about to write a flow chart of what to say and how to respond if he answers haha. We both hate confrontation but this has been a long time coming.Posted by Sagg101So you dnt want to break up?Posted by Nathan912Truthfully, I would like to see what HE wants to do. I want to know if HE wants to continue the relationship and how HE feels about me. It's going to take a lot more effort on both parts. If he's willing to do that then so am I and we can work on it. But if he is busy with other commitments or just not feeling it THEN i want to break up. I kinda want to put the ball in his court.
Don't overthink too much just break up, Just tell him you don't wanna continue the relationship with him. Ta-da!!! Both of you are free and hopefully both of you will find the right person for each other after your breakup.
I just really really don't want to hurt him. So many occasions I though he was going to break up with me which i prepared for but he bounces back around.
I don't know what to do or how to work it correctly.
You want to know how he feels?
And him to show more effort and emotion?
Just say that? dnt waste time with manipulation!!!!
He will sense it and we hate that
I need a script ive never done this before haha
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Posted by P-Angelnah man I just want to know how he feels about the relationship and if it's not working I wanna end up don't get it twistedPosted by Sagg101
I would like to see what HE wants to do. I want to know if HE wants to continue the relationship and how HE feels about me.
kinda want to put the ball in his court.
..... how to work it .....
Just as I thought, and commented on ...... you want to manipulate him. You want to tell him about breaking up with intentions of tricking him into coming for you a certain way.
You want to know how to work it ..... which means, you're not sincere, your intentions are self serving and deceptive.
My hope is that he figures this out soon, so he can adjust his sails away from bitches who mean to harm him, and manipulate him
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Posted by Sagg101Move forwardPosted by MyStarsShineWhat do you mean ??Posted by Sagg101Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bittercupcakeIt's known as pushing your luck and then falling flat on your face. Men that cheat on their wife's often realize when it's too late that she is the right onePosted by MyStarsShinecommon young trait. the grass is greener syndrome.Posted by bittercupcakeYesPosted by MyStarsShineoooh yeah when i first read it it didn't make sensePosted by bittercupcakeI didnt say it.......my Virgo ex did. I think he meant, you can't find that match more than once?Posted by MyStarsShinewhat do you mean by that?
He told me that if a man meets a woman when he is young and she is the one, he rarely matches that....
but re-reading it it makes more sense...like
when you find that 'one' but you move on to
other people because you wish to find someone
on that level but can't. so you just go about floating
around in relationships right? or someone trying to fit
into that mold and no one filling those shoes?
setting the bar high?
any virgos wish to clarify?
It's like the man that left home to find what he needed ... Travelled the globe and on his return home discovered it was there all the time
experienced the same thing with my ex.
he would berate me and put me down put when
he realized that no other woman measured up
he had come back trying to get me back.
I honestly don't think he loved me and I definitely don't think im the one for him
Then you move this way >>>>>>>click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sagg101When I finished my last rship....I stood firm and didn't allow myself to be moved from my decision. You have to be brave but more importantly sure of what you want before you make that decision.Posted by EarthgoddessI swear to god I'm about to write a flow chart of what to say and how to respond if he answers haha. We both hate confrontation but this has been a long time coming.Posted by Sagg101So you dnt want to break up?Posted by Nathan912Truthfully, I would like to see what HE wants to do. I want to know if HE wants to continue the relationship and how HE feels about me. It's going to take a lot more effort on both parts. If he's willing to do that then so am I and we can work on it. But if he is busy with other commitments or just not feeling it THEN i want to break up. I kinda want to put the ball in his court.
Don't overthink too much just break up, Just tell him you don't wanna continue the relationship with him. Ta-da!!! Both of you are free and hopefully both of you will find the right person for each other after your breakup.
I just really really don't want to hurt him. So many occasions I though he was going to break up with me which i prepared for but he bounces back around.
I don't know what to do or how to work it correctly.
You want to know how he feels?
And him to show more effort and emotion?
Just say that? dnt waste time with manipulation!!!!
He will sense it and we hate that
I need a script ive never done this before haha
click to expand
So shall I give it more time and room for improvement ? 🙂 And once I know I know my decision then do it and stand my ground
Got it 🙂
Posted by Sagg101Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sagg101When I finished my last rship....I stood firm and didn't allow myself to be moved from my decision. You have to be brave but more importantly sure of what you want before you make that decision.Posted by EarthgoddessI swear to god I'm about to write a flow chart of what to say and how to respond if he answers haha. We both hate confrontation but this has been a long time coming.Posted by Sagg101So you dnt want to break up?Posted by Nathan912Truthfully, I would like to see what HE wants to do. I want to know if HE wants to continue the relationship and how HE feels about me. It's going to take a lot more effort on both parts. If he's willing to do that then so am I and we can work on it. But if he is busy with other commitments or just not feeling it THEN i want to break up. I kinda want to put the ball in his court.
Don't overthink too much just break up, Just tell him you don't wanna continue the relationship with him. Ta-da!!! Both of you are free and hopefully both of you will find the right person for each other after your breakup.
I just really really don't want to hurt him. So many occasions I though he was going to break up with me which i prepared for but he bounces back around.
I don't know what to do or how to work it correctly.
You want to know how he feels?
And him to show more effort and emotion?
Just say that? dnt waste time with manipulation!!!!
He will sense it and we hate that
I need a script ive never done this before haha
So shall I give it more time and room for improvement ? 🙂 And once I know I know my decision then do it and stand my ground
Got it 🙂
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Just be sure of what you are doing. Do you want to be with the guy?
Posted by MyStarsShineYeah but only if we can put more effort on both behalf which is why I want to ask him how he feels about it and if he's will to put more time and commitment into it.Posted by Sagg101Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sagg101When I finished my last rship....I stood firm and didn't allow myself to be moved from my decision. You have to be brave but more importantly sure of what you want before you make that decision.Posted by EarthgoddessI swear to god I'm about to write a flow chart of what to say and how to respond if he answers haha. We both hate confrontation but this has been a long time coming.Posted by Sagg101So you dnt want to break up?Posted by Nathan912Truthfully, I would like to see what HE wants to do. I want to know if HE wants to continue the relationship and how HE feels about me. It's going to take a lot more effort on both parts. If he's willing to do that then so am I and we can work on it. But if he is busy with other commitments or just not feeling it THEN i want to break up. I kinda want to put the ball in his court.
Don't overthink too much just break up, Just tell him you don't wanna continue the relationship with him. Ta-da!!! Both of you are free and hopefully both of you will find the right person for each other after your breakup.
I just really really don't want to hurt him. So many occasions I though he was going to break up with me which i prepared for but he bounces back around.
I don't know what to do or how to work it correctly.
You want to know how he feels?
And him to show more effort and emotion?
Just say that? dnt waste time with manipulation!!!!
He will sense it and we hate that
I need a script ive never done this before haha
So shall I give it more time and room for improvement ? 🙂 And once I know I know my decision then do it and stand my ground
Got it 🙂
Just be sure of what you are doing. Do you want to be with the guy?
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I know I can but if he can't then I guess its over.
Do you see what im saying ?
Posted by Sagg101Well find out if he wants to continue the relationship, if not then you know what to do. I don't see any point sticking around to the person who doesn't love me anymore. Just be straight forward.Posted by Nathan912Truthfully, I would like to see what HE wants to do. I want to know if HE wants to continue the relationship and how HE feels about me. It's going to take a lot more effort on both parts. If he's willing to do that then so am I and we can work on it. But if he is busy with other commitments or just not feeling it THEN i want to break up. I kinda want to put the ball in his court.
Don't overthink too much just break up, Just tell him you don't wanna continue the relationship with him. Ta-da!!! Both of you are free and hopefully both of you will find the right person for each other after your breakup.
I just really really don't want to hurt him. So many occasions I though he was going to break up with me which i prepared for but he bounces back around.
I don't know what to do or how to work it correctly.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineSo from my understanding he thinks you're the only person in the world who can match up his needs and wants? So that's why he's not interested dating other woman anymore?Posted by Tom_Sawyer
It doesn't matter how you break up with him.
In the long run, both of you will find a new partner.
I am not so sure about that Tom....my Virgo ex says he is not interested in finding a partner ... It has been almost 10 years since we lived separately
He told me that if a man meets a woman when he is young and she is the one, he rarely matches that....
OP... be as kind, gentle and sensitive as you can. Despite what is said about Virgo men, they can be vey sensitive
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Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Sagg101Posted by MyStarsShineYeah but only if we can put more effort on both behalf which is why I want to ask him how he feels about it and if he's will to put more time and commitment into it.Posted by Sagg101Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sagg101When I finished my last rship....I stood firm and didn't allow myself to be moved from my decision. You have to be brave but more importantly sure of what you want before you make that decision.Posted by EarthgoddessI swear to god I'm about to write a flow chart of what to say and how to respond if he answers haha. We both hate confrontation but this has been a long time coming.Posted by Sagg101So you dnt want to break up?Posted by Nathan912Truthfully, I would like to see what HE wants to do. I want to know if HE wants to continue the relationship and how HE feels about me. It's going to take a lot more effort on both parts. If he's willing to do that then so am I and we can work on it. But if he is busy with other commitments or just not feeling it THEN i want to break up. I kinda want to put the ball in his court.
Don't overthink too much just break up, Just tell him you don't wanna continue the relationship with him. Ta-da!!! Both of you are free and hopefully both of you will find the right person for each other after your breakup.
I just really really don't want to hurt him. So many occasions I though he was going to break up with me which i prepared for but he bounces back around.
I don't know what to do or how to work it correctly.
You want to know how he feels?
And him to show more effort and emotion?
Just say that? dnt waste time with manipulation!!!!
He will sense it and we hate that
I need a script ive never done this before haha
So shall I give it more time and room for improvement ? 🙂 And once I know I know my decision then do it and stand my ground
Got it 🙂
Just be sure of what you are doing. Do you want to be with the guy?
I know I can but if he can't then I guess its over.
Do you see what im saying ?
I get wat ur saying
Unfortunately virgo tend to be stubborn
Meaning we wont/cant open up until we are ready.
It takes time with us. I would say have a talk with him tell him EXACTLY wat u expect. He will most likely be honest and let u know if he cant provide that level of interest or love at the moment.
But even if he says he will try. Be ready to do wats best for u. Either now or in the future
Good luck
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Best advice I have read yet?
Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by bittercupcakeNot sure wat u mean settle.Posted by EarthgoddessSo Virgos have this picky stigma.Posted by bittercupcakeWell not really. If the love left i would always think he was "perfect" because he didnt give me a chance to see the flaws.Posted by Earthgoddesshmmmm.... but what if it's not infautation? i mean that eventually wears off so it hasPosted by bittercupcakeYup. We tend to idolize our love like their the best thing since sliced bread.Posted by MyStarsShineoooh yeah when i first read it it didn't make sensePosted by bittercupcakeI didnt say it.......my Virgo ex did. I think he meant, you can't find that match more than once?Posted by MyStarsShinewhat do you mean by that?
He told me that if a man meets a woman when he is young and she is the one, he rarely matches that....
but re-reading it it makes more sense...like
when you find that 'one' but you move on to
other people because you wish to find someone
on that level but can't. so you just go about floating
around in relationships right? or someone trying to fit
into that mold and no one filling those shoes?
setting the bar high?
any virgos wish to clarify?
So if they leave us the infatuation stands.
Its hard to fill the shoes of a love we thought was so perfect.
Now if i leave you. Different story
to be something deeper.
By him leaving before i could experience the "wat if" i would still see him as the ideal partner
Id probably get back with him and then over time realize he wasnt perfect.
My rational side tells me that if he wanted to go then he wasnt " perfect" for me.
But the fact that i was happy with him still makes me think i could have done something differently. If that makes sense
What makes you settle into a relationship?
If u mean comfort- for me that takes time, consistency, trust,and the other person being direct with their intentions and sticking to them.
For instance if we agree to be friends with benefits. Dnt blurr the lines on that. If at any point u want it to be more let virgo know then expect a SLOW progression moving forward
Basically we do everything slowly.
Friendship well help us settle into the things i mentioned about. So being demanding of our emotions will almost never work
Unless its a longterm relationship then you can demand a more openness. We will attemp it but its VERY unnatural feeling. Btw we hate to feel like we are being unnatural with our behaviors so
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We never started off as friends which I think is the biggest problem
What did you decide to do Sagg?
Posted by MyStarsShineI'm holding it off until the end of both our exams. we are both pretty stressed and I don't want to add to it
What did you decide to do Sagg?
So after not speaking for a couple of days I messaged him "hope exams are going well for you"
and I got a very unexpected him.
He told me he's trying to be distant so he can focus and he doesn't want any drama during this time.
Immediately after that he told me he didn't mean to come across like that.
I told him I understood ive been distant too because i'm trying to focus and don't want any stirring.
After that I think I'll see what he's like and try and have "the talk"
depending on what he says and how he feel I'll plan my next moves.
I think he's the kinda guy that needs A LOT of space. In the beggining it was very full on. we used to talk all the time every day see each other 3/4 times a week. I think he doesn't understand that I'm the kinda girl that doesn't need constant comunication or adoration if he needs space tell me and I'll understand
So I'll bring that up and take it from there.
I'm just really really keep my space from now on until after exams are over. It's not exactly hard but now I understand why I feel like we've been drifting. Im a very understandable person.
We might possibly be alright but I don't know just yet
Posted by Sagg101Posted by MyStarsShineI'm holding it off until the end of both our exams. we are both pretty stressed and I don't want to add to it
What did you decide to do Sagg?
So after not speaking for a couple of days I messaged him "hope exams are going well for you"
and I got a very unexpected him.
He told me he's trying to be distant so he can focus and he doesn't want any drama during this time.
Immediately after that he told me he didn't mean to come across like that.
I told him I understood ive been distant too because i'm trying to focus and don't want any stirring.
After that I think I'll see what he's like and try and have "the talk"
depending on what he says and how he feel I'll plan my next moves.
I think he's the kinda guy that needs A LOT of space. In the beggining it was very full on. we used to talk all the time every day see each other 3/4 times a week. I think he doesn't understand that I'm the kinda girl that doesn't need constant comunication or adoration if he needs space tell me and I'll understand
So I'll bring that up and take it from there.
I'm just really really keep my space from now on until after exams are over. It's not exactly hard but now I understand why I feel like we've been drifting. Im a very understandable person.
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Good luck with it.
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